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Life2ways:
I am a citizen of the Federal Republic of Nigeria but unemployment and frustration is making me feel like I am not one.

I don't have a job and no resources to start a business.

As a Nigerian, don't I deserve a job and a good job at that?

Why am I feeling so frustrated in life right now?

A close mouth they say is a close destiny. I'm speaking up now.

Please I need a job. I seriously need a job. I deserve a job and a good job at that.

Kindly send me a DM if you have a job for me. Or just quote me, I will reply if you don't know how to send a DM.

Seun, Nlfpmod etc, please help my life.

Someone here could have a job for me.

Months and a year after service… I applied to about 400+ companies and positions.. I begin to question lots of things.. while so many people were getting jobs mostly with connections… Omo maybe you have to go out and start visiting the physical company to submit your application yourself.. or go to X twitter and post all your certificates, resume and let the word help you

Wealthy like $2m… that’s exactly what I want.

Happy Easter

Omo…. Fuel was 180 2years ago

More is coming… just what the country needed! Iron hand

giftson102:
Let’s be very clear and practical.

Voice notes feel convenient.They feel faster. They feel more personal but legally, they are one of the weakest ways to communicate when anything serious is involved.

Many people have quietly stopped typing messages because text messages are permanent. Once written, they can be saved, forwarded, printed, and produced as evidence. Voice notes don’t enjoy that same strength.

Here’s the legal reality in simple terms

When a dispute arises whether about money, business, work, promises, threats, or instructions the law looks for proof, not stories.

Text messages clearly show:
🥢 What was said
🥢 Who said it
🥢 When it was said
🥢 The full context of the conversation

A voice note, on the other hand:
🥢 Can be deleted easily
🥢 Can be sent without the surrounding conversation
🥢 Can be denied (“That’s not my voice”)
🥢 Can be claimed to be edited or cut
🥢 Can lose context when forwarded

In court, clarity beats emotion and text messages provide clarity much better than voice notes.

Why some people prefer voice notes let’s not pretend. Some people deliberately avoid writing things down because they don’t want:
– Permanent records
– Screenshots
– Exact words quoted against them
– Easy accountability

Voice notes give room for denial. Once the message disappears or the phone changes, the evidence is gone.
What this means for you is if someone insists on using voice notes for:

– Financial arrangements
– Business discussions
– Work instructions
– Promises or commitments
– Sensitive matters

You should be cautious. It doesn’t automatically mean bad intentions but it does mean you are less protected.

How to protect yourself
🥢 For serious matters, ask for confirmation in text.
🥢 Summarize voice discussions in a follow-up message: “As discussed earlier…”
🥢 Don’t rely solely on disappearing or voice-only conversations.
🥢 Keep records where the law allows.

In law, what you cannot clearly prove often never happened. Convenience today should not cost you protection tomorrow.

Good reasoning but the most important thing here is that your voice note can never be screenshotted!!!

I think everyone needs to take this seriously

Jota brothers are legendary

LINSAR:
Will try to make a move.

Should I inform the lady before hand or let her find out?

Avoid underage
Aviod hookers
Connect with mature nice clean girls

Longterm relationships? Speak with your gf before the sex date! Probably few days to the sex date.. just tell her you have some worries with your sexual life.. don’t say “sexual problem “ it’s never a problem bro..

I’m sure the lady would be willing to listen and she won’t be having extreme expectations from the sex in terms of you having horse dickk..

If you dealing with a one night stand.. no need to discuss anything.. just make sure you are bold enough and be focused.. enjoy ur sex and leave…

Try register for gym bro.. it’s important


In all.. don’t stress urself bro.. you are within the average range and you will be fine

Each Nigerians debt go don reach like 800k like dis 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

MetalJigsaw:
7.5

That’s larger

LINSAR:
Yes I am a grower but still small when erect.

I am 5 inches in length when erect and 4.5 inches in girth when erect.
I am 3 inches in length when flaccid. I don’t remember my flaccid girth.

Okay I have to read through the comments so I finally got your sizes

5inches is perfectly okay.. just make sure you are hard enough when sex starts!!

Aviod ladies that are alrdy exposed to large dicks because Dey may demand for more

4.5 inches in gritty us within the average.. you good to go bro..

Flaccid is for only you bro.. no one cares abt that… girls only want to see your erect…

Finally I want you to have more sex… that will definitely help boost ur confidence

LINSAR:
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.

Bro there is not like oyinbo dicck size here.. it’s the same measurement for all countries.. tho blacks have more sizes than whites generally


I’m suspecting you are a grower.. because when you are not erect it feels really small.. but focus on the erect part and use a tape rule to measure and come back here…

We are going to tell u if u small or not…

MetalJigsaw:
So you're saying I'm large even though I see my size as average🤔

Wats your size?

Yeah you can see yourself as small but down dere you are large

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

What’s ur erect sick size? Let start from dere

5.0-5.5 average
5.5-6.0 slightly above average
6.5-7.0 above average

Goo0dHardDick:
You don't get it. There are countries Trump can visit irrespective of whether or not their economy is good.

Trump went to Egypt (yes Egypt has great economy) SA is also in the league of those countries trump can visit. Dude Nigeria is not even in the same level with Ghana, Mauritania, etc let alone Tunisia, Egypt, Angola and other North Africans. Even if US president wants to visit, it's definitely not trump because man doesn't even like Nigeria to start with , let alone liking Nigerian leaders

We are saying the same bro…

What makes Nigeria a bad economic country? Corruption na! Simple!

