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blamelessly:
My Fiance gets easily upset. Two days ago he called me early in the morning. He spent 25minutes chatting with me on the phone. At d end of the call, I told him that this was the first time he had spent this long talking to me on phone. He got angry and said I just love to ruin everything, he cut the line. I tried calling him back severally to apologise but he won't pick. I've sent him numerous text apologising, still no response. He is still not picking his calls now. He is still angry. It’s starting to get me worried. Can I live with this everyday begging for forgiveness over little things that don't really matter?

Naustine:
This shit killed.my girl earlier this year.. God rest her soul.. it's either hormonal issue or something to do with her blood not having formation.. and if she's been taking all those concoction stuffs...all those ginger, tumeric bla bla bla tell her to stop asap..and seek medical attention.
I've forgotten the exact name now, I don't want to go search my chat with my late babe to get it..not ready for that emotional torture now. But man seek medical help asap

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KDOniyide:
SHE’S NOT JUST INTO YOU

.. before you go down on one kneel

Every time I see a marriage proposal get rejected, I ask myself one question:

How did they get here?

Then I have another thought:

This can never be me.

Not because I think I'm better than anyone else. Not because I believe rejection cannot happen to me.

It is because I believe you should know long before the ring comes out whether the woman you're about to propose to actually wants you.

A rejected proposal is rarely the beginning of the rejection.

She probably rejected you months ago.

You just didn't hear it.

Or perhaps she never said it with words. Maybe she said it with her attitude, her silence, her inconsistency, her lack of excitement, her disappearing acts and her unwillingness to build anything meaningful with you.

You simply refused to read the signs.

And sometimes, a woman says yes to a proposal she doesn't really want simply because she doesn't want to embarrass the man in front of family and friends.

She smiles.

She cries.

She wears the ring.

Everybody celebrates.

Then reality begins.

Some of those engagements never make it to the altar. And the ones that somehow crawl there sometimes end before the marriage has even had a chance to breathe.

The problem was never the proposal. The problem was that the relationship was already broken.

GO FOR THE ONE WHO WANTS YOU

This is one thing I tell men:

Go for the woman who wants you.

Yes, women like to be pursued. But there is a huge difference between pursuing a woman who is interested and chasing a woman who isn't.

A man must know when to push and, more importantly, when to stop.

If she says no, respect it.

If she doesn't say no but everything about her behaviour screams "no," respect that too.

Don't turn yourself into a motivational speaker trying to convince someone to love you.

Love isn't a courtroom. You shouldn't have to argue your case.

If you have to constantly convince her that you're worthy of her attention, imagine what you'll have to do to keep her after she finally says yes.

You'll spend the relationship trying to maintain a position you were never naturally given.

That's exhausting.

And, eventually, it destroys a man's confidence.

I DON'T RUSH TO DATES

For me, it's different.

I don't rush to meet a woman.

Before I go on a date, I want us to have had a really good conversation over the phone.

I want to hear your thoughts.

Your humour.

Your fears.

Your ambitions.

Your worldview.

I want to know whether we can actually talk.

Because if we cannot create chemistry through conversation, why would I believe two hours across a restaurant table will suddenly create magic?

Some people, of course, are terrible on the phone but amazing in person.

If that's you, then don't rush the date.

Build the anticipation.

Create enough chemistry for her to look forward to seeing you.

That's the point.

By the time we meet, I don't want us still asking:

"What's your favourite colour?"

"What's your favourite food?"

"What do you do for fun?"

We've probably covered those already.

My dates are for deeper conversations—the things we couldn't comfortably discuss over the phone, perhaps because trust hasn't developed enough yet.

I take my time building chemistry.

And I've discovered something:

The dates where the chemistry wasn't established beforehand usually ended much faster.

READ THE ROOM

If you're talking to a woman and she looks completely uninterested in what you're saying, stop talking.

Seriously.

Stop.

Don't keep performing.

