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Growing up in in your mid teen u garner friends, you so Wish all of them will be true to you like you are to them.. then one after the other, you start to experience life in friendship.

Those that backbiters, the jealous ones, the unfriendly ones, the one who even secretly dislike you, those who can't go the whole nine yards with you.. those who are leeches, the just ok ones, the one who could do anything for you,. Etc

For me and I believe for alot of us we tend to evolve our different ways of relationship with friends.. I have tried the following and got some rather unpleasant results....

I tried cutting one sided friends off my life... yes, I did! and I found my number of friends narrowing that I started being lonely and with less persons to talk to...

I tried I tried telling you to your face method of how much u betrayed me... Turns out this method led to frequent quarelling and shouting in loud voices...

I tried chesting bad friends illbehaviours, this one made me a depressed person and also mks me want to develop trust issues with everyone that put out a hand in friendship with me..I even went to as deep a state as conlusiveness of how u will turn out to b even from the first day of meeting new friends.. ..

Having passed through all these stages and employed different methods of handling friends so I can get the optimal result of dutiful , loyal, good and reciprocating friends... I settled for the strategy of a "tit for tat"

With this strategy, we could be friends and u will b a very stingy and unhelpful person.. but good in company ( cuz I found out that friends offer different varieties to your life to make it spicy)..

I still keep you close and maintain good company with u.. but will also never ever be helpful to you when you are in need.. but be extremely helpful to a fellow friend who is usually helpful to me in times of my need.. the helpful one may not b a gisting one..

We have friends for entertainment, whose vibes you like, they are all outing and fun seeking, u have friends who are rugged and will be by your side in case of scuffles.. friends of patners in womanizing but hate idle company of gist gist gist.. I giv to each friend what u give to me..


that way I found peace with all my friends..

What about you. ?

He wants to be Ameachi's vice if he ran for president... He knows it's time for the. South

Is she related of spouse to the famous P.N OKeke..? The great physic simplicity master..? Also at UNN

OBJ's economics warriors still shine till date..

Oby ezekesili, frank nweka jnr, soludo, el-rufai, ribadu, Ngozi okonjo iweala berth nnaji, etc

PO quickly sent condolences and physically visited his house to mourn with them...

He is not a family member and not obligated to visit.. moreover , it is a tinubu's show... He doesn't want to go there and get the tension escalated

.....But don't they have the compulsion to mk things right at the state level at least to get his own closes tribesmen have a better life...

Me I see it as a zeal to mk things good for people, not really about class

...Many times I wonder why has this never happened... Does the law permit and ex-president to contest for governor of his home state...?

Amitex:
Stop saying what you do not know. Your BsC in Nigeria is regarded as Advanced Diploma because Nigeria graduates na to cram old retired textbook and handouts to pass. Abroad, your education is not only theories, but application.

U no dey read well, who. Mentioned varsity education... I say funding kids abraod with naija income is financial suicide....

What u said is not true.. my sis got a job with a BSc in the US directly without furthering her course... Sh studied statistics and sh really live numbers...

She told me at the interview that only sh among over 40 candidate understand one particular operations in stat.. again when sh got employed in Maryland.. sh got promoted just 5minths through the job as her knowledge of another no operation is uncommon, sh was pleased with to transfer to the firm HQ but sh declined because if starting all over again to mk nu friends

Starz825:
Not just all the school bro


It's about the now and future opportunity that Abroad life guarantees...

Bro abroad life guarantee nothing at 2-8 years old... It's from varsity u take charge of ur life.... Stop wasting money...

It's okay if ur based there: that means u work there , earn there and u won't feel it....

The Nigerianness of ur children Neil dissappear... Ur children will never want to come back home even when u are wealthy and full of comfort in Naija..

U think say Elumelu, obi Cubana, tinubu, wike so. Many many serious big men no get Sense..?

Continue to find opportunities, who told u opportunity can't come from only varsity level to work level....

E go clear for their eyes...

From grade 1 to varsity graduation funding of children from naija income is mere foolishness by naija celebrity... That is exactly what ruined tuface..

Next na basket mouth, Bovi ND all u can't b on the high on naija earning for straight 15 years...

