₦airaland Forum

Dekadet:
Well, everything you described up there can be found not just in Benue alone but allover the globe now. The worst is that young ladies now send nudes or seductive videos to people with the intent to be invited for s3x in exchange for money. No one is faithful anymore both men and women but in all these, you could still find few good men or women who refuse to be influence by what is going on in the world today.

very few...

SenecaTheYonger:
Hey, what is FPA? And is it this same girl you wrote about here that sent you a video of her moaning? Any reason why she wants to torment you like that?

For annonymity sake .. FPA is just FPA... and Yes, she is the one bro.. She is a narcissist.. No empathy, no love in them..

Kriss216:
Fallacy of hasty generalization.


99thEnemy is from Benue and he's not promiscuous in nature.

Forget.. e dey their gene

Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely... There is also a part of benue that give their wives to visitors to be fvxked til this day for entertainment

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Tiv,Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver.. But, honestly they tend to be very nice to visitors , but for relationships, u gotta shine ur eyes... i mean shine it well

im about to post the video on a group. if u are on telegram, u can join and wait

MufasaLion:
Stupid immature kids.

kpele

Belafonte:
Isn't it a crime to broadcast someone else's nudes?

it isnt nudes .. they were blurred

Kobicove:
You really do have very low self esteem

ok

Ashawosboifrien:
Idoma girl

lol yh

LikeAking:
seND TO MY MAIL.

Lol.. Just go watch porn and u'll be alright

.post ur mail tho

LikeAking:
Lies!

what proof do you need .. Will happily provide

Magnoliaa:
Wteva.

No offense intended. I know you're a lady. Just understand my view.

Magnoliaa:
I hope you're a happy redpiller or even blackpiller now.

Honestly, I hate the sight of anything in skirt .. I've been dealt with enough to understand that love is barely a mirage and an avenue to exploit people.

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She tried to hurt me , . She sent it via a mail followed by insults ....The content is followed by loud moans of her being fvcked.....so i sent the video to all her contacts , siblings and friends ..

LordReed:
So how did you conclude it was the prayers you were making that caused it?

Well, there's no leakage in my ceiling wall, and if a worm should fall off from the ceiling it wouldn't gain firm grasp on my face. I don't live in a dirty environment..

Salt06:
To God be the Glory. Happy for you.
You will see evidences of this deliverance in various aspects of your life

Amen !!

LordReed:
Are you assuming the only way a worm could have been on your head is because it came from out of your head? It couldn't have crawled there from off your bed or fallen from the ceiling on to your head?

It could have...

silvoclaira:
Where is the photo of the evidence?

That moment I didn't think of taking photos, I just wanted to kill it asap. I never knew I would make a thread. It just occurred to me and I should have, but the inability to take a photo of the worm doesn't dismiss my experience. It was real and frightening.

I've heard of scenarios where during prayer, objects and animate things leave people's bodies . It sounded unreal and faked , but today I experienced it myself.

I was praying today during a program this morning at about 5am while watching Apostle Johnson suleman's program (ministers without blemish) on youtube , and he got to the deliverance aspect where he began to declare that things will start leaving our bodies .. While on that I began to feel something crawling on my face, with reflex I hit the area where I felt the sensation and a live worm fell on the bed . It was dark, so i had to immediately switch on my phone light to see what just fell off of me, and lo and behold, it was indeed a live worm. I immediately killed it and I felt a relief.

I've been up and praying and I'm worried . Is there any spiritual meaning to this ? I understand spiritual symbols and my inner man bears witness that the worm that has been eating the things dead in my life is no more and from today , things , either good virtues and gifts that have been dead or dormant by virtue of my filthy garment is brought back alive , and now is the time to be fruitful.

Has this happened to you before or anyone around you . Please testify.

Raymond0008:
Why do men of God’s always come from Muslim home?

Oyedepo
Tb Joshua
And now Iginla

Apostle suleman as well

Starz825:
Na you get EFX...guy my money dey your hand...I invested my funds in EFX last December and till this moment nothing....

