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PoliticsRe: Emir Of Kano, Sanusi Visits Mosque After Deadly Attack by benedictac(f): 8:28pm On Nov 29, 2014
TeamSimple:
From Allah we came and to him is our return.
is this all u can say?
Music/RadioRe: I Am The First Nigerian Artiste To Make Money From Rap Music - Ruggedman by benedictac(f): 3:43pm On Nov 27, 2014
TheRealMrStan:
http://ynaija.com/im-the-first-nigerian-artiste-to-make-money-from-rapping/


Is Ruggedman truly the first Nigerian artiste to make money off rap music?
so make we all come run from Naija ba?
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 9:46pm On Nov 17, 2014
bentenny:
really?
are you sports inclined? smiley
dats nice... smiley
for where? Oga will hold on to the remote
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 8:17pm On Nov 17, 2014
bentenny:
SW:Hmmm....i had to keep myself in check in order not to be emotional when rodrigo brought out valerie from the burning warehouse...a fitting end!! wink

surprised that it will be replaced by QUEEN OF THE SOUTH... undecided
yeah I'm so happy coz I didn't get to watch it before. bur wahala dey, the time they want to air it is the same time for Sports Tonight on Channel TV. God go help me
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 4:41pm On Nov 09, 2014
timyoghurt:
you are good at this. you will make a great lawyer. I just
covered all I missed in SW through this piece.
if Rodrigo was my brother, I would make sure he doesn't
marry that snitch called. piedad. olojukokoro ashewo,
alainitelorun, onisekuse Obirin onipansaga. Piedad should be
glad she is not a Nigerian. All these storylines self, Na
wah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Small small nor vex too much.
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 4:39pm On Nov 09, 2014
favoredgal:
Gaby espino..... Not impressed with her acting at all
Gbam!!! I tot I was the only one
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2014
tyconcepts:
Fernanda with her muscular body....Not like she is even intelligent yet FH portrays her as though she is.
It is even Vincente that annoys me there. Are there men like this for real?
CelebritiesRe: Denrele Shows Off His Heels (Photos) by benedictac(f): 11:23pm On Nov 05, 2014
So what is special about his shoes or even him kpakpa that is worth making front page? Abeg sleep dey worry me
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 5:56pm On Nov 03, 2014
BA- pls has anyone seen where Santiago smiled in any of the scene?
PoliticsRe: BREAKING NEWS: Scores Feared Dead After Bomb Explosion In Yobe Today by benedictac(f): 3:36pm On Nov 03, 2014
Oh my God! not again. just saw it on Channels TV
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 4:39pm On Oct 30, 2014
Godmystrength:
Even christians fall into temptation and commit sin. if there won't be anyone commiting sin, there won't be any need for forgiveness except you are saying that forgiveness is only for the sinners that are just giving their lifes to christ....or that a repentant backslider has no place in christ anymore? As far as i am concern, sin is sin,,,,, lieing, stealing, corruption, backbiting, envy, fornication, adultery, evil thoughts etc are all the same in God's sight....

If only cheating were to be between the cheater and God alone and the cheater bearing the consequences all alone, it would have been better. but it is not always like that....

It is not easy for me to still be able to TRUST a man that is cheating/has cheated on me.. sad sad...
It is only the cheated that knows how it feels. If only the cheaters know what they make their spouses/partners pass through emotionally among other things, maybe it will be easy for them to have a rethink but it is a pity that it doesn't even work that way....
I don't think u understood me
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:39am On Oct 30, 2014
kandiikane:
Even pastors who have people falling and speaking in tongues under their anointing are having extramarital affairs.
that does not make them Christians. Christian means Christ-like. and only the Christ-likes can see and enter heaven. so don't be confused or discouraged or even conclude because of the bag eggs in the christian-dom
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 9:48pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:
I am on my phone and the auto correct changes certain things I write but you said it takes the grace of God for any man not to cheat, Meaning atheists, non church goers etc are all cheaters. With what I have seen it's the born agains who cheat more so your statement is untrue.
u are not a Christian becoz u bear Christina, Paul, Peter etc. you are born again becoz u are renewed and the Spirit of God now possess u. so any born again that cheats doesn't have the Spirit of God in him and such is fake. one day nemesis will catch up with such.

