₦airaland Forum

Jesusloveyou:
and u think dss is wrong to investigate electoral mal-practice,

by harassing n arresting inec officials ba? Change indeed

bros856:
And this must be EDO state indigiene who do not know what runing a government look like. Am not from Edo state. But the little I know about govt thay should follow up on development after collecting they loan not trying to stop the loan. If they don't want loan means thay don't want development.

my brother am from Edo state.... forget all d over hyped news about oshio. wen he came d state dept was $4.1b but today its more Dan $200b. its jux months for him to exit dat seat so y borrowing

Realisticman:
Do these people realise that the most senior SS/SS politician in APC right now is Ameachi?
1 If you bring him down, you may not have someone from that place that can talk to the president's heart about your matters.
2 if Buhari listen to you, then he will have offended most of us that voted for him.
Anyway, I don't believe all those hates peddled against Ameach( because he supported someone else) until a competent court finds him guilty.

why re u bias? jux cuz he's d most senior means he shouldn't b probe? If buhari wants to b transparent he should probe all indiscriminately

RichDad1:
Enemies of progress.

wat will d loan b used for? who will pay d one he borrowed before

Upnepaa:
hope he is not running away can't even build a world class airport in otuoke after spending 6 years as pres. but that is non of ma business

OBJ ur godfather spent 8 years in power, was he able to build local airport not to talk of world class? Was he even able to build road even d Panseke bridge leading to his hux was built by Amosun

Why is it dat even wen a naija babe claim u can't satisfy her sexually she won't still let u go, she still restrict u from dating other gurls....... pls I need mature comments

mrvitalis:
God so we still use hand to clear mines in 2015?
All our past leaders are just wicked

wen GEJ said no single weapon was bought for years we said he was lying I guess d truth is coming out now

I can categorically say after reading all d comments above dat we aren't concern about d fight against corruption...... all we want is for buhari to jail all PDP members but no APC members should be jailed cuz dey re all saints

Aikon:
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I think he is a pervert
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pls how can I get dat comedy to watch (kwuewa in china)

I just heard Shekau is missing in new video released by boko haram. Does dis show dat he has been killed by Nigeria military as claimed or has he been granted amnesty tru d back door?

proudly 5%

DahtzFestjayz:
Wrong section =>>>> [url=nairaland.com/health] Health [/url]

ve posted it there before but I didn't get single comment except for a guy who is in same condition

I ve posted this is health section but didn't get any advice so pls help am posting it here.
I started noticing it last year when I relocated to Abuja, whenever I shower after about 5 minutes my body starts inching and it last for minutes. A nurse said I should try piriton which didn't work. I changed from cold water to hot water and its still same. I ve changed soap too still didn't work....... pls anybody with similar experience or any medical personnel in d hux should pls help

kilode100:
This is good news o...
Now we can fvck skin to bone
I hate condom.

so u spoil like dis

babyfaceafrica:
So?

like ur name goes babyface it therefore mean u re a baby n don't no anything

Toks2008:
In many Countries, the issue of Bride price has been known to be a well grounded factor in determining your franchise over the lady.

In some parts of the world, this issue has been blown beyond proportion that huge money is usually asked by the Bride's parent and many suitors see this as very discouraging.

The amazing fact is that if you ask anyone why a bride price must be paid,they will be very quick to answer that GOD commanded it and even our pastors are quick to lay emphasis on this as a condition that must be met before a man and woman can be said to be married before GOD.

But is Bride price really a condition necessary for marriage? Can we say you are really married even if bride price have not been paid? Did GOD specifically lay down this as a law or was it man made tradition? Can Bride price be paid at anytime during the course of the couple living together as Man and wife? and is it proper for the bride's parents to present a list or ask for monetary bride price from the groom's family?

These shocking truths from the very Bible people use as yardstick for bride price will clear the air.


1. Bride price was never a commandment from GOD as a condition for marriage but only as a penalty for rape and in fact, you can still pay the Bride price and still be denied the woman to be your wife by the Father.

Lets read this from the book of exodus 22:16-17:
"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife.If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins."

Deuteronomy 22:28-29: "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels[a] of silver. He must marry the young woman,for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.


2.Monetary bride is to be paid only on a virgin provided the man has slept with her before he decides to marry her but if the man has never slept with her,there should be no need to pay a dime on her.(Read again Exodus 22:16-17 above)


3.Even if a man meets a virgin and defiles her and decides to marry her,no man is expected to pay more than 50shekels of silver as a penalty and according to Google research, 50 shekels of silver is just about 15usd today so what is this madness going on where in some places a man is asked to pay hundreds and thousands for a lady who have probably slept with many men.

