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FamilyRe: 7 Ways An African Mother Expresses Love. by benedictac(f): 8:52pm On Nov 15, 2017
I never had this mother/daughter relationship coz I never grew up with her. Buh I'm doing my best for my son to speak very well and be proud of me. Love you son.
Foreign AffairsRe: Army Removes Robert Mugabe From Office As Zimbabwean President, Detain Him by benedictac(f): 12:26pm On Nov 15, 2017
What a disgrace. like say na him papa house mtcheeeeew
CelebritiesRe: Falz 'Playboy' Themed 27th Birthday Party In Pictures by benedictac(f): 10:20am On Oct 30, 2017
BrutalJab:
Can we see ur own standing eggs?
for your info my first son is 15 and I breast fed him. so imagine it urself. i nor be your mate
CelebritiesRe: Falz 'Playboy' Themed 27th Birthday Party In Pictures by benedictac(f): 10:19am On Oct 30, 2017
Daraph:
Show us your own smiley
for your info my first son is 15 and I breast fed him. so imagine it urself. i nor be your mate
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin N30 Million Birthday Gift To His Wife, Anthonia Fufeyin by benedictac(f): 9:19am On Oct 30, 2017
What even unbelievers don't do. the so called believers indulge in it. so how is God glorified in this showoff. may God have mercy on his people.
CelebritiesRe: Falz 'Playboy' Themed 27th Birthday Party In Pictures by benedictac(f): 9:12am On Oct 30, 2017
who be that bae with flat rate?
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Victory Ibe Buys A Car, Flaunts Bundles Of Cash In Rivers (Photos) by benedictac(f): 4:49pm On Oct 25, 2017
dainformant:
Sharing photos of his new car via his Facebook page, he wrote; "na one life I get I no get another one, I just bought this one now, Grace"...

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/nigerian-pastor-acquires-new-ride-flaunts-bundle-of-money.html
He has said it all. Na one life him get. coz he knows where he's going. there's life in heaven that I know.
CelebritiesRe: Gifty Shares Another Nude Picture On Instagram, Fans React by benedictac(f): 6:41pm On Oct 18, 2017
That's all she has to showcase. what else do you expect from a brainless slay girl coz she is not qualified to be called a BAE (BRAVE AND ENTREPRENEUR)
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Army Press Release - Disregard False Rumours Of Forceful Vaccinations by benedictac(f): 7:03am On Oct 18, 2017
When has it become the NA's duty to do that? You came to harass, beat and hospitalized me now you are bringing food for me, I dont want. haba NA should leave these people alone na by force?

These soldiers should go and do peace keeping in other countries coz it's seems they are jobless here.
SportsRe: Amal Fashanu, My Daughter Pays The Bills - John Fashanu (Photos) by benedictac(f): 2:26pm On Oct 11, 2017
comshots:
How is John fashanu a billionaire?
That's not the koko. The koko is that his daughter pays the bills
PoliticsRe: Military Is Not Forcing Anyone To Take Vaccination At Nnewi-PICTURES by benedictac(f): 2:24pm On Oct 11, 2017
Elioandrew:
Thanks for this pictures. Nigerians na wa. They will just be spreading false news.
I never believed it before coz it's not just possible
PoliticsRe: Fayose Gives Job To 51 Physically Challenged Persons, Places 100 More On Social by benedictac(f): 11:35am On Oct 11, 2017
stobery:
hi How many nairaland likes to bang you grin
As old as you are, you are still this stuuupid
PoliticsRe: Fayose Gives Job To 51 Physically Challenged Persons, Places 100 More On Social by benedictac(f): 9:18am On Oct 11, 2017
Him try. Why is he just doing this? is it because of campaign? werin be my own self? Lemme be going abeg
CelebritiesRe: Bolanle Ninolowo: "N10,000 Was My First Earning As An Actor" by benedictac(f): 1:42pm On Oct 08, 2017
AyLuxury:
How u wan take sabi am wen na dat rubbish Zee world una dey watch
Why the insult on a Sunday afternoon like this na?
CelebritiesRe: Bolanle Ninolowo: "N10,000 Was My First Earning As An Actor" by benedictac(f): 1:04pm On Oct 08, 2017
I don't know him

