Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See The Platform Where Single Ladies Are Advertised For Relationship/marriage by Bendeco02: 2:33pm On Jul 01 |
Lovelink1991: No I will agree to that, there are women men are dying to have too. They are there not because they cannot take care of themselves but they need someone they can call a husband at their age likewise men too. There is an age you get to you will hunger to have a partner that is why they are there and men still have theirs too A man without a wife chose not to marry unlike women. I have seen mentally unstable men being sponsord on marriage by their relatives. I have seen dwarf men married to normal woman. Have you seen a dwarf lady married to normal man or a woman that was once known as mad woman got married? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See The Platform Where Single Ladies Are Advertised For Relationship/marriage by Bendeco02: 12:54pm On Jul 01 |
Lovelink1991: They are all working class with good businesses That's the prove that men are the price na. Can you see rich or working class men in that settings ? They are even covering their face  . Are they ashamed? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See The Platform Where Single Ladies Are Advertised For Relationship/marriage by Bendeco02: 11:14am On Jul 01*. Modified: 11:49am On Jul 01 |
Lovelink1991: You are just bragging. Don't forget that without women men are not complete, just because you guys are opportune to have dominancy doesn't mean we should not select. No one said you should not select. The problem is that your gender does that in annoying way. You can keep your spec to your mind and choose when he approach you not coming online to brag and cap careless when you're not even that your spec's spec. Do you see men talking down on short women? Or ugly women on social media or offline? A Girl without any Job will come online and call men earning 100k poor while she depends on only her body to earn. A fat Girl will see a chubby Guy and insult him. A short woman will come online to brag tall men or nothing. When the tall men will not even choose her. Who even told some of you that those men you insult of not being your spec even finds you attractive or need you if sex is removed? That 's why single mom are many. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See The Platform Where Single Ladies Are Advertised For Relationship/marriage by Bendeco02: 9:34am On Jul 01*. Modified: 2:15pm On Jul 01 |
Am yet to see where they advertise men for marriage  Yet we keep hearing I can't settle for less from this gender. As a woman, you're a less already when it comes to relationship/marriage aspect. Men remain the prize. Know this and know peace. |
Romance › Re: Not All Relationships End In Marriage, Date For Fun, Lady Advice Single Ladies by Bendeco02: 7:13am On Jul 01*. Modified: 8:19pm On Jul 01 |
Yeah, men date women that have nothing to offer for fun just as women drop broke men once they see better option. Women switch to different men to upgrade and they sees it as nothing and justifies it. But once a guy drop them for upgraded woman, they want the heaven to fall  You don't have standard Job, you're not that beautiful and your character is bad. When the guy now meet a better option and drop you, it looks like a taboo  Men don't drop career women with good character, so if you want a man to keep you, work on yourself. Since most of you think having boobs and nyash is what you only need in life. You will keep learning the hard way. Millions of your gender also have nyash/to-to and they need man too. Your character and career is what can make you unique and stand out among others as wife material. |
Sports › Re: France Vs Sweden: World Cup 2026 Round Of 32 (3 - 0) On 30th June 2026 by Bendeco02: 6:29am On Jul 01 |
Those of you saying France Vs Argentina for finals sha.
I don't think this Argentina will reach Final. |
Politics › Re: 2027 Presidency: Ijaw Nation Carries Out Tribal Poll On Who To Vote: See Winner. by Bendeco02: 9:41am On Jun 30 |
Normally the whole South South tribes, majority like Peter Obi.
That's if the votes will be allowed to count.
If election is to be done free and fair, Tinubu will not even contest because that will be a waste of resources. APC would have changed their presidential candidate. |
NYSC › Re: President Tinubu Approves A Comprehensive Reformation Of NYSC by Bendeco02: 6:22am On Jun 30 |
6 weeks orientation program?  |
Family › Re: See why am leaving my parents house at 31(pics) by Bendeco02: 8:56pm On Jun 28 |
The Babe don't Love you |
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Politics › Re: People Who Can’t Stand Peter Obi Behind Court Judgement – Party Secretary by Bendeco02: 9:22pm On Jun 27 |
franvincoop: I no know wetin Obidients dey smoke wey dey ginger dem to dey see white as black. Chinua Achebe was right about his blodas. That saying that Obidients imagine something in their head and immediately start celebrating is true especially in this instance.
