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PoliticsRe: State Banquet For President Tinubu In The UK (Photos & Video) by Benglarue: 11:36pm On Mar 18
Bros, the fact that one or even two of the children in a family is/are sick and hospitalised, does that stop the father or/and mother from going to work to make ends meet?

Is that to say they don't care about their children? Will that make them wear rag or walk naked to show how much they care about their children?

Enough of all the pettiness.

Read 1976 Newspaper, you will see same thing about hunger, poverty, armed robbery and these vices. They didn't just start and there is no perfect society.

Hunger in the land, poverty ravaging, some people are still making it big without knowing anyone in the same Nigeria.

Pack the laziness aside and charge yourself.

Enough of the rhetorics.

God bless you sir.



pdppower:
While bandits and Boko Haram are ravaging the land. May God save Nigeria as the leaders don't care about us.
CultureRe: Oba Of Benin Suspends Palace Queen, Chiefs by Benglarue: 6:40pm On Mar 18
They are called Headless Mob for a reason. We know them. They have been directionless from existence (that's the day they discovered themselves), no King, no history, no heritage. Tueh!

How dare you insult a revered representative of a kingdom on something that has nothing to do with you?

Listen, Bible says - Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding" (Proverbs 17:28, KJV)

An adage says, someone who does not possess, value, or appreciate their own heritage, father, or unique quality cannot truly understand or appreciate its worth.

Gold is sold only to those who know its value.

We are never surprised



Freshandfitpod:
Who still take this oba's seriously, this is a modern era no one give attention to this criminals posing as traditional rulers
TravelRe: LAMATA Refutes Confrontation With Tiktoker Darkskinnedella, Cites Privacy Rules by Benglarue: 10:58pm On Mar 11
Sometimes I wonder how we find ourselves in the midst of people who lacks comprehension like this JAXXY.

You can record in public but not capturing faces without a consent.

It is not done anywhere. Read Nigeria's Data Protection Act and learn.

Let her try that with someone like me, she will never repeat it.

What kind of gaslighting and disturbance of public peace is that?

Apart from BRT in Lagos, you have the yellow buses, luxurious buses, yellow cabs, Uber, Bolt, Indrive and she can also own a car.

Why the obsession with Lagos?

You were referred to the Act to read but no, you have understanding problem. Before you say anything, they are mentioning other countries even when they have never left the shores of Nigeria.

I trust Lagos State laws, she go hear am. Lagos has laws and not where non State actors control the citizens. Know this and know peace.





jaxxy:
The video was for awareness and documentation and not harassment or malicious purposes.

Or is the grammar u posted difficult for you to understand?
EducationRe: Anambra Nursing Students Protest Hike In Fees From ₦90,000 To ₦580,000 (Video) by Benglarue: 12:53pm On Mar 11
I know we will definitely have different opinions but to be candid, is ₦90,000 annual tuition fees not too small for a nursing school?

Nursery schools won't even accept that on a yearly basis, at least like ₦60,000 per term, making ₦180,000.00 a year.

To learn tailoring, there are places you pay as much as over ₦1,000,000.00.

Same Nigerians will complain that lecturers salaries are nothing to write home about.

We will complain of no laboratory and medical equipment in these schools, How about research funding?

Some nursing schools' hostel fee is over ₦500k per annum, not tuition.

We will compare Nigeria to all other countries to make it look bad, what is ₦90,000.00 for a nursing school? About $67, even the ₦580,000.00 is still not up to $450.

When they finish studying, they are not even ready to stay and serve the country but travel to another country and be condemning the same Nigeria that gave them the platform.

I can bet that very few or none of these people can achieve a nursing school abroad financially.

₦580,000 for a nursing school is fair. We should stop being irrational when it comes to Nigeria Matter. If we don't have positive contributions, silence can be golden.

Govt must feed you, Govt must do everything, it's always complain here and there.

If a nursery school tuition fee is ₦5,000, will anyone of you ever allow your babies to attend? You will easily say the standard is low but Universities should be collecting ₦19k annually.

The fact that some enjoyed free education, doesn't mean it will be like that for ever, we need to build our country now, let's all sit tight and be ready to make the sacrifice.

If I were the school authority, I won't change it.

That's my own opinion.

Share yours.
Prestar:
RomanceRe: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Benglarue: 3:37pm On Nov 29, 2025
Children of Perdition. Rest! Yoruba no see you.

What has the Yoruba got to do with this? Debunk or Affirm but no. Immediately your irks have started liking the rubbish you posted.