Wen u no b Burna, Wizkid ND Davido or maybe footballer....

E go wreck u...

Even sef primary ND secondary skl for naija dey far better for impact level on children.... Na only drawing them dey teach kids abroad at small age

EUROPE NEED A WAR WITH RUSSIA THEY SHOULD STOP SANCTION SANCTION.... IT DOESN'T WORK FOR THESE KIND OF TYRANTS....

Biodun556:
You don't understand international politics. Iran will suspend nuclear program if there is good deal

It's not about the nuclear deal.. it's about elimination of the state and people of isreal...

Ok, they will suspend the ideology too..?

WriterNig:
I have a task for you all.

Look up all the leaders of countries that say Russia must be defeated, Russia must be destroyed, Russia is this, Russia is that. NATO/EU countries that are hostile to Russia.

Do you know what they all have in common?

Nazi Parents or Grandparents that were killed by Russia's Red Army.

I dare you to find one single NATO leader whose parents or grandparents wasn't a Nazi fighting for Hitler.

This is why they have thorough hatred for Russia. Because Russia defeated the Nazis, thereby eliminating their Nazi grand father and fathers.

Is Russia not originally in the plot in collaboration with Hitler to take over Europe...?

U paint Russia white all because Hitler turned in them just like it did against Italy... U think only u know history..

The pro world dominiace are Germany, Italy, Russia and Japan...

Abeg park well

Efuaye:
What would killing him have achieved? Not much.
Iran is run by a revolutionary council.

U dnt know the power of leadership.... Ayatollah himself reads out guidelines not operate on a day to day basis..

Groups and head of groups will want to assume leadership.. ND it will destabilize the regime

dollytino4real:
I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef

Liar .. most ladies lie that only the game and network in their patners phones are good for them.. all na strategy to catch the man..

If not why are all married women doing this... Na only his phone game and good chat dey..?

Kobicove:
From the rubbles it looks like what was demolished was an old building that had been in use before...how come is it that there are no household items among the rubbles if the so-called occupier did not have prior knowledge of an upcoming demolition?

Secondly why has Obi not mentioned the name of his brother who purportedly owns the property?

Obi's brother and sister are reverend father and catholic nun.. they are three in numbers he is the only one not fully into missionary service...

He can't be naming him in things like that... It will destabilize his ministry and draw unnecessary attention to him...

Jakpon:
Can someone point me to one single Yoruba man, who after completing his University Education or after learning a trade or craft, decided to relocate to iboland in search of a job or green pasture.

I have also never seen an educated Hausa Man, I don't mean Aboki Mai Suya or Mai Ruwa. I mean an Hausa man who graduated and then decided to relocate to iboland in search of a job.

It is only the ibos that keep running away from iboland. There must be something vile and terrible about iboland which makes all the able bodied men over there always want to run away from their region

Unizik has more than 40 Yoruba staffs... All full time staffs... Did they all skl in UNN..? Donu know my best friend Ade,enis a tailor in awka Anambra state..? He came there after graduation from yabatech through a friend after going through Lagos state free skill acquisition program ...

He has bought a car over there as he is so good at it and even has a sewing skl....
.u sit down in Lagos and imagine that Nigeria is all about Lagos.. that nobody makes it outside Lagos... Travel my man, travel...

70% of all computer services guyz at Bamboo at unizik guyz are Yoruba, tunji told me he never taught he could make his first million in Igbo land.. he only started in just 1years.. he now has 3workers...

Sit down there computer warrior, dnt move around ND look for opportunity, fold Lagos ND b eating...

Foolishness, u can never please a Hardline islamic oriented entities...

Waste of funds and funding more terrorism and quickening of nuclear bomb assemblage

SoftSport:
Fubara has finally learned his lesson and is toeing the line, peace is always sweeter when the godfathers smile! Big kudos to president Tinubu for steadying the ship, and of course, respect to Wike for showing he still pulls the real strings.

On no account will I concede to accept coruption.... This coruption, and I will not support it.. that state funds and politics must b be controlled by just one person...

helinues:
Why are you attracted to senseless threads? Are you senseless incorporation?

Who owns Next mall? Logically, no individual or company can make use of the name apart from the person who owned Next mall.