Guy shebi she break your heart...me go break your head if I catch you

I started EFX this year , may.. Now come again... You are forgiven.

Elporo:
I encourage you to ignore your emotions for one moment and re-visit the decisions "she" took. You will see on further introspection that it was/is "LOGICAL". You could regard it as a bad move, but from the results of this move, you can see it was/is favorable to her.

I rationalised it, it seemed logical, but on the other hand it was very selfish. No closure was given . Rather I was treated with disgust and contempt, in a cruel manner. One day I was idealised and the next , I was devalued like I never meant anything.

Banish the thoughts and promises of love; to a man, they are a source of confusion!
Learn to deal with women on a transactional level. Women are constantly negotiating - trading one relationship for another, cultivating a potential mate by finding a way into his social circle even hoarding men by keeping one or two in-limbo and ensuring other girls can't make any reasonable headway with them by rotating attention between the guys.

Money and material resources are the least valuable items you can offer a woman. Your time, clarity, space, emotions are the most cherished - this is because you use them to produce/generate resources. So, when you are in a state of emotional limbo your money and resources suffer; you are either incapable of replenishing your depleted resources or even worse forfeit such activities because of depression.

Some may assume I am TRP; far from it. I like to analyze issues like a capitalist with regard to economic activity. Can you understand the economic damage a woman suffers if she gets pregnant? You need to sit down for a moment and think about it.

Plenty can go wrong in a woman's life. So much can go wrong and sometimes there is no recovery only hope. Hence, they need to optimize aggressively or else.

Wow , the emboldened just opened my mind in a way. Thanks for the enlightenment.

GiantParrot:
@OP, I hope you realize that you will be feeding the so called narcissistic ex' ego with this pathetic, pity-seeking letter.

No man should ever present himself in a pathetic light or desire a pity party. It's bad optics and doesn't develop the psyche. No man is allowed to outsource his feeling of wellbeing to someone else. Instead, a man must be the source of strength when everyone chooses weakness.

As a single, unmarried man, you are the center of your world. No one else is. That low self esteem I pick from your post has to die. I do not dismiss what you feel, but you must use that feeling as a catalyst to grow into something much better.

Work on yourself. Join a gym, you'll feel pain at first, but do not give up. Continue, and you'll be making your brain more resilient. Develop yourself mentally, take your time, every day, to work on a skill. Do not care for what the world has to say, develop your mind and your body for you are the center of your life. Do this for a few years, and you will be proud of the man you become.

Thanks Brotherly. This resonates with my thought process in building myself . God bless you for not dismissing how I feel..it's not "manly" but I can't deny I felt like the way I did.

Magnoliaa:
Anyway, I hope you have found a little bit of relief from the senselofenac gel the guy above has massaged you with?

Yes dear. Thanks a lot

I believe you'll really be fine. This will pass. It's good as you're pouring out your emotions as well, too. Don't suppress it and you're not a fool for everything you've experienced. Most people (here) have gone through the same as well. Don't blame yourself too hard.

And don't let the pain fester into hate and bitterness and misogyny, okay? You'll be doing yourself a whole lot of harm in the end if you let it.

Just don't deny yourself the freedom of grieving first. You should. Then you can move on to things like healing and happiness and making something of yourself.

Good luck in your business endeavors as well.

Thanks for the soothing words. I'll pull through definitely. But I'm just beginning to hate the opposite gender now. I see through females and I spot the toxic users from a mile away and I steer clear before they get to come close to me. No one wants to love you naturally, if not opportunistically . I'm afraid I may never love , I'm paranoid . I'm trying to surpress this hatred cuz I'm not built like that, I have empathy and I also believe in the good side of people. I just want to focus on my business and be selfish af, til I'm very sane and happy to allow anyone come close or trust them. Thanks again.. I appreciate.

Magnoliaa:
Lol. So you're here to promote them or something?



And how about SND and EFx? What are those?

I'm EFX . I own EFX and BLueDigit is a company friend and Ally.

