₦airaland Forum

jbreezy:
You don ginger me

I jus de read your post de laff...bros if your moni complete, rush am

I'm also in your shoes like this o...my only problem be say, I never settle financially, na why I no wan comit....but the girl ready

My dad is 10 years older than my mum, and they are 38 years old in mariage today...I remember my dad said it was also at that age he got married to mumsy


Bro, no wait again o....good girls are few in the market now

NJV:
So what would he be gaining deceiving social media? Is he more special than other celebrities? If he like make he marry if he like let him don't. He's only deceiving himself.

Who be this one again
Wetin mek ur body de scratch like this?

Free2Fly:
Which one is 'It's not physical'?
If the business flourishes, won't the manifestation be physical in terms of money?
Where would the influx of money come from?
People's money would disappear and fly to the person who did the juju, or people will flood the person's shop to buy what they didn't plan to buy?
How many times have you been under a spell to buy what you didn't plan to buy?

You guys should stop spreading things that don't hold water

Bros u grow for naija

Free2Fly:
Don't mind Nigerians and their yeye superstitious beliefs.
There's no such thing as money rituals
It's just pure ignorance and myth.

Next thing now, they'll tell you you won't understand, even when they themselves don't understand anything.

The reality is that if there were money coming from the spiritual world, they would bear serial numbers the CBN didn't issue and there would be excess money in circulation.
These 2 would attract the attention of the CBN, which would then raise alarms
Till date, the CBN hasn't raised any alarm despite this money ritual stuffs being in vogue since the late '70s/early '80s.
The myth was just popularized by the Nollywood and Nigerians ignorantly swallowed it

Nawa for you o....you wia making sense until the CBN part.

Be like u grow for America....u need to visit village and see things with your eye.

No de argue wetin pass your knowledge for nairaland..

You no understand am, no mean say e no de exist.

olisaokere:
Jay Z is married to Beyoncé and they are the richest musicians making back to back hit. The only problem with some of these Nigerian artistes is that they mingle a lot with ashawos!

It's easier when you marry inside the industry...

Simi and AG still de drop songs....both know how de mata de go... misunderstanding go hard for them

advanceDNA:
U are kust justifying bad behavior...pastors came because of the pple..not the other way round....he's just feeling overly important and expecting too much respect

Okay sir

advanceDNA:
He left for those who believe in discipline?? Listen to yourself man...so how about those whose phone ddnt ring? Pple came all the to be blessed man....
Y'all are just justifying petty, impatient, poor anger management behaviour

Read it again, he left the pulpit for those who believe in indiscipline.....u never know how some Christians de behave sha....once you don de near Church premises for any service, a man who believes in discipline should silence his mobile phone before walking into the auditorium.

If na for Orthodox churches, na Dem indiscipline folks go battle am out with the ushers.

Mandate1:
is he a dictator?

E fight the guy?
Did he shout on him?
E throw am punch?
He quietly left...no need for shouting.
He might not have done right , but Christians can be very indiscipline at times.

advanceDNA:
Wait ....are u saying...because he warned about it...it's okay to walk out like that because of the phone of one person??

So where is the place of forgive ur brother 7 time 70 times like Jesus said??

Thank God say God nor be man ooo....u and this ur pastor go don destroy everywhere

Did he slap the person?
Did he shout?
Did he fight?
He left the pulpit for those who believes in indiscipline

Sermwell:
Una no just get sense for this forum with useless comparism.

Will a company close down for the day because a workers phone rang??

The bolded refers to you directly...like u jus clearly defined you

Did the service shut down because Arome refused to preach?

advanceDNA:
So who now finished the sermon when he left....??

He is a guest minister, so the pastor should finish it.

This is not the first time he has warned about this....

If there is an instruction like this in some people's work place, they will adhere strictly to it....but the house of God is a free zone where anybody can do any how because Jesus has brought us freedom

Demor1:
APOSTLE INDEED

What a shame these caliber of people has brought to this part of the world in the name of religion

Can he have the effrontery to do this in a saner clime if not in the midst of his gullible ones

Apostle with high temperament on the alter

HUMANITY OVER ANY RELIGION ANY DAY ANY TIME

These your comment doesn't align with the discussion...

U de vex for the man of God or religion abi Christianity?

And I'm sure you are an atheist...but see as u rush come de comment for matters that you people say doesn't matter...

PlasmaTV:
Would your phone ring in the presence of the president/governor?

Would it ring in the presence f Biden or Trump?

