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PoliticsNatasha Finally Found On Seat She Rejected, "Seems The Injustice Finally Stand" by Benbellamor(op):
After losing 6 months salaries plus constituency allocations running into billions

Has the injustice finally stand?
We all thought that she will resume in the next plenary but all her media war could not help reduce a single week from the 6 months suspension while her office was locked....no visitors no security details no salary allowance to her staffs from the national assembly

And finally the seat that she vowed not to relocate to, she was finally seen on that same seat
Arrogance upon nothing
Her loss is more than her gains
Her loss her constituents loss
Unnecessary confrontation
Only media hype

And lastly
Her followers are the insultive type with no logical explanation
1) They curse
2) They insult
3) They yell

Let's see how her followers will respond now as they will display 1-3 above
Natasha seen below Yelling uncontrolably on her former seat, Vowing that ''This Injustice will Not Stand'' that its an injustice to change her Seat because she believes that her face will be hidden, unknown to her any camera can zoom into her face while giving her comment

CrimeRe: Ex-Senator, Elisha Abbo In Police Custody Over Alleged Rape Of Minor by Benbellamor: 5:38pm On Oct 03, 2025
parents of the victim told journalists that Senator Aishatu Dahiru Ahmed (Binani), a former governorship candidate in Adamawa State, visited their home to plead with them not to disclose the scandal.
Arise Tv Senator Defending Natasha, How on earth Senator Aishatu Dahiru Ahmed (Binani) got getself involve for a cover-up?
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode's New Look: Hit Or Miss? (Photos) by Benbellamor: 12:11am On Oct 03, 2025
owobokiri:
Your billionaires go for igbo gals.
Igbo billionaires don't rate your gals.
That should tell you a lot..
when someone PICKS, thats very Cheap ...its Not rating but too cheap...that picking your ladies are too cheap, ...you now confuse cheap picking to rating, As how Now?
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 11:29pm On Sep 18, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Even you must see that you are talking rubbish.

Yes, Jethro brought Zipporah and children to Moses, yet, first you see that Jethro does not accuse Moses of wrongdoing.

Secondly, you see the bible shows that Moses gladly received Jethro but did not receive Zipporah.

And thirdly, you see that Moses and Jethro have a great time together but Zipporah is not there. This should have told you that when Moses rejected and boned her, she then went back home as she must do.

Then to crush your immature imaginations, even from Jethro's visit to Miriam, no where is Zipporah mentioned. And then finally, it is seen that Miriam did not say "why are you taking a wife when your wife and children are at home
"
who did you offend?
RomanceCan Rufai Oseni Make a Good Husband With His 'I Must Win All Argument' Mentality by Benbellamor(op): 11:14am On Sep 18, 2025
Lets look at His Strenght:

Honesty & Directness but at times he is too emotional – He doesn’t shy away from speaking his mind, which can help avoid hidden resentment.

Possible Challenges

Argumentative Streak– If that same TV style spills into marriage, it could feel exhausting or make his partner feel unheard.

Difficulty Letting Go – Always “picking issues” at home could turn small disagreements into unnecessary conflicts.

Balance of Ego & Listening – A good husband must sometimes listen quietly, even when he believes he’s right.

RomanceRufai Oseni, Can He Make Good Husband With The Always Winning Argument Mentality by Benbellamor(op): 10:58am On Sep 18, 2025
Lets look at His Strenght:

Honesty & Directness but at times he is too emotional – He doesn’t shy away from speaking his mind, which can help avoid hidden resentment.

Possible Challenges

Argumentative Streak – If that same TV style spills into marriage, it could feel exhausting or make his partner feel unheard.

Difficulty Letting GoAlways “picking issues” at home could turn small disagreements into unnecessary conflicts.

Balance of Ego & Listening A good husband must sometimes listen quietly, even when he believes he’s right.

CelebritiesRe: 2face Idibia Celebrates His 50th Birthday Today by Benbellamor: 9:49am On Sep 18, 2025
Djele:
Someone's husband, the man left his family for u and u are not ashamed.
shame has send many men to their graves early, some had stroke due to unhealthy relationship ... it could be either way though...mental welness should not be Joked with...prolonged stay in toxic relationship often affect men more expecially when the wife is unforgiven...disease sets in when you dont mirror each other.
PoliticsRe: End The Natasha Impasse - Punch Editorial by Benbellamor: 8:52am On Sep 18, 2025
Safyqueen:
Banana Republic citizen spotted. Do away with pettiness and sentiments in all sphere of governance.
is that all? you guys are reduced to ranting and insulting without result. grin grin pls grow
PoliticsRe: End The Natasha Impasse - Punch Editorial by Benbellamor:
Natasha herself took the matter to the court of appeal thereby providing the Senate with Excuse to further delay her return

