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CrimeRe: Women In Oji River Enugu Protest Against Prostitution And Drugs (video) by Bendeco02: 4:41pm On Jun 17
QuinQQ:
No comment at all on the ashwawo they're most angry about. Hmmmm..



You could have a point as shown below.
But don't forget ashawo. It is also your culture, no?
Ashawo is very bad

I can't support that
CrimeRe: Women In Oji River Enugu Protest Against Prostitution And Drugs (video) by Bendeco02: 4:29pm On Jun 17
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Even tho it's almost too late but I must it's a welcomed development.

The rate at which young boys and girls of nowadays smokes, i know 5+ years from now,mad people will be so surplus across our societies angry

The funniest thing is that when such people living wayward lifestyles come across people like us who don't smoke or womanize,they see us as low esteem people angry

This morning,I got to my shop and the first person I saw was a boy of let's say 20 years old, smoking away his life, while his girlfriend was just sitting beside him, watching angry This dude was looking so gentle and calm angry.

Our govt really need to step up and fight against this vices contaminating our societies. So that we don't end up blaming others for the rot it'd cause in the future just like the south Africans are doing to other black Africans angry
There's nothing bad in smoking.

If it's not good in your body, just quit it.

As Onitsha guy, smoke don't stop us from achieving our goals.

Smoke is our culture grin
PoliticsRe: Oyo Is Not Chibok, I Will Sacrifice Myself For Their Safe Return - Seyi Makinde by Bendeco02: 11:02am On Jun 17
You're the only yoruba brave leader currently.

Others are just following tinubu like sheep.
SportsRe: Zion Suzuki: The Black Goalkeeper Representing Japan by Bendeco02:
Only skin color can't make you look like black or African man.


The Japanese gene is still present.

Observe his facial features and structure, that's Asian look.
RomanceRe: Getting Girls Is Far Different From Getting Sex. My Experience (pics) by Bendeco02:
Girls/women have to be comfortable around you before they submit their body to you. They are shy naturally, not always about not having interest.

You don't even need to be that handsome, just look okay and neat. Once they are comfortable around you they will submit.
RomanceRe: Getting Girls Is Far Different From Getting Sex. My Experience (pics) by Bendeco02: 8:12pm On Jun 15
peleson1:
Maybe you no too fine like that or you no get the aura .

In my days .. I no dey even toast woman ..

Na just steeze ...Aura

Some guys naturally attract women and if u no get the aura , no force ahm

Just be ur self and wear ur smile .

Maybe with time u will start getting that kind of attention

But for now ,keep it focus on 100% growth and income
Be capping crap

Not all girls will give you their body because you're fine.

How fine are you and howmany you don nack ?
PoliticsRe: Elections Are Rigged Because Nigerians Want It To Be Rigged - Peter Obi by Bendeco02: 10:37pm On Jun 12
chrisxxx:
This is in line with what Wike said. You can only effectively rig only when you are popular.
PoliticsRe: Elections Are Rigged Because Nigerians Want It To Be Rigged - Peter Obi by Bendeco02: 10:37pm On Jun 12
chrisxxx:
This is in line with what Wike said. You can only effectively rig only when you are popular.
Not for Nigeria politics

How popular is Yaradua when PDP rigged him in as the president?
IslamRe: Emir Of Ilorin Appoints Sheikh Muhammad Bashir Dasuki Imam Fulani As Chief Imam by Bendeco02:
This is one of part where Christianity is better than Islam in Nigeria.

In Nigeria all Christians are equal no matter your state or region. But fulani sees other Muslims tribes as their conquered people and territory .

And some funny Hausa, middle belt and South West muslims are supporting some islamic moves thinking that fulani count them or have good plans for them.

They will whine you with Islam, penetrate and install their people in all sensitive political and religions positions.

Even Kano that Hausa brag as their main city is ruled by fulani. 80% of the local government leaders in Kano are fulanis.


The only luck yorubas have is that the world has opened eyes and will interfere. Assume this is 18th century, then SW region will be history.
RomanceRe: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Bendeco02: 6:39am On Jun 12
OlaOfLagos:
How can a man become sexier to women?

1. Law of Separation

A desperate man is not attractive. Women detect

neediness from miles away. The man who can walk

away without a second thought when necessary is

preferred. Distance is not coldness, but power. The

man who can detach from an emotional bond

understands the rules of the game.

2. Physical Discipline

Your body is your billboard.

Lift weights, eat healthy, move with confidence.

Women sense your discipline before you even open your mouth.

Fitness is an indicator of self-esteem and mastery.

3. Presence of Command

A deep tone of voice, constant eye contact, unhurried movements.

This is male attractiveness.

You don't need to speak loudly to dominate a room.

Presence is always more important than sound.


4. Control your emotions

Anger suits children.

Cool-headedness suits men.

A person who can feel their emotions but does not succumb to them radiates stability.

In a world full of chaos, this is something irresistible.

5. Unbreakable Standards

A person without standards is invisible.

Express what you want, live accordingly, and refuse to give in under pressure.

Women respect the man who never belittles himself.