People do things they can't do in there work places in the house of God..

They no really rate Christianity at all...

pipsplus2020:
It's actually wrong, it was taken too far.

I believe there must have being a culture of 'put your phone in silence while in church's. But then we are still human.

The best bet would have been to discipline the individual instead of walking out on the congregation.

But then, being a servant, you have no choice but do the bidding of your master. Humility is key

Look well bros, looook well..... He forewarned them....while he was still giving his warning, another phone rang...

Many things people do in church, Dem no fit do am even in there work places o..

People no even de rate Christianity these days

BareFacedLies:
You mean to tell me that some random persons came together to contribute around N80 million to buy a Range Rover SUV for a person who is not even related to them?

Please come up with a better lie!

🤣🤣 My brother....for this harsh economy?

Natbrowny:
U valid. As in ehn. They just misunderstood my views and dats exactly our problem as human beings most tyms

Check this scenario
A man and his wife together, have a son
The son will choose his mother (thats the mans wife) over his own wife when he married coz the man had same mentality.

Now when issue arises and d son always falls back to the mother coz he loves her only. This same man will now call his son on a seatdown and talks sense to him to respect his wife and solve issues amicably. The same wife he didnt regard back then will now be who he turns to to talk to his son (who happens to be the mother of the son)

When we say who do we love most. That question was design to mess with you psychologically. It was designed for us to create a balance.

U'll start seeing stuffs like
Mother vs father
Mother vs son's wife
Mother vs daughter's husband

We compare things that are not d same and can never be. I made my view jeje, insult n praises start dey enter. That's life

And most of these people are adults...lacking simple understanding.

Wisdom demands that we understand things like this before taking a wife, Cos most mothers who lack wisdom will want to boss there daughter inlaws....

Well, let them remain single and love there mother alone, meh dem forget marriage for life .... Na wen dem wan finally settle down, experience go teach them.

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

This wisdom is too sound for many overgrown kids on this platform.....

They think loving there wife over there mother or mother over wife is wisdom...

For those who believe in Bible scriptures....the day you made a marriage convenant with your wife, she is as important as your mother.

And both the wife and the mother should seek wisdom to understand there boundaries....that's only way balance is created.

People go to Church, read the Bible, skip the instructions and do what's on there mind....run into trouble and blame the devil.

Yugoslavia247:
Some people dont read to understand.

A bulk of tithers give because of fear that things will be tight for them not because of intent to please God or move the kingdom of God to the next level.

The moment he opened their eyes they showed their true self.

So if you are tithing to have things happen to you or not happen to you.

Better re evaluate yourself.

That is why most tithers travel out and stop going to church. Because no fear of the unknown

Both the fearful tithers and non tithers....I feel all of them have Revelation issue...

If I pay tithe, things goes well for me, if I stop, things goes well for me...even more.

This could have been the reason I will stop tithing...

But I tithe because I have a different revelation of what tithing is....not only that ..I give by Revelation.

I was in a Church service where a pastor was explaining tithing to a woman who asked questions about it, His explanation opened my eyes on why people tithe out of fear. I wanted to scatter table that day, the inner witness said don't....

Christian life is easy, if you live by Revelation of your true identity in Christ....

axglide:
In Genesis 14 v 18-20, it was recorded that Abraham paid Tithe to Melchizedek. If any believer today is a child of Abraham and claims that the blessings of Abraham is his or hers, then you shouldn’t dispute that paying tithe is actually Biblical and still relevant till tomorrow.

Genesis 14v18-20
18 And Melchizedek king of Salem brought forth bread and wine: and he was the priest of the most high God.

19 And he blessed him, and said, Blessed be Abram of the most high God, possessor of heaven and earth:

20 And blessed be the most high God, which hath delivered thine enemies into thy hand. And he gave him tithes of all.

And this was done before the law o...

Yet people keep basing tithing on the law of moses that came over 400 years after.

Well, in my own opinion and relationship with God, I believe what differentiate babes and adults is REVELATION...not from the pastor, but from the written word through the Holy Spirit.

Successtube:
We have no kids yet. I have asked her so many times what she uses her money for, but all I get is silence.

She no get parents?
Or older male siblings
Does she have anyone u know she submits to and respects so much?
Maybe a female friend, uncle, Pastor etc

If she has any of the above, you really need to confide in this particular person to speak to her...

The lady used you to change her surname ..and now she is who she is ..not who you know.

Omo...this your story has changed my perspective now...and has given me 100x more reasons to rely on spiritual discernment.

