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This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by BlackMamba69(m): 5:45pm On Jan 13
The Sad Tale of Kobe Bryant
Don't let his sportsmanship and great achievements fool you, Kobe Bryant is the biggest Simp there is and I'll explain to you why:
Kobe made a grave mistake when he chose to ostracize his parents simply because of their disapproval of Vanessa as his wife. They didn't want him marrying a white woman yet he went ahead and married her.
The wedding was a desolate, solemn and underwhelming event as only few of Vanessa's family members where in attendance. Kobe married Vanessa alone without the presence of any of his own family members. Not even his team mates were in attendance (thats to tell you the extent of the lack of support he had). Everybody around him knew he was making the mistake of his life.
After the wedding, Kobe went ahead and cut his parents off financially (some have speculated this was under the coercion of his wife) so as he ditched his own parents and siblings, he decided to embrace Vanessa's family, even learning Spanish in order to communicate better with them.. he also spared no expense in financing the flamboyant lifestyle of Vanessa's greedy and wicked mother while his own parents suffered so much lack that they resulted to sell his memorabilia for money - of which Kobe sued his parents to court for it. He showed total lack of care and support towards his own parents who raised him and helped made him who he became - until his death. All because: they did not approve of his choice of spouse.
After Kobe's unfortunate demise, the world looked on and watched how Kobe's parents were snubbed at his funeral. Nobody acknowledged them and they were brushed off to the side - his wife made sure of this.
Kobe's ENTIRE estate has now been left to his Vanessa and trust me, none of his family members will get a cut out of it since he married Vanessa with no prenup and had no will before his demise.
What has become of Kobe's legacy is the fact that two white women (Vanessa and her greedy mother) are now at war with each other on how to share the sweat of a black man while his own parents are left with nothing.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by BlackMamba69(m): 5:46pm On Jan 13
Notable mention: Peter (Psquare)
Peter went ahead and married a woman that his late mother didn't approve off (Lola) and this eventually led to him becoming ostracized from his blood brothers at the expense of breaking up a very lucrative musical duo -Psquare.
As a result of this, Peter will forever be stuck at the mercy of his wife - he must remain loyal and subservient to her and she knows this, whatever shiit she gives him to chop he must chop it silently and still come out to praise his wife on social media in a desperate bid to hold on to his marriage irrespective of whatever hell he must be facing at home lipsrsealed This is why you will often find Peter unceremoniously blowing his wife's trumpet on social media - empty barrels they say, make the loudest noise. Don't be surprised if the reality of their marriage is a sad miserable one which Peter desperately holds on to #smokesandmirrors.

Moral of the story: The worst mistake a man can make is to choose a woman over your own blood relatives. A woman can divorce you at anytime, a woman can cheat on you and even bring home bastards for you to raise and even if she doesn't do the above, the man will find that he has to work twice as hard to make sure his marriage doesn't collapse - if not, he will loose on both sides.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Naijaarchive(m): 5:48pm On Jan 13
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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by tyup(m): 5:49pm On Jan 13
The end of Simps are always terrible and very Brutally filled with Regrets

I feel like meeting girls like this to teach them a good bitter lessons but Destiny keeps directing the gentle ones my way, the ones that seem stubborn are always humbled when we get together. it's sickening

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Yustyle(m): 5:50pm On Jan 13
Hmmm � . . . food for thoughts

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by phorget(m): 5:50pm On Jan 13
Hmmmmmm
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by XXXXTENTACION: 5:59pm On Jan 13
IT HAS ENDED IN TEARS. angry

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Kapilta(m): 6:02pm On Jan 13
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by NeoWanZaeed(m): 6:07pm On Jan 13
A man knows what he wants and he should never separate fr0m his family. At least, kip ur wife and family apart and stay in the middle. No matter how bad, family w0nt reject u, ur wife might

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by NeoWanZaeed(m): 6:13pm On Jan 13
tyup:
The end of Simps are always terrible and very Brutally filled with Regrets

I feel like meeting girls like this to teach them a good bitter lessons but Destiny keeps directing the gentle ones my way, the ones that seem stubborn are always humbled when we get together. it's sickening
Who kn0ws maybe u the next stab victim. . Laughing . W0men are necessary evil bro
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by tarantino1: 6:17pm On Jan 13
She stingy to her own mama lmao grin that means Kobe Bryant parents no get hope be that grin

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by pdppower: 6:20pm On Jan 13
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.

Please don't let your dad or mum see this post o.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by BlackMamba69(m): 6:22pm On Jan 13
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.


Ok mr self righteous. Please make sure you keep this same energy when you are old & frail and your children tell you that they owe you nothing!! after all, there is no book of law that mandates them to take care of you.
That way, you can happily die alone without ever reaping the benefits of training a child.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by BlackMamba69(m): 6:23pm On Jan 13
pdppower:


Please don't let your dad or mum see this post o.

They don't need to see it. His own children will desert him in old age.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by tyup(m): 6:25pm On Jan 13
NeoWanZaeed:
Who kn0ws maybe u the next stab victim. . Laughing . W0men are necessary evil bro

Forget tha level, na only simps and women beater dey chop stabbing pass. in the relationship me I'll make you feel worthless like you're a nobody, the first minute I can be romantic, the next minute I fit change am for you if you Bleep up. sheyb na person wey regard you/care so much bout you dey make u get hurt to the extent u have to take a knife to stab

Go learn work bros dem dey look face Bfr dem give fake dollar.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by southniyikaye(m): 6:28pm On Jan 13
Na WA o

This world hennnn, him eye go don clear for the other side...

