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Stop blaming your leaders, blame yourselves!! You foolish visionless fearful Nigerian youth doubling as slaves!! If you knew what power you weild, what Change you could make by putting fear away, you will not be here "saying" nonsense, you will be gathering to "take" what is yours. Moronic chickens!

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

I perceive you are speaking from a much deeper perspective than most people can understand? Its either Ive percieved right, or ur reasoning just sucks! Lol. Now for those who dont get this: a crime has been committed against a fellow human, put all differences aside and address that first! Later u may settle your personals.


There's a 1997 movie called " The Edge" where a rich man discovered that his right hand man has been bonning his beloved wife all along. When he confronts the guy, the guy pulled a gun on him, insulted him and was ABOUT to shoot him not knowing that the rich man had wisely led him next to a bear trap (pit with spikes). He tripped, fell in, and broke his legs. Now, the rich guy SHOULD rejoice, then end that mothafucka, right?


No. He rescued him and tried hard to SAVE HIS LIFE!

Get the picture now?

Its no news that the media controls the world. But what may be news to you is how much you are being decieved or left in the dark. So before you "disbelieve" these things, remember that they are very private, very secret, and u won't find it on google or internet as most pple wud rather die than reveal their dark secrets to ANYONE. We ARE a judgemental society afterall, and the media does control our judgements.


That said, here are some things that are way more common than u'll ever know, even in Nigeria.



1. Inter-family sexual relations: it may sicken you think someone u know might have been involved with their sibling or cousin or nephew or niece or even parent at some point. But if ure one of those who think "Naa, such a taboo thing are u insane!" Well, sorry, but chances are right now u know a couple of pple who have been in this....could be one of ur friends, coworker, family member or hell, your partner! This secret is usually tightly sealed that even the parties involved will show NO signs whatsoever. And since its a taboo, nobody wants to talk about it- not even in media. So unless ure a wizard of instincts or Sherlock Holmes Jnr, u'll never ever guess. Thats why most pple are clueless to this common reality. Emphasis on common.



2.Virginity- while you may be fooled by everyday stories and media to think that virginity (both in male n female) is a "lost art" and that "it's so hard to come across a virgin these days" well, as with everything they touch, the media has descended on the conpept of virginity and created a false impression as well as stigma around it. The result? even those who are bonafide virgins beside you will deny it on their ancestors graves just to avoid a stigma- maybe when they come to trust u they'll tell u. Imagine a virgin guy admitting to his buddies or to a "chic" that he is a virgin- cue epic laughter!! Ironically, people who brag about it are usually the fakes trying to create an impression. Its true that virginity has declined since the new age arrived, yet it is MUCH more common than u imagine- both in male and female at whatever age.



2. Eskimo relationships- the term "Eskimo brothers" or "Eskimo sisters" refers to people who have had sex with same person. Most times u only hear of this scenario in cheating stories, but what you won't hear or read about are the ones who actually orchestrate this scenario- a sister (more common with twins) could persuade her bf into sleeping with or dating her sister also, forming a love triangle that may involve regular threesomes. Guy friends could comfortably "share" a girl that one of them is seriously dating. Partners would "permit" their spouse to have sex with---fill in the blank---for this or that reason. But u always thought these kinda things only happen in countries where pple are SICK IN THE HEAD or in fake porn! Well, sorry, its happening right under ur nose too, u just won't know cos its private and hardly would any of these CONSENTING parties talk about it. Its only NEWS if its non-consent AKA cheating. Some pple would read this and smile or blush.



3. Fidelity- just like the concept of virginity, the idea that partners can be unshakably committed to one another seems far-fetched in our modern society. After all, everywhere u turn u get news of cheating at the office, betrayal, lies and people falling for sexual temptation everyday- makes u believe fidelity is a joke! But that's the thing- MANY rich pple live a quiet life unlike the dangotes or otedolas that media promote as if the ONLY rich ones, many happy relationships with no scandals exist around u but NEVER on news or gossip headlines!