I have always believed in dating someone and studying the person, but now I know ....

Our physical mind is indeed limited.

bolseas:
He gave the church that amount for supporting his family after the death of his father.

The church contributed to his success.

U de respond to this kyn people?
Once they hear church, they will start having seizure of the brain....
U for allow am go fyn rema beat am for giving more to the church...

Jus look at his comment....u will know his bran is on vacation

RhinoChest:
An orphanage, a public library, a public school, families of Nigerian soldiers killed in battle are all more deserving of this money than churches.

Oga rest...
Since you must have an opinion, let your pocket also contribute...

mastermaestro:
Let us wait for the wretched ones to crawl out of their huts to come and advise the donor how best he should have spent his money. He should have donated to school, build industry bla bla bla. Last last na poor people dey vex over church financing.

The rich just drop the cash while the wretched ones are all over social media criticizing offerings and tithes. The same people whose total yearly offerings cannot buy one plastic o. Satan is really a deceiver of foolish men. Nor give church money o, you hear because na pastor wan chop am. What 100,000 online critics cannot give, one person just gave it. This is exactly how most churches are run, for your information.

Fundings of most mega churches you know are done by very few individuals. GOD'S work cannot be stranded by shortage of funds. Satan is a learner!

My brother u de mind dem?
It was after habert wigwe's death I found out he is a prominent member of RCcg....even Jim ovia of zenith bank is also a staunch member...

I never see there tweet about tithe offering for once in my life....na all these free mtn bonus data keyboard warriors go de give people headache with there noise for this forum..

God bless me abeg, mek I no come online come de argue about tithe and offering.

bdon123:
I hav a problem wit all business centre named church such as rccg,winners,dunamis, salvation etc .Bt really adeboye is d worst of dem.if u hav been a member there u will know.those folks open branches to make more money not to propagate gospel.

I for say na....Cos de way u de follow de matter, e no really the align with the case on ground....

It's well....may the Lord give you understanding

bdon123:
Oh so u know him personally?this is not matter of millionaire.How was he a millionaire over 30 years ago.How old is he?Does he have any previous experience in construction?

I have been following your comment ....

You seem to have problem with Adeboye and his family.

Did he steal your money?

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Stop funding the house bro...
Eat out if you can.....like, as u de return from work, branch some wia, buy food chop.

In the morning, leave without dropping money for food nor cooking.....if you must cook, cook noodles that will beleful only you.

After one week, she go start to de touch her savings small smal...

Keep denying her other good things ....don't touch her for sex (Cos na there all of una de weak)

Sparingly communicate with her....

No fight am ...no quarrel with her.....
When hunger bend em neck 2wise, na she go Japa by herself.

I know say u no go like this my style......na that sex part mek all of una de behave like kids

advanceDNA:
She cooked for herself alone and quickly washed the evidence because she ddnt want you to know of her self centered move ...instead of just saying I'm sorry when u found out...she gaslight you....

It's a redflag to me ooo ...I don't know about you... I hate when someone offends me,, deny it and still look for way to make it look like im the one that did wrong....

You forgot to add the part that she is a dirty person...another addition to the redness of the flag.

OMEGA009:
Good for her but I’m yet to see anyone who got born again by being rudely woken up by 4am

How u wan take know?
Mek dem come your house come tell you?

Angelfrost:
SMH... Rewarding people for constituting a bloody nuisance.

This is not generosity or philanthropy... This is enabling what is wrong just because you want to catch the spotlight.


What happened to helping and encouraging those actually working hard and legitimately to better themselves and the society at large?!!

- Teachers
- Research Institutes
- Farmers
- Artisans
- indigent Students with great IQ
Etc.

Since you have a list of people to be rewarded, oya start from your pocket...

If you must have an opinion to add, please no forget to engage your pocket too..

TheOgaBoss:
what is wrong with chipper?

There rate is wicked...
Broad day light robbery

TheOgaBoss:
what about alat?

Abeg tell me more about it sir...I will appreciate if I can get an alternative to chipper

Saturnalia:
They will never answer that PARAMOUNT question. They would prefer for you to jump into their volcano first, before you can find out that their rates are even worse than the Bank’s.

Any Nigerian firm you see sugarcoating their adverts, rather than being straightforward & transparent in their dealings; that is the 1st red flag. Do not bother to wait for the 2nd red flag.

Simply Ben Johnson and flee from them!

😂😂..I jus de wait mek dem ansa de guy question, omo....

Cos me de fyn alternative to chipper cash