From All indication Natasha is not ready for peace..... I doubt if she will resume this year
PoliticsRe: Emergency Rule In Rivers Ends Midnight Today - Tinubu by Benbellamor: 6:45pm On Sep 17, 2025
chrisxxx:
Fubara has his eyes opened now. He wouldn't be deceived by Ehie, Chijioke, David Briggs, Danagogo and a few others.
you forgot the self acclaimed chief judge UGOCHINYERE grin grin who overlap from lmo state his constituency to meddle in Rivers state matters....while his own state was in problem who always turn judgement on its head
Or Jombo or pa Femi falana.....

They all crawl back into their shells after so much noise grin
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Obas Are All Over Nigeria. This Is That Of Kano. by Benbellamor: 5:56pm On Sep 17, 2025
(Oba Yoruba Kano)

Meaning (king of Yorubas in Kano)

It cannot be compared to the arrested
Obi of Lagos.... instead of Obi of Ndigbo Lagos

Obi meaning king....of Lagos

That is recklessness.... overstepping of boundary that needs to be checked.... Yorubas are cultured that's why there must always be a boundary
So, some people needs tutoring
Yorubas always limit their title strictly on their own domain
Thank you
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:


I don't have time to quote bible verses when you and everyone already know the verses that I am referring to for they are even more popular than the bible itself.

Everyone knows Malachi especially this part.

"Ye have wearied the Lord with your words.

Yet ye say, Wherein have we wearied him?

When ye say, Every one that doeth evil is good in the sight of the Lord, and he delighteth in them;"

And Malachi 3 is waiting for people like you

Malachi 3

5 And I will come near to you to judgment; and I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, and against the adulterers, and against false swearers, and against those that oppress the hireling in his wages, the widow, and the fatherless, and that turn aside the stranger from his right, and fear not me, saith the Lord of hosts.

And I always all you agents of polygamy, please explain [b]how can a married man do polygamy without being guilty of adultery
?[/b
]
l have warned you not to use words like polygamy.....it's not found in the bible
So I have help you to confiscate your illegal use of phrase...it's confusing your narrative
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op):
Dtruthspeaker:
Yet you did not point where and how it does not add up. Clearly you cannot counter my reply.

really? Ok let me dig it up
Here is what doesn't add up...you said " If you say"" below

And if you say
Exodus 21:10

Am l the one who wrote Exodus 21:10?


10) If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife.


So what's the connection with what you wrote below..
Means that you can take another wife, then it means you are that God Said it is on to steal an ox or sheep

Exodus 22:1

"If a man steal an ox, or sheep and..."
Pure distraction....
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 12:02pm On Sep 17, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
See this man. I'm too busy to come to Nairaland.

Have you not finished reading what happens when a married man starts seeing another woman?

https://www.nairaland.com/646015/husband-abandoned-another-woman-shes#8120450

https://www.nairaland.com/6210542/husband-suddenly-abandoned-me-children#95411710

So, do you imagine that God would allow this wife and children to suffer this evil and wickedness because she lawfully married her husband?



And that is why [b]Malachi warns husbands that God will be their enemy when they do evil to their first wives
.
This verse below answers your question.
Exodus 10:21 "If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife

Note: i will help compress your comments when you keep repeating questions that i have anwered ok? no time for playing here its a serious business
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 11:57am On Sep 17, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
See this man. I'm too busy to come to Nairaland.

Have you not finished reading what happens when a married man starts seeing another woman?

https://www.nairaland.com/646015/husband-abandoned-another-woman-shes#8120450

https://www.nairaland.com/6210542/husband-suddenly-abandoned-me-children#95411710

So, do you imagine that God would allow this wife and children to suffer this evil and wickedness because she lawfully married her husband?

Or do you imagine that God would allow her to suffer because her husband seeks adultery?

You obviously do not know that God is good and that He will always support and provide for the innocent.

And that is why Malachi warns husbands that God will be their enemy when they do evil to their first wives.