Its not only in fairy tales that lovers are willing to die for one another, and there are several couples who hav never, and never will break their marriage vows. So how wud you know them? You cant- theyre just a normal couple loving, arguing and doing their thing- only when there's a storm do u know the strength of the "ship"



3. Zoophilia/Beastiality- u know what this is?? if ure a normal human being, the thot of this alone shud give u goose bumps! Animal relationship or sex (esp. Dogs) is unimaginable and gross to most pple- but NOT all! Infact, brace urself, some pple u know right now hav either fantasized or MAYBE even engaged in secret whether just for oral pleasure or otherwise. This is a TABOO OF TABOOS plus its criminal so no kiss n tell here. For instance, there was a video on Instagram recently with a model catwalking by the pool and a huge black dog kept climbing on her back trying to pull her down as she walked, brushing the dog off. Note: that dog had a boner. Checking the comments section for other detectives- everyone kept commenting about the dog breed, the model etc. NOBODY GUESSED! You see how oblivious our society generally is? Dr. Dog has obviously been "exposed" to it at some point by owners. Dr. Dog knows what's up!

Also, heartbreak is a bastard- it can mess pple up into players, lesbians, and occasionally, zoophiles (secretly ofcourse). So how common is this? Well its not THAT common. But If pple around u are still so uncomfortable admitting to ordinary masturbation, good luck asking them if their dog is secretly "more than just a dog"



3. Pedophilia/rape- what sets this one apart is that while all others are by choice, this one is just heartbreaking! Not only is it illegal, immoral, wicked and selfish, it actually SCARS the victims for life! But If media reports one case of a man (or woman) molesting a child (either touching or full on sex), rest assured there are a hundred cases that are forever secret! Most of these victims would be unable to report these incidents to anyone out of fear or shame since the perpetrators are often FAMILY or close people. There are more female victims than male. But unless a lady trusts her partner that much, she may NEVER reveal this dark past to him for fear of judgement or losing him. But dont be fooled, Lots of people single, in relationships or happily married, have this dark past that they have successfully buried. And tho you may notice some oddities in their personality, emotions or sexual behavior, u'll probably just conclude that NOBODY IS PERFECT! It affects both male and female victims in unique ways so there's no general way to detect. (Note: even if u get to know, this is no reason to judge or leave a lover, unless the problems are unbearable for u)

Warning to serial pedophiles or rapists- U won't believe the pain u cause these people throughout their lives and relationships while u living ur dear lives somewhere. Honestly, killing you is showing you mercy!

The saddest part is how many parents, guardians and care givers are completely UNAWARE of what their wards are experiencing or have experienced at the hand of a relative/neighbor- its much more common than u think, and never assume ur people "can't do that lai lai", check your household carefully!!


Now, reader, do you feel enlightened? Leave the league of the oblivious people who think these things only happen in "other societies". When you know, you know!

There are certain situations that you may want to convince yourself that are rare, just to feel sane in this crazy world- but thats the problem: the world IS a crazy place so before you "disbelieve" these things, remember that they are very private, very secret, and u won't find it on google or internet as most pple wud rather die than reveal their dark secrets to ANYONE. We ARE a judgemental society afterall.


That said, here are some things that are way more common than ull ever know, even in Nigeria.


1. Inter-family sexual relations: its may sicken you think someone u know might have been involved with their sibling or cousin or nephew or niece or even parent at some point. But if ure one of those who thinks "Naa, this is a rare taboo thing god forbid!" Well, sorry, but chances are right now u know a couple of pple who have been in this....could be one of ur friends, coworker, family member or hell, your partner! This secret is usually tightly sealed that even the parties involved will show NO signs whatsoever. And unless ure a wizard of instincts or Sherlock Holmes Jnr, ull never ever guess. Thats why most pple are clueless to this common reality.


