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lolz

no they cant hadel us!!

if were not crying ova a lying basterd

or praying our bf of 10 yrs will marry us

or following men everywhere and givin em 45 missed calls

were called feminists!

how i hate that word sef!

Im plannin to come

neva been to the states and need a good holiday anywayz

not to mention i should buy some clothes for my place

soo count me in

ill let unno if anything changes

in fact u shuld open a thread for it in the meet up zone

^^ it is

remember how tha jaquan thread was even locked!

theres a thread on the sexuality section

filled with pictures of women

and guys oogling them!

i didnt see anyone complaining

when its a woman

the men get all defensive

wat a bunch of puppies!

lolz

onli u abeke

onli u!!

with that hard bodi u can even drink palm oil by the keg!!

the food is heart disease and diabetes on a plate!

me too i sabi cook everything

can even physically pound yam!!

but i will avoid it oo- special occasions onli

i no wan die!

^^ u shuld have waited for my comment!!

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she fine ni mo fe je ni??

wo bring the wowo millionaire

im fine enuff for both of us

we shall make beautiful babies together!!!!!

hehehehehehehehe

exotic is another word!

back home it was the focal point of insults!!!lolz

^^ lolz

Thinkin about it

the relationship i prob enjoyed most was wiv my persion hunkilicious. . . . . . . . . .

its stress free, u dont worry about cheating lies and all crap, then again thats just another stereotype

look at this way

would u be soo worried if u didnt mind the race of the guy u were dating?

Abekeade08:
Ayetty, you know I love you but you are wrong. She should learn to cook for herself?? For where, she wants to marry a naija man ooh. She no get choice, she must learn how to cook to please her husband, her husband's family when they visit and for their kids(when they have them). Na everyday she wan order out to feed her husband and her kids?? a 30 year old woman that can't cook?? **shakes my head**

On the other point, she must go out of her way to impress her husbands family, na she wey wan marry the guy. If his family is not impressed with her, they will give her hell. It is in her best interest to go out of her way to impress them. Thats my own 2 cents sha.

abeke- the husband doesnt mind- he eats pasta- the family is the problem

hw many women do unno go out of thier way to pls thier husbands family?? how happy do they end out?

these people will only continue to push until she cracks!- she doesnt need to leaern to cook for anybody!

they have a helper! people dont come to this world to become enslaved by her husband and the family!

^^ yes i do aswell

but like me

travel out of hackney and move to golders green!

there is no time to remain bitter

jill must have written it a while back

she has recently broken up wiv her baby daddy

these women need to understand its not cumpolsory to date a black dude

whats the joys in datin a dude that plays playstation all day?

InesQor

awww

diva

just ignore them

weve (plati) had this problem sooo many times

its fine for the guys to do it

but when women do the same

itsa whole new argument

dont forget this is nairaland- the backwards and uncivilised neanderthals are still abundant and are far from extinct

allow those of us that have climed a bit further up the evolutionary tree to chillax

ignore the stupid, theres no cure for them!

o yea i forgot to respond

personally my thoughts on this issue has turned 360degrees

the only reason black women are soo angry is because they have put black men on a pedestal

what makes them soo great?? have any of these women actually stepped out of the slavery box

to observe men of other races??

why this cage they created for themselves?

Listen to some of the black women that are married to white men

there are good men of all races- step out of the box and give these men a chance!

black men are not soo wonderful that u have to start feelin mosquito bites every time u see them with a white woman!

if they dont appreciate you why are u busy worshipping them??

neways thats my take on it

there are soo many more important things to worry abt

I enjoy how everyone here has said to you yor marrying a nigerian

and forgotten your man is marrying a south african!!

no1- the parents dont like you because you are not nigerian- nothing you do will change that

no2-pls dont put your husband in a difficult position, its not fair having to chose btn ones partner and ones family but do explain to him whats upsetting you hpefully he will find a way to talk to his parents

i dont understand how some people behave

you mentiond both u and ur husband want to marry in monz? the family dont- unless they paying for it u shouldnt be forced to marry where u dont want to !

if u learn to cook do it for urself and not in a bid to impress them! trust me nothing u do will eva be good enuff!

dont go out of ur way to impress them, try ur best to understand some people are backwards and will neva be civilised
smile hug and leave. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

so far u and ur man love each other ur marriage will work- as long as u learn to deal with the family and dont let them interfere too much

gd luck wiv ur wedding!