I have warned you not to bring Inuendos here, your comment must be backed up by a bible verse which you have failed to do, we are not playing here....So I have help you to reduce and compress your out-of-context comment, it a distraction cool...so when you are ready with bible bases argument I will respond and highlight it.
EducationRe: Chinese Language Officially Included In Nigerian Senior Secondary Curriculum by Benbellamor: 11:05am On Sep 17, 2025
Centcanada:
Why? What then now happened to our own language that you will make another person language compulsory?
it's not compulsory....it's optional like Yoruba hausa etc
But for those who wants to learn technology
They have options to pick mandarin or not
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 10:49am On Sep 17, 2025
3nity7:
You guys are funny. Where did you get the notion from that Moses married two wives?
I will show you with evidence

1):Moses married zipporah daughter of Jethro and had two sons Exod 2:21–22).
2):Moses also married the Cushite woman
Numbers 12:1-10 KJV
12 And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman.
The used of word MARRIED WAS mentioned Twice

So with bible verse evidence show me it's not true
Innuendos will Not be accommodated here as l will help you to compress your innuendos without bible verse and help you hid it in order not to cause distraction here.... this thread is for serious minded with proof of bible verse Not your own thought thanks....oya give evidence against my submission
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 8:31am On Sep 17, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Exodus 21:10

10) If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife.



[/b]
Why are you running away from this verse up there? grin
Explain the above bible verse.....
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op):
Dtruthspeaker:
. Now you are Lying against God!

For Where did Jesus say that you can marry a second wife, if you do not divorce the first wife?

And if you say
Exodus 21:10

10) If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife.


Means that you can take another wife, then it means you are that God Said it is on to steal an ox or sheep

Exodus 22:1

"If a man steal an ox, or sheep and..."

As I said, don't bring your paganism to Christianity because it is impossible for a man to take a second wife and not be guilty of adultery
.

.. laughable grin angry grin your reply is not adding up... anyway l have help you to reduce it because it's laughable.. grin angry
give a biblical verse that states that Moses divorce Zipporah
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op):
Dtruthspeaker:
How did Jacob deal treacherously with Leah when he never had any intention of marrying Leah but was deceived by Laban?
Decieved kwa? Yet he had intercourse with her and produce children and then married Rachel again ....you keep manufacturing excuses ...no wonder you can't quote any bible verse to support your unproven claims.... anyway that's settled l don't need to go with you round the table over and over
do you even listen to yourself? We are not joking here....
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op):
FayaBall:
You dey mind dem? It is clear Moses did not marry another wife while being married to Zipporah which is why God came to his defence, for he had done no wrong.

But pagans must always look for justification and looking for who to recruit instead of going to commit their crime by themselves
Answer this question
did Moses divorce? Yes or no.... provide a Bible verse to prove that Moses divorce or you forever be a false pastor ... Infact you're manufacturing what bible didn't report.... When Jethro took zipporah back to Moses... bible referred to Jethro as his "father in law" and not :"former Father inlaw" meaning that their marriage was intact ... On why zipporah left to his father's house was for the safety of the children. Simple that's why Moses came out to receive them (Zipporah and children) with joy and kisses the father in-law who took care of them
Jethro left zipporah in the house of Moses
Jethro didn't return back with Zipporah

No bible account report that zipporah left after that.
There's no report of divorce.... Unless the divorce forced by you out of curiosity.... innuendos and over-sabi out of confusion
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 12:56am On Sep 17, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:


Polygamy was not permitted but was the way of man's living since men had grown to love evil and do polygamy as Cain's grandson had shown them.

So, it is a case of that the whole world was engaged and practicing polygamy exactly how they practice paganism which no one says was permitted
Trash
The word Polygamy does not exist in the Bible and therefore has no basis here....can you show a biblical verse that ever mentioned the word Polygamy? You can't
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op):
Dtruthspeaker:
But obviously, after the foreskin episode on their way to Egypt in which she declared her hatred for him, in calling him a murderer aka "a bloody husband art thou to me" (which feels like when a wife says to "you are a useless husband" ).

And she said it 2 Times even!


Clearly, she did not want the marriage and in the presence of God, she obviously took the children and left and returned to her land and her father.[/b]
Laughable!! you suggests that Zipporah does not want the Marriage, But to Bust your Lie, Zipporah Followed her father with her 2 sons to live with Moses...to even burSt your insinuation, the bible verse refered to Jethro Throughout as Moses father-inlaw (Not Former in-law)

Exodus 18: 5 Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, together with Moses’ sons and wife, came to him in the wilderness, where he was camped near the mountain of God. 6 Jethro had sent word to him, “I, your father-in-law Jethro, am coming to you with your wife and her two sons.
7 So Moses went out to meet his father-in-law and bowed down and kissed him. They greeted each other and then went into the tent.