Don't start telling her about your car, your money, your connections, your achievements and the number of people who want you.

She may eventually agree to go on a date with you.

But don't confuse "yes to a date" with "yes to you."

She might simply want to wear that beautiful dress that's been sitting in her wardrobe for three years.

She might be bored.

She might want company.

She might simply want to get out of the house.

And yes, you could get lucky and spark a chemistry she didn't know existed.

But that's the exception, not the strategy.

There is also a possibility that while you're sitting across the table explaining your five-year plan, she's texting another man who isn't even giving her attention.

You may be fighting for a position she has already given to someone else.

PATIENCE IS ATTRACTIVE

One of the most underrated qualities in relationships is patience.

Take your time.

Don't rush.

Don't panic because she hasn't responded.

Don't chase because she cancelled.

Don't suddenly start buying expensive gifts because you think money will manufacture affection.

And don't assume that losing one woman means you've lost your last chance at love.

If she leaves, let her leave.

Another woman will come.

Unless, of course, you're not looking for love.

If you're only after the skirt, then that's another conversation entirely.

Interestingly, many women I've met online have been the ones who wanted to meet me.

They initiated the dates.

They were eager.

They looked forward to meeting.

That's why I'm always puzzled when men tell me stories about women constantly cancelling dates, postponing meetings and disappearing.

Women are not mysterious creatures.

They have eyes.

They have ears.

They can feel.

They can observe.

They know when they're attracted to someone.

You don't have to perform a miracle to make a woman want you.

Sometimes, she simply does.

SHE MAY SIMPLY NOT BE INTO YOU

If she never answers your calls...

If your messages remain unanswered...

If she takes forever to respond...

If you're always the one starting the conversation...

If every attempt to meet becomes another excuse...

Please stop calling it "mixed signals."

Sometimes, the signal isn't mixed.

You just don't like the message.

And if you somehow force the date to happen, you may spend the evening talking to yourself.

She may keep checking her phone.

She may leave early.

She may suddenly develop an "emergency."

And you will sit there wondering what went wrong.

Nothing went wrong.

She didn't want to be there in the first place.

KNOW WHEN YOU'RE OUT OF HER LEAGUE

Another uncomfortable truth is that sometimes a woman won't give you attention because you don't meet her standards.

Financially.

Academically.

Spiritually.

Intellectually.

Emotionally.

Physically.

Or simply in terms of lifestyle.

That doesn't make you a bad man.

It doesn't make her a bad woman.

It means you're probably not compatible.

And you need enough self-awareness to accept that.

Because endlessly pursuing someone who doesn't see you as her equal can slowly destroy your confidence.

Rejection isn't always an insult. Sometimes it's information.

Use it.

Improve yourself.

Move forward.

And find someone whose standards and expectations align with what you bring to the table.

I'm going to write another article later on how to land a six-figure woman.

But before that, men need to understand something much more important:

You cannot negotiate attraction.

THE RING DOESN'T CREATE LOVE

Many women want to get married.

But they want to marry the right man.

And sometimes, that man isn't necessarily the man they currently love the most.

You may be financially right for her.

You may be psychologically right for her.

You may fit the picture she has created in her head.

You may even be the man her family considers perfect.

So you save for the most expensive ring you can afford.

You plan the perfect proposal.

You kneel down.

You ask the question.

And she says yes.

But here's the uncomfortable question:

Does she actually want a life with you, or does she simply want the life you represent?

Because marriage today is not always purely about romance.

It can be transactional.

It can be practical.

It can be emotional.

It can be financial.

It can be social.

And sometimes, it is all of these things at once.

That's why before you propose, you need to have uncomfortable conversations.

Not just:

"Do you love me?"

Ask:

"What kind of life do you want?"

"Where do you want to live?"

"Do you want children?"

"How do you see finances working?"

"What does marriage mean to you?"

"What are your ambitions?"

"What are mine?"