You wey get brain, how did you come up with these lies? Did you imagine it? Do you have a problem with facts? cuz I can't see how you can be throwing insults around meanwhile your argument is grossly false and the audacity to believe your lies as truth is incomprehensible. Most of you chanting Obi up and down have never taken even 1 second to look at the electoral map in 2023 and know where Obi needs to do better to get to Aso Rock. Na only insults and shouting una know, which has gotten SE nothing since 1999, not even gate man for Aso Rock.
Going by 2023 elections, NE and NW votes = 9,900,000 votes SW,SS and SE = 9,000,000 votes NC votes = 4,300,000 votes
If you get brain, how can NW and NE be a minority in the North or even in the South? Una dey reason sef before una click submit for nairaland? Explain I am waiting and all insults are welcome.
https://www.nairaland.com/8673435/peter-obi-aso-rock-25 That's still where your brain reach. You lack comprehension. When I say NW & NE is minority. I mean in the country because of your hype towards them. Oya Atiku should win NW & NE and lose other regions let's see how he will become president with their votes alone. Buhari always won NE & NW during PDP era yet was unable to win the presidency. Try reason and understand before dropping your sentimental yarning. |
Sports › Re: Ghana Vs Croatia: World Cup 2026 (1- 2) On 27th June 2026 by Bendeco02: 9:07pm On Jun 27 |
Crotia likely to win. They are better team and need the win more than Ghana  |
Politics › Re: People Who Can’t Stand Peter Obi Behind Court Judgement – Party Secretary by Bendeco02: 6:08pm On Jun 27 |
badoh: Obi weh no get levels for the northern part of Nigeria is the one claiming he won 2023 presidential elections. Who sabi Obi for the core north. He's only popular down south to some extent and Southern votes alone especially southeast and South South cannot make you win presidential elections, take that to the bank. See as your brain reach. The United North is NE & NW PDP ruled for 16 years without wining these regions. Without NC which don't reason like NE & NW, Core North is minority if you don't know. |
Politics › Re: People Who Can’t Stand Peter Obi Behind Court Judgement – Party Secretary by Bendeco02: 5:37pm On Jun 27 |
Their supporters here are deceiving themselves that Peter Obi is not a threat to their Oga  We now know the main person they targeted in ADC  . I want Obi and Atiku together to work together. If Obi is not among the contenstants, it will be worse for him. SE and SS will support Atiku. After Tinubu, no person from SW will smell Asorock for the next 100 years. |
Romance › Re: I Learnt My Bitter Lesson Loving And Trusting A Lady by Bendeco02: 2:52pm On Jun 27 |
Sirchiboy: It was so unfortunate. My stature betray me. Lost all my savings 17.5m I would have used to better my life within one yea in the name of women. If there is no effects , I would have chop off my Dickson long ago.. I don't blame my uncles who could not make it in life. It was women that destroy their life Like how did you waste upto that amount on woman? Did you build house for her?  |
Romance › Re: Many Men Are So Used To Giving That Receiving Feels Like A Miracle by Bendeco02: 7:56pm On Jun 25 |
Most women, even if they have millions they don't give. |
Politics › Re: We Gave Tinubu Victory, Now We’re Backing Gbenga Hashim — Northern Supporters by Bendeco02: 3:34pm On Jun 24 |
So for their mind Northern masses really voted Tinubu ?  If the real votes of NW & NE was revealed, Obi would have more votes than Tinubu. Tinubu don't send anybody because he knows how much he spent on Primaries, INEC and Judiciary to get where he is now. |
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Herself In Anambra Over Breakup With Boyfriend After 3 Abortions by Bendeco02: 4:35pm On Jun 22 |
Killing yourself won't still solve the matter. You did abortion 3 times. You think your soul will have peace by committing suicide? After killing three of your offspring you still take your life as well.  When they advice you women to use your brain, you don't hear. This gender matter just tire person |
Romance › Re: If Your Intention Isn’t To Get Married, So Why’re You Dating? by Bendeco02: 7:10am On Jun 19 |
kiddaz: Myopic. Not everyone is keen on marriage and every date doesn't end in matrimony. It's not compulsory Then no need of getting committed to one lady and get angry when you see her with other guys. |
Crime › Re: Women In Oji River Enugu Protest Against Prostitution And Drugs (video) by Bendeco02: 4:41pm On Jun 17 |
QuinQQ: No comment at all on the ashwawo they're most angry about. Hmmmm..