As for the other religions, I have nothing to say about that coz I don't know their beliefs and I really don't want to know. I can only speak base on what I know and that is JESUS.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 9:10pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:
Wow! So you actually have it in your heart that your husband will one day cheat on you and when that time cones, you will be ready 5 make your marriage work? You have already made up your mind, I wonder how you live everyday believing your husband could one day cheat on you. Marriage is not a do or die and honestly, it seems nsa suffer head things you go become.
what u just said doesn't have any meaning. as long as Jesus tarries my husband will never cheat on me. his soul is more important to him than worldliness this I know.

I don't know if u are married
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 8:42pm On Oct 29, 2014
zeb04:
Married women the worst advisers to themselves..always encouraging pray and do nothing.wear red pants, wear yellow pants and other bs but when you get infected, they would be the ist to spread the news and even ban their kids for coming around.some will even tell you its because you didn't pull down heaven enough undecided

If you notice your husband is cheating, you know what to do but you can decide to keep praying until you get infected, may be then God will decide to have some mercy on you at least you are virtuous even to death. undecided

Church women, the worst pple to get advise from.
so satanic women are the best people to get advice from?
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 8:04pm On Oct 29, 2014
bukatyne:
I would rather everyone does not experience it.
the irony of it is that it is not possible
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 7:55pm On Oct 29, 2014
beeevan:
Yeah it is...
good for u
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 7:43pm On Oct 29, 2014
bukatyne:
I like your post and that is how it should be normally BUT I would never advice sweet sweet for a cheating/abusive spouse.
so what would u advice? divorce? separation?
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 7:35pm On Oct 29, 2014
bukatyne:
I like your post and that is how it should be normally BUT I would never advice sweet sweet for a cheating/abusive spouse.

It is very easy to sacrifice and make the home beautiful if it already so or if both parties are willing to make it work. You will agree with me that you will bend and be more accepting to a loving/non cheating hubby than a cheating one and vice versa.

God be with you
I know that is y u need patience and d grace of God. For some of us who don't experience I give God the glory, but for those experiencing it, may God see them thru
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 7:31pm On Oct 29, 2014
beeevan:
Even bible did not rule out divorce completely, do you know more than God?Why does it take the grace of God for a man not to cheat but not a woman, are their no cheating women in the bible? When the bible said to a man in proverbs " A prostitute may cost you a loaf of bread but a man's wife will cost you your Life", doesn't that tell you that it takes the grace of God for a married woman not to cheat too? Haven't you heard of the biblical adulterous woman? Do you know that God abandons unfaithful husbands? " you cry Out," why has the Lord abandoned Us?" i ll tell you why! Because the Lord witnessed vows you and your wife made to each other on your wedding day when you were young. But you have been disloyal to her, though she remained your faithful companion, the wife of your marriage vows. Didn't the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard yourself, remain loyal to the wife of your youth"(Malachi 2:13-15).
that is ur own understanding and opinion
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:42pm On Oct 29, 2014
beeevan:
Any advice that doesn't involve them holding the lanterns or serving chilled water while their husbands bang whor*es on their matrimonial beds undecided.
give us one
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
Godmystrength:
you are just saying this now. it wasn't in your initial post...
well, we read and interpret in different ways.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:35pm On Oct 29, 2014
Godmystrength:
Yes you said probably but what about this??
..
Besides, you should also read and understand too dear... I asked if all you mentioned is enough to stop a cheat from cheating... simple
and I also said it takes the grace of God for any man not to cheat, and no it is not enough to stop him from cheating but will make the man respect and know he has a wife. The only one that can make any man not to cheat is genuinely having Jesus in his life.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:25pm On Oct 29, 2014
Godmystrength:
is that it?? You think all these can stop a potential cheat from cheating??
Read and understand dear. I said PROBABLY. I also said "it takes the grace of God for any man not to cheat" but with all these there is the probability of the potential cheat to respect his wife and hide it from her
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:
well good on you and I am genuinely happy for you but what you initially implied is that one should just manage with a cheating husband? Please correct me if I am wrong.
you are wrong. I was only trying to let her know the divorce is never an option. she should work harder for her marriage to work. there is one thing u have to know about men, they love to be cared for and pampered they are like children. a little of this will sweep the man off his feet. it takes only the grace of God for men not to cheat.