(imagine Zipporah returning to Moses tent (house) finally.... how can a woman left her marriage only to come back to live in the house of the man he had left grin grin grin grin no be Juju be that?

and to confirm that Zipporah came back to live with her husband after she left due to protection of their children, this time around, only Zipporah's father jethro returned back, Jethro left Ziporrah and her children in the house of Moses. (read verse 27 of Exodus 18 below
The fact that Jethro did Not go back with Zipporah alone has shattered your childish insinuation read verse 27 of Exodus 18.
27 And Moses let his father in law depart; and he went his way into his own land.
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 11:02am On Sep 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
It's OK, i only expressed my own views so if you are not convinced there's no need to continue arguing.
I believe we are going to Paradise where we will live forever as youths without growing old or thinking about death like God purposed for Adam and Eve in the beginning so if any woman will be willing to share you with another woman i wish you well with polygamy if it will work in the new world.

Cheers! smiley
I am not against you expressing your Views, I am only pointing out the implications of Dwelling on that Bible verse that you quoted as the standard for (1) Eligibility for an office of an overseer (2) as a standard for Christian approved marriage status.

you quoted below as the standards
The overseer should therefore be irreprehensible, a husband of one wife, moderate in habits, sound in mind, orderly, hospitable, qualified to teach. 1Timothy 3:2

If there is any man free from accusation, a husband of one wife, having believing children who are not accused of debauchery or rebelliousness. Titus 1:6
Going strictly by these above requirements for Christian overseer eligibility, Then it means that those who are Not married are Not eligible as Overseers, which means that they must arrange to have a partner as a minimum requirement, any attempt to include the unmarried as overseer based strictly on this 1 Timothy 2 falls outside the requirement.
This exposed the fact that dwelling rigidly or expanding the elasticity of some concept without considering sorrounding situations that may also fall within the scope may be risky.

Imperfection has caused many today to face seriuos challenges in Marriage that is very serious and unresolved, many have chosen to live with that situation till end, some are barren and some endured abusive marriage that leads to stroke and untimely death

Marriage should not be a death warrant, Just like Jacob married Leah who gave him children to suceed him, while Rachel was barren for long, there should always be a way out, provided there is a Legit Challenge
PoliticsRe: Katsina Govt To Support Repentant Bandits, Displaced Families With Tools, Houses by Benbellamor: 7:02am On Sep 16, 2025
AMINDA:
Incentivising terrorism. Why do they never learn? Matawalle, Tinubu's current minister of defence, tried this as governor of Zamfara state, and it never worked. It only increased the rate of banditry in neighbouring states like Kaduna and Sokoto, and the bandits returned to business as soon as the settlement ceased. The government has seemingly now embraced this as a national policy. "Cheesing the bandits."
when a governor thinks like this... They blame Tinubu for it
Governor that is supposed to prosecute terrorists wants to compensate them with taxpayers funds.....is it Tinubu that instruct that?

The mindset of our northern brothers is too alien from that of the southerners.....

With this thinking of compensating terrorists with impunity....they don't care....you see why nobody not even peter Obi can change their situation in the north than to let them separate from Nigeria and join their Niger Chad and Sudan neighbors
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 7:17pm On Sep 15, 2025
1 Timothy 3:2 is only for overseers and those willing to be.....

It's not compulsory for everyone because of circumstances.... and it's not found inside the bible.....everyone will carry his own load
Jesus was referring to Exodus 10:21 "If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife ...When he said that Mathew 19:8-9
“......whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman, commits adultery.”

Jesus further emphasize in verse 8 of Mathew 19.... “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of your hardness of heart; [i]but it was not this way from the beginning[/i]

The beginning here was the law That Moses handed over to them about rules guiding taking a second wife.....precisely in Exodus 10:21 which states that first wife must be kept and catered for before proceeding with having a second wife

Which means.....If one keeps his first wife, like when Jacob marries Leah...and went further to marry Rachel...... Provided that....he didn't divorce the first wife and keeps giving her her dues, in an event where there's an unresolved issues or barrenness the man is right to marry another wife to give him an offspring
There's no problem with such
....
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Didn't Condemn Moses 4 Having A Second Wife, because he Didn’t Divorce by Benbellamor(op): 6:58pm On Sep 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Ọmọ it's God's word i quoted for you so you are free to TRASH it at least you have seen what it says about Christianity! smiley
you have not said anything
Paul wasn't a monogamist....
God's word isn't confusing
It's you over Sabi people that are confusing yourself

Imagine you you claimed that only Monogamist are qualified to be an overseer
FLIP
you then turn 360 degrees saying Paul who wasn't a monogamist qualified
That's a FLOP

And that's how you go round and round the table flip flop

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