i am a 29 year old white female from us and i having been seeing a 30 year old man from Nigeria.  he has been talking about mmarriagefrom the start and is very romantic, i noticed a lot of people on here talk about men like him trying to get citizenship, but he wants me to come to Nigeriaso we can marry there.  my friend warned me not to go because she thinks that if i do and marry him there that he will never let me leave.  i am not sure if she is right and what i should do.