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bukatyne:
Happy mother's day.

1. Apart from his poverty, why else did you marry him?

2. Do those reasons till exist?

3. What causes the malice?

4. What do you want from him? For yourself?

Hmmmm,
i married him because prophets (about 5 different prophet) told me he's my husband and I will regret it if I did not marry him.

LilMissFavvy:
You know he spends money on his galffriends, yet you don't ask him for money, are you making sense? You should have utilized every opportunity by draining him financially and making savings for yourself. You want to kill yourself because of an evil husband, so that your children will suffer in the hands of his mistresses? You think you are the only woman in a bad marriage? Sensible women in bad marriages save their lives and that of their kids, rather than kill themselves. Stay alive for your kids, even if you don't win the custody of your kids, your kids will always look for you in future, I do not believe you love your children otherwise you would never think of suicide. Go for a mental evaluation as well, maybe you are running out of sanity. If you like lock yourself up from people who are ready to offer you happiness, if you like, divorce and don't date or remarry, that's your business. If you have chosen the bitter part of life for yourself, nobody can help you.

Thank you ma. I decided not to ask him money so that he wont increase the maltreatment am receiving from him

I married this man 10 yrs ago and i have never enjoy the marriage even for one day. He had nothing when I got married to him because I believe everything will be fine if both of us join hands together and work hard. I wish I married a rich man that is giving me all I want and maltreating me as the one I married is treating me.
Several times I have knelt down to beg him for offence I did not commit just for peace to reign. I hate malice and he likes it alot. He can keep malice for 6months without talking to me. I know I have made the gravest mistake of my life because this is not the marriage I prayed for. I wanted a friend as a husband but God gave me a boss that always see me as subordinate. I don't ask him money even when I know he has numerous girlfriend that he's spending for. He always defend his girlfriends anytime I challenge them. Honestly am dying slowly, i decided to end it all last year by taking poisonous liquid but I survived. Am just so lonely and I don't want to cheat, honestly I don't want to. Am trapped already and he told me I can't take his 2 kids away because I told him I want to go and get apartment. My kids are my life and I can't leave them.
I know there are lots of responsible married people here, please is this what marriage all about

most people are still marriage because of their children

Am ossy from enugu state but live in Lagos. Married with 2 handsome boys but in a loveless marriage. I have prayed, do lots of things to make it work but it is not just working. life is too short to remain with a man who only see me as nobody and baby production machine. I need a male friend above 35yrs. Must be responsible
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Do love exist at all? can someone genuinely love another person without expecting something in return? Am married and have kids. My kids love me so much and I think they are the only people showing me that genuine affection. In my next world, I don't pray to ever meet the type of my husband let alone having anything to do with him. He's my worst nightmare. but is it so difficult to find true love?

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