After going through your message, I concluded that you were not concerned about the family you and your husband will raise together if you are, you would have been the one to tell your mom and dad to consider a man you want to spend the rest of your life with. If that man finally pays all the debts he is owing and your siblings come asking of finance to do one thing or the other and he remembered what he went through doing the period of payment of dowry, you will say he don't want to help his in-laws.


Ladies should think about the future and not today. Parents, when you daughter is at home, age counts when someone comes to ask her hand in marriage make sure he is feeling okay when paying the price and also he should know that the family he is married into does not make things hard for him so he can go the extra length to meet his in-laws demands when any comes by.

We don't need to have millions before going into marriage, but at least parent of the bride should be considerate thanks.

That is where the money is. You have accomplished Little in life by raising trophies. Enjoy the oil money