One thing I have always cherished about the Yorubas is their maturity and winning methodologies. It's far from comprehension, very smart and tactical people. Not the emotional babies always attacking and insult instead of giving evidences. They are raised to insult, nothing more.

It's true that the empty barrel makes the loudest noise.

The Yorubas don't even see you but forcing yourself to be noticed.

Imagine you people gathering on X, planning to deliberately gaslight the Yorubas through propaganda and lies. On top what?

Chai. God will deliver you guys from Yoruba obsession.



Frigga13:
This is what a Yoruba man from their ritualistic enclave is trying to raise


And the mods and bots will leave this

Only if igbos know how deep the hatred from this Yoruba people runs

Haba!

Yoruba make Una rest..

Una too Dey hate and envy

They don’t marry for love and so what?

Yoruba wey Dey use their wives and parent for rituals Dey talk love

Imagine


Very careless and useless
PoliticsRe: Foreign Reserves Rise By $540.28 Million In Two Weeks To $43.17 Billion by Benglarue: 12:52am On Nov 03, 2025
AqualinaXYZ:
Oga this your propaganda job no easy oo




Trump is coming shaa
Guy, why are you and your irks fellas so excited that your country is to be invaded?

Why do you always feel happy about any odd news concerning Nigeria? Do you have any place to call your own apart from Nigeria? The dead dream Biafra is still a subset of the entity call Nigeria anytime, any day.

For everyone who has wished this soil evil, their generations can never eat the fruits of the land no matter how much they gather, go and check it.

Think about it, the only relatively safe Zone in Nigeria is the South West, in terms of terrorism, banditry, kidnappings (which has been a normal trade in the south east before Niger Delta guys copied) cannibalism (south east), beheading and decapitating (south east), and other evil vices.

Do you see Nigeria as one gathering of Nursery pupils? How about countries invaded by the US in the past, what happened? They left them worse than they met it.

Trump, Arnold, and the rest of them, is it the love of Nigeria they have or a sinister motive? You guys have allowed generational hates and curses to blindfold you.

When they come, places of particular concerns are

North West
North East
North Central, and
South East.

Think about that.

But I can bet that Nigeria is coming out of this stronger. Yes we want banditry and terrorism to end in Nigeria. It's our wish. But ask me, I will joyfully choose any northern state to dwell than anywhere in the south east, not even on any bait.

All your excitements will end in tears when Nigeria wins.

Your antics are stale. Your generations won't witness the break of Nigeria as a country, it's dead on arrival. Go and fix your zone.

Hating Nigeria because of your failed expansionist ideas won't do Nigeria any evil but excel. Write this down.

There's serious hardship we agree, but there's also an improvement.

Nigeria, your enemies shall have no peace to settle. I have no place to call my home but Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Wole Soyinka Reacts As U.S Revokes His Visa Permanently by Benglarue: 5:42pm On Oct 28, 2025
Racoon:
See him hallucinating like he matters to the US. The bigoted cornfield professor must have thought that the US is a lawless country like the one he has helped to enthroned back here.
See them! The uncultured Descendants.
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels Battling Drug, Alcohol Abuse - Ned Nwoko Break Silence by Benglarue: 7:58am On Oct 23, 2025
ravensckar:
You're inherently not gifted with a faculty of discernment! You're just stringing words together trying to sound smart, but deep down you're a congenital fóól who has taken a permanent leave of his senses.

If I'm a "child" then, it means you're a foetus because your reasoning is not only antithetical but also not in accordance with common sense.

For you to blame NED for Regina's actions insinuates the kind of faulty education that you had (that is if at all you had any). In what context, under what circumstance should another person be blamed for another adult's decision? Oh! I forgot! You can't reason properly because you were born with a cerebral disorder.

You're not a "man" but a foetus if you'll willingly accept responsibility for a grown woman's action. It's people like you that they call "woman wrapper".

For the record, Regina was 18 (when she married a serial polygamist). And by implication, she was already an adult. Again, she should have known what she signed up for. Wanting to have your cake is one thing. Wanting to eat it is another. But to want to have your cake after eating it is nothing but gross stóópidity. I refuse to be sympathetic to such!

Secondly, her addiction to substance abuse didn't start at Ned's house. Unless of course you're pretending to be both blind & deaf to the stories that are all over the Internet. Let's even assume that NED frustrated her, is resorting to drugs the most viable option? Abi brain dey pain you ni? When did beheading become the solution to headache? huh huh

Going by your upside down reasoning, it wouldn't be a crime for a person to rob a bank when he's broke. Shebi? Something dey worry you, you just haven't realized it yet.

