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EducationRe: How Do I Help My Pupils To Be Good In Mathematics? by babs01(m): 12:05pm On Sep 30, 2016
Teach them with pictures
IslamRe: Argument With Non Believers Of Islam. Halal Or Haram? by babs01(m): 11:39am On Sep 30, 2016
The answer is in your post
IslamRe: The Islamic Response To Trials And Hardships by babs01(m): 11:35am On Sep 30, 2016
Jazakunllah khoiro
IslamRe: Sex Is Sweet But... by babs01(op): 11:30am On Sep 30, 2016
Feanah:
Jazakallahu khairan
Wayakun
EducationRe: What Is The Relevance Of The First School Leaving Certificate? by babs01(m): 11:12am On Sep 30, 2016
I no get too
CareerRe: The Myth Behind ICT Career Skills In Nigeria – Jethro Theo Paul by babs01(m): 10:06am On Sep 30, 2016
lekibraky:
This is what Lagos just discovered and they partner with andela to train people who can think criticality without computer science background to become software developers which I am part of them and we are catching up real fast thanks to Lagos open Andela
please is ur training on island or mainland?
Islam"Seven (7) Ways To Earn Reward Even After Death" by babs01(op): 5:18pm On Sep 29, 2016
"SEVEN (7) WAYS TO EARN REWARD EVEN AFTER DEATH"
1. Give a copy of Al-Qur'an to someone.
Each time one reads from it, you gain reward.
2. Donate a wheelchair to a hospital.
Each time sick person uses it, you gain reward.
3. Participate or contribute in building a masjid.
4. Impact knowledge on someone's life. Whatever you teach someone whether you are being paid for or not you will have your reward both in this world and the hereafter.
5. Dig a well or borehole or Place water cooler in a public place. Each time any creature uses it, you gain reward.
6. Plant a tree. Whenever a person or animal sits in its shade or eats from it. You gain reward.
7. And the easiest of all, share this message with fellow Muslims.
If you get one person that applies any of the above, you gain a lot of rewards. Please do it now.......
IslamSex Is Sweet But... by babs01(op): 5:01pm On Sep 29, 2016
SEX IS SWEET BUT...
Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the verydoor of the sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at
that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken?
Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A
GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant
blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious
covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day.
This is God’s way of saying,
“Whoever plunges into this woman shall
only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place
only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one who made the body (the
hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, etc.God said it in clear terms, the body is not for fornication”.
Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/ she
is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks.
There is no covenant without blood: this
is why the membrane contains enough of it.
As a matter of fact, what happens the
first time a lady has sex is not just sex
but an immersion and a bathing of the
man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!
The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that
covenant or establish another version of it with another person.
Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck
irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in
sexual activity with demon possessedmen while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with
it. If only they knew,many girls who
carelessly allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so.
The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
harlot (through sexual activity) is one
with her ?
This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
Dear Singles,know today that there is a
definite proportion of your virtue that
leaves you each time a man enters into
you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a
man enters into you without any
properly signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of
yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other
spirit whatsoever that may have
mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all.
What happens between the lines could
be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.
The sin of fornication gives demons and
occultic people direct access into your
God's given destiny. And it drives the away your guardian angel will no longer be with you,So guys,zip up!
Girls wise up!! It doesn't matter but it matters a lot.
BIG THINGS COME FROM LITTLE THINGS WE DO!!! I
know a soul has been touched today,
remain blessed!.
AutosWhat Is The Importance Of Driver's Licence by babs01(op): 3:54pm On Sep 19, 2016
Won't they arest you if you hit somebody/ someone because you are licensed?
FamilyRe: See Me See Wahala by babs01(op): 3:49pm On Sep 19, 2016
from women's perspective
SportsFifa Ends Ballon D'or Association by babs01(op): 7:50pm On Sep 16, 2016
Fifa has ended its association with the Ballon d'Or award for the world's best player.
The award has been given by France Football every year since 1956, but for the past six years it became the Fifa Ballon d'Or in association with world football's governing body.
The French magazine will continue to run the award and will announce more details on Tuesday, 20 September.
Fifa ran a separate World Player of the Year award from 1991 until 2009.
It is thought they will now relaunch their own trophy, with the details yet to be worked out.
Barcelona forward Lionel Messi won four of the six Fifa Ballons d'Or, including the final one, with Real Madrid's Cristiano Ronaldo winning the other two.
The last year that neither of them won the Ballon d'Or or Fifa's main award was 2007, when Kaka won both.


