Tunzdomains: Dear Nairalanders and well-meaning Nigerians on this great platform,I am writing this to cry out for assistance and to create a public record regarding a transaction with a well-known moniker on this platform, Bigkoko, who also runs Calm Travels. In June 2024, I contacted him based on a thread he posted here advertising services for a German Sponsorship Letter (Verpflichtungserklärung). After our discussions, I paid him the sum of €1,000 (One Thousand Euros) in July 2024 to execute the service.Unfortunately, he failed to secure the sponsorship letter. After he confirmed he could not deliver, I requested a full refund. The Issue:Since March 2025, he has given me a continuous series of broken promises, shifting dates, and unfulfilled deadlines to return my money. At one point, he completely changed his WhatsApp number, leaving me unable to contact him for months until I managed to source his new number back on this platform. To date, he is still holding onto my €1,000 and giving endless excuses.I have complete records of our WhatsApp conversations spanning from 2024 to present, bank proofs of payment, and all relevant transaction details. [b]My Request:[/b]I am appealing to the Nairaland community, the moderators, and anyone who knows Bigkoko (Calm Travels) to prevail upon him to return my hard-earned money. If you have successfully recovered funds from him before or have advice on the best legal/administrative steps to take against his business entity, please share it with me.
Goo0dHardDick: If you do everything all the time to impress women while neglecting your own needs and health, be rest assured you'll die before your time.
Women are not and will never be loyal to your sacrifices no matter how much you think you have sacrificed for her. Simply put, your sacrifices means absolutely NOTHING to a woman.
Yesterday a business colleague told me of his friend who lives close to him, they met on Saturday and on Sunday morning he heard he was dead! Just like that!
Please men, take care of yourself, eat healthy, exercise and stay safe. learn to put yourself first! Choose yourself first in everything, esp over a woman. That girl you're always trying to impress, buy things for, send money to, etc will never choose you if she was in your shoes.
Understand this, whatever you refused to do for a woman, there's a man somewhere willing to do it for her and even much more! Just don't be that man!
OlaleyeCast: Nigerian dancer Poco Lee has broken his silence following his release from detention in the United Kingdom, insisting that he did not commit the alleged offence and telling men to spend “18 hours” of their daily lives fearing women.
Poco Lee made the remarks during a video call with social media activist VeryDarkMan, VDM, while speaking about his experience and the support he received during the situation.
“I was being myself, God sees my heart, my only worries out there was my people,” he said.
He said he would have accepted the situation if he had actually committed the alleged offence, but maintained that he did nothing wrong.
guobe: Two brilliant and honest chaps from nairaland are already teaching some kids from nairaland. I am quite impressed with their work etiquette. With time it will be expanded so rest more people can benefit. Thanks and God bless.
Crime › Re: Bigkoko (calm Travels) Holding My €1,000 Germany Visa Refund Since 2025 by Bayoonanuga: 8:33am On Sep 15
