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Bros, the fact that one or even two of the children in a family is/are sick and hospitalised, does that stop the father or/and mother from going to work to make ends meet? Is that to say they don't care about their children? Will that make them wear rag or walk naked to show how much they care about their children? Enough of all the pettiness. Read 1976 Newspaper, you will see same thing about hunger, poverty, armed robbery and these vices. They didn't just start and there is no perfect society. Hunger in the land, poverty ravaging, some people are still making it big without knowing anyone in the same Nigeria. Pack the laziness aside and charge yourself. Enough of the rhetorics. God bless you sir. pdppower: |
They are called Headless Mob for a reason. We know them. They have been directionless from existence (that's the day they discovered themselves), no King, no history, no heritage. Tueh! How dare you insult a revered representative of a kingdom on something that has nothing to do with you? Listen, Bible says - Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding" (Proverbs 17:28, KJV) An adage says, someone who does not possess, value, or appreciate their own heritage, father, or unique quality cannot truly understand or appreciate its worth. Gold is sold only to those who know its value. We are never surprised Freshandfitpod: |
Sometimes I wonder how we find ourselves in the midst of people who lacks comprehension like this JAXXY. You can record in public but not capturing faces without a consent. It is not done anywhere. Read Nigeria's Data Protection Act and learn. Let her try that with someone like me, she will never repeat it. What kind of gaslighting and disturbance of public peace is that? Apart from BRT in Lagos, you have the yellow buses, luxurious buses, yellow cabs, Uber, Bolt, Indrive and she can also own a car. Why the obsession with Lagos? You were referred to the Act to read but no, you have understanding problem. Before you say anything, they are mentioning other countries even when they have never left the shores of Nigeria. I trust Lagos State laws, she go hear am. Lagos has laws and not where non State actors control the citizens. Know this and know peace. jaxxy: |
I know we will definitely have different opinions but to be candid, is ₦90,000 annual tuition fees not too small for a nursing school? Nursery schools won't even accept that on a yearly basis, at least like ₦60,000 per term, making ₦180,000.00 a year. To learn tailoring, there are places you pay as much as over ₦1,000,000.00. Same Nigerians will complain that lecturers salaries are nothing to write home about. We will complain of no laboratory and medical equipment in these schools, How about research funding? Some nursing schools' hostel fee is over ₦500k per annum, not tuition. We will compare Nigeria to all other countries to make it look bad, what is ₦90,000.00 for a nursing school? About $67, even the ₦580,000.00 is still not up to $450. When they finish studying, they are not even ready to stay and serve the country but travel to another country and be condemning the same Nigeria that gave them the platform. I can bet that very few or none of these people can achieve a nursing school abroad financially. ₦580,000 for a nursing school is fair. We should stop being irrational when it comes to Nigeria Matter. If we don't have positive contributions, silence can be golden. Govt must feed you, Govt must do everything, it's always complain here and there. If a nursery school tuition fee is ₦5,000, will anyone of you ever allow your babies to attend? You will easily say the standard is low but Universities should be collecting ₦19k annually. The fact that some enjoyed free education, doesn't mean it will be like that for ever, we need to build our country now, let's all sit tight and be ready to make the sacrifice. If I were the school authority, I won't change it. That's my own opinion. Share yours. Prestar: |
Children of Perdition. Rest! Yoruba no see you. What has the Yoruba got to do with this? Debunk or Affirm but no. Immediately your irks have started liking the rubbish you posted. One thing I have always cherished about the Yorubas is their maturity and winning methodologies. It's far from comprehension, very smart and tactical people. Not the emotional babies always attacking and insult instead of giving evidences. They are raised to insult, nothing more. It's true that the empty barrel makes the loudest noise. The Yorubas don't even see you but forcing yourself to be noticed. Imagine you people gathering on X, planning to deliberately gaslight the Yorubas through propaganda and lies. On top what? Chai. God will deliver you guys from Yoruba obsession. Frigga13: |
