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tpia1: i have to agree with deols et al on this one.

wouldnt it be flirting if they did what you asked?

would sound like there is an ongoing non-formal relationship.

Not atall tpia,what I have noticed is that I had garnered overtime that there are something

tpia1: its implied, as are all the other numbers.

only you for all these!!!

deols: Only a stupid person accepts what u dont mean. Most people know it when u r forming what u r not.

Well that's your own opinion, I'm not the type that deceive people in order to get what I want...so retrace your steps and if you think you have known me all because of what I posted,you are wrong,you only knew what you ought to know...I know where you are 'coming from'...that's y there'll be more divorce rate because nowadays ladies hear what they wanted to hear not what they need to hear... no matter what happens, I remain my humble self....babanpy!!!!!!!!!

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Decibel:

haha u don come abi..no wahala..anything 4 us??

I remembered the time before gaining admission to study my course of study(electronic and computer engineering),I was still in the polytechnics then, ND2(elect/elect engr) second semester to be precise, it never crossed my mind that I would be on scholarship throughout my duration in the university system.Thank God,I was able to combine my ND programme and Bsc despite the fact that exams was at the same time.Despite this,I still made it and maintained it throughout the duration of my programme I.e the scholarship. Peeps,do you intentionally gunned for it or came by accident??Mine was by accident and I maintained it throughout.....Derailers,please keep off!!!!!!

It seems as if our sisters loved to hear what they wanted us to tell them before they can say 'I do',if that's the case in all cases,I doubt if someone like me will ever get marriage because I'm almost always blunt

tbaba1234: What is good for the goose, is good for the gander.

It is all about justice and fairplay, nobody is fighting for men rights.

The marginalization must stop. Join the struggle.

Aluta continua!!!

Victoria ascerta

tpia1: 1, 1, 1, 1... 2, 2, 2, 2... 3, 3, 3, 3... 4, 4, 4, 4

What about 5,5,5,5?

Fulaman198: No that's just wrong man, to Fulani people, cattle is like money. Just like to most people money is very important cattle is very important. We measure our wealth by our cattle.

We use cattle sometimes to even pay for things, some people value money more than women just like some people value cattle more than women. Very few Fulani actually value cattle (money) more than their loved ones. We are not materialistic.

Fulani men love and appreciate and celebrate women.

okay

cronsberg: Intolerant much? I keep telling people that christians are the most intolerant people in this world. Yet they keep saying muslims are the intolerant ones bla bla bla
But i agree with you that if the wife didn't follow the husband's religion, then no matter how much they love each other, there's bound to be a conflict of interests in the future. Which religion will the children follow? And if you mumu enough to agree to the "lets allow the kids to choose for themselves" then you'd have no one to blame, as you should be rest assured that your kids will get religious and behavioural training from their mother, therefore its highly likely that children follow their mother's religion instead of the dad's. Thats why i had to call off my relationship with the love of my life(who happens to be a christian girl, i am muslim myself) when she refused to convert. She was so insistent that we marry each other without one of us converting, and that she agrees that our kids will be raised as muslims, i knew better, i knew she was just talking out of love, out of emotion, i knew she would very likely change her mind in the future, she would most likely secretly be teaching my kids christianity e.t.c So i thanked god i realized earlier on that it just can't work if both spouses are different religion or denominations, one has to change .

Alihamdulilah that you did the right things but majority don't know this!

Y not?there are even some that i am eyeing here!!!

RedBenson: Slaping a man doesnt make any sense cos he may avenge and u know ur strength wont stand or surpass his. Best u can do is, touch back his, then he'll definitely touch back urs, then u touch his, na so so touch touch una go dey touch till 2 of una reach hotel room.

bros,u b badt guy..#chai..Abeg,don't corrupt me,I be small pikin joor!!!

Fulaman198: I hope that is not a joke man.

Fulani women love their women (whether the women are Fulani are not). The Mbororo'en even have the Gerewol ceremonies where the women pick out the man whom they think is best suited for them.

According to my sources,I was told that if a cow die and a wife died,they would grieve the cow more than the wlfey and that relocation is necessary in this case because they'll think the environs is not conducive to them.We have had several cases where killing a cow leads to wanton destruction of houses, properties and life and if it happen that a person died,nothing will happen... I think I have to stop here so that I ll not be termed ethnic bigots.. I have lots in the offing but for the sake of what binds us together!!!

luvola: I still applied to all teaching jobs advertised 2days ago on nairaland. Although I dislike teaching on pry /secondary schools because it doesn't tally with my career jobs but that doesn't stop me from applying ...

