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Health / Re: How Do I Get Rid Of Black Spots caused by pimples? by BlackRexDeus: 6:53pm On Dec 13, 2020
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Agriculture / Re: Lagos To Establish Fish Center To Boost Production by BlackRexDeus: 6:44pm On Dec 13, 2020
The Coronavirus is pedophilia Baal worship
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fulham Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th December 2020 by BlackRexDeus: 6:42pm On Dec 13, 2020
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Democracy The Most Rigged Political System Joe Biden Already Selected by BlackRexDeus: 6:30pm On Dec 13, 2020

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Are you getting the placebo or hot shot?

Celebrities / Re: Joe Biden Is Donald Trump 2.0 They're Brothers And Sisters Same Bloodline by BlackRexDeus: 2:03pm On Dec 13, 2020
People pleasing is simply the act of saying or doing anything and everything just to satisfy everybody. It is a deliberate act where a person go out of their way and against their own real intentions to make everyone around them happy by doing or saying whatever they want and like.

Against their own real intentions, convictions or desires, they yearn to please everyone they come across just to appear to be a good person. It does not matter how they really think or what they really want, they would say or do the opposite just to appear good to everyone.

Let’s face the reality, everyone is a people pleaser at some point and to some extent. We always try to appear as nice as possible to the next person that approaches us but when it becomes too much that we want to appear nice to everyone at all cost then that’s a problem. Below are reasons why;

1. More Hate Instead Of Love: You are trying to make everyone happy and doing just what they all want no matter what it takes or cost you. Hopefully they would all love you and see you as the good person among. However when everyone realizes you are pretending just to be called nice, they hate you the more. They feel they can’t get the truth out of you, you end up telling them what you feel they want to hear instead of the truth. So instead they begin to avoid you and that breeds more hate.

2. You Become Untrustworthy: No one can really get the truth of the matter from you, you play nice and try to be in the middle just to please all parties. Everyone is confused and don’t know how you really feel about things. They are not sure if you are actually comfortable doing what they have asked of you or not, so they begin to trust you, your words and your actions less and less until they disapprove of you completely.

3. You Appear Manipulative: Each time someone comes to you for something, you end up doing what you feel pleases them as against what they really needed. It continues that way and they eventually discover what they where looking for elsewhere, making them feel you have been using them all along. When two opposing sides have arguments and they come to you separately, you take sides with each individually and tell them what pleases their ears. Eventually they discover later and you become manipulative.

4. You Begin To Hate The Things You Used To Love: Let’s assume you are the type that loves cleaning and you do it with so much enthusiasm. Everyone sees so and begins to approach you to do it for them as against what you would have wanted to do at that moment. You oblige them because you do not want to say no to them in a bid to make them happy with you. In the end as you clean more and more against your actual will, you begin to hate cleaning.

5. You May Develop Mental Health Issues: As You struggle to please everyone and be on their good book, you do it against you own actual intentions, will and desires. You no longer do the things that makes you happy and fulfilled, instead you are dragging yourself to make everyone else happy. Slowly you begin to drain yourself of your own happiness and fulfillment, becoming more sad inside, wearing a happy and smiling face for all. You keep accumulating the sadness inside and consequently you may fall into depression and that becomes dangerous if left unattended.

6. You Forget The One Person Who Matters The Most: In your bid to be the best one among, doing everything and anything to make all to be happy with you and going out of your way for it, you forget the one person whose happiness matters the most, you. You are afraid of rejection and failure therefore you try to please everyone not realizing that ymou are failing and rejecting yourself which is actually the worst type of rejection, self rejection!


Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/10/04/6-reasons-you-should-avoid-people-pleasing/




They're not happy until you suffer or dead.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Democracy The Most Rigged Political System Joe Biden Already Selected by BlackRexDeus: 2:00pm On Dec 13, 2020
Are you getting the placebo or hot shot?

Celebrities / Re: I Saw The Devil And He Had Black Skin by BlackRexDeus: 1:37pm On Dec 12, 2020
Rome is the Devil's church and you could be looking for the devil in the wrong place. The devil is in the church. When I meet people in America who are just gay who are not religious I meet with minimum resistance. The gay mob are the religious hypocrites who are making war upon the righteous through stalking and slander. Black Christians are filled up with gay demons and sex demons and the demons of violence. Rome founded by evil satanic Blacks. These are their bloodlines, exiled disgruntled Egyptians, former Canaanites after its destruction by God, former wicked Babylonian bloodlines, evil disgruntled Isrealites, disgruntled Carthaheans, and wicked Yapeths Blacks who lived in Europe. So you have a host of wicked souls with darkskin who formed the most evil empire in history by enslaving White women and creating a various of different races White Jews who are really Italians and Sicilians, Spanish, Arabs who are sons of Berbers and Asians who stem from the Black Huns. These races they made into Mameluks or slave rulers who paid secret tribute to Black Romans. It's the same satanic empire today where most of the younger races are secretly paying tribute, which is tithes, to support and maintain Rome.
Celebrities / Re: Bleep Davido And Dino Showing Off And Bragging All The Time About Their Riches by BlackRexDeus: 1:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
Name them Black devils and shame them Black devils. Don't wait until you are betrayed then say people can be wicked. Call out Satan when he is walking amongst you. Warn your beloved whom they may have deceived. That Black devil is the number one devil on this Earth and that's how the puny White Jews are ruling.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Democracy The Most Rigged Political System Joe Biden Already Selected by BlackRexDeus: 1:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
Name them Black devils and shame them Black devils. Don't wait until you are betrayed then say people can be wicked. Call out Satan when he is walking amongst you. Warn your beloved whom they may have deceived. That Black devil is the number one devil on this Earth and that's how the puny White Jews are ruling.
Celebrities / Re: I Saw The Devil And He Had Black Skin by BlackRexDeus: 1:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
Name them Black devils and shame them Black devils. Don't wait until you are betrayed then say people can be wicked. Call out Satan when he is walking amongst you. Warn your beloved whom they may have deceived. That Black devil is the number one devil on this Earth and that's how the puny White Jews are ruling.
Celebrities / Re: Mike Tyson Legal-convicted-rapist Chastises Rapper Boosie For Defending Children by BlackRexDeus: 1:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
Name them Black devils and shame them Black devils. Don't wait until you are betrayed then say people can be wicked. Call out Satan when he is walking amongst you. Warn your beloved whom they may have deceived. That Black devil is the number one devil on this Earth and that's how the puny White Jews are ruling.
Romance / Re: If Your Woman Does These Things...leave Her. by BlackRexDeus: 1:13pm On Dec 12, 2020
Name them Black devils and shame them Black devils. Don't wait until you are betrayed then say people can be wicked. Call out Satan when he is walking amongst you. Warn your beloved whom they may have deceived. That Black devil is the number one devil on this Earth and that's how the puny White Jews are ruling.
Romance / Re: If Your Woman Does These Things...leave Her. by BlackRexDeus: 12:46am On Dec 12, 2020
Dont allow that Black devil to trick you into taking the poisonous vaccine. That Black devil is the number one devil worshipper on Earth, number one human sacrificer, number one pervert and always down with the White satanic Jews for world domination. The Black church is the gayest and most hypocritical place on Earth.




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