AqualinaXYZ:Guy, why are you and your irks fellas so excited that your country is to be invaded? Why do you always feel happy about any odd news concerning Nigeria? Do you have any place to call your own apart from Nigeria? The dead dream Biafra is still a subset of the entity call Nigeria anytime, any day. For everyone who has wished this soil evil, their generations can never eat the fruits of the land no matter how much they gather, go and check it. Think about it, the only relatively safe Zone in Nigeria is the South West, in terms of terrorism, banditry, kidnappings (which has been a normal trade in the south east before Niger Delta guys copied) cannibalism (south east), beheading and decapitating (south east), and other evil vices. Do you see Nigeria as one gathering of Nursery pupils? How about countries invaded by the US in the past, what happened? They left them worse than they met it. Trump, Arnold, and the rest of them, is it the love of Nigeria they have or a sinister motive? You guys have allowed generational hates and curses to blindfold you. When they come, places of particular concerns are North West North East North Central, and South East. Think about that. But I can bet that Nigeria is coming out of this stronger. Yes we want banditry and terrorism to end in Nigeria. It's our wish. But ask me, I will joyfully choose any northern state to dwell than anywhere in the south east, not even on any bait. All your excitements will end in tears when Nigeria wins. Your antics are stale. Your generations won't witness the break of Nigeria as a country, it's dead on arrival. Go and fix your zone. Hating Nigeria because of your failed expansionist ideas won't do Nigeria any evil but excel. Write this down. There's serious hardship we agree, but there's also an improvement. Nigeria, your enemies shall have no peace to settle. I have no place to call my home but Nigeria. |
Racoon:See them! The uncultured Descendants. |
ravensckar:You are obviously damaged and I know your kind. To you now, you have achieved something by hurling insults without making a single sense, no points just a show of how damaged and shallow minded you are. I won't dignify you a response cos you don't wrestle with a pig, I'm royalty. This is about Ned and Regina, sharing opinion isn't a show of abuse and insults. You may think it's a faceless forum. However, I will be praying for your restoration. |
ravensckar:You are obviously a child, void of experience and emotions. Otherwise, you won't reason this way. He married a girl, of her children's age. There was no record of her doing drugs as at the time he married her, which means this started under his roof. The question is, is this how he has handled his children of same age? The girl should get better or how did it start? If she has started it and he noticed it, what measure has he taken to stop it or she's too big for such? The man failed and I felt ashamed hearing such from him in defense. I am a MAN. Whatever that means to you. I will blame Ned for her woes a million times. So I should support men that failed in their duties. Ask the ladies even of over 50 years old, if they can cope when it comes to issues as such, with their husbands not to talk of a 24 years old girl. You are the one talking from your anus without reasoning. Matured men and women here understands what I've referenced deeper Regina did not just go into drugs for fun, if it was true. Better understand this to have a peaceful life when you are married, that's if you are not. Peace unto you. |
Racoon:My dear brothers, Cc: Racoon, Gidgidy, Kettykin, Lagosorigin, Brendia or something and others. I appreciate your passion and contributions on this forum. I've been impressed by your dedication on this forum's cause, and I believe your contributions are essential to its growth too. I have others opposing too, I observe, but this is for you. It creates engagement but let's talk about values now. However, I've noticed that your approach can come across as quite biased, and I'm worried that it's actually hurting your tribe's reputation rather than helping it. My analysis suggests that your non-objective approach is, in fact, detrimental to your ethnic group's reputation and influence. The constant blame-shifting and refusal to acknowledge your own shortcomings are likely contributing factors to the widespread criticism you face, each time, every time. Instead of blaming the whole world for your woes, maybe you can take a step back and examine what you might be doing wrong. To turn this around, I want to suggest you conduct a thorough self-assessment, identifying areas where you can improve your actions. This can transform your people into a more credible, empathetic, and respected entity that people from all walks of life can rally behind You always come to defend (Only and always) your tribe, even though your reasoning are quite well built and detailed but always non-objective and biased. Your mind is always fixed at being defensive. Thats not strength, it's weakness. Everyone see this emotional reaction in your tribe. Others are strategic, calculative and always winning, either you like it or not. You can call it anything. Think about some things that you can do differently to make your tribe more relatable and attractive to others. You are actually the only one hating on others and always at loggerheads with other. Others are technically at peace with every others. Everything is not competition, and if it has to be, then positive, not negative as you push. Please re-strategize, and work together to identify areas for improvement and find ways to make your contributions more valuable and positive. After all, it's unlikely that everyone is wrong and you re the only ones right. Strive for a more balanced perspective, considering multiple viewpoints and facts, what are you defending. It doesn't work like that, it's getting worse each time. This way, you will build a stronger, more resilient group that is better equipped to address the challenges you keep facing with everyone around the world. Don't mind my long epistles |
