Business › Re: Nigergrob Ceramics Ogun:What I Found In An Abandoned Factory Established In 1974 by Ayo8(m): 8:32pm On Jul 09 |
This is opportunity waiting to be harnessed
Can we as a people come together, pool fundsinvestments together to get this operational once again under a privatised setting. |
Crime › Re: Notorious Wanted Bandit, Abubakar Usman Captured In Delta Forest.. by Ayo8(m): 11:55am On Jul 09 |
Harrison Gwamnishu...doing so well the job the nigerian police and nigerian army combined have repeatedly failed at....
Nb: Sunday Igboho is truely a content creator |
Politics › Re: Rev. Dachomo Calls For Community Militia After Plateau Attack by Ayo8(m): 10:31am On Jul 08 |
Some of those gathered there could be the next victim... |
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Crime › Re: 35-Year-Old Nigerian Who Raped A Child In Canadian Store Arrested (Photo) by Ayo8(m): 1:06pm On Jul 04 |
Na rabbit him be..?? |
NYSC › Re: A Rare Picture Of NYSC Khaki When A Fulani Man Becomes President After Tinubu by Ayo8(m): 12:13pm On Jul 04 |
Sometimes...I wonder what the priorities of the Bola Tinubu led govt is all about...
Call we all see how the change in National Anthem has greatly reduced the suffering of the average nigerian on the street.. |
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by Ayo8(m): 12:09pm On Jul 04 |
Gentlesoul2021: Good day N'Lander
I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.
My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.
She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.
Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.
My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.
Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?
I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run. Upload pics of your sister first... lets check something.. |
Romance › Re: I'm Beginning To Believe That Marriage Brings Good Luck To A Man! by Ayo8(m): 6:01am On Jul 03 |
Guys...should we tell him..?? |
Politics › Re: Sowore Responds To VDM After Walking Free From Prison! by Ayo8(m): 12:20pm On Jul 01 |
Guys... I think we should give sowore a chance at presidency. We know for sure that he's capable of responding actively to the challenges of a rigged electioneering process. |
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Ayo8(m): 4:48pm On Jun 30 |
goodandkind: The auction schedule for the third quarter of 2026 has been released (see attached), so the next auction will hold next week Wednesday.
Source: getfinanceandinvestmenttips on Instagram Thank you for the update... |
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Ayo8(m): 12:42pm On Jun 30 |
skydiver01: Tomorrow. At the bank... first bank said they weren't advised for primary auction for this week |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Montana Shows Off Her Amazing Body As She Works Out In The Gym (Video) by Ayo8(m): 9:04pm On Jun 29 |
Market must sell...
Product has been displayed |
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 3:36pm On Jun 29*. Modified: 5:28pm On Jun 29 |
Its the last monday of the month... did anyone get an appointment from their "raffle draw".?? |
Crime › Re: Lagos, Ogun Police Commands Rescue Five, Arrest 88 In Forests Raid by Ayo8(m): 9:57am On Jun 28 |
These ones are just exercising "proof of work", I can bet they didn't go into any forest for any raids. The Nigerian police are the laziest when it comes to policing... sometimes i feel the govt should just scrap them and transfer their duties and funding to NSCDC.
Olopa enter forest lolz... make I bend. |
Business › Re: Elon Musk Loses Trillionaire Status As His Net Worth Drops To $957B by Ayo8(m): 7:58am On Jun 26 |
Anti-christ... he's got the world already. Lol |
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TV/Movies › Re: Nostalgic Nollywood Moments (Photos) by Ayo8(m): 8:09am On Jun 22 |
Rapmoney: 6. Jerry Amilo and Ejike Asiegbu in the 90s. Right there in plane sight |
Health › Re: Woman Collapses, Dies On Ajah Bridge While Returning From Market (Video, Photos) by Ayo8(m): 7:04am On Jun 22 |
Who confirmed her dead..?? |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Ayo8(m): 6:44pm On Jun 21 |
DenreleDave: Actually no store but I go still deliver.
Just send a dm Thing is I've gotten shoes from vendors that doesnt look like whats being displayed... |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Ayo8(m): 3:56pm On Jun 21 |
DenreleDave: Seu.n available Baba where your store dey..? |
Fashion › Re: Olubadan Daughter Grace Ladoja Design A Nike Signature Shoe by Ayo8(m): 9:10am On Jun 21 |
wrf... wuh ra f*ck! |
Business › Re: Photo Of Dangote, Rabiu, Otedola, Saraki On Rabiu's Yacht by Ayo8(m): 8:55am On Jun 21 |
I'd like to know what this meeting is all about... By the way... a particular region is not represented here, wey the money na water gang  |
Politics › Re: Bandits Are Human Beings Like Us, Let’s Face Them Squarely - Brig-Gen. Maharazu by Ayo8(m): 12:20pm On Jun 19 |
He is retired... so its just his opinion. |
Politics › Re: I Won 2023 Presidential Election, Forget About Proof – Peter Obi by Ayo8(m): 8:52am On Jun 17 |
Baba morning just reach... he just wake up |
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 9:24pm On Jun 13 |
greenparrot: No options to print the appointment form. Pls how do I change the arrival date on the appointment form? I'm new to polish visa application... perharps freedomtours can help out.. |
Business › Re: Which Nigerian Bank Offers The Best Business Loan Facility? by Ayo8(m): 7:47pm On Jun 12 |
sacajawea: Cashbacked? What do you mean please? In what ways exactly was it cashed back? They loan you e.g. 80% of what you have in savings or investment account balance. Your savings or investment serves as collateral for the loan |
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 10:31pm On Jun 10 |
freedomtours: You will be getting email..to tell you, you have not been draw and reminding you the next draw date..you will be getting such email till you get appointment. See below the first email showing you have been verified and second showing that you have not been draw Thank you for the feedback. Its been about a week since i applied and i havent recieved any email. Not even an email to complete the full application |
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 11:11pm On Jun 08 |
greenparrot: Been able to book the appointment, I reached out to them through email and provided details on what happened and yeah they help me redirect to the form to fill it out Were you able to print out your form after completion..?? I didnt get any print prompt.. just want to confirm that i'm not missing anything... @freedomtours how long can someone expect to get an apppointment... |
Romance › Re: “if You’re Already 30, Just Find A Man To Impregnate You” – Lady Shares Controve by Ayo8(m): 2:21am On Jun 02 |
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Celebrities › Re: Celebrity Boxing Fights Fans Want To See by Ayo8(m): 8:13pm On May 10 |
PusssyLord: PRESIDENT PETER OBI VS BOLA "AMODA YEKINI" TINUBU I’ll rather love to see them go head to head in a free and fair election… |
Pets › Re: World's Oldest Gorilla Celebrates 69th Birthday Today by Ayo8(m): 8:39am On May 08 |
69 years in captivity shouldn't be something worth celebrating... |
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