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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by tolajay: 11:13am On Dec 14, 2021 |
What a thought! So, the only reason you gave birth is so they can run errands for others? Omo, this country no dey go anywhere with the "quality" of thoughts and ideas I read on this forum. Our development is way beyond political pandering but the quality of minds we have in the citizenry. ayubaski: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 11:20am On Dec 14, 2021 |
That's not what I said and not what I mean, it's seems you don't understand English tolajay: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by cayorday89(m): 11:44am On Dec 14, 2021 |
tolajay:This should be interpreted into various Nigerian languages and printed, then placed on a bill board and placed in strategic points in every parts of the country to serve as a means of enlightening the entire Nigerian populace. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by cayorday89(m): 11:48am On Dec 14, 2021 |
ayubaski: Be sincere with yourself, how many people even send other peoples' children on errands these days, and in places where it is rampant, how many children are even willing to go on errands without you not having to give them monetary rewards. I also believe whoever decides to take the decision of not birthing a child is enlightened enough not to send children on errands. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 11:55am On Dec 14, 2021 |
Im just saying oo, if you don't want to born na ur business, make una leave way see as achievement alone.. cayorday89: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by tolajay: 11:56am On Dec 14, 2021 |
Really? Won't it be nice that you explain your intended intent for that post? ayubaski: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 12:02pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Many of you commenting are either okobo, infertile, sterile and don't want to take responsibility |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Klass99(f): 12:04pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Klass99(f): 12:11pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by cayorday89(m): 12:40pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
ayubaski:Yeah, I get your point but saying you will not allow them send your children on errand is nothing compared to those who give birth to multiple children they can't cater for and still go begging those who had none, just one or two they can conveniently cater for. In the long run, na the children go suffer am pass, and it's those who have none of just two will be the ones to bear the burden directly or indirectly. You get? 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by cayorday89(m): 12:48pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
ayubaski:You just come up with a conclusion that is most times not concrete enough, even if they tell you they are infertile, okobo, you will not still accept them for who they are, you will still throw shades, if they prove that they can carry and more than capable to take responsibility for four children but decide to have none or just one, you will still throw shades at them, the most important thing is that they are happy with whatever decision they have taken. In the real sense of it, the most problematic people in this conversation are those who wants to birth loads of children without having adequate resources to cater for them and still end up running to those who have lesser children for help either from their relatives or neighborhood. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by tolajay: 12:59pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Nah! Mental robustness is never gender-specific nor biased. I've seen, spoken and worked with loads of smart and thoughtful ladies. My wife is a daily pointer to that. You go still do Christmas for me nau. Klass99: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kaysalas(m): 1:24pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
DoingBetter: Klass99:Naxo Una two begin follow follow Una self for nairaland abi no be so |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kaysalas(m): 1:28pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
yuping:I don't have .. AIDS, CORONA, OMICRON low sperm count . Can you now Kindly modify your statement? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 1:38pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Im not forcing anyone to bear children, but saying it's not an achievement I don't concur that cayorday89: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 3:12pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
paddyDIGITAL:Try to pay attention! The question is what makes you believe children are achievements. You claim children are your legacies but how many of you can trace your family trees back more than 2 or 3 generations even after over a 1000 years of living and breeding in that same Nigeria? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by sooperrescue(m): 3:51pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
All those children being trafficked and sold to rich couples for 3m, if it is not an achievement, why will anyone buy a child for 3m? Why will anyone steal another woman's child? Children are blessings to us and if our quivers are full, great but like Peter who was walking on water and looked away from Jesus, a lot of us face many challenges and we despair because we feel that it's our ability to raise the children. If God gave you children, he has found you worthy and he will provide for them or else why will God give a rich man just two children when the man can take care of 50 children easily. The joy of sharing in their innocence is greater than the current situation they may find themselves and being responsible for another human being is something we should be proud of. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 3:57pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
sooperrescue:Stop dragging God down into the muck that is Nigeria for Pete's sake! If Children were meant as a blessing why did God cursed them and the having of them in Genesis 3 vs 16? Why did God create some Eunuchs from birth, let some be made Eunuchs in this life and then allow others to become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 3 - 15. And why do many of these women who have these children sell them off to the highest bidder, abandon some - over 10 million ot said blessings roaming roaming the streets of Nigeria homeless to this day- and even go as far as to kill others? Children are not gifts or blessings, nor are they mandates or achievements. They are instead burdens, and responsibilities expected to be carried by those who bare them, not by others in society. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 4:21pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Your last line is a foolish and senseless talk. Kobojunkiee: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by cayorday89(m): 5:01pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
ayubaski:It's an achievement but too much of it can be a burden to the parents and close relatives. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by sooperrescue(m): 5:48pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:I was not there when you said God cursed them. But the only promise that God made to Abraham was children as many like the sands of the sea. Why are people buying children of other people if it is a curse? Do you know how much an IVF cost? All those homes dealing in children to impregnate the girls and sell the babies. Children are blessings, blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by bepositive11: 5:59pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
POLYGAMY: Lol. I don't think she meant to mention you. She was just using the word |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 6:25pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
sooperrescue:1.God's curse is clearly written of in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 2. God's promise to Abraham, was that, God's promise to Abraham - not to you or to any man. The proclaimation was made to Abraham, by God for God's own purpose. Even at that, Abraham, a very rich man, had only 8 children. 3. People also pay a premium for sex and drugs, doss that make it all a blessing from God or something? 4. The cost of IVF has absolutely nothing to do with God but greed on the part of those who pursue their selfish desire to reproduce , and those who help them achieve their selfish desires. 5. So you are trying to argue here and now that children are now a commodity to be bought and sold for profit means children are a blessing? You graduate college at all? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by paduaultimate: 6:54pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Maybe you should have started from the basics, which is your dictionary. If you can find the meaning of “achievement”. You won’t be asking these questions. Supreme145: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by sooperrescue(m): 3:20am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Make I leave you alone. Whatever you want, do it quickly. I don't want to hear that you are a member of the laughing church at Oregun, Ikeja after you have tried everything else. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkie: 3:42am On Dec 15, 2021 |
sooperrescue:What is the world has your churchy delusion to do with this now?. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by RodgersAkpafu: 9:07am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Dont blame these people You see the environment they are in greatly influenced the way they think So dont be surprised when you see those kind of comment |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by RodgersAkpafu: 9:10am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Tell them o |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by RodgersAkpafu: 9:13am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Adakintroy:Read that statement again Only a slowpoke will repeat the mistakes of his parents Now having read that Refute it with a concrete basis |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by RodgersAkpafu: 9:19am On Dec 15, 2021 |
joowealth:You think they wont be happy because they dont have kids ? You think Angela Merkel, Kamala Harris and say this last female prime minister of britain are unhappy because they dont have biological kids ? You joking |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by RodgersAkpafu: 9:20am On Dec 15, 2021 |
micxwell:Please what's the link to that thread? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by micxwell(m): 10:02am On Dec 15, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:https://www.nairaland.com/6875423/could-he-ulterior-motives-disagreeing |
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