pocohantas:Let me just air this personal observation and I want the sensible and objective fellows in this forum to assess it critically. At the National Assembly in Abuja, Senator Ned has some media aides. (SA photography, PA, SA social Media etc). They numbered about Six (6) young ladies, they might be more than six (6). These ladies should range between 21 years to 25 years if I'm not mistaken. The beauty and sleekness of these ladies outshines Regina. Regina is not in their league as per beauty. I've seen these young ladies with cameras, papers and the PA with Senator Ned on two different occasions in Lagos, three of them came with him and they were all lodged with the senators at Eko Hotels. I marvelled at how clean they look and young. There is no way Regina will not react to all these, and I believe this may be one of the reasons she might be misbehaving, if that's true. I know people will say she's not the first wife and blah blah but she's still a young girl and it's not easy, I can attest. Even the older women may find it traumatising having ladies around her husband. I don't know if anyone has an idea about this. This is another FFK saga loading. Regina will be denied of her kids from the angle the man is hitting from bad this will further suffer the girl. There's nothing bad in marrying for money, those that have married for love also suffer. So it's a choice. Her beauty too is part of what Ned went after. I am sure she has a lot of battles she has been going through in Ned's house especially with what I saw. |
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This guy is always bereft of ideas, can't ever be objective but reacting like chemicals It's not a must to comment. How can this be your response to a well articulated national issue? Why can't you see a lot of sense in what comrade highlighted here? Tochi3: |
Bro, the is not a contest. Peace is relative, it depends on how you define it and what it means to you. Are you married? If you are not, then we may not have much to discuss because you won't understand. I also observed your mind is closed, may be based on your experience or exposure. What do you mean by feminism? Respecting a woman so I can enjoy myself means feminism? It's strength if you learn from someone else's ideas and not pig headed on your beliefs. No offence please. Recall I mentioned that it is an experience, it depends on what you want to make from the experience. I am married. I have ways been in charge. The kids are absolutely ours together Your response sounded like you are broken and ready to fight. We are all sharing our views here. You don't have to take mine and I don't have to take yours. I have just shared my own experience. Those are just what my wife has been to me. I have gained a lot. Just take a chill pill. Thank you. goran3310: |
So this question - Marriage? Wetin man dey gain really? This is not to change others view but from my experience, the man basically has the woman as a slave to perform the underlisted. 1. Housekeeper/Cleaner 2. Nanny for the children 3. Laundry services 4. Errands girl 5. intimacy gadget 6. Baby mama or pregnant carrier 7. Home keeper (different from house keeper) 8. Childrens driver/school runs 9. Cook 10. Multiplier (may be not in all cases) 11. Backbone/Spiritual partner (where there is a bond) 12. Helper ( representing you in many events) Men take all these from women for free of charge. In case you doubt, ask questions. I have gained financial support for my business from my brother in law than any bank or individual. This depends on the kind of relationship you have with your wife. Even my partner herself after I've set her up, she may not give me the money directly for the fear of giving to another woman but when support is needed, I fear nothing financially with her. Do we even check ourselves as men or we just run out to expect a perfect relationship from our woman? It's even easy to heep all the man's mistakes and blames on her, and label her as evil. This is not always true. Someone said above that marriage is a test of leadership from God for men. There was another one trying to justify that what if the love starts to shift, check yourself too. This all depends on your management style. So far, Ive had to mutually balance control between myself and my partner. It's always a learning curve and we all have our experiences but it's been a sweet experience. I know marriage is not anyone's mate but this is my direct experience. Men has a lot to gain, not to even talk about having smart and lovely kids. |
Yes he does. He was in Nigeria, Ogun State precisely in 2023 for business assessment. https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/04/23/day-mr-gatwick-called-at-gateway-agro-cargo-airport/ Mynd44: |
