This crazy idea of wanting to be single is absolute nonsense. Our emotional nature as human beings makes it apparent we need to compliment each other (male or female). Any body saying he/she prefers to remain single for the rest of his/her life is fooling him/her self. , and probably may have problems of some emotional imbalance. Let us tell ourselves the truth here, we love companion from the opposite sex, thats how GOD created us and thats part of our emotional makeup as human beings period. Leave nuns / priests out of this please.

never in your life trust a woman that kisses with her eyes wide open,

@ Poster

You made a tactical mistake by telling him about your escapade. At some critical point in one's life, the truth is better left unsaid.

You've got yourself to blame for 2 reasons:

1) Cheating on your man after coming back together for good.
2) Telling the truth when you should have left it unsaid.

If I were in your man's shoes, I will act the same way 'because I will strongly believe that I can never trust you again in my life, cos a solid marriage is built on trust.

No need crying over spilt milk, move on with your life. The world aint over yet, God will sure give you a better companion.

@ poster

Be contented with what God gave you. Some have huge boobs and wanna reduce it, you have a moderate one and wanna enlarge it, this kain world sef?

If you really want it huge, then the only option for you is to get a silicon boobs and pump it as huge as pumpkins.

I think guys prefer younger women because they still have this youthful exuberance, and also research has shown that from the reproductivity angle, the younger a woman is the fresher her eggs, in terms of child bearing.

I have a step mum, and thank God we (siblings & myself) had her when we were already in the universities. She pretended a lot especially in front of my dad. Usually heard her complain to my dad that our pocket money was too much while going back to school then. If we don't visit home often from school, she will poision our dad's mind that we were avoiding home. , to make matters worse she was the worst cook I have ever seen in my entire life and a very miserly person by nature, and several other annoying stories.

I thank God we were grown up to an extent when she came in to our lives then. She was good enough to take good care of my Dad who was devastated after our mum's demise. I give her kudos to that though.

I still maintain a very cordial relationship with her, we are all grown ups now & independent as she can't influence our lives any longer, but I have realized that another woman can never be your mum, Having a step mum is not the best of experience in life.

Be specific, what kind of friend are you looking for? A boyfriend or what? When you decide what you really want then you'll hear from me.

@ tioluwani:

Mouth odour is very bad. I experienced it once with a lady I kissed, and after that I never felt good. I had to brush my mouth several times that day but still the odour remained for a while. After that, I swore I will never kiss a lady with mouth odour.

If the lady am dating has a mouth odour, then she can go get herself another boyfriend, because I believe some terrible mouth odour are inborn and cannot be erased by mere brushing of teeth. Chikena!!!!

@ carzyp:

There is no point crying over spilt milk. You are yet to marry and your fiancee is already misbehaving? It may be hard but just leave the randy goat and get someone that appreciates you better.

It is better to leave him now than to marry him and regret it. Marriage is based on trust and from the little you have said, you don't trust him, chikena!!!

Senator Obama is the man to beat in the current race for US president. His charisma far outweighs that of Hilary Clinton.

Currently, he may feel that he has a lot of supporters, but I am sure he will not make it at the polls, because most of these white dudes still have it at the back of their mind that nothing good can come out of a person when the person is black(Colored).

At times I cant just understand why someone must be crucified for his skin color, Na Wahoo for RACISM

Bros,

All the necessary documents suggested for you are all okay if you go with all of them. But the most important thing you need is PRAYER annd GOODLUCK.

If a Consular Officer doesnt like your face, for no good reason you could be denied visa. It has happened to a lot of people before and there was nothing they could do about it. So if you like carry a luggage of documents, If luck is not on your side, you can as well kiss your dreams GOODBYE. Anyway, I wish you the very best.