I just hope you don't bring kids into the world with this faulty brain of yours because it's obvious you too inherited it from your lineage. Save the world the horror of having to entertain another creature with a leaky brain. Don't get married please!
You are obviously damaged and I know your kind. To you now, you have achieved something by hurling insults without making a single sense, no points just a show of how damaged and shallow minded you are.

‎I won't dignify you a response cos you don't wrestle with a pig, I'm royalty. This is about Ned and Regina, sharing opinion isn't a show of abuse and insults.

‎You may think it's a faceless forum. However, I will be praying for your restoration.
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels Battling Drug, Alcohol Abuse - Ned Nwoko Break Silence by Benglarue:
ravensckar:
For all those feminist witches blaming NED NWOKO, I can understand their own folly. For what reason must a man like you also sound like you reason from your ànus?

Somebody was accused of being a drug addict, you're saying it may be due to her husband being surrounded by females. Since when did beheading become the solution to headache? angry angry

A young 18 year old girl get mind marry a grandpa with 5 wives before her. Didn't she know what she signed up for ni? Abi something dey worry all of una ni? huh
You are obviously a child, void of experience and emotions. Otherwise, you won't reason this way.

He married a girl, of her children's age. There was no record of her doing drugs as at the time he married her, which means this started under his roof. The question is, is this how he has handled his children of same age? The girl should get better or how did it start?

If she has started it and he noticed it, what measure has he taken to stop it or she's too big for such?

The man failed and I felt ashamed hearing such from him in defense.

I am a MAN. Whatever that means to you.

I will blame Ned for her woes a million times.

So I should support men that failed in their duties. Ask the ladies even of over 50 years old, if they can cope when it comes to issues as such, with their husbands not to talk of a 24 years old girl. You are the one talking from your anus without reasoning. Matured men and women here understands what I've referenced deeper

Regina did not just go into drugs for fun, if it was true. Better understand this to have a peaceful life when you are married, that's if you are not.

Peace unto you.
PoliticsRe: Edo High Court Bars The Installation Of Eze Ndigbo In Edo State by Benglarue: 12:57am On Oct 22, 2025
Racoon:
Guess issues like this gives you enough pleasure? Oba of Lagos Lagoon jumping issue, Badagry stop Igbo township project, Edo stopping the Igbo.

All united in unbridled bigotry & ethnic profiling. Well, it doesn't stop the Igbo race from achieving greatness. However, posterity beckons. Karma and Providence knows how to reward everyone.
‎My dear brothers,

‎Cc: Racoon,
‎Gidgidy,
‎Kettykin,
‎Lagosorigin,
‎Brendia or something and
‎others.

‎I appreciate your passion and contributions on this forum. I've been impressed by your dedication on this forum's cause, and I believe your contributions are essential to its growth too.

‎I have others opposing too, I observe, but this is for you. It creates engagement but let's talk about values now.

‎However, I've noticed that your approach can come across as quite biased, and I'm worried that it's actually hurting your tribe's reputation rather than helping it.

‎My analysis suggests that your non-objective approach is, in fact, detrimental to your ethnic group's reputation and influence. The constant blame-shifting and refusal to acknowledge your own shortcomings are likely contributing factors to the widespread criticism you face, each time, every time.

‎Instead of blaming the whole world for your woes, maybe you can take a step back and examine what you might be doing wrong.

‎To turn this around, I want to suggest you conduct a thorough self-assessment, identifying areas where you can improve your actions. This can transform your people into a more credible, empathetic, and respected entity that people from all walks of life can rally behind

‎You always come to defend (Only and always) your tribe, even though your reasoning are quite well built and detailed but always non-objective and biased. Your mind is always fixed at being defensive. Thats not strength, it's weakness.

‎Everyone see this emotional reaction in your tribe. Others are strategic, calculative and always winning, either you like it or not. You can call it anything.

‎Think about some things that you can do differently to make your tribe more relatable and attractive to others.

‎You are actually the only one hating on others and always at loggerheads with other. Others are technically at peace with every others. Everything is not competition, and if it has to be, then positive, not negative as you push.

‎Please re-strategize, and work together to identify areas for improvement and find ways to make your contributions more valuable and positive. After all, it's unlikely that everyone is wrong and you re the only ones right. Strive for a more balanced perspective, considering multiple viewpoints and facts, what are you defending. It doesn't work like that, it's getting worse each time.

‎This way, you will build a stronger, more resilient group that is better equipped to address the challenges you keep facing with everyone around the world.

Don't mind my long epistles
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels Battling Drug, Alcohol Abuse - Ned Nwoko Break Silence by Benglarue: 5:10pm On Oct 19, 2025
pocohantas:
What did you do to her, Sir?