In life, take some time off and clear your head and mind...
Stay away from even loved ones, seek advice about life from those elders who have been through it and almost seen it all...
Let them school you about life, marriage and let them share life lessons with you...

Even if dem use juju for you, he get some elderly words wey go sure neutralize the juju make he clear from your eyes...

Mr alfajohn, that conversation you had with me that day shaped so many things about me and gave me the courage I needed to forge ahead and not relent in fighting those battles I talked about and believe me sir, I am winning..

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by NeoWanZaeed(m): 6:29pm On Jan 13
tyup:


Forget tha level, na only simps and women beater dey chop stabbing pass. in the relationship me I'll make you feel worthless like you're a nobody, the first minute I can be romantic, the next minute I fit change am for you if you Bleep up. sheyb na person wey regard you/care so much bout you dey make u get hurt to the extent u have to take a knife to stab

Go learn work bros dem dey look face Bfr dem give fake dollar.
Laughing . . I no even know what to say .

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by kazyhm(m): 6:53pm On Jan 13
A river that forget its source shall run dry...





I think to a very large extent......ancient people are wiser.....

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by bobowaja(m): 7:28pm On Jan 13
I wonder why men always chose to learn the hard way.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Degrezhaa: 7:28pm On Jan 13
NeoWanZaeed:
Laughing . . I no even know what to say .
Don't mind him.

Man must always be careful and smart with these girls. Cause you never know.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by DaddyRochie1642(f): 8:20pm On Jan 13
tarantino1:
She stingy to her own mama lmao grin that means Kobe Bryant parents no get hope be that grin




grin grin
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by DaddyRochie1642(f): 8:22pm On Jan 13
BlackMamba69:


Ok mr self righteous. Please make sure you keep this same energy when you are old & frail and your children tell you that they owe you nothing!! after all, there is no book of law that mandates them to take care of you.
That way, you can happily die alone without ever reaping the benefits of training a child.





You're Wise

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by MJBOLT: 8:28pm On Jan 13
I wondering why you named yourself after his nickname @op
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by FinallyFamous: 8:40pm On Jan 13
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.

So in your mind now ,you thought you've made sense abi ??

But sha hear this, your family must have their respect and your wife too must have hers , never neglect the other for the other never extol one above the other ..

Let each have their own throne and let each respect eachothers kingdom. By doing so each will understand where they stand and there will be less drama. Maintain balance

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Mide3367: 8:43pm On Jan 13
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
who is this na ... See what a man is saying in support of towtow people

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Fuckyoumod: 9:05pm On Jan 13
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
only two things can make you post this trash.

1. Its either you are a product of very terrible and poor parenting with no love from your father or mother.
2. Or you are just a bastard child who grew up with in the mist of separation and had no care.

For those of us that got all the love, care and scarifies from our both parents while growing up, even till date the love is unending, which might not be necessarily all the money in the world, can never in our life time allow a woman separate us from our parents beloved parents.

Our wives should be a uniting force not an agent of division.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Fuckyoumod: 9:10pm On Jan 13
Mide3367:
who is this na ... See what a man is saying in support of towtow people
leave that guy he is saying bullshit

I pity the guy cos he lacked true love and care from his parent that's if he knows his father.

Parenting is not beans!

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Benwallt(m): 9:49pm On Jan 13
BlackMamba69:
Notable mention: Peter (Psquare)
Peter went ahead and married a woman that his late mother didn't approve off (Lola) and this eventually led to him becoming ostracized from his blood brothers at the expense of breaking up a very lucrative musical duo -Psquare.
As a result of this, Peter will forever be stuck at the mercy of his wife - he must remain loyal and subservient to her and she knows this, whatever shiit she gives him to chop he must chop it silently and still come out to praise his wife on social media in a desperate bid to hold on to his marriage irrespective of whatever hell he must be facing at home lipsrsealed This is why you will often find Peter unceremoniously blowing his wife's trumpet on social media - empty barrels they say, make the loudest noise. Don't be surprised if the reality of their marriage is a sad miserable one which Peter desperately holds on to #smokesandmirrors.

Moral of the story: The worst mistake a man can make is to choose a woman over your own blood relatives. A woman can divorce you at anytime, a woman can cheat on you and even bring home bastards for you to raise and even if she doesn't do the above, the man will find that he has to work twice as hard to make sure his marriage doesn't collapse - if not, he will loose on both sides.
you didn't dive into Paul's own.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by SimplyFacts: 9:53pm On Jan 13
Lol
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Kapilta(m): 9:53pm On Jan 13
Mide3367:
who is this na ... See what a man is saying in support of towtow people
Where's the support? Talking about Kobes happiness and you talking nonsense.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Kapilta(m): 10:03pm On Jan 13
tyup:
The end of Simps are always terrible and very Brutally filled with Regrets

I feel like meeting girls like this to teach them a good bitter lessons but Destiny keeps directing the gentle ones my way, the ones that seem stubborn are always humbled when we get together. it's sickening
how was he a simp? Cuz he choosed his own happiness? The problem with many of you lots is that you don't know that happiness is much more than wealth. That was all that he wanted, how hard could it be for his family to support him in what makes him happy just because of their hatred towards white. Nonsense.

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