"Do our lives actually fit?"

Because love without alignment can become a very expensive mistake.

DON'T PROPOSE TO A FANTASY

Look at your relationship in the months leading up to the proposal.

Not the relationship you wish you had.

The relationship you actually had.

What was she like?

Was she excited about your future?

Did she talk about building with you?

Did she ask questions about your plans?

Did she include you in hers?

When marriage came up, did her face light up?

Or did she suddenly become quiet?

Wedding excitement is difficult to fake.

When a woman genuinely sees a future with you, conversations about that future usually produce excitement.

If you're the only one dreaming about the wedding, you're not planning a wedding.

You're planning a fantasy.

So ask questions.

Not necessarily, "Will you marry me?"

Ask questions that reveal your position in her life.

Listen carefully.

Watch her actions.

Pay attention to the things she doesn't say.

Because assumptions are dangerous.

Never assume she loves you because she loved you yesterday.

She may have loved you a year ago.

She may have loved you last month.

She may have loved you last week.

But people change.

Feelings change.

Circumstances change.

And sometimes, love leaves quietly before the person finds the courage to announce its departure.

That's why I don't believe the proposal should be the moment you discover whether she wants you.

The proposal should be the confirmation of something you already know.

You shouldn't be kneeling in front of a woman hoping she says yes.

You should already know.

Because before the ring...

Before the flowers...

Before the photographer...

Before the family gathers...

Before you get down on one knee...

she has already answered you—with her words, her actions, her consistency, her excitement and the way she responds to the thought of a future with you.

The real question isn't:

"Will she say yes when I propose?"

The real question is:

"Why am I proposing to a woman whose answer I'm not already sure of?"

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My girlfriend supposed to see her menstruation on July 1, so the menstruation came and stopped the second day. Then on the 14th of July. Menstruation came again and lasted for 6 days., that 14th July supposed to be her fertile window.

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Although I started my journey into yahoo a few months ago having been introduced to it by some of old friends I met. I have decided to quit. Reasons are

1. I have reasons to believe my guys are diabolical and its only a matter of time before the introduce me into that aspect. I don't want to ever try that type of thing

2. It is distracting. I mean most of us are graduates and the type of creativity we use to scam people can be used for something good instead. I had many plans after graduation now I don't bother pursing them anymore. I have also stopped job hunting all because of yahoo

3. A lot of innocent people are caught up in the scam. For instance instead of receiving the yahoo money directly , my guys usually go to shop or mall to buy something. At the end of the day it's an innocent person that is implicated. Sometimes it's a stolen account atm card or they just deceive an innocent person to use and receive the scam money.

4. Wasting of money from yahoo. The money never last. Its like blood money something before you know it it has finished and you don't even know what you used it for.

I have decided to dust my certificate and hustle for a job. Thank God I haven't gone far.

I have also prayed to God that if I get a job I will use my part of my salary to pay some of my victims, some on nairalnad and on Facebook back even if its part by part so I can have a clear conscience now and forever.

So help me God

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My passport was delivered today and I was heartbroken when I saw the refusal letter.

I won't deny, I am really pained.

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Germaineus:
There's this tenant that my late dad had..you see my late dad handled his property flimsily..he wasn't giving receipts for every payment..now we have gone for reconciliation in his property..and a particular tenant said he paid rent to my dad till 2030..my elder brother met him and asked him for proof for that..he is dancing my brother around since last year..we have arrested the mumu severally but the police ain't doing anything worthwhile.. dunno what to do.. after the last arrest we were told to come back to the police station tomorrow Tuesday..if nothing reasonable comes out of that meeting.. what should we do?

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It's rare, but it happens... Back in 1955, two racist white South Africans also conceived a black child by the name of Sandra Laing... She eventually ended up eloping with a black Swati man as a teenager as she couldn't assimilate herself with her family's Afrikaner culture and hatred towards black people, which led to the family disowning her.

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