A friend just called my attention to this topic and I would rather suggest that those advocating for faith should rather channel their faith to the fact that God can lead them to someone else who is not a carrier. It makes no sense bringing a child to the world to suffer. I see it rather as being wicked and selfish.
If truly you love the person you should be kind enough to let him or her go. Love is about giving, God so loved that he gave.
Let the person be able to get a good life, a life where he or she wouldn't have to spend the rest of his/ her life worried of crises and burial of a child.
thanks

Well in my opinion, it is absolutely wrong for anyone to change his/her religion just to please a spouse. Your religion is your believe and anyone who suddenly becomes a renegade just because of a spouse and not of a stronger coviction does not really believe afterall. And he/she who had changed religion for that singular reason would change again and again.
I believe ones religion should be by conviction, and one should marry within his or her folks (same belief). It is said that birds of same feather flock together and the Bible also warns against that. "be not unequally yoked together with unbeliever, for what agrrement has light to do with darkness and what concord with he who belives with an infidel?" .
Mind you, if someone claims to accept your religion just to make you happy and vis-visa what happens tomorrow when he or she offends you and make you unhappy? You also go back to your first faith to also make him or her unhappy. There are three things I believe we shouldn't toy with
1. Our faith
2. Our health and
3. Our emotions/state of mind.
It is very important we guide them jealosly.

I strongly believe that the church as drifted and only a revival can actually re-align her back to God. This days it's more of the "men of God" we see rather than God. I was at the redemption camp some time in 2007 when Bola Tinubu was given the pulpit to address the congregation of God. I asked myself the rational behind that. This is the alter where a lot of Faithfuls go to pray to God and you allow somebody who doesn't believe or share the same faith with then to climb and give political speech. I also happened to be there when the past President was given the same alter and after then I have asked myself a lot of questions. How would christ have reacted? He who was so zealous for God that he didn't give the money changers a room in the house of his God?
I have asked a question so often these days " If christ had handed the gospel to this our generation, how far would it have gone?"