Investment › Money Matter by Bearfruit(op): 11:16am On Jun 25 |
Abeg who don hear about NRC investment how legit is it? Please help a sister.....!!! before I dive into boiling oil. |
Investment › How True Is This by Bearfruit(op): 10:02am On Jun 25 |
Good morning everyone.i need enlightenment on this nrc investment how true is it has anyone tried putting any real money into it and any info on how long it exists.NRC Earning.. |
Agriculture › Re: Governor Bago Feeds Herd Of Spotted Deer In His Livestock Farm by Bearfruit(f): 9:51am On Jun 06 |
bizzibodi: Why do they care for their animals than people of their state,why? it's simple because they are beast themselves. |
Family › Re: Based On Your Current Life , Will You Like To Chose Your Parent In Ur Next Life by Bearfruit(f): 8:50am On Apr 14 |
No I will rather not be birth by my current parents, though no reborn. |
Phones › Re: What Do You Guys Really Do With Your Phone? by Bearfruit(f): 7:36pm On Jan 26 |
stan4b: I use my phone to do all of my crypto trading, and this year alone, my phone have given me more than 2 million naira. how much loss... |
Crime › Re: ICPC Arraign El-Rufai’s Associate, Amadu Sule Over ₦311 Billion Money Laundering by Bearfruit(f): 9:27am On Jan 14 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Fought For Your Life? by Bearfruit(f): 3:03pm On Jan 08 |
MONEY247: Almost every night...... Something like spirit just suddenly makes me unresponsive to my immediate environment....
It's like this for many many years u need deliverance. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is This December Unusual Or Is Harmattan Gradually Disappearing? by Bearfruit(f): 7:18pm On Dec 24, 2025 |
whether we like it or not the earth will fade.the future is the new heaven and the new earth pray your way there!!!!!! |
Politics › Re: I Am The Madman Nigeria Needs - Wike by Bearfruit(f): 10:11pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
Clone man |
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Romance › Re: The Relationship Reset: What Happens When You Remove Sex And Money? by Bearfruit(f): 12:09pm On Dec 10, 2025 |
Interesting... |
Business › Re: Sudeep Dalamal Ramnani: Is He The Richest Indian Man In Nigeria? by Bearfruit(f): 2:45pm On Dec 01, 2025 |
hmm |
Family › Re: Five Important Dresses A Woman Should Wear In Her Lifetime by Bearfruit(f): 2:05pm On Nov 27, 2025 |
As good as it looks hypocracy lies beneath... Hmmm some have eliminate innocent precious lifes by killing babies just to appeal to so called standards invented by who? |
Politics › Re: 'We Will Kidnap President Tinubu In Days Ahead' – Bandit Commander Brags by Bearfruit(f): 8:37am On Nov 25, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Tenant Rights 2025 : Tenants Now Get 5 New Legal Rights by Bearfruit(f): 9:12pm On Nov 12, 2025 |
Hope it works |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Defeats ISWAP In Deadly Clash: Over 100 Killed (Photos, Video) by Bearfruit(f): 9:21pm On Nov 11, 2025 |
I laugh in Jamaica...hmm! terrorist to kill terrorist who are you deciving. |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Gets 48-hour Ultimatum To Accept Regina Daniels’ Returned Bride Price by Bearfruit(f): 3:09pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
which one be return of bride price.....do they return bride price.hmmm |
Politics › Re: We Are Going To Do Things Nigeria Won’t Be Happy About - Trump by Bearfruit(f): 3:06pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
U .S government is broke and want to loot Nigeria,well when as a racist care about black,plus christian for mouth...trump if your intention is evil u shall not suceed |
Celebrities › Re: Old Post Of Regina Daniels Mocking EndSARS Protesters Surfaces by Bearfruit(f): 3:02pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
Love is the Greatest |
Business › Re: Naira Broke A Major Rule In October by Bearfruit(f): 9:08am On Nov 05, 2025 |
who is the woman that was freed after year of killing her husband. Well....osinachi husband was hanged for no concrete evidence of murdering his wife.leaving the children to be orphan.wicked world full of lies & injustice. |
Family › Re: Lawyers In The House Gather Here Please. by Bearfruit(op): 5:52pm On Sep 19, 2025 |
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Family › Lawyers In The House Gather Here Please. by Bearfruit(op): 2:43pm On Sep 17, 2025 |
Good afternoon everyone, hope your day is great.well I got into a house 3 months now. And am told the owner wants to demolish the house to raise a new structure and will be giving us 3 months to look for another apartment. Is this done anywhere,I mean I spent money to transport to this house. I won't collect a refund,I won't leave either till my rent expires which is not convenient either... Lawyers please,I need your take on thi.plus your dm if I would be needing to handle court case. The oppression in this country is choking |
Family › Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Bearfruit(f): 1:51pm On Sep 17, 2025 |
Chilipepper: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men Weed at work no wonder!!!! |
Food › Re: Hilda Baci Awarded Guinness World Record For Largest Pot Of Jollof Rice by Bearfruit(f): 8:45pm On Sep 15, 2025 |
What is chef chi doing |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Silent Battles Husbands Fight In Marriage (but Never Talk About) by Bearfruit(f): 2:21pm On Sep 15, 2025 |
Kalatium: People think men are “rock solid.” Strong. Unshaken. Providers who feel no pain. Truth? Many husbands are fighting battles they’ll never confess. Silent struggles that eat deep into them and, if ignored, can damage a marriage.
