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Are you guys blind to see that high population is not the problem, but corruption and bad governance

Make una dey there dey form I too know, wetin una don contribute to make this country better..

Na u wey no fit born e dey pain, pls don't go and commit suicide oo

micxwell:
Funny . When you learn the correct spelling of the bolded, we will continue this exchange.
A humble advice; Try to control your emotions hmm, it's not that hard . Enjoy your evening.

I dunno whether you are he/she, if you are He u are okobo or sterile, but if you are she it either you infertile, wombless or you av reach monopus, but I tell you what u have a fish brain

Kobojunkie:
And so his foolishness continues to spew forth...

Kobojunkie:
And so his foolishness continues to spew forth...

You this okobo, sterile asshole who don't want to take responsibility what make me that have and what have believe is not an achievement, just to feel Good

Kobojunkie:
Look whose talking!

I think illiteracy is ur problem

Kobojunkie:
Why? Because the correct application of the word continues to elude you?

And you are among the fools

Kobojunkie:
Nigeria is still a nation overrun by fools.

Fool.....Some of those leaving in that face me I face you are leaving a happy life than some of those leaving in a mansion.

micxwell:
Are you just realizing this? Imagine, he'll prevent his children from running errands for his neighbor who says children isn't an achievement .
Face Me I Face You Mentality...

Your last line is a foolish and senseless talk.

Kobojunkiee:
Stop dragging God down into the muck that is Nigeria for Pete's sake!

If Children were meant as a blessing why did God cursed them and the having of them in Genesis 3 vs 16? Why did God create some Eunuchs from birth, let some be made Eunuchs in this life and then allow others to become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 3 - 15.

And why do many of these women who have these children sell them off to the highest bidder, abandon some - over 10 million ot said blessings roaming roaming the streets of Nigeria homeless to this day- and even go as far as to kill others?

Children are not gifts or blessings, nor are they mandates or achievements. They are instead burdens, and a responsibilities.

Im not forcing anyone to bear children, but saying it's not an achievement I don't concur that

cayorday89:
You just come up with a conclusion that is most times not concrete enough, even if they tell you they are infertile, okobo, you will not still accept them for who they are, you will still throw shades, if they prove that they can carry and more than capable to take responsibility for four children but decide to have none or just one, you will still throw shades at them, the most important thing is that they are happy with whatever decision they have taken.
In the real sense of it, the most problematic people in this conversation are those who wants to birth loads of children without having adequate resources to cater for them and still end up running to those who have lesser children for help either from their relatives or neighborhood.

Many of you commenting are either okobo, infertile, sterile and don't want to take responsibility

Im just saying oo, if you don't want to born na ur business, make una leave way see as achievement alone..

cayorday89:
Be sincere with yourself, how many people even send other peoples' children on errands these days, and in places where it is rampant, how many children are even willing to go on errands without you not having to give them monetary rewards.
I also believe whoever decides to take the decision of not birthing a child is enlightened enough not to send children on errands.

That's not what I said and not what I mean, it's seems you don't understand English

tolajay:
What a thought!

So, the only reason you gave birth is so they can run errands for others?

Omo, this country no dey go anywhere with the "quality" of thoughts and ideas I read on this forum. Our development is way beyond political pandering but the quality of minds we have in the citizenry.

Some of you saying it's not an achievement, if I were your neighbor and you tell me bearing children is not an achievement I will barr my children from running any errands for u

Yeah, but also note that even when u feel u av all the resources, you can be rich today and poor tomorrow it's vice versa...

freddaboh:
That's right. It's very wrong to even give birth to children you know you cannot take care of.

You don't want children that your business, you want to gather all the money in the whole world before bearing children that your business, we that have them or want to have them see them as achievement.

Mr Man, guy u can't force ur opinion on me, my kids are great achievement to me, so get lost

Kobojunkiee:
Every day in Nigeria, at least 1000,000 individuals - kids and adults alike -engage in sexual acts. For you to here claim credit for when conception takes place is ... astounding.

Will you just stay in ur bed room and the sperm just fly from ur dick and and enter the woman hole in the other room

Kobojunkiee:
So the "effort" was yours and not of nature? Your sperm is controlled by your effort?
Wow.. the ego on you is astounding.

that nature can be controlled if not you don give ur sister or ur mother Belle, and what about the effort of carrying the child for about 9months

Kobojunkiee:
So the "effort" was yours and not of nature? Your sperm is controlled by your effort?
Wow.. the ego on you is astounding.

This guy u be olodo, the dictionary said typically by effort, did the sperm enter there by miracle.

Kobojunkiee:
A big problem here is maybe ignorance of the meaning of the word "Achievement".
What skill or courage did it take for you to squirt sperm that produced your child above and beyond that of rats and roaches combined?

Someone is telling you that even drinking water and napping is an achievement and I wonder if the we realize that we can't just begin to claim glory for nature's behaviors programmed in us for our basic survival.

Whatever, I have a kid and its a big achievement to me and im not rich yet, I will try hard for him and invest in him

Kobojunkiee:
Pay attention!

Children are bought and sold in that same Nigeria, the only reason not on open market is it is still a crime to do so.

Don't mind those morons because they don't want to have children, can't have children or take responsibility, they are now saying it not an archievement

Acidosis:
As far as I'm concerned, even the food/drink I had tonight is an achievement. Life is hard enough. Can't allow anyone make it harder with their subjective ideations and over-conceptualizations of my existence. Every damn thing I do with my time is an achievement, including taking a nap/sleep. You can't define the context and content of MY happiness for me o If merely drinking water makes me happy, I won't inflict sorrow upon myself because you're waiting to complete your Ph.D degree to experience genuine happiness or achievement.

Tell your wife the the truth, that ur something can't produce

phazotron:
Tell them. Tell my mother.

I don't understand African mentality. It's just annoying.

I've told her I don't want bio kids. I'd rather take care of orphans. She's saying God forbid I should go and see pastor for counseling.

Why are people so blind they don't see the potential disadvantages of having kids especially in today's world?

Then it's not cheap since u can't buy it in open market

Kobojunkiee:
Children are bought and sold in that same Nigeria, the only reason not on open market is it is still a crime to do so.

But you can't buy it in ur regular market

GeniusHawlah:
Honestly, to me, it's not. It's too cheap to be an achievement IMO.

You the intelligent with high IQ, tell us ur archievement

dazzlingd:
Poverty is in some peoples genes, they love it, it gladness their hearts to be impoverished and struggle.
And pass the legacy to their children to continue and populate the whole of africa with malnourished, unintelligent low IQ children.

Na the western culture wey una they copy bring una to this level

ofuonyebi:
In Africa, my fathers country, people born children like ants and cockroaches
but they are got nothing to make those children dreams come to reality
But in other civilized clime, they live a peaceful wealthy life but have one or two children
or sometimes a fine lucky dog to care for..

What im saying is at least have one

Kobojunkiee:
75% of Nigerians who live in poverty are still having kids....how can they moderately have children?

For me My little boy is my achievement, looking forward to have more in future