6. Zırhtır Style

Clothes don't make the person, but they highlight them even more.

A carefully selected and clean appearance shows that I respect myself and expect respect.

Style is a silent seduction.

7. Attention Deficit

Don't spread your interest around like candy for everyone.

The man who makes women earn it exponentially raises his own value.

Scarcity is attractive.
Excess interest is weakness.

8. Speak Little, Say Much

Every word must carry weight. Excessive chatter kills the mystery.

Precision and silence awaken curiosity. Curiosity is the oxygen of attraction.

9. Audacia Original

Renounce trying to please everyone. Be polarizing if necessary.

When women feel your raw and masculine energy in your natural and authentic state, they fall in love with you.

There is nothing sexier than a man who is not afraid to be himself.

#Copied
Most of you knows what women want and the kind of men that attract them but if you still check you may not have a babe or girls rushing you. grin

Most of what you said is good qualities that men desire to have but some women don't still send it.

Most women rate men first via their status before any other thing.

Like you have to be something. Have a nice job or good business before they start checking other aspect.

Some poor guys have all these qualities but yet women don't even give them chance.
RomanceRe: I'm A Lot Brutal With Girls Nowadays When It Comes To Money by Bendeco02: 7:54am On Jun 11
Host78:
If you are trying to toast a girl today, it always cycle back to money nowadays.

Either asking for data sub or money for food.

The last girl I was chatting with just casually drop the "I'm hungry" line and then proceeded to tell me "I don't want to eat house food"

Before this, I've made up my mind on a very concrete issue, that as long as I'm not sleeping with you, there's no way I'm sending a kobo from my account to yours.

Girls today have this habit of getting your number, chatting you and then billing you.

If its favorable, they keep chatting you because they know they can come back again for more begging.

But if you refuse, they drop their energy and some will even stop chatting you... Making you feel bad.

As a guy, you need to understand this "feeling bad" is intentional and especially since you like the girl and want something with her.

Now most guys think giving her money will do something for them. But it doesn't.

Learn to protect your money. If you're not fvcking her, don't give any girl shît.

I once have a girl that every week she must beg me 2 to 3 times. I believe she thinks one day I'll wear out or feel ashamed and give her money.

Girls know guys don't like coming across as poor. They rely on you "feeling ashamed" so you are willing to give to relief yourself.

I keep denying her regardless of how many times she begged.

Omo. One day this girl posted screenshots of different guys sending her 2k up and down on her status.

Likeee. So her usual way of life na to just dm random guys on her contact that have toasted her and be asking them for money.

She's cute make I no lie. But nothing fit make me send any girl money.

If she can ask you for money, she's really not into you. Girls no dey bill guys wey dem like.
Your last line spoiled your write-up

Who told you that girls don't ask who they like for money? You did not even say over bill.

Just like saying guys don't ask the girl they like for sex.

Some of you are yet to learn some things.

Girls can ask anyone for money but the difference is that the girl that love you will not leave you or start avoiding you because you refused to give her money.

If you approach and date a girl without a job, what do you expect from her?

You want her to be dating you and then be asking other guys for money? Then be ready to shear her with other guys as well and not complain about her having multiple male friends.
PoliticsRe: Cameroonian Soldiers Invade Danare In Boki, Cross River, Nigeria by Bendeco02: 2:34pm On Jun 10
Why would they fear boundary?

Even Fulani from sahel region troop in Nigeria from Niger Republic as they want kidnap people and the government beg and settle them.

Like some of you think other African Nations still fear Nigeria? They may respect us via our entertainment industry and popularity but not for war.

Boko haram and ISWAP really exposed Nigeria military/security.
PoliticsRe: This Is How South East Ppl Are Brainwashing Our South South People. by Bendeco02: 8:51pm On Jun 08
aswani:
I agree SE and SS can never be separated as they were never together anyway since the Eastern region was dissolved to the happiness and joy of the minority easterners.

Of course Anioma as part of Delta abs Edo were never even in the Eastern region in the first place.

Bia, stop the attachment. There is no closeness anything.
Yeah they are close to SW.

Keep crying .
PoliticsRe: This Is How South East Ppl Are Brainwashing Our South South People. by Bendeco02: 8:29pm On Jun 08
Are you from South South or South West?

Tell yourself the truth

SE & SS can never be seperated because they are very close and live the same type of lifestyle.

In your so called South South there are many Igbos in the region as well. Even the ones that are from different tribe still prefer to mingle with SE than any other region.
FamilyRe: Lady Left Stunned After Seeing Old Photos Of Her Father As A Young Man. by Bendeco02: 5:43pm On Jun 08
Fekumzi123:
That's your own definition of beauty? Well, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
If that girl passed near me, I won't look at her twice. I'm allergic to fake life.
How does using cream, fixing everything equates to beauty?
This generation is gone. SMH
Oga no dey yarn careless.

How does she look bleached?

Don't you see that her Dad is brown as well?

I know you must be dark in completion. Some of you sabi reason awkward with inferiority mindset.