Modified

Okaaaaay na Nollywood. No wonder I don't know him
CelebritiesRe: DJ Olu And Chime Found Dead In Their Car (Davido's Friends) by benedictac(f): 11:58am On Oct 08, 2017
KAYCEEJUNIOR:
When he was singing money fall on you, y'all think he was joking.... Juju on the beat
And some people still dey dance "money fall on them" OK ooo
CelebritiesRe: See What Jidenna Has To Say About Nigeria Qualifying For The World Cup by benedictac(f): 7:29am On Oct 08, 2017
dingbang:
Only for us to lose again at group stage... So what's all the celebration for? Let's only celebrate when we win world cup cuz I am tired
Don't be a sadist
BusinessRe: 7 Most Important Things To Consider Before Choosing A Business Partner by benedictac(f): 7:04pm On Oct 07, 2017
Partnership is a no no for me. God helping I can always afford the expansion biko
RomanceRe: Groom Plays Video Of Bride Cheating With Another Man At Their Wedding Dinner by benedictac(f): 10:35pm On Oct 06, 2017
iamJ:
maybe he found out after the wedding
Are you sure you read the story?
TV/MoviesRe: TSTV Decoder Picture by benedictac(f): 12:06pm On Oct 06, 2017
NeeKlaus:
Haaaa! If I put this one in front of TV, won't it cover the entire TV?? shocked


Lalasticlala, what do you think?
You can use it as TV stand. lolz
TV/MoviesRe: 6 Things To Know About TSTV Before Buying by benedictac(f): 7:26pm On Oct 01, 2017
XCLUX:
females and telemundo grin grin
Bros nor be my fault oooh. I nor dey understand football na. lolz
TV/MoviesRe: 6 Things To Know About TSTV Before Buying by benedictac(f): 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2017
XCLUX:
Better than dstv sha
e get telemundo?
RomanceRe: He Proposed 5 Days After Meeting Her For The First Time And She Said Yes(pics) by benedictac(f): 1:00pm On Oct 01, 2017
thesicilian:
You took an unwise gamble and were lucky it paid off. You may not be willing to admit it, but I'm sure realised the foolishness of your decision later and and are only still in the relationship because of one intervention or the other.
you can not be sure of what you don't know. Jesus has and will always be the rock of my marriage. till Jesus comes I'm and will always be happy in my marriage. I don't need to convince u otherwise my dear. it worked for me and I'm greatly happy. if I'm to still choose again I will still choose my husband.
RomanceRe: He Proposed 5 Days After Meeting Her For The First Time And She Said Yes(pics) by benedictac(f): 8:04pm On Sep 30, 2017
thesicilian:
Let us know how far one year from now.
My husband proposed to me one week after meeting and 6 months later we were fully married as in traditional, court and church wedding. we are 9 years together and still counting.

so it's very possible
CelebritiesRe: Zack Amata Weds For The First Time In His 60s (Photos) by benedictac(f): 8:37am On Sep 25, 2017
Nutase:
Testimony time.
Over comers time
EducationRe: See Assignment Given To A Primary 1 Pupil by benedictac(f): 8:33am On Sep 23, 2017
Goal cetting? that teacher should be sacked ASAP
CelebritiesRe: Selena Leath: "My Butt is Getting Bigger" (Pics) by benedictac(f): 12:04pm On Sep 22, 2017
So that's all her problem? Hair and butt. OK na kwuntinu
FamilyRe: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by benedictac(f): 6:30pm On Sep 17, 2017
dicefrost:
Usually, when I read tales of domestic violence, especially when i see a woman battered and bruised, i am quick to feel pity for her, and by default blame the man for being an 'animal'. I hate wife beaters with all my heart. But today's experience actually changed my view.

It started around 7a.m this sunday morning. My neighbor whose flat directly faces mine was washing his vehicle outside. I have never known him to be a violent man. He and his wife always argue and quarrel, but it has never been in the open. Just raised voices and exchanging unkind words. His wife walked in through the gate leading to the compound. As soon as she saw her husband, she started screaming, 'dirty man' 'pig' and some other obscenity in their local dialect. He was scolding the man for not wearing a slippers outdoors. He walking on water barefooted. The man told her to keep quiet and get him a slippers to put on. She continued on top of her voice. She insulted daylight out of the man. There was nothing this woman did not say, from the size of the man's joystick to the number of minutes he stays in the bedroom. Out of anger, the man poured the remaining water he was using to wash the car on her. She ran at him and gripped him by the collar almost choking him. At that point, myself and other neighbors who have been watching ran out to put an end to the fracas before it got out of hand. It took alot of pleading before she eventually let go and went inside. The man just stood there, i could tell that he was really embarrassed by the things his wife said. We advised him to be a man 'you know say na so women be na'.