I just saw this and wanted to post it,





In the latest edition of Essence singer Jill Scott addresses the subject matter of interracial marriage.

My new friend is handsome, African-American, intelligent and seemingly wealthy. He is an athlete, loves his momma, and is happily married to a White woman. I admit when I saw his wedding ring, I privately hoped. But something in me just knew he didn’t marry a sister. Although my guess hit the mark, when my friend told me his wife was indeed Caucasian, I felt my spirit…wince. I didn’t immediately understand it. My face read happy for you. My body showed no reaction to my inner pinch, but the sting was there, quiet like a mosquito under a summer dress.

Was I jealous? Did the reality of his relationship somehow diminish his soul’s credibility? The answer is not simple. One could easily dispel the wince as racist or separatist, but that’s not how I was brought up. I was reared in a Jehovah’s Witness household. I was taught that every man should be judged by his deeds and not his color, and I firmly stand where my grandmother left me. African people worldwide are known to be welcoming and open-minded. We share our culture sometimes to our own peril and most of us love the very notion of love. My position is that for women of color, this very common “wince” has solely to do with the African story in America.

When our people were enslaved, “Massa” placed his Caucasian woman on a pedestal. She was spoiled, revered and angelic, while the Black slave woman was overworked, beaten, despoiled and farmed out like cattle to be mated. She was nothing and neither was our Black man. As slavery died for the greater good of America, and the movement for equality sputtered to life, the White woman was on the cover of every American magazine. She was the dazzling jewel on every movie screen, the glory of every commercial and television show. She was unequivocally the standard of beauty for this country, firmly unattainable to anyone not of her race. We daughters of the dust were seen as ugly, nappy mammies, good for day work and unwanted children, while our men were thought to be thieving, intimacy-hungry animals with limited brain capacity.

We reflect on this awful past and recall that if a Black man even looked at a White woman, he would have been lynched, beaten, jailed or shot to death. In the midst of this, Black women and Black men struggled together, mourned together, starved together, braved the hoses and vicious police dogs and died untimely on southern back roads together. These harsh truths lead to what we really feel when we see a seemingly together brother with a Caucasian woman and their children. That feeling is betrayed. While we exert efforts to raise our sons and daughters to appreciate themselves and respect others, most of us end up doing this important work alone, with no fathers or like representatives, limited financial support (often court-enforced) and, on top of everything else, an empty bed. It’s frustrating and it hurts!

Our minds do understand that people of all races find genuine love in many places. We dig that the world is full of amazing options. But underneath, there is a bite, no matter the ointment, that has yet to stop burning. Some may find these thoughts to be hurtful. That is not my intent. I’m just sayin’.

Your thoughts please….

joka!

hehehehehe

its cos ur nt doin it properly!

hehehehe

no its personal!

^^

u wouldnt even need to bother with all that

the onli thing u really need to do is cut down the food!

no junk, no pounded yam, nothing with oil

low carbs plenty of veggies no mr bigs!

onli take 3 tablespoons of rice

ps3!

you guys are just funny

what metaphorycal interpretations??

jayz is a satanist and hes very blatant abt it!

in fact even if he tatied 'im a satanis' on his forhead people will still say hes bein metaphorycal!

i dont tire for people seekin heiroglyphics in plain english

this song has nothing to do with wordplay

wats worst than bein stoipid?? bein stoipid and thinkin ur clever|!

omg inno i shouldnt be laughin but this guy is funny!!

ogaga i hpe ur joking??

u guys shuld stop posting nasty fotos on innocent threads mayne!!

some people look at this shizz from work!!!

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gt them all for free

if the frend is mutual

theres nuffin wrong with it

^^ really

in that case ban the mofo!

i thot he was just a bit psychotic!

lolz

very funny!

lolz

inno some of the guys my JA frends like i even find scary!

ur right

but i dont think ill eva outgrow some nice firm abs mayne!!!

chei!!-

dont listen to what those guys say!

they will go for anything- if theres anything a nigerian man would say u wont pay attention too

let it be 'what he likes in a woman' they will date a woman that looks like a goat if they needed to!

abything from rihanna unless it was written by neyo!

classic example- umbrella

are u bein serious  

do u live in blackpool or summin?

wats wrong with mamagee sef

that colour is strenous!

seriously


its a carribean thing i think!!
they just find that rough thug look attractive

the guy has a hugeeeee scar on his arm

i was like 'dont tell me cutlass right?'

my frend was just laffin!!


how u doin sef