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RomanceRe: Letter To My Narcissistic Ex by BITTEREX(op): 3:21pm On Oct 30, 2021
Magnoliaa:
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And what's FPA?
Who's bluedigit? Is this an NL Romance gone sour? lipsrsealed

Anyway, Doc Knight is coming to administer some colored pills to you for your temporary relief and then you can begin on the masculinotherapy with other seasoned and licensed alpha specialists in the block. Goodluck.

cc: AfroKnight
Company names.. rivals as well
RomanceRe: Letter To My Narcissistic Ex by BITTEREX(op): 3:18pm On Oct 30, 2021
Iyaebe:
Story,she will find someone better who will love and marry her,God is never involved in anything fornication so don't be deceived by the word Karma in this case.You should be praying and fasting for forgiveness and not this hogwash you put up here over somebody's daughter you're not even married to.Note: In boyfriend and girlfriend relationship no one is been unjust to anyone as you both were commiting fornication before God so pick up yourself and ask God for forgiveness, she no do you anything for leaving you,its her choice. If you so love her,look for money and pay her dowry. Boyfriend and husband are two different things,have this at the back of your mind always. Shalom
You dont know the pain of being emotionally and psychologically abused, exploited and dumped . It's beyond just dating , when you were true to someone but they stringed and toyed with you all through till you were drained.
RomanceRe: Letter To My Narcissistic Ex by BITTEREX(op): 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2021
You looked down on me but you're not God ... God lifted me. You rejected me but God accepted me. You hated me (I gave u a tangible reason) tho u hated me from the beginning when I never wronged u but God loved me. You've never loved or cared for anyone truly . if u've ever loved someone it's always because u have a selfish interest to protect. I remember how u insulted me indirectly in SND group because we weren't talking ( I was only observing u) u went about flirting with every guy that came ur way. If i did half of what u did to me, u will never forgive me , not like u are capable of forgiving. You looked down on me because I wasn't ur helper , u never saw me as a lover but u claimed to be my friend and lover but when we weren't talking u showed that u would never support me come rain..

my only bad side was reacting angrily and bitter.. it's because I took enough already and I couldn't any more. I shouldn't have cuz I really cared for u and I'm definitely gonna look for ur number to send u 180k for the damages. I never asked u to repay for my damaged heart and two broken laptops.
You've built ur life around FPA and destroyed ur relationship because u are obsessed with money and independence and the only people u value are "well to do folks".. and u never see far but the present.. once I was down and u got ur place furnished, u moved and and u started devising schemes for how u would dump me. u were never genuine and u've never been. You enjoyed my pain when ever I tried to communicate with you to resolve our differences. You silent me as a form of Manipulation. You threaten to live so I would keep shut about your actions..

may God forgive you for the emotional and psychologically abuse you rendered my mind. Another man will not know who u really are til they come close and just like I was deceived to think u were a good lady who is willing to commit, they will fall for it. I remember how much I tried to settle us, even when I never wronged u but relayed my displeasures to you .. I remembered even how u tried to Have lucky come see you and spend time with you even when we were still dating, he even told you he himself wouldn't allow that as a guy.. but u never cared about ur actions.. but u were looking for what u could gain from him by using him to furnish ur house even if he has to touch u..

You promised me before moving in " EFx , even if we have issues we will settle it and there's always gonna be arguement but we will resolve" .. not knowing u had ur own selfish interest to accomplish. You never pitied me while I struggled and I was in my most trying times in life. I never asked u for money or support, all I needed was for u to be loving. The times I spent with u at ur place I did so cuz I wanted to feel lifted around the person I loved most. I could have been with my friends but I wanted more to be with u . You had ur flaws and u weren't perfect , still I never treated u bad or made u feel worthless. I never joked about ur flaws.. but everyday of my life u mocked me and u devalued me. I wept as a man and I tried to get through to you to make u see what u were doing to me.


You enjoyed snubbin and ignoring me cuz u never valued me or anyone, u never cared for anyone but urself. It's fake loyalty you have for FPA, cuz I know when FPA crashes( soon) u will depart from him and act like you don't know him. Maybe you should also tell him I told you so. Since u always went behind my back to tell him things about bluedigit or about stuffs people post about him.

The only reason why you are with FPA is because u earn from him, he's ur god, because of his status and having students around him makes u feel he is worthy of you, while you treat people like me as gabbage when all I've ever done was to be good , loving and caring to you. Is it my fault that I was just an undergraduate trying to survive in my own little way. were u expecting me to be super suffecient, popular and rich at once? Now this is why you will never love someone genuinely for who they are but for what they can give to you.

You didn't hurt just me, but my mom, my friends and everyone around me, because when I was miserable , they felt my pain. Because of this hurt I developed a heart condition and you never cared. I was hurt Everytime because I felt love for u and I helplessly cared for you . Now I feel for sorry for myself for ever knowing you and for ever getting involved with you and FPA.

You don't see me now but someday you will... someday you will see me celebrated , someday you will miss and wish you treated me better. But I will never look your way. I also hope someday you achieve all your dreams and live happily. I pray you never have to go through this feeling of rejection. Thank you for teaching me another Hard lesson.
RomanceLetter To My Narcissistic Ex by BITTEREX(op): 2:55pm On Oct 30, 2021
Dear EX , for 3months I cried , some days , I was hurt for hurting u back because u broke my heart and devalued me. I was depressed for the fact u abandoned me in my lowest moments, some nights I punched the walls and bruised my knuckles... and I missed u alot . I was miserable and lonely. You meant everything to me. I never wanted nobody else but u.

I was obsessed and helplessly inlove. I had to move out as soon as money came so I could be happy because we lived on the same street. It hurts alot because rejection hurts and no one wants to be rejected. it's hurts alot because it came from you. if it were just a friend or someone I never loved , I wouldn't feel bad or obsessive. It's because I trusted u and I placed u highly above others and loved u that's why I'm hurt.. now u drained me of my happiness and joy, u are happy and willing to look for another victim? someone with money , status , power, good looks , healthy and happy mind . U didn't want me cuz u already drained me of all these qualities. ofcourse why would u love and have sex with someone like me, without money and status to feed your ego , someone who lived in a poorly furnished student room in odums ... this was the only reason u abandoned me and always treated me poorly. may God forgive you. how do u sleep at night knowing u used me?

I was there for you when no one saw you. I loved you when no one cared. I was ur friend , ur shoulder to lean on and your support. When things became good for you and bad for me, you treated me poorly and even called ur caretaker one night after we just saw a movie together, to throw me out of ur house over food arguement at an ungodly hour with my possessions . I was scared for my life. still u came back to apologise and I embraced u cuz I can't stand seeing u suffer for my forgiveness .

You think life is all about comfort and devaluing people u feel are not up to your standard? You think life is all about money and the people who don't have it are not worth considering to be human enough to be treated with love and respect? You built ur life around FPA, while he's arranging his life, you'll slave for him and suffer your relationship. Then whenever he wants ur body, u go give to him cuz you work for him and he's the "God" u claim to have given ur life to , so you avoided and withheld being intimate with me .
I thought u were human and capable of love, sympathy and empathy, but I hope life treats u well , I wish you find love and happiness as long as the earth and other planets revolves around the sun...I wish you long life and prosperity and blessings. I pray others may never reject u and devalue u as u did to me.

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