₦airaland Forum

abbey621:
You still don't get it do you? If a wife does not like an action by her husband for goodness sake let him know, if he does not change involve people who can talk to him. You act as if marriage is about tit for tat, if a woman should react the way she has to every little issue in her marriage, she would soon find herself out the door. By your reasoning because the man took off his ring or he isn't a good communicator, the wife has the freedom to flirt with another man, confide in him and who knows what. When did Africans start acting like the Kardashians?

perry2020:
They are not excuses rather long time solutions and ideas the man can come up with that could save the marriage besides he isn't sure if she slept with the guy.

abbey621:
It's no excuse! A guy that's willing to share his personal affairs on Nairaland shows that he's deeply concerned, he hasn't given up on his wife yet. Women are fond of making excuses such as he's not approachable, he won't listen and he doesn't have time; the reality is there were better options available to her than confiding in another man! Maybe I'm just old school but some things are just not done when married!

egobetatoday:
pls if u have yo judge, judge righgly. did u see where she wrote that when she brings up an issue, the guy increases the volume of his music. this isnt tor only u, several people here think its all her fault. what will u pple gain if this marriage breaks up? gor Gods sake how is ehe supposed to understand her husband if he doesnt open up for her to understand. kai God oooo....Marriage?

egobetatoday:
u say this because u dont cheat on ur spouse. i have heard several people say here that wifes should not be snooping around their husbands phone. isnt it because there are so many incriminating things in here?

iykedare:
I now understand why you are being unnecessarily aggressive to the guys here.

Your dad was an irresponsible man to your mum so you think we are all the same.

Biatch,you are a liability to your husband.

repogirl:
Treese I am so glad you showed up because some SLOW TO UNDERSTAND BUFFOONS (babdav2015, iykedare, ideykwum) who quoted me earlier might now go and die in peace.

There are always two sides to a story but right from when I read your husbands part, I could tell he was the type who didnt listen and who chooses to find the worst in anythinh, trust me I had that experience first hand from my parents marriage and that was why I begged God that when he was giving me a spouse, he should give me the one that would be a durect opposite from what I saw when growing up.

Gurl, you know your husband, you know how he is, his likes and unlikes, his lack of communicating skills, how he jumps into conclusions and busies himself looking for what isnt there ...the guy is sooo insecure and you are fueling his insecurities!

Pls, stop doing what he doesnt like, he might be difficult but pls dont do what you know will displease him ...some men are just wired that way. I see you are a wiman who.wants to make it work, so please try...it might seem hard but try. Pray and believe in God for strength, wisdom and that he makes your husband come around. Trust me, prayer works!

I have been married a few years myself and its God that holds the union together.

Hang in there.

Lastly since you say your husband doesnt talk, it doesnt mean you should nag him to the death. Summarise your issues in a few quick sentences and leave him to ponder on it, if he likes he should ponder, if not he should pout, na him sabi. Just do your own part and keep off those male friends before devil uses style to enter inside your home well well.

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dridowu:
as oga jona is busy sacking
state governor are busy receiving impeachment threat
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4stylz:
Houses are too expensive and class-less.. 3million dollars house in America is like a palace compare to all those storey buildings in banana island

Basildvalour:
...And then you will see crowd at the parks with empty buses

We pay taxes, they should give us free Wi-fi

Danhumprey:
PDP and rigging. Smh. Desperate for power at all cost.


But the APC sef. They should learn to accept some decisions in good faith and quit whining.

dcaliph:
You maybe right, in nigeria, many things can happen. That is just the ways I feel APC can help, as campaigning for Oti would be counter productive.