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PoliticsRe: Enugu, The Pride Of The East. by backtosender: 9:54pm On Sep 20, 2014
IGBOSON1: ^^^So how do looters look? I used to think like you till i met Mr Farouk Lawan; he looks so innocent....like butter can't melt in his mouth! sad
I hope he will perform time will tell..
PoliticsRe: Enugu, The Pride Of The East. by backtosender: 7:27pm On Sep 20, 2014
I dont trust nweke jr he looks like a looter..
PoliticsRe: Anambra International Cargo/Passenger Airport (AICA) Ready In 18months - Obiano by backtosender: 7:03pm On Sep 20, 2014
ChinoElects: This is going to be bomb nwanne mu..

I pity anybody who is yet to own a land in Awka, Onitsha or Nnewi, particularly around Otuocha axis where the airport, refinery and petrochemical are being sited!

Anambra adigo mma..
You are not doing your work very well look at roads and bridges in akwa projects Obiano is executing like no 2moro

PoliticsRe: FG Planning To Swap 30 Boko Haram Commanders, Others For Chiboks Girls CNN by backtosender: 6:53pm On Sep 20, 2014
The kidnapping saga is a big lie
PoliticsRe: Abia State: This Man Is A Technocrat And Has A Huge Vision by backtosender: 5:51pm On Sep 20, 2014
No one is interested on too much talk this time around people believe in action
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Mourns Gen Adekunle by backtosender: 2:13pm On Sep 20, 2014
only time they remember adekunle is when he died SHM for SW people
PoliticsAPC Reps Aspirant, Kingsley Nkemka, Assassinated In Imo State by backtosender(op): 2:59pm On Sep 12, 2014
[b]Men suspected to be hired assassins have allegedly gunned down a Federal House Of Representatives aspirant, Kingsley Nkemka, on Tuesday at an area known as T Junction, Ohaohia Mbeiri, Mbaitoli local government of Imo State.Nkemka, who was aspiring to represent his people of Mbaitoli/Ikeduru, on the platform of the All Progressives Congress (APC) at the lower house, was said to have met his demise shortly after he attended the opening session of the state house of assembly lawmakers as a present aide of the speaker of the state’s house of assembly.

According to a statement signed by the senior special assistant on media to the speaker, Emeka Ahaneku, the victim was said to be hale and hearty before attending the session.According to the statement, Nkemka had travelled to some of the wards in his constituency in continuation of his consultation with some party leaders in the area to fine-tune his political aspiration.“Immediately after his visit, Nkemka reportedly stopped over briefly at the popular T-junction, Ohaohia Mbieri, to also meet with one of his facilitators who had desired a meeting between 8 and 9pm before the unfortunate incident.”The statement further said that, “after the meeting with his facilitator and the director-general of his campaign organisation, some hoodlums, numbering about five, suddenly showed up at the scene, kicked out his (Nkemka’s) facilitator, ransacked Nkemka’s pockets, before shooting him in the ankle. They ordered him into the booth of his Toyota car where they finally shot him at close range”.When contacted, the state police public relations officer, Andrew Enwerem, confirmed the incident, adding that the police have made some arrests in connection with the crime, while investigations are on-going.[/b]

PoliticsRe: Seun Kuti Calls Buhari An Evil Man!!! by backtosender: 8:49am On Sep 05, 2014
fela himself was only free born slave from southwest at the time or may be till date...
PoliticsRe: I’ve Given Igbo Positions They’ve Never Had – Jonathan. by backtosender: 8:42am On Sep 05, 2014
it is better that GEJ is showing igbos that SW,north never want igbos to do well in one nigeria we are practicing, my believe is that if not for GEJ in power by now nigeria could have breaking into pieces long time .It cannot go on like it use to be that could lead to another thing entirely so yorubas and northerners should thank jona for holding nigeria together.....
TravelRe: Nothing Has Changed In Ibadan (pictures Of Ibadan In 1964 And Now) by backtosender: 11:54am On Sep 04, 2014
chinazaekperem1: ibadan in the 21th century
hahahaha is this why ibadam peps dey claim lagos grin grin
PoliticsReal Traditional Anambra Marriage Chinelo And Obiora Traditional Marriage Video by backtosender(op): 2:31am On Sep 04, 2014
Igbo traditional wedding is something every igbo sons and daughters are looking upto in their lives,it is very romantic and a very special day for both inlaws....



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laW9RGlutB4



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T861jVz1eEE
PoliticsRe: Enugu, The Pride Of The East. by backtosender: 10:30pm On Sep 03, 2014
spyder880: The government is working, motor na agba n' enu na agba n' ana cheesy
Enugu is fine no be small..
PoliticsRe: The Full History Of Epkeye. (the Ikwerre & Ogba Relatives In Rivers State) by backtosender: 12:28pm On Sep 03, 2014
Ikwerreboy: Thank you boss. Leave dese fools dat hv developed oda pples state nd live der state in darkness.
ikwereboys tomorrow your new monika will be akwa-ibom boys or ijaw citizen and many more i wonder what you try to gain from all your lies claiming what you are not nawa for yoruba people
TravelRe: Owerri Is Beautiful Than Awka And Enugu, Umuahia. by backtosender: 12:09pm On Sep 03, 2014
onisha owerri rd from other angle

