Dear brother, I know what you are going through at the moment and I understand you may not like the fact that you are empty.

Emptiness is normal, in fact, people who party and have a lot of girlfriends still feel empty sometimes. The emptiness is neither a result of you being alone nor absence of a girlfriend in your life.

You are doing the right thing by not having a girlfriend for now. You know your goals and your ambitions and you know what it takes. If you really want to go far in life, leave aside the ministry of women affairs for now but if you think you are ready for marriage, then you can go ahead. The fact is, women will use you and dump you especially if you are brilliant. Love is never enough, you have to have something too.


I don't know you, but I think you will be a good student and loyal. I have been in different serious relationships and I know what I went through even from friends of my lovers, I was loyal, committed, I spent and sacrificed. I was so discreet enough to keep the relationships but those girls were never patient, once somebody who is better comes, they give you excuse and take a walk.

Therefore, you are doing the right thing. This stage of your life is meant to work for what you really want to become, strive hard and pay no mind to the number of girlfriends your friends have. I bet you when you "blow", girls will surround you like bees and you can choose and pick.

I know what I'm talking about, be patient, there is time for everything. Do not wake love before its time.

Please be patient, a time is coming when you can have more women and have a lot of sex with your wife. It's just a matter of time. If only you know the bitterness of jilt or someone dumping you, you would never bring this topic let alone complaining of being empty