You were given an 18yo beautiful virgin and you turned her into a drug addict.

Like Ned, like Tuface. Only two of you can tell us what you did to your wives.

I bet you will use this drug abuse accusation to have full custody of the kids. Typical!
Let me just air this personal observation and I want the sensible and objective fellows in this forum to assess it critically.

At the National Assembly in Abuja, Senator Ned has some media aides. (SA photography, PA, SA social Media etc). They numbered about Six (6) young ladies, they might be more than six (6).

These ladies should range between 21 years to 25 years if I'm not mistaken. The beauty and sleekness of these ladies outshines Regina. Regina is not in their league as per beauty.

I've seen these young ladies with cameras, papers and the PA with Senator Ned on two different occasions in Lagos, three of them came with him and they were all lodged with the senators at Eko Hotels. I marvelled at how clean they look and young.

There is no way Regina will not react to all these, and I believe this may be one of the reasons she might be misbehaving, if that's true. I know people will say she's not the first wife and blah blah but she's still a young girl and it's not easy, I can attest. Even the older women may find it traumatising having ladies around her husband.

I don't know if anyone has an idea about this. This is another FFK saga loading. Regina will be denied of her kids from the angle the man is hitting from bad this will further suffer the girl.

There's nothing bad in marrying for money, those that have married for love also suffer. So it's a choice. Her beauty too is part of what Ned went after.

I am sure she has a lot of battles she has been going through in Ned's house especially with what I saw.
PoliticsRe: Charly Boy Shares Bigoted Statement Flasely Credited To TY Danjuma by Benglarue: 7:11am On Oct 19, 2025
TruthHurts1:
https://x.com/AreaFada1/status/1979374074624172390?t=1IEtFWEtz41E8Z4WsQFeMw&s=19[/quote]I think it's time for the Igbo Tribe to check themselves and know what exactly is wrong. Why do they always have issues with everyone, everywhere, home and abroad?

The only problem you have with the Yorubas is the feel of their superiority, meanwhile every thing doesn't need to be competition.

In the history of Nigeria, a quick check on those who have stood against the excesses of power/government as individuals showed 80% to 90% have been of Yoruba descents. Are these the ones you call cowards?

They never chickened out like some other self acclaimed leaders.


A figure like Kanu, Ekpa cannot manipulate the Yorubas, like they did to the Igbos. That's how smart they are. Yorubas don't do things with emotions, but well thought thru and carefully plan, and that's the difference. Yorubas are not loud mouths and are always Ten steps ahead.

This is a quick check about activism in Nigeria. Are there no Igbos in Nigeria despite the claim of speaking the truth? They are the real cowards.

Early activists and the independence movement

Herbert Macaulay (1864–1946):

Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti (1900–1978): A pioneer of women's rights and a fierce anti-colonialist, she mobilized women to protest unfair colonial taxation and founded the Abeokuta Women's Union, which at its peak had 20,000 members.

Margaret Ekpo (1914–2006): A prominent anti-colonial and women's rights activist, she organized market women to advocate for their political and economic rights and worked alongside Ransome-Kuti to protest injustices.

Hajia Gambo Sawaba (1933–2001): As one of northern Nigeria's few female activists in the mid-20th century, she campaigned against child marriage, forced labor, and restrictions on women's education and political participation.

Anthony Enahoro (1923–2010): A veteran journalist and activist, he is celebrated for moving the first parliamentary motion for Nigeria's independence in 1953. 

Pro-democracy and human rights activists

Ken Saro-Wiwa (1941–1995): An author and environmental activist, he founded the Movement for the Survival of the Ogoni People (MOSOP) to protest the environmental damage caused by oil companies in the Niger Delta. He was executed by the military government in 1995.

Gani Fawehinmi (1938–2009): Known as "the people's lawyer," he used litigation and public commentary to challenge successive military and civilian governments on issues of human rights, corruption, and social justice.

Fela Anikulapo-Kuti (1938–1997): A musician and pioneer of the Afrobeat genre, he used his music as a platform to openly criticize corruption, military rule, and social injustices. His defiance led to frequent arrests and raids on his home.

Wole Soyinka (born 1934): A Nobel Prize-winning writer and political activist, he has consistently spoken out against military dictatorship and political corruption. He was imprisoned for 22 months during the civil war for his opposition to the conflict.

Beko Ransome-Kuti (1940–2006): Following in his mother's footsteps, this medical doctor and activist was a fearless opponent of military rule and a leader in Nigeria's pro-democracy movement. 