You could have a point as shown below. But don't forget ashawo. It is also your culture, no? Ashawo is very bad I can't support that |
Crime › Re: Women In Oji River Enugu Protest Against Prostitution And Drugs (video) by Bendeco02: 4:29pm On Jun 17 |
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Politics › Re: Oyo Is Not Chibok, I Will Sacrifice Myself For Their Safe Return - Seyi Makinde by Bendeco02: 11:02am On Jun 17 |
You're the only yoruba brave leader currently.
Others are just following tinubu like sheep. |
Sports › Re: Zion Suzuki: The Black Goalkeeper Representing Japan by Bendeco02: 9:35pm On Jun 15*. Modified: 9:56pm On Jun 15 |
Only skin color can't make you look like black or African man.
The Japanese gene is still present.
Observe his facial features and structure, that's Asian look. |
Romance › Re: Getting Girls Is Far Different From Getting Sex. My Experience (pics) by Bendeco02: 8:18pm On Jun 15*. Modified: 6:45pm On Jun 17 |
Girls/women have to be comfortable around you before they submit their body to you. They are shy naturally, not always about not having interest.
You don't even need to be that handsome, just look okay and neat. Once they are comfortable around you they will submit. |
Romance › Re: Getting Girls Is Far Different From Getting Sex. My Experience (pics) by Bendeco02: 8:12pm On Jun 15 |
peleson1: Maybe you no too fine like that or you no get the aura .
In my days .. I no dey even toast woman ..
Na just steeze ...Aura
Some guys naturally attract women and if u no get the aura , no force ahm
Just be ur self and wear ur smile .
Maybe with time u will start getting that kind of attention
But for now ,keep it focus on 100% growth and income Be capping crap Not all girls will give you their body because you're fine. How fine are you and howmany you don nack ? |
Politics › Re: Elections Are Rigged Because Nigerians Want It To Be Rigged - Peter Obi by Bendeco02: 10:37pm On Jun 12 |
chrisxxx: This is in line with what Wike said. You can only effectively rig only when you are popular. |
Politics › Re: Elections Are Rigged Because Nigerians Want It To Be Rigged - Peter Obi by Bendeco02: 10:37pm On Jun 12 |
chrisxxx: This is in line with what Wike said. You can only effectively rig only when you are popular. Not for Nigeria politics How popular is Yaradua when PDP rigged him in as the president? |
Islam › Re: Emir Of Ilorin Appoints Sheikh Muhammad Bashir Dasuki Imam Fulani As Chief Imam by Bendeco02: 10:39am On Jun 12*. Modified: 11:50am On Jun 12 |
This is one of part where Christianity is better than Islam in Nigeria.
In Nigeria all Christians are equal no matter your state or region. But fulani sees other Muslims tribes as their conquered people and territory .
And some funny Hausa, middle belt and South West muslims are supporting some islamic moves thinking that fulani count them or have good plans for them.
They will whine you with Islam, penetrate and install their people in all sensitive political and religions positions.
Even Kano that Hausa brag as their main city is ruled by fulani. 80% of the local government leaders in Kano are fulanis.
The only luck yorubas have is that the world has opened eyes and will interfere. Assume this is 18th century, then SW region will be history. |
Romance › Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Bendeco02: 6:39am On Jun 12 |
OlaOfLagos: How can a man become sexier to women?
1. Law of Separation
A desperate man is not attractive. Women detect
neediness from miles away. The man who can walk
away without a second thought when necessary is
preferred. Distance is not coldness, but power. The
man who can detach from an emotional bond
understands the rules of the game.
2. Physical Discipline
Your body is your billboard.
Lift weights, eat healthy, move with confidence.
Women sense your discipline before you even open your mouth.
