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Romance › Re: Beautiful 41-year-old Woman In Search Of A Husband by Ayo8(m): 3:49am On Sep 15
QuinQQ:
Sometimes it is not like that at all. Some of us are so focused on career and achieving and being controlled by our hypergamy (getting a man more ambitious and accomplished than us) that by the time we look up... time flies... it was like only yesterday she was 25!
The focused ones get married as soon as they become ready for it... they need not put up advert in search for suitors. Also you dont get to tell if you're a good person or not... people around you get to make an assessment of your behaviour.
Romance › Re: Beautiful 41-year-old Woman In Search Of A Husband by Ayo8(m):
QuinQQ:
😅😂🤣
Why??
Is she not a woman? May actually be a nice person
"Nice woman" na him she no see person marry her...?? Men are not fools
Sometimes you get a hint of someones true attitude from their looks... the lady in the picture is f*cking rude!
Car Talk › Re: Have They Ever Jailed Anyone Drink Driving In Nigeria by Ayo8(m): 10:27pm On Sep 11
Yes… ibinabo after she killed a someone
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 12:33pm On Sep 01
Mat633:
Thanks for the info. I will be interested in knowing when you registered your study visa application and when you got the email with the appointment?
Sometime around 29th May this year
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 6:21pm On Aug 31
Mat633:
Hi @Ayo8, I like to know if you have now received an interview date from Polish Embassy?
My visa appointment was scheduled for today but i had to cancel on friday...
Science/Technology › Re: Likweli: Monkey With Orange Lips In Congo Identified As Newfound Species by Ayo8(m): 1:09am On Jul 20
Its newly found to them but not newly found to us... it has always been there...
That you didnt have a knowledge of it does not mean it was'nt there...
Business › Re: Nigergrob Ceramics Ogun:What I Found In An Abandoned Factory Established In 1974 by Ayo8(m): 8:32pm On Jul 09
This is opportunity waiting to be harnessed

Can we as a people come together, pool fundsinvestments together to get this operational once again under a privatised setting.
Crime › Re: Notorious Wanted Bandit, Abubakar Usman Captured In Delta Forest.. by Ayo8(m): 11:55am On Jul 09
Harrison Gwamnishu...doing so well the job the nigerian police and nigerian army combined have repeatedly failed at....

Nb: Sunday Igboho is truely a content creator
Politics › Re: Rev. Dachomo Calls For Community Militia After Plateau Attack by Ayo8(m): 10:31am On Jul 08
Some of those gathered there could be the next victim...
Crime › Re: 35-Year-Old Nigerian Who Raped A Child In Canadian Store Arrested (Photo) by Ayo8(m): 1:06pm On Jul 04
Na rabbit him be..??
NYSC › Re: A Rare Picture Of NYSC Khaki When A Fulani Man Becomes President After Tinubu by Ayo8(m): 12:13pm On Jul 04
Sometimes...I wonder what the priorities of the Bola Tinubu led govt is all about...

Call we all see how the change in National Anthem has greatly reduced the suffering of the average nigerian on the street..
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by Ayo8(m): 12:09pm On Jul 04
Gentlesoul2021:
Good day N'Lander

I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.

My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.

She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.

Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.

My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.

Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?

I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run.
Upload pics of your sister first... lets check something..
Romance › Re: I'm Beginning To Believe That Marriage Brings Good Luck To A Man! by Ayo8(m): 6:01am On Jul 03
Guys...should we tell him..??
Politics › Re: Sowore Responds To VDM After Walking Free From Prison! by Ayo8(m): 12:20pm On Jul 01
Guys... I think we should give sowore a chance at presidency.
We know for sure that he's capable of responding actively to the challenges of a rigged electioneering process.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Ayo8(m): 4:48pm On Jun 30
goodandkind:
The auction schedule for the third quarter of 2026 has been released (see attached), so the next auction will hold next week Wednesday.

Source: getfinanceandinvestmenttips on Instagram
Thank you for the update...
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Ayo8(m): 12:42pm On Jun 30
skydiver01:
Tomorrow.
At the bank... first bank said they weren't advised for primary auction for this week
Celebrities › Re: Uche Montana Shows Off Her Amazing Body As She Works Out In The Gym (Video) by Ayo8(m): 9:04pm On Jun 29
Market must sell...


Product has been displayed
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m):
Its the last monday of the month... did anyone get an appointment from their "raffle draw".??
Crime › Re: Lagos, Ogun Police Commands Rescue Five, Arrest 88 In Forests Raid by Ayo8(m): 9:57am On Jun 28
These ones are just exercising "proof of work", I can bet they didn't go into any forest for any raids.
The Nigerian police are the laziest when it comes to policing... sometimes i feel the govt should just scrap them and transfer their duties and funding to NSCDC.

Olopa enter forest lolz... make I bend.
Business › Re: Elon Musk Loses Trillionaire Status As His Net Worth Drops To $957B by Ayo8(m): 7:58am On Jun 26
Anti-christ... he's got the world already. Lol
TV/Movies › Re: Nostalgic Nollywood Moments (Photos) by Ayo8(m): 8:09am On Jun 22
Rapmoney:
6. Jerry Amilo and Ejike Asiegbu in the 90s.
Right there in plane sight
Health › Re: Woman Collapses, Dies On Ajah Bridge While Returning From Market (Video, Photos) by Ayo8(m): 7:04am On Jun 22
Who confirmed her dead..??
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Ayo8(m): 6:44pm On Jun 21
DenreleDave:
Actually no store but I go still deliver.

Just send a dm
Thing is I've gotten shoes from vendors that doesnt look like whats being displayed...
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Ayo8(m): 3:56pm On Jun 21
DenreleDave:
Seu.n available
Baba where your store dey..?
Fashion › Re: Olubadan Daughter Grace Ladoja Design A Nike Signature Shoe by Ayo8(m): 9:10am On Jun 21
wrf... wuh ra f*ck!
Business › Re: Photo Of Dangote, Rabiu, Otedola, Saraki On Rabiu's Yacht by Ayo8(m): 8:55am On Jun 21
I'd like to know what this meeting is all about...

By the way... a particular region is not represented here, wey the money na water ganghuh
Politics › Re: Bandits Are Human Beings Like Us, Let’s Face Them Squarely - Brig-Gen. Maharazu by Ayo8(m): 12:20pm On Jun 19
He is retired... so its just his opinion.
Politics › Re: I Won 2023 Presidential Election, Forget About Proof – Peter Obi by Ayo8(m): 8:52am On Jun 17
Baba morning just reach... he just wake up
Travel › Re: Polish Student Visa by Ayo8(m): 9:24pm On Jun 13
greenparrot:
No options to print the appointment form. Pls how do I change the arrival date on the appointment form?
I'm new to polish visa application... perharps freedomtours can help out..
Business › Re: Which Nigerian Bank Offers The Best Business Loan Facility? by Ayo8(m): 7:47pm On Jun 12
sacajawea:
Cashbacked? What do you mean please?
In what ways exactly was it cashed back?
They loan you e.g. 80% of what you have in savings or investment account balance. Your savings or investment serves as collateral for the loan

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