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UyaiIncomparabl:
He's my husby.

D 70yrs old oyibo man?congrats

UyaiIncomparabl:
He is my cash machine. He spits out cash like my toyboy. Anything I tell him to do financially, he does. Be like say I nack am jazz. He prioritises I, the kids and my family like gold.

He washes my clothes when they are dirty. Goes to the market and comes home to cook for me. He has made me and the kids so lazy. I pray he lives long for me o.

My sister,this fiction man can not live long o.pls tell us about ur non fiction spouse.

I find trouble,d jobless ones vex.pls continue expressing ur anger,i dey come.lol.

Double0h7:
Your "truth" is delusional and makes no sense. How many people have loved, respected, and supported someone who then turned around and used and abused them in return?

I can't believe this is coming from you of all people

You've been abused yourself so should we say that it was your fault that you were abused. That you were disrespectful and that's why he was disrespectful to you and so on? Or does your truth ONLY apply to women?

Really?clap 4 urself o jare.u have made no point

Why is it that some men dont like hearing d truth?

advanceDNA:
Lol... this one has not seen life...

Really?"inside life"man

nams77:
Are you married?

Wetin concern marriage 4 dis talk?

There is no bad woman,what you put into your relationship is what u get.Gabbage in,gabbage out!.Put in love,u get loved.put in respect,you get respected.put in selfishnes,she shows u d true meaning of selfishness.Make her your queen,you become her king.The list goes on.so before you insult women,check yourself.udo!

sisisioge:
Sebi you've spoken and you said tomorrow, right? When she said she would look for someone to stay tonight, just dont respond again. Leave it till tomorrow.

Meanwhile, you need to change your circle of friends. You need to change your community. Next year shall be great for you! Enough of inadequacies in your life! May fortune smile at you. Pele.

Amen.thank u ma

ESANMEA:
Affliction shall not arise a second time.. Don't sit on the fence.. Tell her YES or NO

I want to say "no"but i dont know how 2 say it

endsarrrs:
We Women sef

@OP, please take the parenting of those your kids very seriously. Please be very careful okay

God has been helping me

slimjohn2k5:
With all these red lights, u better let her know it won't be possible.

I came to realise in this life that the word 'NO' have built more great men than the word 'Yes'

Hmmm!

sisisioge:
BJ.....you have enough of your own personal wahala and do not need additional wahala biko. If aunty had caused you previous headache when she stayed over, it's fine to remain resolute with your decision. That's what grownups do.....they make sensible decision and stick by it. Dont get emotionally manipulated into giving in....she can stay with her lover tonight while you discuss the arrangement tomorrow. Cheers Maami.

Thank u ma,but i dont know how 2 tell her without hurtin her

She had 2k o which i helped her collect 4rm a stubborn parent,she refused helpin me.(4) when i lived in my classroom with my kids for three months,she didnt even offer me help like allowing d kids come and stay in d apartment where she lives alone,instead when i beg her 2 stay with me 2 keep me company due 2 lonlines,she gives me condition dat i must give her food.(4) shes stingy,i dont want her to come and finish d food am managing with my kids(5) she cant even properly flush toilet after use,she complains about fetchin water(5)wen we were both lookin 4 apartment,i told her dat we should join our monies to rent a room and live as roomates,she said she needs privacy......so i was thinkin dat what if i give her d keys 2 d sch.2 sleep there,or how do i tell her dat i cant accomodate her without hurting her?

My colleague called me dis evening dat she has bin having issues with her neighbours at home and want 2 come and stay with me for three days,i just replied"tomorrow naw",she said ok dat she wil look 4 where 2 sleep dis night.my issue is that.(1)shes older dan me and can b very bossy (2) when she stayed at my place d previous month,we had an agreement 4 her to stay with my kids 4 seven days,while i travel to bauchi state.i made provision 4 food and money.i travelled.two days later she called 2 tell me dat d head of my gas had issues,i told her to change it dat when i come,i would pay her back.she said she wants 2 buy kerosene stove,i told her no dat am alergic 2 d smell of stove.she said dat if i dont approve her 2 buy stove,she would go and dump my kids with my baby daddy.i approved her buyin d stove.d next day she said dat d tiles in my room is causin cold 4 her dat she wants 2 visit her lover,she later dumped my kids with a parent 4rm my sch.(3)i begged her fifty naira 2day 2 add 2 my transport fare.