2. Eskimo relationships- the term "Eskimo brothers" or "Eskimo sisters" refers to people who have had sex with same person and are cool. Most times u only hear of this scenario is cheating stories, but what you won't hear or read about are the ones who actually orchestrate this scenario- a twin sisters could persuade her bf into sleeping with or dating her twin also, guy friends could comfortably "share" a girl that one of them is seriously dating, partners would "permit" their spouse to have sex with------fill in the blank. But u always thought these kinda things only happen in countries where pple are SICK IN THE HEAD or in fake porn! Well, sorry, its happening right under ur nose, u just won't know cos its private and hardly would any of these CONSENTING parties talk about it. You'll only hear when its non-consent AKA cheating.


3. Zoophilia/Beastiality- u know what this is? if ure a normal human being, the thot of this alone shud give u goose bumps. Animal relationship or sex (esp. Dogs) is unimaginable and gross to most pple- but NOT all! Infact, brace urself, some pple u know right now hav either fantasized or MAYBE even engaged in secret. This is a TABOO OF TABOOS plus its criminal so u know u'll never know. But there was a video on Instagram recently with a model catwalking by the pool and a huge black dog kept climbing on her back trying to pull her down as she walked, brushing the dog off. Note: that dog had a boner. Checking the comments section for other detectives- everyone kept commenting about the dog breed, the model etc. NOBODY GUESSED! You see how oblivious our society generally is? That dog, the owner, much money, experiments, figure it out!
Also, heartbreak is a bastard- it can mess pple up into players, lesbians, and occasionally, zoophiles (secretly ofcourse). Now how common is this? Well If pple are uncomfortable admitting to common masturbation, good luck asking if their dog is "more than just dog"


3. Pedophilia/rape- this one is just heartbreaking! Not only is it illegal, immoral and selfish, it actually SCARS the victims for life! But If u hear of one case of a man (or woman) molesting a child (could be touching or full on sex), rest assured there are a hundred cases that are forever secret! Most of these victims would be unable to report these incidents to anyone out of fear or shame since the perpetrators are often FAMILY or close people. There are more female victims than male. But unless a lady trusts her partner that much, she may NEVER reveal this dark past to him for fear or judgement or losing him. But dont be fooled, Lots of people single, in relationships or happily married, have this dark past that they have successfully buried. And tho you may notice some oddities in their personality, emotions or sexual behavior, u'll probably just conclude that NOBODY IS PERFECT! (Note: this is no reason to judge or leave a lover anyway, unless the problems are unbearable for u)

Warning to potential pedophiles or rapists- killing you would be having mercy o you. U can't imagine pain u cause these people throughout their lives and relationships.

austyn0:
Do not view it that way,,It depends on the kinda relationship with the girl...

I have this female friend that is engaged while living at the northern part of the country,, more like a crony...She undresses in my presence and dresses half unclad while we chat,, I only look at something else while she pulls off her dress,, she trusts me to that extent...

Some things are just meant to be overlooked.

Errmm...did u just say she's engaged?? And she's that loose with her fiance's privacy?? Thats not trust, that's irresponsibility! I wonder what people even consider "relationship" these days.

Anyway, Bro u sound decent enough to look away as u say, but I would expect that u caution that behavior for the sake of the mystery fiance. I mean, would u be okay with ur own fiance doing that with one of her "cronies"??

PLEASE LETS BE RESPONSIBLE!

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glozor:
Please any ideal, a friend of my in Canada is asking what is marketable Nigeria

To advice you to import cars or goods is not very wise now due to customs clearance and all the drama involved. Also, your friend shud have first told u what n what he/she can easily afford there, then u ask if its marketable here or not.


However, if you have the energy to "sell" then it means ure not afraid to talk to people! If this is true, lemme advice u to tell ur friend to send u money instead, you register urself and ur friend, strap ur boots, and begin earning for both of you in much more substantial (and permanent) way. Its like building a mansion that u are to live in. I can show u how it works since my friend and I are currently in it anyway. Its easier for some pple than others, depending on how social u are or how many pple u know. Pm me to see if it wud be ur thing too.

Don't let anyone bring you down...