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[quote author=ebony_topsy]but i get to celebrate with my kids and i am full of joy.[/quote]good for u girl!
thats d spirit

Idowuogbo: baby boy! Can't wait to see u in my future.

*toasting mode activated*

ID We dey wait d pishurr

ileobatojo: Now if a claim sounds truly outrageous that's another thing. If someone claims their 8 bedroom mansion only has liquid gold water beds with live flying unicorn minstrels serenading their eternal lovemaking sessions, then by all means, express your scepticism.

i go say HABA

mruknaijaboy: These pictures are dedicated to my ex Laila Kamara who passed away

tomorrow is valentines day but i will never forget how special you were to me and the times we had over the 6 years we spent together as a couple,nobody can replace the part of you thats in my heart, you will always be a part of me. R.I.P

nice one bro.. may she rest in perfect peace

udeme.. this ad was selected as one of the best ad campaign of 2007 globally

corazoni: Her friends, I know all 3 of them.

So the mata no too bad
call one of them that u think is level headed and let them know what and they can talk to her
she may even be using the cool off time to think she may have been too harsh

Try sha

Yomieluv: The society has allowed somethings to be regarded as normal,ie a cheating husband is permitted,while a cheating woman is frowned at,more reason I like the whites,they believe in living a good life,and having and happily ever after,most married people are simply co-partner,cos they often ENDURE,and not ENJOY their marital life.

the whites you refer to are actualy serial monogamists
which i dont see the difference from polygamy

Marry A for 10 years, have kids, divorce... child and spousal support
Marry B for 5 years, have kids, divorce... child and spousal support
Marry C for 3 years,no kids divorce... spousal support

Now the trend is now cohabitation

Soem of my friends colleagues (whites) are paying cthis thing for their families in the West hence they dont want to go back home
They like naija

corazoni: No ma'am, nothing yet. The update is that she went to Brazilian carnival shaking her b0oty while I'm out here losing weight and sleep on how to make things back to normal. I think I'm gonna have to give her a swift space that she needs. I already got airticket to go see her tomorrow but she's not going to be back until Saturday

It's just that 3yrs is not 3 days in a relationship to start all over again with some other stranger. This sucks but I'm giving up already I guess.

Dont look at it like that
She may have gone with friends to have a change of scene
Call her and let her know you would like to see her
If you can change the ticket then do so and try to see her
If there is no change at least you tried ur best

she may come back ready to continue with the relationship

3 years is a lot though... although a failed ccourtship is better than a failed marriage


PS whom did she go to brazil with....

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oh wait madrid v scumm united dey?

aizebeoje.. cute

















so many yungies here.. chei!

Kgdavid: ok so it was fun engaging in the frivolity but men aint supposed to be going on and on with this kinda thing na.... who's up for a "the intelligence of nairaland men" sort of thread?" after high school good looks don't take you very far!

dude u miss am o spagaun!

princechinedu: 2955540F

i cant see *dazzled*

Good point there.. but not all imperfect marriages as you are saying are miserable

A woman may be content with playing the role of a housewife who is well provided for
So she knows her husband has things on the side and she is well aware as long as her position is well secured (home, businesses, cars etc)
she may overlook such and be ok with things as they are

I agree with most of ur points though

Reminds me of a film i watched where this lady encouraged her friend not to take nonsense froom her hubby
Meanwhile she kneels down to wake her husband and serve him food everyday
When asked she said she can not live with out her husband that she is a ruth

Kgdavid: lol shuld i really join this madness ok here goes...

nice pic.. looks unrehearsed

manny4life: @all4naija,

You're bit.ching about other guys pics and body, post NOT YOUR FACE but a body pic pic let us see

bros just look for Chibuzor Eze

watchindelta: @biolabee thx i fel u

no p bros

speedyboi: Ugly pics everywhere......

Don't ask any questions about the pic

u sef fugly...

watchindelta: watchindelta

better pic bro.. love the timbs
the first one u bone too much na

all4naija: Whatever! What is the meaning of Chibuzor? Is it mumu? Just get your head checked if you can't think out of the box. The truth is that most of them are scary looking. Most of them can't even smile on their photographs. You can bite me if you like.

CHIBUZOR ESE E NO GO BETTER FOR YOU ASKING THAT QUESTION
BLOODY SCAMEER
OLE BARAO

debrief08: I come in peace oh ( Oga Richy permit me to copy your phrase)
My question is:
1. Are things so bad in marriages and relationships that only the worst is beieved?
2. Is it impossible that there will exist spouses and partners who are mature enough to love, respect and make efforts not to hurt their partners?
3. Why is it easy to believe the bad and impossible to accept the good?

dear madam,

The reality is that one man's meat is another man's poison
What you think is heavenly in one way is mundane in another way

I guess humans can be cynical and feel that some details are embellished hence the disbelief
I have married friends and i observe them a lot
Some relate to their wives like the women dont know anything
Yet the women will say they have caring husbands..

Traditional African men generally dont respect their spouses and prefer them to be seen and not heard
So when a lady comes and says hey i have a perfect marriage, they snicker

My own sha. what do u think

Ujujoan: why are you 'posing' with your 'perfect' marriage na?
According to the NLd law if your hubby doesn't call you an i-diot then you must be from heaven. Shebi you it's 'just' i-diot na, it's no big deal . . .
I've even suggested people should use it as 4play just for peace to reign.
Abeg Ify stop 'posing' for us jor . . .

do i detect a tinge of sarcasm

as for me, I know in my own experience, there are certain ways one can behave that will make the other party know he is not fulfilling his intelligence potential
idiot can also be implied

Idowuogbo: U just type nonsense since, u dey craze? Post ya pics or fevk bck to dat canal u call home.u sphyrna lewini.

ID he does not need to post he is a bloody thief
Chibuzor Eze just google it

Acidosis: you live in abraka??

nope but went there like 3 years back to see the town

seems i missed ileke again

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Well, i hate showing around the First Pic below, had it snapped Last 2yrs, with my Cutey flat chest
- Second Pic, uhm. . .its apparent am Playing wiv ma toys
- Third Pic, thatz me and ma Whitey Cousins, they actually escaped Albinoism! [/color]

el guapo is that abraka.. nice pics