I need more advice please
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iwriteall:
You don't have any job offer on ground
you don't have any skills
why do you want to leave?
go back to the streets? work hard to find for naija o

You can search for better opportunities, while you're still doing this job

When u talk about skills. What kind of skills do you think I should learn that'll be more demanding in the society.

My current situation is really affecting my mental health.
My mom is getting old and I'm his only son out of her 2 children (I and my elder sister)
I'm yet to take care of her despite all her struggles during my study in the polytechnic

Despite my writing limitations, I hope you'll overlook any errors and focus on my message. I completed my civil engineering studies and finished my service year in November 2016. I'm based in Ibadan.

In February 2018, I secured a connection with the zonal director of a federal government agency, leading to a casual staff position with a monthly stipend of 20k. The initial plan was to gain an advantage for future employment opportunities. By around 2020, the salary increased to 30k.

After three years with the agency, I learned about an upcoming recruitment in 2021. Despite seeking assistance from my boss, the zonal director, she didn't provide the support promised. Although I continued working and searching for other jobs, success eluded me.

In November 2022, my boss retired, and the new zonal director pledged support for my education, leading to my admission into a HND to B.Eng conversion program at KWASU. The sponsorship continued under another new director, but my concern persists due to the stagnant 30k salary, supplemented irregularly with site visit stipends.

Now faced with the decision to quit, I ponder whether to risk unemployment and search for a better opportunity or endure the current job's limitations, considering my advancing age. Despite ongoing self-improvement efforts and learning civil engineering software, I seek advice on whether to pursue a new job or maintain my current position during the B.Eng program.

I went into debt this year
Worst year ever

Terrible

incogni2o:


Lifestyle and Habit change should fix this for you.

Do some research.

Can u recommend some lifestyle changes for me
I don't take much salt, and I exercise often coz I use to play soccer.

I don't think 130/90 is too high
Though normal is 120/80
I'm hypertensive and sometimes it's 165/100
So, u just need to go to a general hospital to check things out

This is the worse ever Christmas day of my life. No food for my family, woke up to Christmas on an empty stomach with no hope of eating this morning.
I pray that God should help me so that my kid won't be someone else kid

Bring it on

Gomoney is now Gonemoney.
Accept my congratulations

The major problem is that most of them are not qualify for the job but uses connection to secure the job.

Congratulations to them

Someone will soon die trying to break a record. This I've seen.

popweezy:
Abeg If the strip show one thick red line and one very faint line what does it mean

It means we are coming for naming soon.
Congrats sir

Na Una wey get money dey play 2odd and stake high.
Even 1.03 odd dey cut.
See below how people like me dey stake. Now tell me how I wan take cry. And I know say luck fit reach my side make I win
D last game I played, na cut 4 out of 49 selection. 45/49. To win 60m
2 also cut #10 to win 191k

Jennyclay:
May God help you broke and struggling men!

Biko, stay away from a relationship in order not to put someone’s daughter in poverty

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear!

Weytin this one dey talk
How much Ur papa have when he dey knack Ur mama.
Abeg shift

Bonjour tout le monde

Hamachi:
I can confidently say that the crime rate here is considerably low. Not so high development but good maintenance culture for the existing infrastructures. Good electricity and water supply, makes life a lot easier. Now for you as a young adult, you are open to many study opportunities as there are numerous private universities and higher institutions of learning with lenient entry requirements.

You can also easily start something good for yourself as new ideas and innovations are favorably welcome by the general public. The cost of living here is also low compared to other neighboring countries (Ghana and Nigeria) so getting a good life here isn’t a decade’s journey. But you may have to battle with the language aspect if you are not a “francophonie” or don’t have a basic knowledge of french language which is the official language here. You can however easily learn at the numerous language centers and also from the environment.
Bonne chance!

Bonjour
Please, I'll like to ask you some questions about Benin Republic. I needed a good information about the country and I'll appreciate if you can give me your number or email
I'll try to DM u on Nairaland as well

Therock5555:
Sir, with all due respect, lemme tell you a violent/non violent step to take.


When madam starts to para and she's all in your face saying trash, just grab her neck and push her to the wall.

Don't choke her but don't remove your hand either, just use your body weight to pin her to the wall then hoarsely whisper into her ears


"Baby girl (or what ever pet name you use to call her) respect yourself this moment, don't let me cross the line, trust me you won't like what would happen if you dare me next time, respect yourself."


Then let her go and walk out of the house, go and drink yoghurt and chop meat then come back and chill at home without a care.


Trust me, if she has a conscience, she'll have thought about her actions and felt sorry for herself. From there she'll apologize and y'all have mad make up sex.


Grabbing her earlier has proven to her that you could dish her a surprise beating anytime you wish and women don't like the fact that their mouth could cause a potential beating so she'll use it better.


I don't encourage violence of any kind but sometimes putting some people in their place is not just the right thing but the only thing to do.

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Be like u never jam mad woman b4
Na that time insult go start. She'll tell u if u don't beat her, no be Ur papa born u.
I think you're still in your 20s and you're not married yet, if not u won't even say this

osazsky:
Goal united..hag still remain d best coach in England Ronaldo fans can go and die or join him in walahi talahi league

This Ur comment na mumu talk
Why can't u just draw Galatasaray and even ordinary crystal palace, small narrow win, u dey shout.
I be united fans I swear but Ur comment is sh*t

Chasito:
You just reminded me of my final year school project defense

Same here.
I'm my group leader. I'm d one that prepare d project writeup from a to z
I fumble at the project defence
It's my group mates that later help me out.
Even though I score 84 in my project. I scored d lowest mark among my group mates despite I'm d group leader and I'm d one that prepare the write-up

I'll love to come from either Canada or Norway (Tromsø) or anywhere around Arctic circle
I want to experience midnight sun and also Northern lights

We are suffering in this country. Suicide will be on the high side.
Even me, I'm fedup of life. I hardly eat once per day and I've family.
If you've the ability to help me with a job, I'll appreciate it
HND Civil Engineering

We are suffering in this country. Suicide will be on the high side.
Even me, I'm fedup of life. I hardly eat once per day and I've family.
If you've the ability to help me with a job, I'll appreciate it
HND Civil Engineering

Saccharine:

I don't know what the connection is between man of God and a pregnant woman suffering from severe headaches.

Better run to the hospital and make sure her blood pressure is being monitored.

Good luck oga

Op, please stick to this. Check her bp and if it's very high, please immediately do CS to safe the baby. Please please please.

Jagermeister:
Naira Marley dey feel say him be Suge knight of death row records east coast and west coast... He think say he fit fall anybody wey he hate as mafia boss producer.. this is what happens when gara gara too much for body

U Gerrit. He's feeling like suge and diddy
Thunder fire his balls

martolux:
I don't believe a two year old is capable of remembering anything like that at that tender age.

Stop saying what u don't know. Maybe u don't av sharp memory
I still up till date remember the incident that happens when I was few months to 2 years old when a house close to our house got burnt.
And also remember when we use to play inside vehicle tyre that we put together vertically upright and we do go inside the hole from the tyre and hide ourselves, i.e I, my bro, sis and neighbors

Promo pussy.
Wahala

How old is she?
Well,.make sure you invest. We no wan hear say u need financial help o
Good luck to you