Why is Egypt, South Africa, Ethiopia and Kenya better in terms of economy and standards of living! They get sense.. not like Dey don’t embezzle funds too..
but they are just not greedy..

So with all the natural resources and maximum population advantage we have! Which should be the most country with exports of products and remain which giant of Africa

😅😅😅

He good as them Dey talk go

Make Trump continue reason Nigeria matter

Offer all Christian Relocation packages straight

Na den una eyes go first blur

Goo0dHardDick:
Bwala is mumu man!

Is trump a joke to these people?

Where's state house? Tinubu cannot go to the US for his drug dealing business and Nothing on planet earth will make trump come to Nigeria. As how na? To look for who? To do what sef? Is Trump a joke to you?

There are few countries that can make Trump visit them and Nigeria isn't in the league of those countries! Besides trump labelled Nigeria as a "shit hole" during PMB and now "a disgraced country" under BAT 🦇

Trump is the only president other presidents will see and shout daddy oyoyo!

Trump can visit Nigeria bro.. but not now.. economically we don’t have any meaningful thing going on in our country.. so trump would rather burn his Airforce one jet fuel to travel to Fiji for summer holiday than fly to west Africa Nigeria…

If our country decides to get small senses today.. Trump will visit

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

I don’t think there is any way to fix that… just accept it and if it’s worries you a lot.. speak to a marriage councillor before you proceed with the wedding

Amudeneogu:
Nigeria should be no. 1 because the number of churches in Nigeria pass both USA and Brazil joined together, meanwhile, where is European countries that brought church to Nigeria and other African countries.?

Alaska which is just one state in America is bigger than the whole Nigeria

So now reason American 50 states has lots of churches in it and you want to compare it to Nigeria?

Wizmj4real:
Good day everyone including the moderator.
Please am worried about something so pressing at the moment.

There's this babe that really loves me but I don't really fancy her as per getting into a relationship with her, although she's obviously into me of which I know but mannn! My body is moving me for her but my spirit is kinda slow about her. Mind you we share almost our darkest life together, really good friends oh, we video chat, argue , talk about really deep things.

She wanted to visit but clearly to her that I don't trust myself around her and she laughed but I insisted she doesn't visit. Early this month she visited her family in my city and really wanted to visit but I used work as an alibi to avoid her coming around.

Now my issue is am feeling guilty about the whole thing and am wondering why do we chase people that don't like us and get loved by people we're not really into?

Had same scenario happened and I try everytime to figure out what is making the feeling odd.. this lady is beautiful with great shape and looks like a very good inside and outside while share comfortably share her dark secrets.. she constantly bag to come over but I gave her excuses overtime.. I really don’t know how but I think u should trust ur instincts and let that lady go

How much sir?

77k??

We need to know so we can ask the people to pay more taxes

My dog lost her puppy and she was depressed for one week! Dint feed well, was just sleeping and her eyes were reds… after one week! She came back to her normal state

HEAVEN4444:
That's crazy. Seems like everywhere is failing. Still america is still the best place to make money. Every other country done cast. You can't make money anywhere again

Absolutely! Still the best country in the world

HEAVEN4444:
that's the point I was making with the thread, your last statement, but somehow you can't make any points on this forum without mad people accusing you of anti japa propaganda. It's just an innocent observation but crazy people have turned it into fight. But ermmm America is finished. The last time I was there a burger in burger king and McDonald's was 5 dollars 😅😅

The inflation is everywhere bro… make God help the word economy 🙏🙏

stuffs2002:
How did she complete the programm? She does not have proof of completion because she broke NYSC by-laws

According to NYSC! She missed one CDs meeting! She can request for extension of extra one month of service to meet up that free space.. den she will get her document

HEAVEN4444:
wow are you serious bro ? Burger is now 20 dollars ? That's about 40k, it's not too bad because I am sure burgers over here will be like 15 to 20 k but our local foods, with 5k you will eat good and so the burger is like 8 times more expensive than a bowl of jollof and plantain and chicken

Yeah,, burger starts from $17 if you buying from place like Mac or Burger King.. but in Nigeria the least is 5k and it’s not bad the last time I came home and tried it…

But in all Nigeria got good purchasing power! 5k is good to eat good meal at local Abula joint

5k in America which is $3 won’t get u any good thing to eat!

She should move on with her life..

If She find her self contesting for a political post tommor and she wins… she will get her NYSC certificate cus there’s a footprints that shows she served and completed the program

Others corpers enjoying the 77k today should be standing up for this young lady! But no body send anyone

HEAVEN4444:
So I calculated my cost of living in UK and converted to naira and put it against my Nigerian cost of living. Annually. My UK cost of living is 37 times more. Like for example if I spend 1000 naira annually in naija in UK the figure will be 37000 naira

If not for the security and corruption along bad roads + unstable electricity! Nigeria is very affordable in terms of living and surviving

Things are pretty cost even in abroad… here to enjoy good burger now.. just budget $17-$21… for just fast food oh

JackDaAlienz:
I'm trying so hard to wrap my head around this marine girl stuff.

First of all
I personally have not seen or meet a marine girl. And I really find it difficult to believe that a girl can be a marine spirit.

The last time we heard such was in secondary school and it was debunked as false rumor..

Have you honestly had experience with a marine girl??

No physically but if you are spiritually gifted! You can see a particular lady true form when the God show you the revelation

Nnamdipapa:
There are girls in the Unted States Marine corp. They are real and nothing fake about them.

Good one there bro…