http://m.bbc.com/sport/football/37388991
lalasticlala, honeric01 , semid4lyfe
FamilyRe: See Me See Wahala by babs01(op): 7:41pm On Sep 16, 2016
byvan03:
grin grin grin it's actually very funny, OP you are too serious . Cut the man some slack smiley.
lol
FamilyRe: See Me See Wahala by babs01(op): 7:25pm On Sep 16, 2016
Holywizard:
de husband said is ur mother's breasts dat will fall
u go fear translation
IslamRe: How To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 7:00pm On Sep 16, 2016
esscence00:
My Wife would really be a lucky lady!! wink
Good
IslamRe: How To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 6:59pm On Sep 16, 2016
MeenalKd:
Jazakhallahu khairan..wa shukran kasiran ya ukti..May Allah bless you abundantly..
waayakun
IslamRe: How To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 6:53pm On Sep 16, 2016
Ridah:
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Maa Sha Allah, May Allah Make It Easy For Us.
Amin
IslamRe: How To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 6:52pm On Sep 16, 2016
Ridah:
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Maa Sha Allah, May Allah Make It Easy For Us.
Amin
IslamRe: How To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 6:51pm On Sep 16, 2016
Ridah:
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Maa Sha Allah, May Allah Make It Easy For Us.
Amin
RomanceRe: Christianity Or Comedy? You Tell Me by babs01(m): 10:41am On Aug 28, 2016
Christianity and stupidity be like..
IslamHow To Be Romantic With Your Spouse by babs01(op): 1:09pm On Aug 26, 2016
*The Romantic Prophet – How to be romantic with your spouse*
Being a Lecture Presentation by Louqmaan Muhammad (Abu-Zayd) to Muslim Ummah (Darul Ulum) on 15th Dhul-Qadah 1437AH (19th August 2016)
.

*HOW TO BE ROMANTIC WITH YOUR SPOUSE*
The husband and wife have to bond with one another psychologically, physically and spiritually. Here are some attractive examples and points we need to adopt to achieve a marriage of romance:

1) Know their feelings

The husband and wife should be aware of each other’s feelings. The husband should be able to gauge when his wife is upset or sad, likewise the wife should be able to read her husband’s behaviour. By being conscious of one another’s feelings, it will help resolve any differences. When your spouse is down or upset, be there to console him/her.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam once said to Sayyidah Aisha radiallahu anha : “I know well when you are pleased or angry with me. Aisha replied: How you know that? He said: When you are pleased with me you swear by saying “By the God of Mohammad” but when you are angry you swear by saying “By the God of Ibrahim”. She said: You are right, I don’t mention your name.”

2) Console her.

This is another feature a marriage must have. Each spouse has to be there for the other in the good and bad times. The wife should find comfort and solace in the husband and the husband should find warmth and love in his wife. Be gentle with one another.
Sayyidah Safiyah radiallahu anha was on a journey with the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam. She was late so the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam received her while she was crying. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam wiped her tears with his own hands and tried his utmost to calm her down.

3) Laying in the wife’s lap.

How many times have we rested in the lap of our spouse? These gestures may seem trivial but they are the acts which bring the hearts close. The wife can sense and see the love of her husband for her in such actions. Every so often come home and just go and rest in the lap of your wife. She will appreciate this gesture greatly.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would recline in the lap of our beloved mother Sayyidah Aisha radaillahu anha even in the state when she would be menstruating. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would recite the Qur῾ān whilst reclining in his wife’s lap.

4) Combing the spouse’s hair:

This is how close a couple has to be. Love evolves and grows to such an extent that a spouse yearns to do everything for the other spouse even if it simply combing their hair. To maintain a high intensity of love, do the little things for your spouse also. Little acts have a huge psychological impact on the mind of the spouse.
Aisha radiallahu anha would comb the hair of the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam and wash his hair.