Try to send CV personally to schools that surround where u are staying.The problem may even be from your CV or cover letter.To get more insight on ways to package your CV and general career devt advice, I would recommend WWW.jarushub.com to u.Try it out bros!!!!

luvola: Bros who told you I rejected teaching jobs ? may be you substitute me with another identity. I do apply to teaching jobs even on nairaland. As an accounting graduate ,I am not after pay but career development which prompted me to apply for small audit firms all to no avail. I do not mind if you have any for me , I will appreciate. pm bro. life don tire me o ,seems village people at work .grin grin

Check earlier post up their by one art....

Fulaman198: You would have to be more specific. Marriage isn't something where you can just abuse your spouse. You have to be gentle and kind to your wife. She is your wife! You can not treat her like some servant or someone who is beneath you.

l know. I'm the type that do not deceive myself as a comfirmed Lagos boy(born,breed,eat,sleep),infact everything about me is Lagos. I would not tell my lady what I can't do because I want to marry her!never!! loI .l know that's your own ways but wait ooo,I thought your tribe love their animal more than wifey as Independently garnered by me over time??

Fulaman198: A happy wife means a happy life. I would do anything for her if I truly love her. No matter what happens, loving someone means you are going to be there for them no matter what situation they are in. A husband supports his wife, and vice versa. A wife is a husband's best friend and lifetime partner. You are always supposed to have your wives back 24/7.

Can she do something for you if the needs arises?

luvola: if you are in my shoe ,you will know what am going through now.Wish I had learn work /trade rather than wasting precious time In the university to obtain 2.1 and the fuc#ktard certificate is rusting .

We finished @ the same time,I mean pop I.e on june'06 last year...don't lose hope,there's still hope..you just have to follow some principle s for you to succeed in life,start from scratch and dream big...Rome was not built in a day.U can take some jobs as stepping stone to your dream career.If u are not ready to compromise, things may not come out as u want...y did u reject teaching jobs someone brought forth to you the other times...as a 2.1 graduate, you should be able to give back to the society through something like this,even I as a practising engineer with my level of education, I will soon be teaching/lecturing maybe as a PT and if the pay is OK,y not full timeAbeg,bros time is going,reorient and restrategised your plans in life for a fulfilling,rewarding and achieving future!!!!

Fulaman198: Yes with the right woman easily

then u are really a 'good' man..love really exists!!!.How do u intent to do this..e.g donating your two kidney to your wife for her to live and for u to go to the place of no return...#Chai,na only u waka come!!!!!!!!!!

tpia1: sarcasm , i assume.

Are u not tpia 1,2,3,4,5.....10 etc

luvola: I do not understand why they gave birth to ne in this country..

Y are u so frustrated to this extent...naija go beta...just believe!!!!!

What about if a girl mistakenly touches a guy kinni nko?Wetin go happen

mercilyn: A guy cannot mistakenly touch ur private part. Bt 4 me, if d guy is cute, i'll enjoy it.

so this is your first post and u say dis....I no your type #moutshut

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tpia1: thanks, have been back since the site came back?

just seeing u in the Islamic section.. welcome 5 and1

onegig: Although it's a preference. Some use it to relax, that you don't watch doesn't make them less intelligent. People may say same of you watching football or something that interests you also.


As for the price. There's no free meal in freetown. Maybe you check your bank balance. It might interest you that i just recieved an alert. Lol.

haha

onegig: Ok o. Don't blame me when you recieve only 2.3 yards out of the 10yards of wife material.

OK I go manage am,shebi na free sha?

onegig: Yeah true. But wait you also watch telemundo abi Wetin una dey call am. Please what is about? God knows i just hear and see people commenting about it,don't even know what it deals with except that it is a tv show or so.

I am not the type that waste my time unjustly.I used to c pple watching it and atimes when I switch to my local TV stations,it and most love stories from mexicans and co are being done. I regard anybody that love watching it as highly unserious and of low intelligent scale because how will someone be teaching u how to love,how to live your life etc.Is Quran,hadith etc not be enough!!??

onegig: That would be too slow, why you no carry fiber cable just connect the network. I no wan missing bandwidth or some yards getting lost due to connectivity.

Henhen,is it all the data transmission within Nigeria boundaries I intend to receive.My network doesn't need to be 2 secured,so I still stick my neck out with WiFi.Optic fibre=2xpensive