Jokes Etc › Re: How Many Pictures Do You See? by berrieblizzie(f): 5:40pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
one picture... |
Jokes Etc › Re: Has This Ever Happened To You? by berrieblizzie(f): 3:12pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
I can't say...but u should make researches and find out |
Jokes Etc › Re: Has This Ever Happened To You? by berrieblizzie(f): 2:33pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
I sincerely don't think that's the reason for their laughter ....Op  |
Jokes Etc › Re: What Nigerian Doctors Do by berrieblizzie(f): 11:17am On Jan 12, 2016 |
faites: The amazing thing is that nurses and pharmacists can interpret the handwriting. Sometimes, I think they have a special course where they learn this bad handwriting. exactly!!  |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by berrieblizzie(f): 8:49am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Strahovski: Hmmm i have read the whole stuff and OP, i think i can reproduce what you are going through. Normally i would make a trash comment and port to the next thread but from what you wrote, i can see some sincerity and willingness to solve the issue. So i would help you 
First, Your wife! She is young(She is 22 now) , her emotions are heightened up and this is a big deal for her considering where she is coming from(Her Family). I presume she does everything you want, when you misbehave she would still be the one to apologize and i can also sense that she is in love with you. Trust me, she is a girl, her father is not a problem! Do you think she does not have another bank account where the boys are sending her money? (Another set of "toasters" , so if she wants out, she would get out! I have dealt with cases like this during my days. She loves you man, and you are taking advantage of it because it turns you on.. So follow these steps and see how it turns out:
- Communicate with her: Confess your crimes and tell her how it turns you on. Confess you do it intentionally. And observe her response(Dont be surprised she knows already) If you dont fix it, in the future, she might be using the hurt/pain to get things from you because "It brings you closer to her" - Consult a marriage Counselor or Therapist: You need some counseling! You need to know that she is your wife and not an object of pleasure! - Start feeling her pain: Make her pain your pain! When you start feeling her pain, you wont be the pain anymore. - Find another way to please yourself: Yup, it can be a video game(You are a young dude), poker, or a friday night out with your wife every week. - Make her the boss when it comes to sex: You do it her way! Not your way! At least for now *wink* - Find out what turns her on: Its time she is the one turning on not you! You have had enough. Because all that is turning on in her is her pain. - Be closer: Watch movies together, go on weekend time out, attend church programs together.. make her feel loved.
So Op, when you have tried it for about 3 - 6 months you would re-wire out of the idea that you should hurt her first.
Hope i helped 
You can update me on the situation and i would be happy to help. Send me a mail, i will give you a call! hmmm . God bless you....Hope the Op genuinely tries all what you told him...it will help him in the long run of his marriage... |
Jokes Etc › Re: You May Kiss The Bride (read This!) by berrieblizzie(f): 9:02am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Pls...continue....this story is really cool! |
Jokes Etc › Re: The Time You Slap Sergeant Girlfriend by berrieblizzie(f): 8:35am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Seriously..this is inhumane!! Na only on top helpless civilian them they show themselves, even if at all you wanna punish him, must it be done publicly? #may God help in this country sha...  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Check Out This Hilarious Caption by berrieblizzie(f): 8:31am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Their pride and ego will never ever allow them to do this....but im pretty sure they can force and frustrate their wives or girlfriends to do it...mtcheew* |
Jokes Etc › Re: Hilarious Photo: As Ssen On Eko Bridge by berrieblizzie(f): 8:12am On Dec 05, 2015 |
 #skibbo..wait!! R u kidding me?!!! LMAO  |
Family › Re: 15 Funny Childhood Nostalgic Photos That Will Make You Feel Old. by berrieblizzie(f): 10:22am On Nov 23, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Should I Tell My Mom, My Younger Brother Duped Her With Facebook by berrieblizzie(f): 10:13am On Nov 23, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Foto Of D Day....lol Meet In Hell by berrieblizzie(f): 1:20pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Where is the px?  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Funny Photo Of The Day by berrieblizzie(f): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