TravelRe: Owerri Is Beautiful Than Awka And Enugu, Umuahia. by backtosender: 12:05pm On Sep 03, 2014
onitsha owerri road and the new odo road with bridge in anambra state

TravelRe: Owerri Is Beautiful Than Awka And Enugu, Umuahia. by backtosender: 11:52am On Sep 03, 2014
Anambra roads

TravelRe: Owerri Is Beautiful Than Awka And Enugu, Umuahia. by backtosender: 11:47am On Sep 03, 2014
only 4 pixs
FamilyRe: News !!!How newly married Lola Brought Charm From Ijebu To Nnewi Anambra State by backtosender(op): 11:08pm On Sep 02, 2014
J12: Hahaha. What sort of comic tale is this?
This is a true story, It is the duty of the wife not to breeze into the family with an antagonistic stance. Rather, she should reassure her in-laws – through her words and actions – that she has not come to “take away” their son and brother or to destabilise the family, but that she has come in – like a new baby born into the family – to increase the family’s love, peace, unity and happiness.
FamilyRe: News !!!How newly married Lola Brought Charm From Ijebu To Nnewi Anambra State by backtosender(op): 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2014
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FamilyNews !!!How newly married Lola Brought Charm From Ijebu To Nnewi Anambra State by backtosender(op): 10:54pm On Sep 02, 2014
[b]When Emeka broke the news to his parents that he planned to marry a Yoruba lady, they told him that he was a joker. That would never happen, they said flatly. Was there a scarcity of nubile damsels in Nnewi and its environs or in Anambra State and the entire Igboland that their son would travel across many rivers and many states to marry a Yoruba girl from Ijebu-Ode? Or, had the girl bewitched Emeka with “otumokpo” from Ijebu-Ode? She would not succeed, they concluded. Never!Weeks after that, nothing was heard about the issue again. They assumed that the case had been closed. Emeka had come to his senses, they concluded. But had he?Two months later, like a bad dream, Emeka brought up the issue of this Ijebu girl again! This time, his tone was firm. Despite the threats of the parents, he was not cowed. He was resolute to the point of obstinacy. Even the tears of his mother did not move him. His parents concluded their son was indeed under a spell.



When it became obvious, after many months of dialogue, pressure, threats, pleas, tears and quarrels that Emeka was hell-bent on marrying Lola, his parents grudgingly gave their consent, but the father warned that nobody should run to him if the marriage went awry. The father also refused to accompany him to Ijebu-Ode for the marriage rites, saying that as an elder, it was a taboo for him to travel far away from home. It did not matter that a few months before the marriage rites, he had travelled through Ijebu-Ode on his way to Lagos.

Not only his parents were against the marriage: Out of Emeka’s three brothers and two sisters, only his younger sister was on his side. But Emeka overlooked all that and went ahead with the marriage.

When Lola came into the family, it was obvious that she was not welcomed. She was just being tolerated. Matters were not helped by the fact that Emeka had recently relocated his architecture business from Lagos to Nnewi, to take advantage of the burgeoning building industry in the town. And even though he had built his own house, it was within the same compound where his parents lived. It was a large compound: All the four sons had their portions of land within the compound, even though two of them were not based at home.

Another handicap Lola had was language: Igbo was the language of the family, but Lola spoke only English and Yoruba. So, Lola began forcing herself to speak Igbo. Any time she uttered an Igbo word or sentence, people would laugh. But her determination and sense of humour impressed everyone. She also did something that nobody around her did: she curtsied or knelt down when greeting elders, especially her husband’s parents, no matter how hard they protested against such acts. That act and her accent marked her out as a Yoruba, which made people treat her like an egg and call her “Iyawo.”

Most mornings, Lola would go early to the quarters of her husband’s parents, greet them, tidy up their rooms and collect their clothes for washing. She would ensure that Papa and Mama had their meals. She asked her mother in-law to teach her how to cook all local meals. Mama was eager to teach her, and she learnt fast. Any time Papa or Mama complained of backache, rheumatism or fever, Lola ensured that they got medical treatment. Most evenings, she would spend some time with them, either alone or in the company of her husband, before retiring to bed. Her brother in-law’s wife sneered that she was shamelessly trying to buy love with her boot-licking tactics. But Lola was not bothered about that.

Less than a year after Lola came into the family, the music changed. Emeka’s parents, especially the father, never completed a sentence without mentioning “Iyawo.” He would tell anyone who cared to listen, including the wives of his other three sons, that if it was not for Iyawo, he would have long died.

Today, Lola speaks Igbo, or rather Nnewi, like a daughter of the soil. As far as Emeka’s parents are concerned, “Iyawo” can do no wrong. Even when Emeka complains about her before his parents, they will not let him finish before warning him never to do anything that will hurt that “peace-loving girl.”

Unknown to everyone, before Lola left her parents’ home, she fortified herself for any eventuality, having known that her husband’s family were not happy about the marriage. Her parents had also done all they could to dissuade her from marrying an Igbo man, but their words fell on her like water on the back of a duck. So she knew she had a major battle to face in her new home. Failure was not an option, for if the marriage failed or proved unhappy, her parents would give her the I-told-you treatment. Consequently, before leaving for Nnewi, she boiled herself in a pot of charm. Then, she etched the charm on her face, tongue and heart. The power in the charm was meant to automatically make anyone around her to like her. Anyone she smiled at or talked to was meant to be charmed by her.[/b]

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