as u can see, this man cheats and doesn't even respect his wife, he flaunts his cheating why is that so, becoz the other girl probably does what the wife doesn't. instead of complaining and nagging see how u can be more sweet to ur husband. when last did u send sweet text messages to him I.e "Honey are u coming home soon, I'm missing u" " I love u, can't live without u" and stuffs like that. How do u show ur appreciations. this is the secret of the other girl that makes the man go wild. You need more?
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:
Madam you go suffer for your marriage oo. She should just continue to make her marriage work even if the man brings women in her marital bed? Anyhow Shaa, it is good you have already accepted this, maybe, your children will be a better source of happiness to you.
I will never suffer in my marriage coz mine is built on the solid rock that can never be moved. You won't understand.

Funny enough my marriage is 6years and some months. I have never had any reason to doubt my husband. Our family account is in my name and I am the sole signatory he only has the alert. Can u do that? I know u can't coz u feel u're wise.

We are still trusting God for the fruit of the womb, but u know what? My 12yrs old son stays with us and bears his name. Everyone calls him my son's name. And he loves the boy as if is his. You see I could never had gotten a better gift after my salvation from God. I know u can never understand becoz u don't have such heart.

I've paid a big sacrifice in my marriage that my friends, families, in-laws and people like u think I charmed him.

you must pay a price for anything u desire. be it good or bad.

let me stop here for now. Smiles
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
beeevan:
This advice has infected so many innocent women with HIV.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
beeevan:
This advice has infected so many innocent women with HIV.
so what kind of advice will u give so that many innocent women will not be infected with HIV?
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 2:35pm On Oct 29, 2014
peggykorol:
Madam when a man's ways are not straight they act silly
Like your hubby just did.trying to be defensive,saying you are mental and wants divorce(see him mouth)
He is cheating with her and loves the attention
If you don't have a job,now it's time to get one and try to ignore his phone
When you ask too many questions they begin to feel too important
It's not easy sha cos your marriage is still young
Am yet to see a man who has not cheated on his wife at one time or the other
take it or leave it my husband has never cheated on me and so are many men out there.

back to op, before my wedding I made up my mind that my marriage must work and for that to happen I will have to use his bad characters as cream ( u can't see cream again after rubbing it) and to use his good characters as my clothing. my dear marriage is not bed of roses but remember u are what u make ur marriage .

Though it looks men are the head of the marriage, but in real sense God has handed the marriage in the hands of women that is y He said the wise woman builds her home why the foolish woman uses her hands to destroy hers. Also remember men hate nagging women the bible says it is better to live under a licking roof than to live with a nagging woman.

Pls @ Op stop questioning him, my father has more men than women so i know what i'm saying. this is Africa and not the Western world. pls save marriage and do whatever godly is possible. You do ur part as the good wife not unto him but unto God who judges all things and weighs all actions. I know it is not easy, but the grace of God is made available. Wish u the best.
FamilyRe: Funny Pictures Of Kids And Their Dads by benedictac(f): 10:37pm On Oct 28, 2014
chux76:
Bros abeg no stain that cute fair baby with your "black"...haba!! I'm sure the cutie is asking in her mind.."why is daddy so black?"...

grin grin grin grin grin
you are a clown lol
SportsRe: Photos: Meet Beautiful Francisca Ordega Who Plays For The Falcons by benedictac(f): 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2014
Crispels:
Always 7th to comment,When will I be first to comment sef undecided huh
don't worry about that, 7 is a number of perfection
TV/MoviesRe: Thread For DStv/GOtv Channel TELEMUNDO by benedictac(f): 6:49pm On Oct 27, 2014
SW- the most stuupid of the cast is Piedad. In love and pregnant for one and getting married to his supposed friend. if she was my sister I for slap her mercilessly. Abeg I dey vex self

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