Must everyone be dark ?
PoliticsRe: When A Thief Tells You To Go To Court, Know His Brother Is In Charge(GEJ)<video by Bendeco02: 3:24pm On Jun 07
Now Jonathan is talking like a man.

So on point.
CrimeRe: Lady Arrested In Edo State For Spreading Fake News About Kidnapping Of Students by Bendeco02: 2:00pm On Jun 07
lordm:
Na this brain you take dy cross road?
@ least na me dey cross your P man road.
CrimeRe: Lady Arrested In Edo State For Spreading Fake News About Kidnapping Of Students by Bendeco02:
Though I hate spreading of fake news.

But has Edo state governor done his best so far to stop the insecurity?
TravelRe: Man Labeled As Bandit Because He Was Fulani, Relocates To Ghana From Lagos by Bendeco02: 6:05pm On Jun 06
Yorubastardz:
One fair handsome hausa boy wey dey do security for my area. He ran away beccause of this same problem.
People where tagging him as Fulani

He give excuse say him wound for leg..
Next day he collect permission to travel go kastina. Till today he never come back

My sister been get serious crush on him
Your sister is crushing on a security?

That's a real love grin
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02: 10:05am On Jun 05
ogelekpomgam:
I know many.
No.Its not.
Am not here to start mentioning all.
Am not here to start comparing one to another.
You can only say the one you know.

That UNN is that tough doesn't apply to every other universities.

I schooled in FUTO, as tough as it is doesn't mean students don't run their package.

It depends on the department as well.
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02: 9:50am On Jun 05
ogelekpomgam:
My brother,na who no go no go know..
Those days in UNN..
Na there you go see sitting governor brother dey write im carry over jejely..
Na then you go jam lecturers wey no get joy.
All their life na inside quarters for Nsukka.. grin
Is UNN the only federal or government institution in Nigeria?

How many federal institutions do you know about?
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02:
Bluntemperor:
Can you Name the Federal Universities that is involved in this Scam.
The problem with you and others is you just make wild allegations because of your bias mindset,full of hates and parochial ideas🥳
Guy you're just being emotional and not logical

I can't join you to rant insults online.

I schooled in Federal University too.

Institiution corruption is not a group something like Government schools vs Private school.

What determines how strict a school be in that period is the VC and some top men. But if the VC is another guy man, things will be happening. There are some private schools that you will cry if you attend.

The federal school I attended then, people were buying Certificate till one strict professor was appointed as the VC. Is all about the top men managing it at the moment and not about being private or government.

As a guy man, I can't mention schools name. The only thing that annoys me is they keep making it look like such thing are not happening in government schools.
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02: 6:57am On Jun 05
emmy512:
Omoh UNICAL Years ago i saw someone get degree and got to service direct before even people who attended class and wrote exams
Leave that funny guy to be arguing what he don't know
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02:
PulaPower:
It’s not true my brother

I’m telling you
See this one

The lecturers and managements in Federal universities, are they not Nigerians as well or are they Russians?

Stop blind arguement.

People can settle INEC or Judiciary and get announced as winner of an Election, what made you think Certificates can't be bought in federal schools?
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02: 6:46am On Jun 05
PulaPower:
Federal universality? Where you want to see ham buy?

People wey no fit dash you just 1 mark..

Dey play
Na you no get link bro

I don't want to mention name. But I have the link back then.

They will even send you direct to NYSC without stress
EducationRe: 107 Universities Under Investigation Over Award Of Fake Degrees by Bendeco02:
FG are now being sentimental on their degree prob.

Who told them that Federal Universities are not selling degree as well?

Some private universities are even tougher to graduate than most federal universites, but you hardly see them prob or investigate government universites.
PoliticsRe: Oyo School Kidnapping: ‘Our Children Are Not In Nigeria’ — Bamidele Salam by Bendeco02: 4:06pm On Jun 04
Sonofgod1990:
I only pity people that are still living in Nigeria
Gather like 15 million and travel out of this shithole
Stop saying trash.

So we should all leave our country and run?

Why can't you fix your country?

Don't you think that those foreign countries will get fed of your migration with time and stop accepting you undecided
PoliticsRe: 2027: Jonathan Too Smart To Risk His Legacy For Another Presidency — Edem Duke by Bendeco02: 12:01pm On Jun 04
Which legacy?

Weak man legacy or what?
Foreign AffairsRe: Netanyahu Says Trump Will Decide On Return To Full-scale Action Against Iran by Bendeco02: 10:50pm On Jun 03
Iran will be pounded soon.

Their muslim Nigerian supporters should prepare for full scale wailing soon.
RomanceRe: She's Now Hating Because I Refused To Be A Side Project by Bendeco02: 2:21pm On Jun 03
spiceadole:
When did having sex start making men indiscipline?

And yes! It's sex that men need from women.
Nothing else.
Many men on this platform attest to it
The guy told you he lack sex?

So, a mature guy hoping to settle down should just be going around having sex with different girls?

All the sex I have had as a guy, what has it added to my life?

Apart from bragging what else does sex add to a man after that moment?

You don't know the purpose of the guy currently. Maybe he is looking for relationship that will lead to marriage.

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