Modern-day activists

Aisha Yesufu (born 1973): A co-founder of the #BringBackOurGirls movement, she is a vocal advocate for good governance and women's rights, known for her powerful presence during protests.

Omoyele Sowore (born 1971): A human rights activist and former presidential candidate, he has been a consistent voice against government corruption and injustice, leading numerous protests.

Femi Falana (born 1958): A prominent human rights lawyer and activist, he is known for taking on cases that challenge government authority and defend the rights of ordinary citizens.
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole Slams PENGASSAN For Escalating Dangote Refinery Dispute by Benglarue: 4:49pm On Oct 03, 2025
This guy is always bereft of ideas, can't ever be objective but reacting like chemicals

It's not a must to comment.

How can this be your response to a well articulated national issue? Why can't you see a lot of sense in what comrade highlighted here?



Tochi3:
grin grin grin

..you see the type of creatures that surrounds tilumbu & Apcish..very deceptive, liars and double faced creatures..

..this man did worse in his role as NLC president..never backing down...it is like associating with tilumbu and Apcish retard backwards..

..come to apcish..& your sins will be forgiven..while your senses will be taken away from you..

grin grin
RomanceRe: Marriage? Wetin Man Dey Gain, Really? by Benglarue: 3:55am On Jun 05, 2025
Bro, the is not a contest. Peace is relative, it depends on how you define it and what it means to you.

Are you married? If you are not, then we may not have much to discuss because you won't understand. I also observed your mind is closed, may be based on your experience or exposure.

What do you mean by feminism? Respecting a woman so I can enjoy myself means feminism? It's strength if you learn from someone else's ideas and not pig headed on your beliefs. No offence please.

Recall I mentioned that it is an experience, it depends on what you want to make from the experience.

I am married.
I have ways been in charge.
The kids are absolutely ours together

Your response sounded like you are broken and ready to fight. We are all sharing our views here. You don't have to take mine and I don't have to take yours.

I have just shared my own experience.

Those are just what my wife has been to me. I have gained a lot.

Just take a chill pill.

Thank you.



goran3310:
With men like you, toxic feminism has a bright future. No intention of attacking you, just saying.

Let me ask:
Are those her children too?
Or did you bring your own kids into the marriage?

Every point you listed is absurd and wrongly framed, straight out of some feminist textbook.

An 'intimacy gadget'?
Is that how you define the loving relationship between spouses?

Does laundry?
Where does she wash? In the river? By hand?
Turns on the washing machine?
How much laundry do you even have?

'Home keeper'?!?!?
You don’t have doors?
Is she armed?

Everything you wrote sounds like it came from a bitter woman.

Be careful how you respond. My next post will verify your identity. Let’s see if you’re really a man. Take a photo of yourself holding a paper with your forum username and post it in the thread. 🙂
RomanceRe: Marriage? Wetin Man Dey Gain, Really? by Benglarue: 2:06am On Jun 05, 2025
So this question - Marriage? Wetin man dey gain really?

This is not to change others view but from my experience, the man basically has the woman as a slave to perform the underlisted.

1. Housekeeper/Cleaner
2. Nanny for the children
3. Laundry services
4. Errands girl
5. intimacy gadget
6. Baby mama or pregnant carrier
7. Home keeper (different from house keeper)
8. Childrens driver/school runs
9. Cook
10. Multiplier (may be not in all cases)
11. Backbone/Spiritual partner (where there is a bond)
12. Helper ( representing you in many events)

Men take all these from women for free of charge. In case you doubt, ask questions.

I have gained financial support for my business from my brother in law than any bank or individual. This depends on the kind of relationship you have with your wife.

Even my partner herself after I've set her up, she may not give me the money directly for the fear of giving to another woman but when support is needed, I fear nothing financially with her.

Do we even check ourselves as men or we just run out to expect a perfect relationship from our woman?

It's even easy to heep all the man's mistakes and blames on her, and label her as evil. This is not always true.

Someone said above that marriage is a test of leadership from God for men. There was another one trying to justify that what if the love starts to shift, check yourself too. This all depends on your management style.

So far, Ive had to mutually balance control between myself and my partner. It's always a learning curve and we all have our experiences but it's been a sweet experience.

I know marriage is not anyone's mate but this is my direct experience.