RightToReject:
I don't hold a brief for the lady; however, you never wittingly or unwittingly loved her, at least not altruistically but self-absorbingly or opportunistically. You were instead in love with her/you fell in love with her. People fall in love unwittingly because of the pleasure and happiness they consciously gain or intend to gain from the other party materially or immaterially. This explains the reason why even while she was intentionally meting out unpalatable attitudes towards you, you still indulged her. More so, whatever assumed good thing you might have done for her was mostly done from the position of strategic kindness - expediency and servility rather than principle. Worse still is the fact that you fell in love with her because of her material (physical) possession not because of her immaterial possession (the quality of her soul), according to the connotation of your message - a man who doesn't practice genuine love and has no standard will always fall for anything and will always get used or become a beast. You don't have to agree with me, but a fact remains a fact.

When you love, instead of falling in love, she will never be a source of happiness or pleasure for you and her failings will always repulse you and be unacceptable to you, and your good deeds for her will always be from the position of principle/altruistic kindness rather than expediency and/or servility.

As a man, you are supposed to love a woman, but you are not supposed to fall in love with a woman - this is one way to rein and enjoy the glory of your authority genuinely. Falling in love is a woman's thing, and when she does so based on the quality of your soul rather than your material possession, you do everything possible to protect her heart and treat her queenly continually with everything you have, while if you observe that she in love with your material possession rather than the quality of your soul, you give her the treatment deserving on a frenemy.

No one can afford to wreck you when you love genuinely/altruistically, provided that you are sane.

I couldn't agree less. She was my first love and centre of my world. I fell wrecklessly in love and I had no boundaries .

AfroKnight:
I read the first few lines and I was getting pissed. Make I finish the epistle. I dey come.

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Magnoliaa, Omo! No be small tin.

BITTEREX, I don’t think I need to tell you that you need to calm down. You should know that. I wanted to blame you, big time, but you are doing a good job of that already.

You are a thinker. You seem to be one of those who would choose to be loyal in a relationship, no matter what. However, that kind of chivalry is reserved for a deserving wife, not one broke dependent girlfriend you met in school. Even a deserving wife can surprise you one day. Anyway, it is a pity you encountered a woman like that.

Since you come across as an observant thinker, I would say you should always audit your relationships. Take time to think about the good and bad times in the relationship and be honest with yourself. Don’t ignore red flags. There is nothing honourable about enduring a toxic relationship where your babe disrespects you by openly entertaining other guys. Don’t be too proud or too timid to walk away.

Don’t make strangers out of your friends. They might have hinted at the red flags you ignored but you only wanted to focus on your love for an undeserving woman. A woman who comes into your life and somehow isolates you from your guys is a dangerous, manipulative woman. Beware of her.

Lastly, please do not bother yourself about how her life will turn out; whether the universe will punish her or not. That is not your business. Your business is your self development. You are young. That’s good. Other relationships will come. This young woman who looks like your entire world right now will someday become a distant memory. Focus on developing yourself. There are cloudy days in the future. How you weather them depends on your preparation now.

I wish you all the best.

Thanks boss. I'm seriously building on self development.

SILENTandSMART2:
Hahahaha who dey depressed between you and me ? You wey write all this story just because of a girl when niggas at your age are making their money you're here worshiping pussy....

Aswear nah fool you be no cap ,no offense i come in peace , you can post this in your private status if you don't want public opinion because this is a public platform..... Better come and let me teach you how it goes because if you still failed to make money this yeye stories won't help that's the world we live in today almost everything is based on material things.....

I will just ignore you.

bigcee:
Next time no dey loose guard. See as you dey lament

I'm hurt bro

Magnoliaa:
Lol. So you're here to promote them or something?

There are bigger platforms I could use to promote my company if I wanted to. I'm just here to pour my heart. I can't bottle everything, I'm human even tho we live in a generation of less empathic people, where people see you as "weak" because you have emotions and can feel and lament when hurt. I'm not built that way

SILENTandSMART2:
You dey craze ? She dey here ? Even if she dey here ,nah through yansh you dey think ? .....


Which mumu and arindin post be this, y'all keep on wasting your time on unnecessary things.....

You should have just ignored the posts and moved along. I'm not the cause of your depression