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FamilyPls I Need Your Advice by berry1999(op): 10:02pm On Feb 01, 2024
good day my fellow NL i have a little issue troubling me for quite sometime now, and i will like your advice on this .. which will be highly appreciated.
i am a 24 year old female still living with my parents (single parent, dad) and i will say he is one of the best , but their is this problem i have being having with him for years and it is about, how he talks to me especially when a mistake is being made and when he wants to correct me ... he is so abusive in his words and sometimes he may even try to hit me in the process, and sometime he makes an issue in every little thing ..most times i try to tolerate and ignore but .. it feels like when i do.. the situation gets worst ..so this time around i try not to tolerate anymore because its affecting me mentally and emotionally , it seem like this wants to bring an issue between me and my dad, and i have being a good daughter to him.. pls NL i need advice on what to do, how do i cope with a difficult parent, what can i do to stop this. i will really appreciate your answers ..thanks.
LiteratureGood Day NL My First Novel CHARMAINE, Enjoy Let Me Know What You Think by berry1999(op): 4:52am On Jan 26, 2024
Charmaine
Chapter 1:The beginning

Charmaine Okezie layed on her bed , it is 5:30am in the morning, her eyes still shut she is fast asleep, and then suddenly she saw a lightning, like a flash, it was frightening the ground vibrating, itis all foggy all she could see is heavy lightning striking on the ground, and then there was a heavy thud which sounded like a canon, boom, boom, boom.....Wake up! Charmie, it's 6:00 am and you're still in bed! Charmaine sprang up from the bed,oh mommy good morning...i have been knocking on your door and no response, mrs Okezie said, so i decided to come in! didn't you hear your alarm? sorry mommy i didn't.now get up and go prepare for school, ok mom.break fast is on the table i made tea and bread. Charmaine is the only daughter of Mr and Mrs Okezie,they've been married for twenty years,Mr Okezie is an oral surgeon in"save lives" hospital,Mrs Okezie is a chef, she runs a restaurant of her own.
"O my God mom there is not even enough sugar in my tea" Charmaine said, too much sugar is not good for your teeth, her mom replies.
Charmaine, a fourteen years old girl and student of bookworm high and, she's known to be one of the brightest students among her peers and she's being loved by many in school because of her cuteness, intelligence and her comedic clumsiness. You're late, mrs Okezie said. Charmaine hurried down the stairs,kissed her mom goodbye and left.
In school the atmosphere is full of energy,pupil walking up and down,parents dropping off their children in school, teachers arriving in staff buses.Charmaine alighted in from the school bus and then a hand covers her eyes from behind, i know is you Bridget, Charmaine said with a smile, how did you know? Bridget asked, looking surprised, from the perfume you always wear, Charmaine said, ooh! I think I should change my perfume now, Bridget said with a smile .Bridget has been a close friend of Charmaine,they've known each other since they were twelve. Have you seen Layana today?Bridget asked as they walked down the corridor, no why? Charmaine replied,i overheard Principal Chuks saying that Layana is ill, we should go visit her soon to know how she is doing,that would be good, Charmaine replies.
The bell rang and they all went to the devotion ground,the hall was filled with blue and black uniforms,after praying and singing the national anthem, devotion was being dismissed, each to class rooms.
Ok! class, what do we have today? ok, biology.who can tell me what can be seen in decaying vegetation in fresh and saltwater,wet soil and animals,with the aid of a microscope? a hand was raised and and mrs constance pointed at Uzor, “spirogyra” the whole class roared with laughter,and mrs constance quiet down the pupils and waited for someone else to answer correctly,and Nigel raised his hand and answered "amoeba" mrs constance thanks him for his answer,and afterward a classwork was given to them, and within a number of periods, they went for a lunch break.
Charmaine! Nigel called, charmaine stopped along the hallway.Nigel has always had a thing for charmaine ever since he came to book worm high but that has been a secret between he and Uzor his friend. Hi ..Nigel said with a grin on his face, hi Nigel, charmaine responded, my family is having a dinner party tomorrow night, it would be a pleasure if i…i see you there i’d really… like that.Ok Nigel, charmaine replies, i will think about it, cool… I will be expecting you, and Nigel left with a smile on his face.
Then a voice from behind charmaine whispered “he likes you” and charmaine with a sharp turn, replied, Bridget! How long have you been standing there? Not quite long but I can see the chemistry between you two,Bridget said, almost teasing her. O! Please, he is just inviting me to a dinner party. Charmaine sounded defensively.Trust me friend when I sense something, I am always right,said bridget. Ok we have to go back to our classrooms now, the lunch break is over,Charmaine said, walking away bridget smiled,as they walked down the corridor.
Charmaine is already at home studying and her dad arrives in Charmaine's room.How was school today Charmie ? school was fine … Good Evening dad, I hope everything is fine? Yes dad..goodnight love… sleep tight, her dad finally said.
Charmaine finished her dinner and retired to bed and finally her eyes were shut
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CareerBeing A Professional Female Photographer In Nigeria by berry1999(op): 2:40am On Nov 27, 2023
hello nairalanders, good day to you pls just wanted your advice on this particular topic...
what is it like to be professional female photographer in Nigeria ?
how lucrative is it?
what are the benefits?
your answers will be appreciated

RomanceIs It Weird That At 24 You Have Never Dated A Man In Your Life? by berry1999(op): 5:10am On Nov 21, 2023
Hello friends i just wanted to know if it is strange to not have experience the dating life at 24 years old ?
your answers will be highly appreciated🙏🏻🙏🏻

CareerRe: Nairalanders Pls I Need Your Advice!! by berry1999(op): 7:09am On Nov 10, 2023
duduade:
Okay na quit and go and be learning offline photography
lol
CareerRe: Nairalanders Pls I Need Your Advice!! by berry1999(op): 7:01am On Nov 10, 2023
JASONjnr:
Why quitting your job to pursue photography when you can easily learn graphics designing and partly videography online right where you are.
there is a difference learning online and offline
CareerRe: Nairalanders Pls I Need Your Advice!! by berry1999(op): 6:06am On Nov 10, 2023
[quote author=PepeXKermit post=126886228]Yes, quit the job as you no get sense. grin[your funny
/quote]
CareerNairalanders Pls I Need Your Advice!! by berry1999(op): 6:01am On Nov 10, 2023
I am a 24 year old female currently working in a small company as a secretary, they do a lot of services, like tracker installation, camera installation, laptop repairs, hardware and software training, etc. when i started the job the pay was not so good, so i told my self that after this year i will look for a better place that pays well, then later this month they said they will increase my salary. Although i have a goal in live to be an artist and a photographer. So i am looking for money to train myself in becoming a professional photographer. This my workplace is very good, you get to learn a lot of things in the process and also i have a good boss who has his best interest at heart for me, and sometimes my gut keep telling me to stay. and this company is growing gradually i can see it, and one advantage is that it gives me time to take tutorial classes online while at work. so naira landers should i quit my job and look for a higher paying job to achieve my goal? am kind of confused i don't want to make mistake that i will regret later. your advice will be highly appreciated, thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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