Men has a lot to gain, not to even talk about having smart and lovely kids.
BusinessRe: Six Nigerians Named In Forbes’ 2025 World’s Black Billionaires List by Benglarue: 9:11pm On Apr 04, 2025
Yes he does. He was in Nigeria, Ogun State precisely in 2023 for business assessment.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/04/23/day-mr-gatwick-called-at-gateway-agro-cargo-airport/


Mynd44:
Does Adebayo Ogunlesi identify as Nigerian?
RomanceNo Man Can Fully Satisfy A Woman! Know This, Know Peace. by Benglarue(op): 6:34pm On Feb 20, 2025
A thought-provoking statement! While it's impossible to provide exhaustive proof, I'll offer some insights to support this claim:

I have read a lot of things on this platform about why trusting women is at your own peril, why if you don’t meet your wife as a virgin, then you must do DNA for the kids.

I have seen how the female gender has been demonized as if they are good for nothing even when we as the opposite sex havent really been able to do without them, as the necessary evil.

Trust is not only about being faithful to one partner; it is much deeper than that so I will agree with this that you trust nobody; that’s on absolute terms.

Relatively, we still have people we trust and they have never betrayed.

It is not enough to write-off the female gender, based on my personal experience. The women I have met along the path of my life, one way or the other, have always been huge contributing factors to my growth, life quality and happiness, even much more than male friends and family members.

I will never use derogatory words on women based on this assertion. They only reciprocated my disposition over the years. So its like a matter of what you sow, you reap.

This is not to say people can’t betray, even men do.

Let’s all gather here. Men, Women, Ladies, Guys, Boys and Girls. This submission goes both ways, not just for women and these are my reasons.

Human Limitations
1. Emotional and physical exhaustion: No matter how loving and dedicated a husband is, he can experience emotional and physical exhaustion, making it challenging to meet his wife's needs consistently.
2. Differing emotional and intimacy needs: Men and women often have different emotional and intimacy needs, which can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction or unmet expectations.
3. Unrealistic expectations: Societal pressures, media portrayals, or personal expectations can create unrealistic standards for marital satisfaction, leading to disappointment and dissatisfaction.

Relationship Dynamics
1. Communication breakdowns: Even with the best intentions, communication breakdowns can occur, leading to misunderstandings and unmet needs.
2. Conflict and disagreements: No marriage is immune to conflicts and disagreements, which can create tension and dissatisfaction.
3. Changing needs and desires: As individuals grow and evolve, their needs and desires may change, potentially creating a mismatch between partners.

External Factors
1. Work-life balance: The demands of work, family, and other responsibilities can leave a husband feeling drained and unable to fully meet his wife's needs.
2. Health issues: Physical or mental health issues can impact a husband's ability to satisfy his wife's emotional and physical needs.
3. Financial stress: Financial pressures can create tension and stress in a marriage, making it challenging for a husband to fully satisfy his wife's needs.

Psychological and Emotional Factors
1. Different love languages: According to Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages theory, people express and receive love in different ways (e.g., words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch). A husband may not always speak his wife's primary love language.
2. Emotional intelligence: Men and women often have different emotional intelligence profiles, which can lead to misunderstandings and unmet emotional needs.
3. Attachment styles: Attachment theory suggests that people have different attachment styles (e.g., secure, anxious, avoidant). A husband's attachment style may not always align with his wife's, leading to feelings of insecurity or dissatisfaction.

Communication and Intimacy
1. Communication barriers: Men and women often communicate differently, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflict.
2. Intimacy differences: Men and women may have different intimacy needs and preferences, which can create tension and dissatisfaction in a marriage.
3. Sexual differences: Men and women may have different sexual needs, desires, and preferences, which can be challenging to reconcile.

Societal and Cultural Factors
1. Societal expectations: Societal expectations around marriage, gender roles, and relationships can create unrealistic pressures and expectations.
2. Cultural differences: Cultural differences between partners can lead to misunderstandings and conflict.
3. Media influence: The media often portrays unrealistic and idealized versions of marriage and relationships, which can create unrealistic expectations.

Personal Growth and Development
1. Personal growth: Individuals grow and change over time, which can create differences in values, interests, and goals.
2. Changing needs: As individuals grow and develop, their needs and desires may change, potentially creating a mismatch between partners.
3. Self-awareness: Developing self-awareness and emotional intelligence takes time and effort, and individuals may not always be aware of their own needs and desires.

While this is not exhaustive proof, it highlights some of the complexities and challenges that can arise in a marriage, making it difficult for a husband to fully satisfy his wife's needs at all times.

Please mature minds, feel free to drop your contributions and let’s rub minds together. But for me, I am trying my best, but the first failure will be to want to satisfy my woman 100%. Society too will have its own to contribute to everyone’s satisfaction, whatever that could mean.
CrimeRe: 13 Women's Shoes Found In Kwara Islamic Cleric's House Suggest Multiple Murders by Benglarue: 2:32pm On Feb 18, 2025
I want to believe you are a grown up man. So why acting stupid?

