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@akindayor
you dont need to delete your self from here, i am here always for advices.
you are not wrong but i will try to put your words in action, the best thing i have to do now is to start puting the good advices from you here into actions and see if there will be change in my life. thank you so much and i wish to hear more again.


@ThiefOfHearts
i did apologize for him, because he seems like he is in charge of those who dont ave a good english or grammar, i did better apologize for him before he start to fail me

Busta,
i know my English is not good but at least i have tried my best to share with you about my hard feelings and to get help from you, i think i have already writen it clear that you all here were able to understand and feedback to me with your ideas, dont i.

TerraCotta,
my emotions have now changed abit and there is a feelings that the best is i have to try to calm down my hot temper heart. i dont know if he will change sometimes after getting satisfied with my evil behaviour, i sometimes would even say to him go i dont need you, or i dont want you, but he will in-turn reply no i will never leave you no matter what? can guys always keep there promises as they made?

LadyT
it is not that iam trying to be abusive, but it is that i have always a reactive action since i was bornt, even at home my family already knews me and i dont have a heart to apologize , parphet i dont get any meaning of why to apologize, or when i know i am at the wrong side i dont uses to apologize in front of him but it will hurt me later when i am alone like at night hours then tears will start to fall off my eyes, but the next day nobody will know if i found out about me being wrng etc.


I am sorry.

the fact is i love him, but sometimes i have the feelings as i can not get the real meaning of marriage and what makes a guy to feel he want to marry etc. i think maybe lots of my negative feelings is the cause , aren't it?

i really do not apologize for him , i sometimes tries to calm down and tried to make my heart pure but nevertheless as soon as there is a simple urgements i started to react and say bad words to him, i sometimes thing maybe he is waiting untill we reach the future then he will start to react too, but the mots is i am always feeling i hurted him much sometimes , i feel sorry fr my own self but i dont have the feelings to apologize for him .

hmmm i think cruelty, and stubborness is my habits, i am always too reactive when i get angry, i can even say bad words on him , he will get sad and react also but the next day he will apologize, i really dont know how to change from this evils , what makes men feels happy?

I am engaged to a guy who i believed he truely loves be though am so crule some times and always stubborn, but he still says he love me with all his heart and can not let me go. so please naira help me i really want to make him feels happy what can i do to make him happy? in which way can i always talk to him to me him happy. am feeling i have hurted this guy so much and i feel regret for that even i have pity him much , if it were other guys i believed they would have leave me, though he is nice and ladies always likes him but he just needs me ,

help me please.