One of the secret properties of Peter Obi is exposed

Who owns Dangote group and who owns dansa foods and Mrs... Dangote owns all..?

Alliswell248:
If you are hungry....no everybody is hungry.

How many hectares is the whole of maitama?
Have you been there before?
Do you know what 2086 hectares is?
Use your head now

U didn't bread the article, sure didn't, believe me you didn't dare read them

It is not true... Never true.. tinubu cannot do anything to help a course.. he is all about himself... He ran away and claimed they chased him away.... Moreover he is in the government itself...

Look at the picture again... Only the governernis smiling... No single human in that place is smiling.. no one!

Olaide1295:
This has been rebutted as false. Negative news sells though

I trust of u... This is what he of them..

They are always here to defend bad politicians because of 30k stipends

If you can recall.. obi suddenly appears on a demolished property, and press rush there to see the darling of the press, but this time, he wasn't about politics, alas , it is about a demolished property somewhere in Lagos...

Now Obi stayed there for over 4hours with his aids and security, according to him, he was waiting for the alleged owner of the said property... Again, no one came by...

He asked a famous question to those doing the demolition, in whose order are you guyz doing this.., there was a no answer..

Next alot of people has ran to the press and social media.. shamefully including the Lagos state government and making a defence... Also among the commenters is the alleged rightful owner of the said landed property...

This is what Obi simply need clarification about..

His brother is occupying a property, supposedly owned by the brother and run a business there..... It is now onviou that the said property is in dispute now...

The brother was taken to the court by the alleged original owner.. he appears or does not appear..

Remember, appearing or not appearing doesn't matter yet, because the case has not ended..

But surprisingly, there was a demolition on the said property.

So if the case has not finished yet, then who ordered demolition on the property...

For me, I can deduce that the demolition was because the building attached to the land being in dispute, I believe ,is among a plea by the defendant to the court as to why there should be a soft landing if he loses and the plantiff has sense that this plea may b granted . And because she doesn't want any compromise or compensation, sh ordered the demolition ... Sh should be arrested and not supported..

The Lagos state government is not acting impartial, it is involving either politics or ethnicity appleal in it's release statement and not acting as a responsible government... Just cuz someone in is not ur tribel doesn't mean his properties should b destroyed

I know some I too sabi will now say, why will he build on a land not his... Remember all of us does not know the conditions that got the property transfered to him.. it may b by this same allege family members without her..

It may b something very close to being right but was lost in argument, so maybe the judges will consider some form of compensation, and the petitioner doesn't want it.. so sh took the law into her hands..

Trust me.. Rufai will bring us more facts soon...

Kobicove:
Peter Obi has stirred the hornet's nest.

He should have done a thorough investigation before running to social media to make allegations he cannot substantiate

He is correct.. u think he doesn't know how things ..? Even after being in government for 8 years.. it is you that is to excited about support of ur party emotional..

They said the case is in court.. the petitioner knows that with property on the land and a strong argument with documentation.. sh might lose, sh sh ordered the demolition, this is so it will b like it's empty land they are fighting for..

Be reminded case is still in court but demolition has occured..

Oya make another argument....

ddippset:
I will not comment until this story is verified and confirmed.

For now lemme comment my reserve.

Which verified and confirmed... Is the human right activist okonkwo woman a politician..? Didn't u read her quote saying.. from the documents I am seeing u from of me...

This accusations should be blown open.. and press nationwide should carry this story and radio stations, jingles etc. Mso the president can feel the pressure... Again so that Abuja residents can know he is reaping them off...


Wike , Akpabio and tinubu as we know them are not good men.. they shouldn't be anything near power in Nigeria

Obi never told u he owns no business outside Anambra, u added that so dat it can look like he is lying... Guy, this is still a young day, find a good way to spend it and make it more productive for your life...

That man obi us richer than u may ever accumulate till your married with children in very old age.. make good use of your time

I believe timmaya is the Ebiripapa of Bayelsa while this one is that of PH

A city without good housing project is that one a city..?

Na only road b development..?

Can he not approved a collection or cluster of about 30 high rise residential buildings for construction so that the people can feel this development...?

Abegi mk wike park well!!!!