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pdppower:
Please don't let your dad or mum see this post o.

They don't need to see it. His own children will desert him in old age.

Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

Ok mr self righteous. Please make sure you keep this same energy when you are old & frail and your children tell you that they owe you nothing!! after all, there is no book of law that mandates them to take care of you.
That way, you can happily die alone without ever reaping the benefits of training a child.

Notable mention: Peter (Psquare)
Peter went ahead and married a woman that his late mother didn't approve off (Lola) and this eventually led to him becoming ostracized from his blood brothers at the expense of breaking up a very lucrative musical duo -Psquare.
As a result of this, Peter will forever be stuck at the mercy of his wife - he must remain loyal and subservient to her and she knows this, whatever shiit she gives him to chop he must chop it silently and still come out to praise his wife on social media in a desperate bid to hold on to his marriage irrespective of whatever hell he must be facing at home This is why you will often find Peter unceremoniously blowing his wife's trumpet on social media - empty barrels they say, make the loudest noise. Don't be surprised if the reality of their marriage is a sad miserable one which Peter desperately holds on to #smokesandmirrors.

Moral of the story: The worst mistake a man can make is to choose a woman over your own blood relatives. A woman can divorce you at anytime, a woman can cheat on you and even bring home bastards for you to raise and even if she doesn't do the above, the man will find that he has to work twice as hard to make sure his marriage doesn't collapse - if not, he will loose on both sides.

The Sad Tale of Kobe Bryant
Don't let his sportsmanship and great achievements fool you, Kobe Bryant is the biggest Simp there is and I'll explain to you why:
Kobe made a grave mistake when he chose to ostracize his parents simply because of their disapproval of Vanessa as his wife. They didn't want him marrying a white woman yet he went ahead and married her.
The wedding was a desolate, solemn and underwhelming event as only few of Vanessa's family members where in attendance. Kobe married Vanessa alone without the presence of any of his own family members. Not even his team mates were in attendance (thats to tell you the extent of the lack of support he had). Everybody around him knew he was making the mistake of his life.
After the wedding, Kobe went ahead and cut his parents off financially (some have speculated this was under the coercion of his wife) so as he ditched his own parents and siblings, he decided to embrace Vanessa's family, even learning Spanish in order to communicate better with them.. he also spared no expense in financing the flamboyant lifestyle of Vanessa's greedy and wicked mother while his own parents suffered so much lack that they resulted to sell his memorabilia for money - of which Kobe sued his parents to court for it. He showed total lack of care and support towards his own parents who raised him and helped made him who he became - until his death. All because: they did not approve of his choice of spouse.
After Kobe's unfortunate demise, the world looked on and watched how Kobe's parents were snubbed at his funeral. Nobody acknowledged them and they were brushed off to the side - his wife made sure of this.
Kobe's ENTIRE estate has now been left to his Vanessa and trust me, none of his family members will get a cut out of it since he married Vanessa with no prenup and had no will before his demise.
What has become of Kobe's legacy is the fact that two white women (Vanessa and her greedy mother) are now at war with each other on how to share the sweat of a black man while his own parents are left with nothing.