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Uniquexty:
Sad thing about this whole publicity stuff is anybody seeing her will be replaying the whole video in his/her head. Award or no award. The memory of her black something with cucumber sticks

Escaping from the eyes of those who have a sticky brain is best for her but l believe the publicity is enough. She's got some life ahead of her but off the streets of Nigeria.

adaksbullet:
so?? I'm I do complane too u?

Hit his a completement l talk. She his not long?

She his long

Oh! No

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Otapipia:
Hey hey hey, I am not a guy bro. I wish you knew better you wouldn't have used that prefix for me. If you think I have been contradicting myself, then I really question your sense of judgment. Anyways, it was nice arguing with you until you called me a guy. Good luck.

Lol

Otapipia:
An opinion that seem to have crossed the line should be rebuked. Now I sense anger your response. It is OK. Have a wonderful time ahead.

I do not have anger issues guy and you have been contradicting yourself all day. What line did my opinion cross and how did my positive opinion as believed by you crossed path with yours? You are yet to answer that question.

Otapipia:
If it wasn't negative in your opinion why did you advise him against it. Or do you want to take back your advise as a gentle man that you've proved to b thus far?

Yes, in my opinion, it is and l believe everyone is entitled to his opinion. Since it is positive for you, you would have stuck to yours and not interfered with mine. Isn't it that easy, or should my opinion be questioned by your opinion?

Otapipia:
If your advise was positive I wouldn't be here exchanging words with you.

You said you see no negativity in being polygamous which implies that l didn't give a negative advise after all...Or isn't that what you said?

Otapipia:
Because you gave him a wrong advise.

And when did a "positive" advise become wrong?

Otapipia:
Because you advised to chap not to take after his father in that direction.

And it is a direction you see nothing wrong with right? Then, why are you crossed with me?

Mayflowa:
Actually, it goes both ways. Did u read the story. The husband made a mess of her llife. Physically and emotionally abuse her, render her homeless, denied her from seeing her children. Sold their home 85million with nothing for her. These are the remote and immediate unreasonable action of hers.

We need to review marriage law in Nigeria. Women are bing killed slowly with no action and sympathy from any of us. You don't wanna know a million more wives going through worse conditions. Nigeria women are really good in my opinion

So all that equals a man's life

Otapipia:
As if he does not already know his father's past escapades. I don't even agree that a man who chooses to be polygamous should be viewed negatively as your advise to the young man suggests. The fact that you aren't polygamous doesn't make it evil. After all said and done, Tubaba as he is fondly called is an epitome of success on almost every conceivable front of life. He ended up a wonderful family man, a school dropout who has managed stamp his feet positively in the sand of time and above all good father to his children. That is the side of Tubaba I will always highlight and not how he made children from different women

If you don't see polygamy as an evil, then, why did you attack my "positive" advice?

Otapipia:
Celebrating negativity at the expense of positive side of life is what this whole argument is about. I will rather stick to the positive side of life and confine the negative side to my memory for guidance sakes. I will never at the slightest opportunity highlight negative events where there are plethora of positive moments to relish.

How is an advice against a bad situation make you celebrate the situation As a child and having agreed that you only put those negatives in your memory, isn't it what my advise was meant to do, leave it in his memory and allow him draw the right path?

Otapipia:
Yeah it exists but dwelling on it gives an impression that you don't see life positively.

Dwelling on it is what you wouldn't do all your life. Tackling it is what is necessary. But you can not pretend it doesn't exist and only focus on the good side of life.

Piteous generation where a woman could wish the husband death and also make plans to make true her wish.

Otapipia:
It is better if we stop looking at life through negative lenses.

Pretend as if it is never there right, tuck your hands into your pockets and just take a walk in streets made of gold?

The body dies but the soul lives on

Otapipia:
Bottom line, be positive about life and don't maintain a pessimistic posture when issues of life confront you.

The issues of life are in the negative right? So, how can you defeat what you do not know or will you just fold your hands and be optimistic? You defeat the negativity and that's why we struggle to survive.

Kk

Otapipia:
Eyaaaaa, unfortunately he won't get to see it. Why don't you just locate him physically and tell him. I advise you start on a positive note otherwise you may not leave there in one piece. Lol

Whether he sees it or not, it isn't an issue to deliberate on. Even life doesn't start on the positive, it comes with pain. lf you can know and face the negative, you end up appreciating positives. Now, when you hear, no gain without pain, how do you pass through the pain to get to the gain

Otapipia:
Why didn't the good one follow your initial outburst.

Because the choice that disturbs me for him is the one l mentioned

Otapipia:
You should have at least started with the good side.

And you could spill news any which way you want. The good news first or the bad. Choice, it is a matter of.

Otapipia:
I am concerned because I always need you to highlight the positive sides of situations rather than their downsides.

And in this light, would you not advise him on the evils of trailing negative footsteps or will you be one who will teach your child only the good side of things without telling him how a bad mistake can tarnish good reputations?

Otapipia:
Life is a choice, the boy can decide not to tow his father's Lane if he chooses. Tuface's late father wasn't a polygamist so your point that polygamy exist in their blood line is baseless. More so, your alleged advise to the young man ends on this forum and not beyond.

So, why then are you bitter about the advise since you know it ends here? What does it change for you?

Different strokes for different folks.


Wouldn't know the appropriate answer, haven't dealt with even 1% of the female population.

#Peace

Otapipia:
Is it not also obvious that his dad is a music icon and a hard working man? Why didn't you advise him to take after his father in that respect? Don't fool me, I can spot bad Belle from a distance. Be a good boy

Being a musician is by choice. There are so many people who wouldn't want to be because they have chosen something else or prefer another.


But truth be told, what is in the blood is better advised against than what could be achieved.

That'd be an improved variety of cassava stem plus a fertile land.


But OP, you can't differentiate yam from cassava?

Otapipia:
You stop judging because I know you're not any better.

What judgment is needed in what is an obvious fact? You can't recognize an advice