SPAMBOX7:
You on track comrade. As long as you don smash and you smashed good you got nothing to lose as it is. If she later make up her mind to move on las las na she go still lose cos those 3k 5k for chops she no go see am again.
And then you see her running back again to you
And then you smash and the circle goes on till the day you tired. That's how these hoes be treated but most niggas dunno. And it's good that they dunno

SPAMBOX7:
Whine am again still smash am. She fit get one useless boy wey dey chop am free but go wan use you cashout.

GOATandYAMtheory

After reading all this, I can only say you're stupid


post=94781551:
I only pity the innocent ones joining this protest cos they found others doing it. As we know, Nigeria is a country where many do things because they want to be part of a trend.

So many are on this forum praising the protesters and even encouraging people to kill SARS while they themselves are at home hiding.

Of all the things bedeviling this country, why should #endsars be of high priority if not that some professional fraudsters are behind this?

Because of these professional fraudsters, many of the opportunities to be enjoyed by some of us who wants to earn legitimate income online have been lost. You want to apply for a job online and you find out that you can't do this just because you are Nigerian. If you have had this experience before and you are joining the yahoo boys and armed robbers to call for SARS to be eradicated, you need a brain check.

Tell me what is working in the world and I will mention it's flaws to you. The fact that some SARS officers misbehave does not mean you call for the eradication of SARS. it beats logic. if you mean business, you should be calling for a complete overhaul or reform.


Mention me all you can, I will only grin @ it. This is a forum where you will see Nigerian youth defend corrupt politicians and yahoo boys openly.. so I won't be surprised when these set of people mention me to defend what they believe in.

infogenius:
Op
Ur ex is just 23 and from ur account it tells me she is not experienced.

Quitting the relationship on the grounds u outlined is not wise.
She has apologized, Kindly forgive her and take her back.

Try as much as possible to grow her into the kind of woman that you want. Even if u didn't end up marrying her, she would not forget ur impact in modelling in her future relationship.

I pray that God blesses the works of ur hands. No sane woman is comfortable when her man is struggling.

Life is not a bed of roses, so also even good relationships, so don't expect yours to be rosy. Your job is to work it out with her to get the best out of the relationship in the midst of complications.

Call her now and apologise to her for ending the relationship and take her back immediately.

All the best Bro

lordally:


Bro you are a real man and I must commend you for taking care of her eve when the resources are scarce....Funny enough , we both date the same kind of girl...when my girl didn't have a phone we would talk everyday ...no day goes without her calling me...baba this girl would go as far as borrowing 500 from Airtel just to call me....I do call her too ....but when I got her a phone upon say I no get money she hardly chats me online not because she doesn't want to but just because it's either she's watching videos on FB or YouTube ... initially I was angry until when she came to see me at EBONYI state where I was serving ...and I noticed that's what she does most of the times she's online ...she hardly chats na just videos she dey watch...so at that point I didn't get angry again cos na this same baba dey call me like craze when she been no get browsing phone.....now to the second part , we attended the same university I met her when she just entered 200L I had nothing then I was dead broke and I was squatting with a friend .

This my babe would always cook food and call me to come and eat...when ever I wanted her around , she would send money to my account in advance make that guy wey I dey squat with no know say na she dey pay the bills ...like there was a day she was to come spend like 3 days with me she sent 3K in advance so we go use take care of things when she's with me till she goes back...now the day came when she was to go back to her lodge , what was remaining was #800 I gave her #500 tell am say make she hold am make I hold #300 omo she no gree collect . She said I needed the money more I said no saying she's a lady and needs it more...she said I'm broke and I need money that she'll soon go back home while I'm still here...omo naso we begin drag am until I got pissed off and she collected the money and the next thing I saw was tears on her cheeks and she hugged me and said " BABE YOU NEVER SEIZE TO SURPRISE ME "

Now I went for service with 7K and sometime been happen and I needed money badly I was a bit ashamed to ask her cos I know say she no get so instead of calling I sent her a text...after like 3mins I just summoned courage to call her when she picked the 1st thing she said was "BAE HAVE YOU GOTTEN THE ALERT?"

So far so good she's been supportive and the good thing is she appreciates the little things I do for her and she doesn't relent in doing things for me.She sees doing things for me as her LEGITIMATE RIGHT AND RESPONSIBILITY AS A GIRLFRIEND...

NOW BRO SHES 23 AND YOU'RE 29 you don't expect her to think the same way you think you will always be more matured than her....BUT THE PROBLEM HERE IS THAT NATURALLY YOUR GIRL SEEMS TO BE SELF CENTERED AND STINGY....bro you have been doing your part as a man in the relationship and you are not asking for too much for her to just be supportive!!! BRO MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO LEAVE HER AND FORGE AHEAD!!! YES ITS PAINFUL COS LEAVING A SAFE SPOT YOU'VE BEEN USED TO FOR 3YRS bro I have a friend that dated a girl for 8Yrs this guy was suffering in the relationship for good 8yrs he was footing the bills and this his girl will never give him money until he's gonna pay back she doesn't see him if he wouldn't pay transport this same guy don pay this girl school fees like 2 times when we dey School....but if things hard for the guy the babe go dey para for am dey talk say na him be man say make in look for way fix him self ....until the guy couldn't take it anymore.