Please how does this relate to calling Helinues?

Proverbs 17:28. (ESV) Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.

Take a clue from this.

Let's make the platform what is used to be by getting rid of the your likes please.


HonestAfonja:
Helinues show face

Let us explore accommodating sophistication together

Fulani imam is better oooooo
Foreign AffairsRe: Columbian President Replies Donald Trump "We Are Not Nazi's" by Benglarue: 5:33am On Jan 27, 2025
Are you a slave? Why are you insulting your fellow Nigerian because of Racist Trump who doesn't even care if you exist or not?

What is wrong with you? If you are well raised, you won't be attacking someone's mother that you don't even know. You consider this platform a faceless forum?

SMH


kingbee90:
At thia point if you have sense, you should know that the Democrats created that illusion to prevent Trump from running for office which they failed.
Has Trump ever stolen from you or raped your mother?
By the way, Bulaba is a disgrace and an international embarrassment to Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: An Example Of Why Finland Cannot Send Simon Ekpa To Nigeria by Benglarue:
Since Ekpa was arrested, this Gidgiddy guy has not known peace.

He has been so restless. Leave the two governments of Nigeria and Finland to do their things and stop the assumptions.

All we know is that since his arrest, there's a lot of calmness in the South East.
PoliticsRe: Kenneth Okonkwo Blasts Wike For His Anti-Igbo Comments, Betrayal by Benglarue: 2:30pm On Jan 23, 2025
This obsession of the Igbos with Ikwere people is nothing but low self esteem on Igbos.

Please allow sanity on our internet space and stop the attache by force.

They came out to disclaim their union with Igbos but people keep writing rejoinder upon rejoinder insisting Ikwere are Igbos. Now I can understand the feel of arrogance we tend to see amongst the igbos are nothing but their lack of confidence and low self esteem.

Bukola Saraki is a Yoruba name, the Yorubas have never for once drag it with him when he claimed to be a northerner. Same thing with Dino Melaye and Smart Adeyemi of the prestigious Okun People from Kogi state, the Yorubas never dragged anything with them. They bear yoruba names, even their culture and ancestral linkage.

The Nagos tribe of Brazil are Yoruba speaking tribe with Yoruba Names, culture and religion. Same thing with the Lukumi tribe of Cuba. I have never seen the Yorubas doing attache by force to any of these groups.

The Igbos said they are descendants of the Jews from Israel, but they were outrightly rejected. You dont know where you are from but you still want to add to your load. If Ikwere says they are not igbos, please let them be and stop claiming history that never existed.

Wike had once explained the meaning of his Nyesom as different interpretation from Igbos Nyesom. Please let them be. If truly there is a tie with the Igbos, they will naturally stage a comeback, not this by force attachment.

There was a motive by insisting Ohaneze President should come from Ikwere and whosoever wants to associate is free to do so.

Chief Sunday Awoniyi was once the President of the Arewa Consultative Forum. Awoniyi is a Yoruba name. He was from Kogi state but the Yorubas never dragged it with him.

My dear Igbo people, please take a chill pill on this matter. Rest and let the nature take its course on this.

Enough of these baseless and shameful arguments.

If they are so igbos in culture and nature, they would have returned Igbos assets after the war but they refused and kept them till date.

Let this matter rest Biko.
PoliticsRe: Obi Visits Victims Of Niger Tanker Explosion In Hospital by Benglarue: 9:32pm On Jan 22, 2025
He simply asked a question. Why?

You only succeeded in attacking him and barking like a dog without making any meaningful response.

Is that how fatuous you are?

SMH



Tinubuagbado:
It's either you're an autopilot or just stupid.

Simply Google Peter Obi visits in south east...

I keep saying it that most of you are idiot. Go to school, you refused, cool down and allow those that went to school to teach you, you still said no, abro abeg carry your Mathias go another hospital, we can't cure you.
RomanceRe: Solve Mathematics/current Affair And Win MTN Airtime Now by Benglarue: 10:34pm On Dec 28, 2024
Your first question is an incomplete equation. But if anyone has solved the equation, please share.



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A man's age is twice that of his son. Six years ago, the product of their ages was 80.
Find their current ages.

The man's age plus 18 is the last two digits of the first card below.

161138627470363_ _

The boy's age plus 36 is the last two digits of the second card below.