Fitness is an indicator of self-esteem and mastery.
3. Presence of Command
A deep tone of voice, constant eye contact, unhurried movements.
This is male attractiveness.
You don't need to speak loudly to dominate a room.
Presence is always more important than sound.
4. Control your emotions
Anger suits children.
Cool-headedness suits men.
A person who can feel their emotions but does not succumb to them radiates stability.
In a world full of chaos, this is something irresistible.
5. Unbreakable Standards
A person without standards is invisible.
Express what you want, live accordingly, and refuse to give in under pressure.
Women respect the man who never belittles himself.
6. Zırhtır Style
Clothes don't make the person, but they highlight them even more.
A carefully selected and clean appearance shows that I respect myself and expect respect.
Style is a silent seduction.
7. Attention Deficit
Don't spread your interest around like candy for everyone.
The man who makes women earn it exponentially raises his own value.
Scarcity is attractive. Excess interest is weakness.
8. Speak Little, Say Much
Every word must carry weight. Excessive chatter kills the mystery.
Precision and silence awaken curiosity. Curiosity is the oxygen of attraction.
9. Audacia Original
Renounce trying to please everyone. Be polarizing if necessary.
When women feel your raw and masculine energy in your natural and authentic state, they fall in love with you.
There is nothing sexier than a man who is not afraid to be himself.
#Copied Most of you knows what women want and the kind of men that attract them but if you still check you may not have a babe or girls rushing you.  Most of what you said is good qualities that men desire to have but some women don't still send it. Most women rate men first via their status before any other thing. Like you have to be something. Have a nice job or good business before they start checking other aspect. Some poor guys have all these qualities but yet women don't even give them chance. |
Romance › Re: I'm A Lot Brutal With Girls Nowadays When It Comes To Money by Bendeco02: 7:54am On Jun 11 |
Host78: If you are trying to toast a girl today, it always cycle back to money nowadays.
Either asking for data sub or money for food.
The last girl I was chatting with just casually drop the "I'm hungry" line and then proceeded to tell me "I don't want to eat house food"
Before this, I've made up my mind on a very concrete issue, that as long as I'm not sleeping with you, there's no way I'm sending a kobo from my account to yours.
Girls today have this habit of getting your number, chatting you and then billing you.
If its favorable, they keep chatting you because they know they can come back again for more begging.
But if you refuse, they drop their energy and some will even stop chatting you... Making you feel bad.
As a guy, you need to understand this "feeling bad" is intentional and especially since you like the girl and want something with her.
Now most guys think giving her money will do something for them. But it doesn't.
Learn to protect your money. If you're not fvcking her, don't give any girl shît.
I once have a girl that every week she must beg me 2 to 3 times. I believe she thinks one day I'll wear out or feel ashamed and give her money.
Girls know guys don't like coming across as poor. They rely on you "feeling ashamed" so you are willing to give to relief yourself.
I keep denying her regardless of how many times she begged.
Omo. One day this girl posted screenshots of different guys sending her 2k up and down on her status.
Likeee. So her usual way of life na to just dm random guys on her contact that have toasted her and be asking them for money.
She's cute make I no lie. But nothing fit make me send any girl money.
If she can ask you for money, she's really not into you. Girls no dey bill guys wey dem like. Your last line spoiled your write-up Who told you that girls don't ask who they like for money? You did not even say over bill. Just like saying guys don't ask the girl they like for sex. Some of you are yet to learn some things. Girls can ask anyone for money but the difference is that the girl that love you will not leave you or start avoiding you because you refused to give her money. If you approach and date a girl without a job, what do you expect from her? You want her to be dating you and then be asking other guys for money? Then be ready to shear her with other guys as well and not complain about her having multiple male friends. |
Politics › Re: Cameroonian Soldiers Invade Danare In Boki, Cross River, Nigeria by Bendeco02: 2:34pm On Jun 10 |
Why would they fear boundary?
Even Fulani from sahel region troop in Nigeria from Niger Republic as they want kidnap people and the government beg and settle them.
Like some of you think other African Nations still fear Nigeria? They may respect us via our entertainment industry and popularity but not for war.
Boko haram and ISWAP really exposed Nigeria military/security. |
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