The girl had even broken up with him on 3 occasions Asin the girl was taking his meek nature for granted until he had had enough and a time came they had a little misunderstanding and she did her normal stuff by breaking up with him and my guy said that's it and he's not going back ...my guy got another girl and withing 4 months proposed to the girl now they are married ...I swear that's the best Payback ever!!!

Bro this your girl can't even help you at the time of NEED Guy RUN!!!!!!! BEFORE YOU MAKE THE GREATEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE BY MARRYING HER!!! THIS TYPE OF GIRL WOULD BE WORKING AND BE KEEPING HER MONEY AND WOULD WARRANT YOU TO OAY HER SHOP BILLS MORE LIKE YOUR MONEY IS YOU PEOPLE'S MONEY AND ITS YOUR RIGHT TO TAKE CARE OF HER COS ITS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AND HER OWN MONEY IS TOTALLY FOR HER!!! NIGGER WITH TIME YOIR PAIN WOULD GO AWAY!!! TRUST ME I'VE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES AND I'M ENJOYING MY BABE COS SHE BE JOY GIVER

BRO ABEG I GO LIKE MAKE WE TALO FOR PHONE

Fidelismaria:


<sup>just let her go bro

She doesn't deserve you

you're too good for her


it's not you, it's her


Focus on you</sup>

dairykidd:


The simple truth is that in all the 3 years u have condoned her excesses.. now what makes u believe she can change her ways genuinely now If u can continue managing her errors as a manager that's fine but if u can't and know u deserve better.. my guy move ahead and don't look back.

SHE WILL NOT CHANGE

femi4:
You want to continue to be her Maga, continue. A simp will always be a simp, they always claimed they are in love and use less of their brain

anthonyuncle:
I'm currently in a similar situation.

it is really difficult to make a decision and da most difficult fact about it is that, the decision must be made asap.

I'll advice u observe her well to know if she's really ready to change.

u may term her bad, but da next one might be worse.

u may call her good, but da next one might be better.

u see, it's a very difficult situation

Funkyswagzz:


Bro I have had such experience buh mine was worse. I was cheated on, lied to and used like a fool all because of love. I dont even know what attracted me to her. I've never in my life done half of sacrifices I made for that girl. When I want to break up with her she start begging me. She will involve friends to beg me as well. Once I forgive her she will repeat those things she did before. My friends told me to leave her buh I refused. I completely lost my true character and everything about me changed. I sat down one day and started thinking of my future with her. I made up my mind to break up with her and thank God I made the right decision. 3 months I broke up with her she went into street runs. Your babe still want enjoy her youth buh she won't leave u cause she knows u truly love her.

Just ask yourself if you are truly yourself. Compare when uve not met her and now u guys are together.. see the difference. U have to make a decision on what's best for u bro. A word is enough for the wise

pcguru1:


I will be very honest and direct with you, as a Man you cannot afford to be emotional, what you want matters, anything you don't like and can't handle better voice everything out, because woman are manipulative by nature it just depends on whether they like you alot not to. and If it's not working for you move on. I think being too emotional about it, will make you settle for anything. You are a man nau, say your mind. If my babe doesn't help me with cash I will find it strange because we are free with cash with each other. That's a selfish relationship my brother. Speak up

Funkyswagzz:


Bro I have had such experience buh mine was worse. I was cheated on, lied to and used like a fool all because of love. I dont even know what attracted me to her. I've never in my life done half of sacrifices I made for that girl. When I want to break up with her she start begging me. She will involve friends to beg me as well. Once I forgive her she will repeat those things she did before. My friends told me to leave her buh I refused. I completely lost my true character and everything about me changed. I sat down one day and started thinking of my future with her. I made up my mind to break up with her and thank God I made the right decision. 3 months I broke up with her she went into street runs. Your babe still want enjoy her youth buh she won't leave u cause she knows u truly love her.

Just ask yourself if you are truly yourself. Compare when uve not met her and now u guys are together.. see the difference. U have to make a decision on what's best for u bro. A word is enough for the wise

Ebuka78:
leave her and repair yourself. Remember that song " reason with me"

Forget gf for now, hammar money, then na dem go dey rush you. You then pick your choice.
you no see as Erica dey chase kiddwaya.

haiti007:
Your reason/reasons for quiting the relationship is not valid enough. She may have her plans for the money too. She is a finalist and that alone requires huge sums to round things up.

As a real man, you don't depend on a woman's fund. It shatters your dignity

Kylekent59:
You have turned to a beggar. Woman give guy money ..lol for where....

Just dump her and focus on yourself.

I wonder how a lady would marry a guy asking her for money.

The day onyi22 go give her boy friend 2O naira, then believe Nigeria go better one day