236895909200717 _ _

161138627470363_ _
PoliticsRe: Military Strike: Governor Aliyu Addresses Sokoto Residents by Benglarue: 2:18pm On Dec 26, 2024
Oil dey your head. That's Strategic Thinking. I'm happy to comment when I see people who can still reason differently.

It is simply called Collateral Damage. This is the only way the banditry and terrorists activities over there have been decimated.

There is no mistake anywhere. Nigerians should stop being too emotional about issues.

This is the third time.



adioolayi:
The case of terrorism in Nigeria is complex..

In my opinion, I don't believe terrorism and banditry can thrive anywhere the community are not in support of these criminals..

It's possible the military intelligence would have identified terrorists in most of these areas (Maybe not all, because accidents do happen) before the strikes..
..and as usual, the communities will come out to say they are not terrorists but villagers.
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Simon Ekpa & His Ordeal In Finland! by Benglarue: 4:56pm On Nov 22, 2024
This Bigkoko, i guess is the same as Gidgiddy.

You guys should just rest abeg. This should be your 10th post why he can't be arrested or extradited. That's how you pushed Nnamdi Kanu till this point. Now you are here again.

You are not Finland Govt nor Nigeria Govt. Why the unrest? Are you part of those benefitting financially from Ekpa Simon?

See long article!

Rest Biko.
PoliticsRe: Ribadu Raises The Alarm Over Attacks On Telecommunication System, Others by Benglarue: 9:07am On Oct 29, 2024
Ribadu is only psyching Nigerians towards collection of the suspended Cybersecurity Tax by the ONSA. Let's all wait for it. Nothing more.
PoliticsRe: FG Threatens To Open Border For Cement Importation by Benglarue: 5:58pm On Feb 20, 2024
What else are you other than an idiot and a useless being? No one in your entire lineage will ever near Tinubu's achievements, in your lifetime and after you.





AqualinaXYZ:
Tinubu is the most useless confused fool alive




I wonder what Tinubu told his supporters to get them convinced




It’s now glaring why this goat meat was avoiding debates
PoliticsRe: Senate In Rowdy Session Over Screening Of Festus Keyamo by Benglarue: 3:22pm On Aug 07, 2023
Guy, it's obvious you are jobless. Where and how do you get time to comment on all issues here on Nairaland?

If truly you are an adult who has plan for life, don't you have something worthy doing? Are you paid for commenting on this forum?

You are always among the first to always have an empty opinion on all issues, meanwhile all your comments are senseless but only directed towards your hatred for tinubu.

Why can't you start mapping out a strategy on how someone from your tribe or entire generation can at least achieve a quarter of the feat Tinubu has achieved so far in his lifetime?

Seriously I pity you. I can't imagine how frustrated you would be by now.

SMH.



taylor88:



Tinubu is a first class accountant from Chicago University

He’s a master strategist yen yen yen

He will employ his best brains and technocrats to make Nigeria better

He’s the renewed hope

See his cartel and squad

Very shameful and clueless thief

EBOLA TINUBU

So this was his best team?
PoliticsRe: Ekiti And Yobe Are The Most Backward States In Nigeria by Benglarue: 2:57pm On Aug 04, 2023
I am actually not surprised by your uncouth response. Its in your DNA. Ekiti indigenes are well brought up with good manners and they know what self sustainability means. They have a root.

Baby factory problem is one of the major reasons why people from your region are so arrogant, rude, wicked and uncouth. Imagine baby factory trade which has been on in your region for over 30 years.

How are we sure the one you claimed to be your father is actually your biological father? Same with your mother?

Replying people like you is share waste of time. Go to Ekiti and see for yourself. They don't beg.


riverbird:
You people claim to be educated but you don't waste a minute when it comes to showing how daft you can be at the slightest tickle of your tails, that person you call a gala hawker is far more better than a graduate who has passed through the four walls of every institute of learning but without actually being educated, no wonder you people are best in carrying big big files from office to office searching for non existing vacancies......oshe educated people with no foresight.
PoliticsRe: Last Warning To Anyone Initiating Treasonable Posts On Nairaland Forum by Benglarue: 2:26pm On Aug 04, 2023
For anyone seeking the downfall of Nigeria like elements of your kind, they will never reap the fruit of the land.

For as many people as obedients waiting to rejoice at bad news for Nigera, that bad news will always be their portion.

What did Tinubu do wrong to you guys if not just hatred that will consume you and your generations?

Sore looser.


Dvdpity:
Go Bleep your self.. tinubu commited treason by threatening Nigerians with anarchy and chaos, disregard the constitution and rule of law.
And you are a vagabond for typing this rubbish.

Make Nigeria army invade a sovereign country and see Nigeria implode.

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