Not up to 10 minutes later, the man started banging on the door to the house. His wife refused to let him in. She insisted that he must go and wash his feet thoroughly before entering the house, but there was no water outside anymore. The man shouted at her to bring water for him to wash up, but she kept insisting that there would have been water if he hadn't poured it on her. A shouting match ensued again, this woman continued her verbal assault. At about an hour later, when it was time to go to church, she came out all dressed, not knowing that her husband was around the corner. He came from nowhere and landed a slap on her cheeks. She swung her bag at him, and a piece of metal from the bag cut his Jaw. This man descended on his wife with series of slaps. She fought back violently. All the while i was observing through my window. She dipped her hand into the man's eye, and punched him several times. The man seemed to lose it completely and aimed a blow directly at her jaw. The woman screamed, next thing i saw was blood oozing out of her mouth. I ran out of my own apartment to calm things down. Behold she had lost two teeth. When we all came to separate them, the woman started wailing uncontrollably, saying that her husband has killed her. With the blood in her mouth and everything nobody even spared a thought for the man. I could see finger nail marks all over his face. His jaw was a bit swollen too.

I personally drove the woman to a nearby health center so they could clean her up. As we entered, we were greeted with questions 'wetin happen?' 'na accident'? She started crying and narrating how her husband wanted to kill her this morning because she insisted that 'he must wash his dirty legs before entering the house'. The Nurses there started berating men in general, with each person narrating different experiences of domestic violence they had encountered. They were all full of sympathy for her. It was the general assumption that the she married a devil as husband. I just sat there listening to them demonizing men and wondering. The husband even called me while at the health center to know if it was serious. He sounded really worried. He wanted to drive down to meet us. I just discouraged him from coming, because his wife has already made him out to be a devil here.

Whenever the story of domestic violence is told, it is only narrated from the woman's perspective. We often see her in tears, with bruises all over. She plays the victim, because she is the one that usually ends up with bruises, even if she may have delivered the first punch. We hardly hear the man's side of the story, we don't perceive his emotion, he hardly has any physical scars from the encounter, so we assume he wasn't hurt. He is always the violent one, because he won't let you know that a woman's words broke him, he won't gather a crowd a to tell his story.

I'm totally against domestic violence, whether physical or verbal. I believe two people who claim to love each other should be able to settle issues amicably with resorting to abusive language and physical confrontation. If your differences are irreconcilable, then end the damn marriage and let everyone go in peace. I think the real beast is the man that will descend on a woman at the smallest provocation. But as a woman, If you instigate a physical confrontation, either by words or action, make sure you win the fight that ensues.

Next time i read or hear about domestic violence, with a picture of a battered and bruised woman, i won't jump into the 'Men are beasts' wagon, not untill i know the full story.
This is exactly the same thing happening in my compound. everyone even me is quick to judge the husband until I got to know them better. the woman is a pain as in a pain kai. This early morning I heard the man telling the wife to get out of the bathroom as he was there and probably avoiding another fracas my people, this woman became a parrot. I had to call him on phone and begged him to just ignore her. he eventually left the house for church leaving the wife and son behind. Some women are just the problem of their homes walahi
PoliticsRe: "Terrorist IPOB Is Just An ATM For Nnamdi Kanu"- Buhari’s Aide, Lauretta Onochie by benedictac(f): 9:32pm On Sep 16, 2017
When people of integrity are talking this woman should just hide under a table biko.
CrimeRe: Hot Water Poured On Baby By His Jealous Stepmother In Katsina (Graphic Picture) by benedictac(f): 8:41pm On Sep 16, 2017
O My Goooooooood. It shall never be well with that woman that did this to this innocent child.
PoliticsRe: Northern Youths In Kano React To Clash In South-East (Photos) by benedictac(f): 1:36pm On Sep 16, 2017
It's cheaper to be at peace than war. Kudos to them.
RomanceRe: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by benedictac(f): 1:26pm On Sep 16, 2017
Your girlfriend is the definition of CAPITAL M.U.M.U. Her brain is less than that of a goat, coz even a goat won't do that. Haba! girls wise up na

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