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Sometimes anglican or winners chapel. Since i discovered am agnostic, i v been considering grail or buddism

I think the side that shld determine wht happens shld be d syrian ppl. And d extent of opposition to assad cannot be ascertained due to d chaos. The move towards peace shld be the ultimate strategy, not nato bombins. Even if there shld be military intervention, it shld not be NATO, it shld be a UN peacekeepin force that will only protect civilians by guaranteein safe passage to refuge and deliverin humanitarian supplies. They will not attack. A neutral buffer zone can also be created 4 refugees. Then assad nd d rebels can fight themselves to d finish.

I think the situation is more complex than many ppl think. All d sides to this conflict are workin in their own interest and none of them is innocent. America is as guilty of inciting war and commitin atrocities as much as russia, it only has better public relations nd propaganda. If russia nd china allow that resolution, i suspect the carnage that will follow will be epic in proportion compared to whts happenin. The rebels are not saints. They captured nd killed 22 soldiers that shld be POWs and beheaded the commander after seizin a border post. Is that not also war crime. Recently it was discovered that d mortar fire that killed a french journalist was not from assad forces but d rebels.

I think i might have been unfair to her. After d whole incident nd wht ppl said here i decided to ignore her totally nd give other girls a chance. I have this friend dats always takin care of me, cooks 4 me, buys me things nd does things my gf dont do but i cant date her cos i dont love her nd av told her several times nd she kept askin me why cos she loves me. I told her we were not compatible. Well, we started spendin more time 2gether lately. She came 2 my office. My gf saw her nd totally freaked out. She was cryin right there nd my friend was embarassed that she had to leave. My gf started beggin me to forgive her everything nd dat she didnt date d last guy i saw with her nd she's ready to change nd she cant live without me. I couldn't resist d sympathy nd guilt i felt. I hate to c her cry. We made up right there nd things are back to normal. The problem now is that i was supposed to see my friend yesterday but i called nd cancelled d meetin. This gal i cute nd lovin nd interestin but i dont love her, i love my gf. I hope am not making a mistake.

Onegai: Everyone please stop insulting the OP. We've all been here where he is, some form or the other.
OP: she doesn't love you, to her you're the guy who will marry her, her backup. I promise you this! I was in your situation with a guy, while I was crying abt him, everyone and their father told me for sure, he had others, and I was his backup, in case he didn't find a hot version who had a good character. I'm happy now, because I'd rather be no.1. Don't you think you deserve to be no.1? Her jealousy is normal, my ex did the same, she's ensuring no-one snatches her backup while she's playing. Every good player has a dependable backup, and you're hers.

She is NOT for you and she will never be for you, even if you break up and she comes shedding crocodile tears and dressing like MFM, because she's gotten used to using you to stroke her ego and it's a bad and tough habit to break once you've started, ask anyone (99% of us have done it to other people and have had it done to us). What other excuse does a gf have for pretending not to see her man when he meets her in the coy of another guy? She no wan vex that nig.ger, so she no mind disrespecting you. If that other guy had not been important to her, she would walked away to the Numero Uno in her life, and since she didn't come to you, what does that tell you? What she is doing is hurting your ego, and last I checked, Love doesn't hurt you. It simply doesn't.

All the fun you have with her is infatuation, trust me! It is Mango that is overripe and spoiling that is sweet, the feeling of not knowing where you stand with her is making you pursue her. That her behaviour is learnt in Player 101 class (your male friends who have behaved like her towards innocent girls recognise her tactics). Abi you wan see the love letter I write my ex, declaring love while he was doing the same thing your woman dey do?? I never forget am? Better person don come sef!

And I promise once you leave, the tears and MFM attending to get you back will start (because which person in the world doesn't want to know that somewhere there's a guy/girl patiently waiting) once she realises that she is the backup of all those other guys (first guy's gf came to report her, so she definitely is). DO NOT ACCEPT HER BACK. I know someone who accepted the man who used her for backup, he's cheating confidently. Anyone who can cheat on you confidently and openly before marriage will NOT wake up respecting you and not cheating after. There are chicks wearing scarf and carrying bible and faking pregnancy in the crucial days of a relationship to nail a man down, your own is flaunting her flirtations and you wan marry??

If you think you deserve to be no.1 in someone's life, look for someone who treats you right. Or stick with this chick, because hey! You have "fun" times.

thanks, ur words have touched me. I was in a conference 2day when my friend called that my gal was waiting 4 me in ma office. I came late to meet her angry nd i had to apologise. Then she said i shld hlp her with somethin on d internet. I was just too tired to go to cafe, so i dropped her there nd left her with ma friend to hlp her. Come nd see vexin. I knw she wont talk to me for some days.

Folks dont think am a fool. I love dis gal cos she could be fun to be with. She told me no sex at d beginnin nd i respect her wish cos i thought she was a good gal. She told me how she was disvirgined nd dat made me love her but she still went back 2 d guy that didnt treat her well. Then she claimed she loved me nd i should not neglect her.

I recently discovered my gf is datin her ex secretly. I confronted her nd she confessed nd apologised. Later she started datin anoda guy nd would even go to his house straight frm my office when shes visitin. First time i caught her she said she was goin there to watch movies. Next she was cookin 4 hin nd other things but she still denied. D guys gf came to my office to complain that my gf is disturbin her bf. I confronted my gal, she confessed nd apologised again nd promise not to do it again. Then one day i left her in d office to visit a friend. She called around 5pm that she was goin home. Guess wht, i saw her on my way home around 8.30pm with another guy. I came down nd called her. She left nd followed d guy as if she didnt see me. Now dis gal is also jealous, if she sees a gal with me she freaks out nd i chased all my female friends cos of her. All my friends advice i dump her. I love her, i wanted to marry her but now i dont knw wht to do. Can dat kind of gal change or shld i leave her.

But d story dey interesting na. Una no even get literary mind

Yes aljazeera has confirmed d explosion but seems ppl are not talking about it

I think it is unfair to simplify d BH crisis to a muslim or northern thing. Each time i read these bkharam threads am alarmed by d level of hatred. My christian brothers, d more u hate moslems, d more boko haram is winnin, d more u hate northerners, d more bokoharam is winnin cos thats exactly wht dey want. They want us xtians to rise in anger nd decimate our moslem friends in d worst genocide in history. I have a moslem friend, his wife nd all his children are xtians. I think boko haram are more like enemies of islam themselves. Please let us look at dis issue from a political perspective.

qualified: @op, dont allow all these hypocrites talk down on u. Most of them are kids, js bragging n trying to 'belong'.

There is nothing wrong wit wht u are doing. The truth is, i will forever love any guy takes so much care of me, cos they are hard to find. Girls appreciate such men.

thanks 4 d compliment. I wasn't even conscious i was doin anythin remarkable, it was just fun being around her. She was my first, i lost my virginity 2 her nd sex was good

I used to have this girlfriend I loved so much that I would go to her place, sleepover and cook her breakfast. On weekends I would help her tidy her room before takin her out. When she left me, I thought she felt I was too attached but now she's back beggin me to come back, sayin she made a mistake and no guy could care 4 her like me.

Guys, is it wise to do those things for your woman? Girls, will you appreciate a guy that does that?