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there are 2 type of people in this world 1-the people who care & 2- the people who don't care, so if you care about yourself? you have to never go with the flow and you will take many decision in your life, it doesn't matter if you are male or female? but the moment you think that "being virgin shouldn't matter?" it means only one thing, you can't care less or more about it, once u can't care it means you're already took a path cus life just made yo go through it?
Sorry but i don't believe in the crap of "nothing is perfect, Nothing is for sure, was fail trys, was a search? bla bla life force you to do this?....etc" cus nothing will happen unless you make it happen and people have the right to do whatever they want and so life is always about choice's! to win a good prize or to lose the war? isn't about just a one person, in fact the whole system matters But for an issue as Virginity? there will be always those questions in your relationship!
-if you wanted to care, you could save yourself till a trusted engagement like marriage happens?
-are you happy that you had sex with tons of people in your life? and for sure some fancy things will never be forgotten and it will always get in the way of your whole future ?
-did he/she loved someone before? will he remember that love at some point?
-why did my partner didn't care for my old sex life? does it mean he can't care about it?
imagine if you slept with a friend of your partner and he/she didn't mind it, maybe fought over it but then nothing changed? as what's done is done? how can you tell if the person care or not?
*care isn't only about positive things, negative things can be included
A guy who doesn't care about his wife history only means he had history too maybe still have Ongoing so he's cheating? & so A girl who doesn't care about her husband history can mean the same , but what's missing in minds that~having the first time is rly a unique deal, THAT'S a mark in your life? for yourself or your partner this will be a point of fight whenever the mode changes, you might be fooled at how cool men trying to act? or how women are trying to show care? But it's all a forced field..the moment anything break through? everything will be destroyed, what I mean that any female who want a trusted life? should develop the trust in herself before getting bleeped and cry later to call it "was a mistake" and for men they rly have to consider a real relationship/marriage before they bang many girls who would be put in wrong direction later, ending to have a fail society where marriage is nothing but "good deal" yet the husband keep cheating & the wife doing the same? and anyway my whole point is, love can be destroyed so easily specially when it comes to the """troughs of cheating""" this is Real life, you can't trust any human unless there are A Huge thing tied them? this is why a faithful people could have better life for living on honor and purity life, and i'm sure this is the same thing for many people, all want a peaceful real life without fake lies or cheating...this is why you must consider the choice of "do i need to fuckup my life and do random things? or should i care for the future and save myself to meet someone who saved him/herself" and then he/she will be whole for me.
> just thinking that your wife is only belong to you will makes you always happy, same goes for females? when u think that your husband is all yours, u won't even feel that u need anything else.
don't live the imaginary, day dreaming of any love! cus losing your virginity will surly effect your whole life, whole future and will end you up wsting tons of yours faking the lie of "i'm trying to find a proper person" you will never find such thing if you never cared about yourself at the beginning