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wagazala:
Just like you said, any 12 year old comes online to spew trash. Your opinion is yours, same as mine is mine. You don't have to throw insults if you disagree.
Marriage is an institution that has no direct working formula, we can preach to the affected couple all we want but only them, regardless of whatever anyone says on this forum, can solve their problems. We don't even know for a fact if it's a real story.
So next time madam no courtesy, share your opinion, don't talk down on others if you disagree with theirs.

PS: Been married 10years and I've had my fair share of issues, and I know more will come. I don't put my ish out in public if I'm not ready for different opinions.

Chidoks:
it is either you have been too weak or too petmissive.love does not amount to folly.your wife should always fear to do wrong becausr of you.
solution:sit her down and define marriage to her.you are her husband,her lord and her 'owner'.give het the do and donts.spell out your place and her place.give her a 'federal warning as regards cooking for any other mortal other than you.may God save your home.forgive the padt and move on.

emmatok:
Both of them are playing the tit for tat.

The wife is not far ahead in the game, since the husband is no longer emotionaly attached.
He is just playing cool and looking for opportunity to leave.

emmatok:
Unlike removing the wedding ring, which she failing to ask why.

Discussing your marriage with you Ex is not mistake but total betrayal.

Giving food to another man your husband don't like is not a mistake but a sign of cheating.

Will you be here defending the woman if you realize the other man she's feeding is you husband?

It is easy to chat on NL, but it the real world thing are different.

Mutendiwashe:
i did not see anywhere where anyone slept with someone so how was there anyone who cheated?

emmatok:
In marriage if you use your partner wrong actions to justify your reactions, both of you Will regret that marriage.

Do me, I do you, don't help marriage. Because everybody makes mistakes.

Mutendiwashe:
who slept with who?

Mutendiwashe:
if you pick up your stranded ex and later on find out that your wife would have been against it, you think the most mature thing for her to do is put divorce or seperation on her mind?

and the best thing to do it vow for better or worse on the alter and divorce because of how a number was saved or a cooked meal? Why do people waste their time getting married if they are not ready to keep their vows when a challenge comes their way? Please do give me a good reason.

Mutendiwashe:
you can read so much meaning into how a phone number is saved but see nothing with removing a wedding ring a year into the marriage without consulting or informing your wife? Im sure marriage these days is now meant for kindergarten kids not adults.

Mutendiwashe:
Lets get this straight, removing a wedding ring without giving a valid reason for it prior or after removal is a trivial issue but an ex's number saved in an old phone that has not been in use for a while is bigger than murder?

what you are saying is he can play tit for tat if she does something wrong, i.e. misbehave but if he does something wrong she has to be react differently?

Mutendiwashe:
if your wife removes her wedding ring barely years into the marriage, please tell us what your poitive reaction to it would be.

How does ignoring a person's messages constitute as flirting with an ex?

Mutendiwashe:
you clearly misinterpreted me. To every action there is a reaction, of you know for certain the reaction will not be a good one why remove the ring in the first place? A ring symbolises a union between 2 people and its only a grossly inconsiderate person who would think there would not be a negative reaction after doing something knowing every well it disrespects that their union stands for.


So what you are simply saying is if a man is not a good communicator something can always be done about it to make it better but if the wife on the other hand is not a good communicator the marriage should be thrown down the drain?