A thought-provoking statement! While it's impossible to provide exhaustive proof, I'll offer some insights to support this claim: I have read a lot of things on this platform about why trusting women is at your own peril, why if you don’t meet your wife as a virgin, then you must do DNA for the kids. I have seen how the female gender has been demonized as if they are good for nothing even when we as the opposite sex havent really been able to do without them, as the necessary evil. Trust is not only about being faithful to one partner; it is much deeper than that so I will agree with this that you trust nobody; that’s on absolute terms. Relatively, we still have people we trust and they have never betrayed. It is not enough to write-off the female gender, based on my personal experience. The women I have met along the path of my life, one way or the other, have always been huge contributing factors to my growth, life quality and happiness, even much more than male friends and family members. I will never use derogatory words on women based on this assertion. They only reciprocated my disposition over the years. So its like a matter of what you sow, you reap. This is not to say people can’t betray, even men do. Let’s all gather here. Men, Women, Ladies, Guys, Boys and Girls. This submission goes both ways, not just for women and these are my reasons. Human Limitations 1. Emotional and physical exhaustion: No matter how loving and dedicated a husband is, he can experience emotional and physical exhaustion, making it challenging to meet his wife's needs consistently. 2. Differing emotional and intimacy needs: Men and women often have different emotional and intimacy needs, which can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction or unmet expectations. 3. Unrealistic expectations: Societal pressures, media portrayals, or personal expectations can create unrealistic standards for marital satisfaction, leading to disappointment and dissatisfaction. Relationship Dynamics 1. Communication breakdowns: Even with the best intentions, communication breakdowns can occur, leading to misunderstandings and unmet needs. 2. Conflict and disagreements: No marriage is immune to conflicts and disagreements, which can create tension and dissatisfaction. 3. Changing needs and desires: As individuals grow and evolve, their needs and desires may change, potentially creating a mismatch between partners. External Factors 1. Work-life balance: The demands of work, family, and other responsibilities can leave a husband feeling drained and unable to fully meet his wife's needs. 2. Health issues: Physical or mental health issues can impact a husband's ability to satisfy his wife's emotional and physical needs. 3. Financial stress: Financial pressures can create tension and stress in a marriage, making it challenging for a husband to fully satisfy his wife's needs. Psychological and Emotional Factors 1. Different love languages: According to Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages theory, people express and receive love in different ways (e.g., words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch). A husband may not always speak his wife's primary love language. 2. Emotional intelligence: Men and women often have different emotional intelligence profiles, which can lead to misunderstandings and unmet emotional needs. 3. Attachment styles: Attachment theory suggests that people have different attachment styles (e.g., secure, anxious, avoidant). A husband's attachment style may not always align with his wife's, leading to feelings of insecurity or dissatisfaction. Communication and Intimacy 1. Communication barriers: Men and women often communicate differently, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. 2. Intimacy differences: Men and women may have different intimacy needs and preferences, which can create tension and dissatisfaction in a marriage. 3. Sexual differences: Men and women may have different sexual needs, desires, and preferences, which can be challenging to reconcile. Societal and Cultural Factors 1. Societal expectations: Societal expectations around marriage, gender roles, and relationships can create unrealistic pressures and expectations. 2. Cultural differences: Cultural differences between partners can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. 3. Media influence: The media often portrays unrealistic and idealized versions of marriage and relationships, which can create unrealistic expectations. Personal Growth and Development 1. Personal growth: Individuals grow and change over time, which can create differences in values, interests, and goals. 2. Changing needs: As individuals grow and develop, their needs and desires may change, potentially creating a mismatch between partners. 3. Self-awareness: Developing self-awareness and emotional intelligence takes time and effort, and individuals may not always be aware of their own needs and desires. While this is not exhaustive proof, it highlights some of the complexities and challenges that can arise in a marriage, making it difficult for a husband to fully satisfy his wife's needs at all times. Please mature minds, feel free to drop your contributions and let’s rub minds together. But for me, I am trying my best, but the first failure will be to want to satisfy my woman 100%. Society too will have its own to contribute to everyone’s satisfaction, whatever that could mean. |
I want to believe you are a grown up man. So why acting stupid? Please how does this relate to calling Helinues? Proverbs 17:28. (ESV) Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent. Take a clue from this. Let's make the platform what is used to be by getting rid of the your likes please. HonestAfonja: |
Are you a slave? Why are you insulting your fellow Nigerian because of Racist Trump who doesn't even care if you exist or not? What is wrong with you? If you are well raised, you won't be attacking someone's mother that you don't even know. You consider this platform a faceless forum? SMH kingbee90: |
Since Ekpa was arrested, this Gidgiddy guy has not known peace. He has been so restless. Leave the two governments of Nigeria and Finland to do their things and stop the assumptions. All we know is that since his arrest, there's a lot of calmness in the South East. |