5) Drinking and eating from one place:

Do things together with your wife. Do not just eat at the same time and on the same tablecloth, but eat from the same plate. This will bond the hearts so close to one another. When everything your wife comes into contact with becomes more beloved to you than food itself, imagine the flame of love in your lives?
Aisha radiallahu anha would drink from a cup. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would take this cup and search for the place where the lips of his beloved wife made contact. Upon finding the place where his wife drank from the cup, he would put his lips on the very same place so that his lips have touched the place where her lips touched. He would then drink the contents of the cup at the same time enjoying union with his spouse. When there was meat to eat, Sayyidah Aisha radiallahu anha would take a bite. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would take the meat from her hand and again place his mouth the very same place where his wife ate from. This would add taste of love to his food.

6) Kissing:

Compliment your spouse often with kisses. When exiting the house, make it habit you leave by coming into contact with your spouse. When returning home, along with saying salām to her, show that you have missed her dearly. When she is working or busy in her household chores, surprise her with a kiss. You have to show your love. Love is the fuel of marriage; if you desire your marriage to progress, you have to express your love in every way you can.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would kiss his wife regularly. Even when he salallahu alaihi wasallam would be fasting, he would kiss his wife.

7) Lifting the morsel to her mouth.

The husband and wife should make these gentle gestures to exhibit their love and appreciation. Feed your spouse with your own hands now and then. This will rekindle the flame of love in your marriage.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam said: If you spend an amount you will be rewarded for it, even when you lift the morsel to your wife’s mouth.”

cool Assisting her in the housework:

Without being asked, if the couple help each other in day to day activities, it will make one appreciate the other. Likewise, one should try his best not to demand his/her spouse to do things too much. Whatever one can do himself, he should do. We need to be considerate of the spouse. The wife works tirelessly all day. So if the husband was to be considerate and realise his wife works hard, this will touch the wife. Likewise, if the wife was to go out of her way to see to the needs of her husband being considerate, it will induce a great spark of love between the two.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would clean and help at home. He would see to his needs himself rather than demanding his wife. He would clean and see to his clothing himself.

9)Dress for your spouse.

This is another area where many spouses fail. The wife only dresses when it is a special occasion. The husband on the hand stays scruffy and does not take care to be neat and tidy. If the couple want their everyday to be a special occasion like their wedding day, they must dress to impress!
The wife should wear the clothing which pleases her husband. Likewise, the husband should wear what the wife likes.
Sayyiduna Ibn Abbās radiallahu anhu said: “As my wife adorns herself for me, I adorn myself for her. I do not want to take all of my rights from her so that she will not take all of her rights from me because Allah, the Exalted, stated the following: “And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them.” (Qur῾ān 2 :228.)

10)Utilising perfume:

One should make an effort to smell good for his wife all the time. Looking good, keeping clean, smelling nice compliments a relationship exceptionally. Make sure you hair is tidy, your clothes are neat and you smell pleasant. This will attract your spouse always and inject affection into the marriage.
The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would have a container for perfume. He would use perfume constantly.

11) Loving & respecting their families.

Another great factor to contribute to a healthy relationship is to love and cherish the family of your spouse.
FamilyRe: See Me See Wahala by babs01(op): 12:59pm On Aug 26, 2016
EfemenaXY:
You're either gay or your story is fake. Which one is it??
nawah 4 u o read the last word
FamilySee Me See Wahala by babs01(op):
My six year old girl saw her dad climbing on a ladder to fix a bulb on the bathroom window and said 'daddy you will fall'.... Immediately my husband answered "iyalaaya e lo ma fall" (it's ur maternal grandma that will fall). Since then, my husband never accept that he has wronged me for saying that. He is still serious about it, that should he have said "iya baba e lo ma fall" ni?( it's ur paternal grandma that will fall?) Egba mi o inu nbi mi seriously ooooo. Kinni ki n se?
I'm seriously angry what should I do?
#Copied.
RomanceRe: Could She Be Cheating On Me....... Please Advice Me by babs01(m): 9:59am On Aug 19, 2016
What do I know sef
RomanceRe: Advice Me What To Do With POS Issue by babs01(m): 9:55am On Aug 19, 2016
Devil at work
Jobs/VacanciesRe: AU Youth Volunteer Corps 2016 by babs01(m): 3:04pm On Aug 18, 2016
Jobless me

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