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Firstly, I'll advice you to marry the lady from the UK if the lady truly loves you, all you need is to do an assessment of your own definition of an ideal woman. Try to wither off some unnecessary and unrealistic desire, look for all the positives in the lady and move on with your life. Secondly, Germany has limited opportunities for foreigners compared to the UK because of language barrier. You can build a professional life with your big dream and great sense of commitment in the UK, you only need some information from the people who has been in the jobs, as long as you have the right status to take those jobs. Thirdly, going to Nigeria involves a lot of risks which if you don't get it right, you might regret the day you were born. It's one thing to have some kind of business ideas, but it's another to have an environment that could support your business. Remember, it's been a while that you left Nigeria, trust me it will take some time to cope with the way things work in that country, couple with the fact that you'll be coming from a country where the system works and people tends to trust each other. Unlike Nigeria, trust is very uncommon. |
Yigiyaga:I wish I married at 25, It would have come with a lot of hardship. I was constantly thinking about it, all permutations worked against me. No job, no income, girlfriend was pushing me to have baby, but I stood my ground that I wasn't going to settle for less. Now, I can afford basic things in life but I regret not starting family earlier. |
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