This obsession of the Igbos with Ikwere people is nothing but low self esteem on Igbos. Please allow sanity on our internet space and stop the attache by force. They came out to disclaim their union with Igbos but people keep writing rejoinder upon rejoinder insisting Ikwere are Igbos. Now I can understand the feel of arrogance we tend to see amongst the igbos are nothing but their lack of confidence and low self esteem. Bukola Saraki is a Yoruba name, the Yorubas have never for once drag it with him when he claimed to be a northerner. Same thing with Dino Melaye and Smart Adeyemi of the prestigious Okun People from Kogi state, the Yorubas never dragged anything with them. They bear yoruba names, even their culture and ancestral linkage. The Nagos tribe of Brazil are Yoruba speaking tribe with Yoruba Names, culture and religion. Same thing with the Lukumi tribe of Cuba. I have never seen the Yorubas doing attache by force to any of these groups. The Igbos said they are descendants of the Jews from Israel, but they were outrightly rejected. You dont know where you are from but you still want to add to your load. If Ikwere says they are not igbos, please let them be and stop claiming history that never existed. Wike had once explained the meaning of his Nyesom as different interpretation from Igbos Nyesom. Please let them be. If truly there is a tie with the Igbos, they will naturally stage a comeback, not this by force attachment. There was a motive by insisting Ohaneze President should come from Ikwere and whosoever wants to associate is free to do so. Chief Sunday Awoniyi was once the President of the Arewa Consultative Forum. Awoniyi is a Yoruba name. He was from Kogi state but the Yorubas never dragged it with him. My dear Igbo people, please take a chill pill on this matter. Rest and let the nature take its course on this. Enough of these baseless and shameful arguments. If they are so igbos in culture and nature, they would have returned Igbos assets after the war but they refused and kept them till date. Let this matter rest Biko. |
He simply asked a question. Why? You only succeeded in attacking him and barking like a dog without making any meaningful response. Is that how fatuous you are? SMH Tinubuagbado: |
Your first question is an incomplete equation. But if anyone has solved the equation, please share. [quote author=ebubeson post=133483144](1) A man's age is twice that of his son. Six years ago, the product of their ages was 80. Find their current ages. The man's age plus 18 is the last two digits of the first card below. 161138627470363_ _ The boy's age plus 36 is the last two digits of the second card below. 236895909200717 _ _ 161138627470363_ _ |
Oil dey your head. That's Strategic Thinking. I'm happy to comment when I see people who can still reason differently. It is simply called Collateral Damage. This is the only way the banditry and terrorists activities over there have been decimated. There is no mistake anywhere. Nigerians should stop being too emotional about issues. This is the third time. adioolayi: |
This Bigkoko, i guess is the same as Gidgiddy. You guys should just rest abeg. This should be your 10th post why he can't be arrested or extradited. That's how you pushed Nnamdi Kanu till this point. Now you are here again. You are not Finland Govt nor Nigeria Govt. Why the unrest? Are you part of those benefitting financially from Ekpa Simon? See long article! Rest Biko. |
Ribadu is only psyching Nigerians towards collection of the suspended Cybersecurity Tax by the ONSA. Let's all wait for it. Nothing more. |
What else are you other than an idiot and a useless being? No one in your entire lineage will ever near Tinubu's achievements, in your lifetime and after you. AqualinaXYZ: |
Guy, it's obvious you are jobless. Where and how do you get time to comment on all issues here on Nairaland? If truly you are an adult who has plan for life, don't you have something worthy doing? Are you paid for commenting on this forum? You are always among the first to always have an empty opinion on all issues, meanwhile all your comments are senseless but only directed towards your hatred for tinubu. Why can't you start mapping out a strategy on how someone from your tribe or entire generation can at least achieve a quarter of the feat Tinubu has achieved so far in his lifetime? Seriously I pity you. I can't imagine how frustrated you would be by now. SMH. taylor88: |
I am actually not surprised by your uncouth response. Its in your DNA. Ekiti indigenes are well brought up with good manners and they know what self sustainability means. They have a root. Baby factory problem is one of the major reasons why people from your region are so arrogant, rude, wicked and uncouth. Imagine baby factory trade which has been on in your region for over 30 years. How are we sure the one you claimed to be your father is actually your biological father? Same with your mother? Replying people like you is share waste of time. Go to Ekiti and see for yourself. They don't beg. riverbird: |
For anyone seeking the downfall of Nigeria like elements of your kind, they will never reap the fruit of the land. For as many people as obedients waiting to rejoice at bad news for Nigera, that bad news will always be their portion. What did Tinubu do wrong to you guys if not just hatred that will consume you and your generations? Sore looser. Dvdpity: |
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