4.There was never ever a place in the Bible where GOD commanded the bride's parent to present a list but it is the groom's responsibility to bring whatever he dims fit for the lady he wants to marry.

The great example in the Bible was Isaac's marriage to Rebekah who was a virgin and there was no monetary exchange or penalty whatsoever between the two families but affordable gifts were giving to Rebekkah's family by Abraham but not demanded for by Rebekkah's family. Read Genesis 24:52-54.

5. Bride price according to the bible is all about virgins and all the references and bible verses all point to paying a penalty for defiling a virgin as well as giving gifts as Abraham did to Rebekah who also happen to be a virgin.

Genesis 24:15-16:Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder. She was the daughter of Bethuel son of Milkah, who was the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor.The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again.

6.Payment of monetary bride price on ladies generally whether virgins or non virgins is a tradition and not a direct commandment from GOD and in some countries like india,its a woman that actually pays a dowry on the groom and not the other way round.


7.Presenting list or asking for monetary bride price from a man who conscientiously marries a lady is man made rule and not from GOD hence becomes a sin because its better to obey GOD rather than men.

Acts 5:29:Peter and the other apostles replied: "We must obey God rather than human beings!

Conclusively i would advice that we just flow with the fun fare and traditions of the land and pay the bride price to either the Father of the Bride or the Mother of any lady we want to marry even if she is a LovePeddler.

Nevertheless.outrageous monetary bride price or list must be discouraged because it is not even Biblical in the first place but only necessary to obey customs and traditions.

Even Prophet Mohamed(May the peace of GOD be upon him) has this to say:

"the most blessed marriage is one in which the marriage partners place the least burden on each other" (al-Haythami, Kitab ab-Nikah, 4:255).

My candid take.

OP IF U WAN MARRY ABEG NO PAY BRIDE PRICE

vheMa:
wait 4 next contest,maybe u'll win

OK o but bf den can we talk outside here

vheMa:
you no win na

how else will I win?

vheMa:
first person to quote me would be given a passionate kiss



Tonylyte oya come o

Bring dat lips here

can Oshiomole account for all his allocations? He's owing local govt, pensioners etc

redgem:
immediately after menstruation you will be so Hot even more than ovulation period..

Haven't seen anyone one, read or heard of no 9...this my first time reading such

like seriously

koolpal:
Get better TV... wailing huh

If u claim u heard wat he said u can pls educate us wit it

I just watch our president on NTA but I hardly hear a word. I don't no if anybody can explain what he said or better still I think these television station should always subtitle his statements

Jenny1010:
Picture please!!!


What is Swollen Attention

so u spoil like dis?....... wetin u wan c

XKZ:
You're sort of late to the party. This feature has been available to BlackBerry users since December 2012 and Android and iOS users since February 2014.

Available but it was not functional

BBM call is alive. I ve been rocking mine since yesterday

wat will she do in return.......FTC

[quote author=classicB post=36206826]I can do it, so far I won't get stabbed in the back. Some guys.dnt appreciate stuffs like this. Some guys take advantage of the love u have for them [/quote
wat about guys dat do dis all d tym yet u stab dem

XavierBlue:
1. SPEND YOUR LAST DIME

Most of us went through this.
Sometimes, guys spend their last kobo just to make the girl they like happy. Maybe to buy a gift or a date. They girl might not even be aware. The funny thing is, he'll keep a happy demeanour all through but deep inside his heart, he's in grave thought.

2. BORROW

Some guys borrow from pals, money to please the girl they like. Most of us still do this. taking loans to go on date or get a gift or send airtime. Some guys can borrow for a living.

3. ENGAGE IN FIGHTS

Na this one dey vex me pass. Just as women fight each other because of men, guys also indulge in this. This is something we know happens almost regularly. Just like last week, in my neighbourhood, two guys engaged in a duel because the other tried to woo his girl, they fought with bottles, correct ones. The girl stood afar watching, i can swear i saw her stifling her mouth, she was giggling.

4. CLEAN UP A ROOM WITHIN MINUTES

Virtually all of us are guilty of this one. No one can clean a dirty room faster than a guy expecting a lady, especially when it her first visit. If you think usain built is fast, then you haven't seen a guy cleaning a room, expecting a girl in 60secs.


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Xavierblue

Make u travel for hours jux to come n yansh

SaiBuharii:
I'm sure Dogara has a personal problem with Gbajabiamila. He should allow personal and National interest superceede his.

National interest or party selfish interest?

u guys should read before commenting

gabazin080:
Enemy of progress.
So it bad for the FG to bail out the states under him so that the workers will die of hunger.
God will punish anybody at the top that doesn't have the love of the poor in mind

den he should do it constitutionally