Why don’t men talk? 👉 Society says “man up.” 👉 They don’t want to look weak. 👉 Or they don’t want to stress their wives.
But silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind that calm face, here are 10 battles most husbands secretly fight in marriage:
1. Pressure to Provide Bills pile up, business slows, yet he must smile and act like all is fine. Inside? Shame and fear. 📖 “But if any provide not for his own… he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Timothy 5:8 )
2. Fear of Losing Respect Sarcasm, comparisons, and ridicule wound him more than most women realize. Respect is oxygen to a man. 📖 “…and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)
3. Loneliness (Even at Home) He misses attention when his wife is too consumed with work, kids, or activities. 📖 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
4. Quiet Struggle With Temptation Yes, even good men wrestle with thoughts they may never admit. 📖 “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41)
5. Shadow of Failure Every man wants to be his wife’s hero. When life knocks him down, silence hides his pain. 📖 “…David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.” (1 Samuel 30:6)
6. Bottled Emotions Society says “men don’t cry,” so he bottles stress, anxiety, and grief, no wonder mem die early. 📖 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)
7. Comparison Pressure Seeing friends “doing better” quietly makes him feel less. 📖 “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves…” (2 Corinthians 10:12)
8. Work vs. Family Guilt Struggling to balance being present with providing. 📖 “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
9. Fear of Losing Love He wonders: “Will she still love me if I grow old, broke, or sick?” 📖 “Charity never faileth…” (1 Corinthians 13:8 )
10. Spiritual Insecurity When his wife seems more prayerful or dedicated, he may feel inadequate. 📖 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)
The truth is this: Husbands may look strong, but they bleed silently. Wives, when you understand these battles and respond with love, respect, and support, you don’t just heal your husband — you fortify your marriage.
📖 “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
👉 What do you think? Why do men hide their struggles, and what can wives do differently?
Women do you agree men go through these battles? may God help all responsible men. |
Education › Re: Top 5 Reasons Education Is Still The Best Investment In 2025 by Bearfruit(f): 1:07pm On Sep 10, 2025 |
educate your soul too with spiritual food "the good word of God" that can save your soul. |
Agriculture › Re: What's The Real Name Of This Fruit? by Bearfruit(f): 1:02pm On Sep 10, 2025 |
I love it when I was young I love it still,but it's not common here. |
Politics › Re: Fulani Man Values Cows Over Human Lives – CDS Musa by Bearfruit(f): 12:58pm On Sep 10, 2025 |
Cow is their money....we all know what value is placed on money over human. |
Celebrities › Re: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by Bearfruit(f): 4:25pm On Aug 29, 2025 |
She did not have to open breast and ass in pre photo for the pic to look beautiful😘 |
Education › Re: Contraceptive Implant: A Growing Moral Challenge Among Secondary School Girls by Bearfruit(f): 5:31pm On Aug 22, 2025 |
Childhood and Youth are Vanity,if you like do just about anything with your body that is your palaver... Remember you will be Judged by what you do,how you do.
I am bought with a price may non of my bodily Members be yield as Instrument for unrighteousness in Jesus name Amen. |
Business › Re: Which Of These Contributes Most To Poverty? by Bearfruit(f): 10:44pm On Aug 21, 2025 |
Gerrard59: There is nothing like love. Even if there is, love cannot exist in a poor society. People who lack basic needs cannot love. It's not in them to love. Love cannot thrive in hunger. Speak for your self!!!! |
Business › Re: Which Of These Contributes Most To Poverty? by Bearfruit(f): 10:31pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
franchasng: In as much as I agree with your comment I put on bold to an extent, but you cannot still take away the below factors as the major source of mass poverty in Nigeria:
Waiting for magic/miracle Blaming others Comfort zone Having too many dependents Early marriage Having too many kids Refusing to take some risks to break-even out of fear of failure Marrying for love Consecutive bad governments (President) Keeping the wrong friends so one should marry for money not love? |