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And where did I state that the US. stock index is a corporation. I just added what came to my head at the time. You must be living in wonderland to think those wars fought oversea are meant to bring security to the homeland. That's massive thievery going on to enrich transnational corporations. Young man, stop protecting the biggest criminals known to mankind cos that makes you one

Mr Man .. please Shut up. You just ranting Nonsense

LIMELIGHTCRAZY:
General wey get Alhaji... Chief blah blah no get other general ,colonel ,officer for phone .... Fxcking fake story

Idiot. Until you become a victim. No learn you hear. #Agbero

JOOHEL:
I have the video

Mad people Every where.

God bless you for this Forum. Mr Seun . You indeed a blessing to our Generation. More grace Egbon. Anty just Pretend as if nothing is happening. Put him in his place
So he won't scatter your home. When the time comes, he will get tired.

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

Hello Sister. I understand your pain. But to save your Marriage and not to have any problem with your husband, you don't need the drag the matter further. Call the stupid guy to order. Let him know you not comfortable with that . And if refuse to change , then just leave the matter. Prepare your husband food alone henceforth.your husband will not want to offend his brother. So he won't go and be saying rubbish at home, say brother don chop vegetables. And you have more edge anyway. You can always talk to your husband that special moment he listens. You know na. **Winks**