WTF!!! LWKM  .....#poor stove  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Funny Photo Of The Day by berrieblizzie(f): 1:16pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Funny Photo Of The Day by berrieblizzie(f): 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: What Is The Funniest Combination Of Food You Have Ever Eaten by berrieblizzie(f): 1:30pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Bread and any type of draw soup  |
Jokes Etc › Re: If Nigeria's Past Leaders Were On Instagram... by berrieblizzie(f): 12:24pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
This is so creative and very hilarious.... people r so talented  [color=#000099][/color] |
Jokes Etc › Re: Caption This Photo Of This Woman by berrieblizzie(f): 4:53pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
#photoshop....interchanged her boobs nd ass  |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Oyinbo No Dey Get Pimple?? by berrieblizzie(f): 2:34pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
BRIGHTRIVERS: Are yu serious?? Even their guys do mk up?? ...i guess i'll soon start making up  hmmm r u sure u av the rite materials for that...u know say oyinbo make up pass our own? |
Jokes Etc › Re: Oyinbo No Dey Get Pimple?? by berrieblizzie(f): 4:13pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
BRIGHTRIVERS: i've been wondering why i've never met a white man with pimples on his face..philipian movies is not even helping matters..jst yestrday i watched a Philipian movie where a very poor girl suffering like she'z in hell still got a Fresher face than the Richest man in ur City...
My ppl,shey Oyinbo no dey get pimples?? u dont know the power of make up nd editing....  , if u see their natural face, u'll be disgusted!!  |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh's Marriage Introduction Last Weekend (More Photos) by berrieblizzie(f): 3:07pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
firstEVA: she is engaged to a man with a wife somewhere.
why are all our Nollywood actresses always into men who are either married or formerly married or with children, no single guys again? pathetic  is it naw a crime for formerly married people to find happiness again? just asking.... |
Crime › Re: Father In Court Over Killing Of 6-day-old Son by berrieblizzie(f): 3:00pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Redoil: I know the father very well for he is typical supporter of APC and as we all know Violence run wild in the blood streem of APC footsoldier. Passingshot and beremx slidewaxie i hail una Why cant u just pretend to have sense?? |
Celebrities › Re: Lady Strips For 2face In Front Of Annie Idibia At Sapele Star Music Trek by berrieblizzie(f): 2:43pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
RedCard1: And ugly Annie be like: look at what this lady is doing to my property.
Well, I just have to endure cos I can't afford to loose a man like 2face.
Everyone knows 2face is the only reason I am being heard about today.
He's the reason why I share tables with top celebrities.
I even battled over 20 women to get him.
Not to even think of the fact that BABALAWO means was adapted just to make him marry me.
Lord of marriage pls help me.
Up and down she goes. WAILING WAILER i thought the girl was mad oooo....buh i think ur more mad to think annie had to struggle to have tuface! Well since the girl on stage was thinking from her vagina, i think ur thinking from ur @nus....so thats y ur comment is irritatting! >  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Quote Of The Day by berrieblizzie(f): 6:40pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Many Nigerians Won’t Use ATM Again If ATM Machine Start Displaying This by berrieblizzie(f): 6:27pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
on top my own money??!!!......Shuuuuu!! I go break the ATM  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Some Funny Things About A Typical Nigerian Woman by berrieblizzie(f): 8:37pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
#YouKnowYourMumIsNigerian when she screams ur name so loud even to wake u up from a deep sleep just bring the remote on the table that is beside her...  |
Jokes Etc › Re: 11 Types Of People That We Missed On Nairaland by berrieblizzie(f): 3:06pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
i would love to comment but i prefer to"comment my reserve ".....hehehe  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Question Of The Day by berrieblizzie(f): 2:40pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Silence? |
Jokes Etc › Re: If You Have Never Used This.... Be Referring To Me As ''daddy' #throwback by berrieblizzie(f): 1:02pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Check This Pics Out. Creative Or Rubbish? by berrieblizzie(f): 9:57pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
I see no picx |
Jokes Etc › Re: Oya Choose One Blessing by berrieblizzie(f): 9:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
ladyF: Hmmm
I must be FTC this year?  oooh shitt...dah prayer was myn!!!  |