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See the woman infected is not even receiving any treatment as we speak

aro1:
did he had raw sex with you?

Seems he was prepared for it, he had a protection

MMotimo:
You urgently need to toughen up!
Why are you constantly playing the victim?

Lack of money caused you to cheat on your husband and now you’re on the brink (yes you are) of continuing because your oppressor considers you too poor to fight back.

Listen! Sit yourself up and talk to yourself! Are you now going to become a toy to a stray man because of N50k? You don’t fix a mistake by making another one. You tried that already and see where it got you.

Turn the tables on him! Is he texting you this nonsense or calling you on the phone? Have a record of his threats, make sure you know his workplace and tell him you will make sure his story goes viral, two can play the game. Is his job worth losing just so he can continue having sex with another man’s wife? Tell him to go and do his worst, that him and his friend who live there in Aba will see pepper. Don’t you have friends, brothers, sisters, anyone you can confide in? Let him know you have an army. Reactions like yours is what perpetuates nonsense behaviour like this. Time to fight fire with fire. Tell him if he messes you up you will do worse and disgrace him mightily. Go gangsta on him and stop doing smesme. You can be poor and still have dignity. Yes, you sacrificed your dignity the moment you started flirting with him. You got burnt and you’ve learnt your lesson. Instead of begging a predator, FIGHT BACK!

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and losing sleep while he plays cat and mouse with you. He has chopped your body and you’re still allowing him to chop your peace. N50k is not worth your peace!

As for your marriage, you and your husband need to work on it and you need to go to the streets and find work to do with your hands. Stop cheapening your body, using it as a tool for small change.

This is really want I need, thank you. He has not even showed me the video but just that pic. I have blocked him everywhere for now.

CarlosTheJackal:
What is the world turning into? An adulterous woman glorifying the act.


Idiot saying HOT SEX

I am not glorifying it

CarlosTheJackal:
So if you are in a car with a cab man and he is playing soft blues and touches you mistakenly,


You will go wet okwaya. Dindirin anumpama

It's not a fair thing to say

bogdaddy:
10k, 5k, 15k Na him make you become side chick you a married woman. Imagine say your husband come get money come get side chick how you go feel? Won’t you start ranting how you both suffered or not? Think about your foolishness, you enjoyed the sex you can’t deny it had it been he didn’t threatened you then return match for Dey nah ! No be you be the first person this thing Dey happen to. Yoruba Dey call am ojukokoro

No he wanted more but I didn't oblige him, he called me severally to come over but refused taking his calls. Then he sent threat messages

Ginaz:
Dear please you have to report him ASAP!!! That guy is a stupid man. You already had sex you wanted all along then why blackmail her?

He should be taught a horrible lesson he won’t forget in his life . If you have brothers or uncles you can trust to stand for you in place of your husband , tell them the issue on ground and let them set trap for the guy and arrest him , take him to the police station to sign an undertaking not to blackmail you.

That’s if you have the cash to pursue police matter o, cos na money dey move justice fast for this country.

My hubby is a very jealous person, I am really scared of the outcome

SammieRexx:
"Surprisingly he is tall, huge and way younger"
"We had hot sex"
Madam...You knew what you were doing all along....habits formed is very difficult to break. You can lie to yourself for all you want but you actually knew what what you were getting into and wanted the sex
How else can a married woman be demanding money from a man who is not your husband or a relative. Na fada Christmas he be?
He is not taking care of you.....madam there are women your age mates who are taking care of themselves and children....God forbid....what if somtin happens to your husband.
My advice...come out clean to your husband first of all..You owe him that and then you both can fight of the intruder (blackmailer). Wish you the best

I didn't think it was a big deal since he was far away from me. He was in PH, and he always adviced me to stand with my hubby. He gave me so many good advices , I never knew he would wanna even touch me for any reason. That was the reason I went

Yeecar:
Barbie15 What you know how to eat as finally choked you. I don't believe in all your manipulations and lies! I believe you are a coded olosho doing it underground, but you have beaten more than you can chew. I wont help you exept you come out clean to me!

I have never been an olosho even before I got married. But honestly I am always sensitive to touch whenever i am alone with a guy and there is blues music playing on the background. It arouses me, that has been my weak point.

Naomila:
you might have also had sex with him to make up for the money he sends to you. You felt like you owed him a fav. Which honestly you do. Cause why would a married woman be asking another guy for money?? Why didn't you tell your husband how you really felt bout him not working hard enough. Honestly now you're a sex slave to him till he leaves .

He gave the money cause I becam close to him and I told how broke I was to even do my hair and get some basic things for myself

CaveAdullam:
Anything for the money without considering the consequences.

1. Ask God for forgiveness.

2. Tell your husband about the situation at hand and also ask him for forgiveness. If you are sincere God will help you to tender his heart.

This will not be an easy process for your nuclear family, in-laws and extended family. But with God nothing is impossible.

3. Report every threat and blackmailing details to the police and allow them do their job. Also make sure you follow up with their investigations.

4. Find a trusted ally you can always talk to so that you won't suddenly slip into depression or something worse than that.

5. Be vigilant about your movements henceforth. That guy might go extra miles to gain his cash back in kind or whatever means. Be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.


Remember it is a process, everything takes time but we all must be considerate and patient.


Thanks.

God bless.

Thank you

J111333:
You even have the nerves to use the phrase hot sex meaning you don't regret it except for the blackmail part.

I don't have any words for you, I only pray your husband finds out sooner that he has a cheap prostitute as wife.

I have this feeling that you sent him those nude pics earlier and not the other way round, stop lying you devilish woman. You just removed some details to make it look like the whole thing was a mistake.

Shame on you.

I didn't plan for it happen, I feel disgusted

drmikeadams:
. Throway ur sim card,he won't do jack


The way una dey share ttoto these days dey give worries pass buhari matter

I am really scared, he has been calling me persistently today

dawnomike:
Just go and report to the police before he will ruin your life and make you a public disgrace... What he is trying to do is a serious crime.

NB: I have decided not to bash you over your actions for personal reasons best known to me... If God saves you from this one, I just hope you've learnt your lesson.

Thank you for not bashing me ,I have learnt my lessons. Please how do I go about this without involving my husband

chieyine:
Report him to relevant authorities before he exposes you

But my husband will find out, I am so scared..I can't even blink

Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me