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wrongman665:
Remain rara

My brother o...be like wetin AI design

Offpoint1:
My ad money dey inside money him take build that stuff 😂

Mark giving ecommerce guys headache with ad account restrictions.


Sėun Nairaland would have been in same category with Mark Facebook, if he wasn't wasting his life on Twitter making meme and left his platform to mods he employed at Ojota interstate garage and Oshodi underbridge.

This guy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You jus colet words from my mouth...

Separate from him for sometime...

The marriage is abusive, and he takes hard drugs...

So jus separate for some times, monitor him from a distance, pray for him from a distance, counsel him from a distance.

You said he is a good man, I believe you...
He is under an influence of unseen forces, that's why he keeps falling back to the habits...

One day he might break your head, being under the influence of these forces...he will cry and ask you for forgiveness....but you go suffer pain.

He fit kill you one day and regret it....but u don die....

To avoid these things, help him from a distance.

Shalom!

EreluRoz:
Honestly Christianity has become a big joke

Which Christianity?

BlindAngel:
It seems I have been too easy and quiet on her, I will do as you say and ban her from going to that church and if she refused, she should pack her load and go back to her parents house, I have really condole enough of her rubbish and tears at any slight arguments.

I paid 396k for her cs operation, and no where my name or surname appeared on the receipt that was given to me, it's her name and her father's name that was on it. This is because after marriage she has not changed her surname to my name, this hurt me a lot because her elder sister that is just a baby mama to her boyfriend has already changed her Facebook sur name to her boyfriend surname. Whereas my wife is still answering her father's name, I have told myself that if she can't think and do this willingly, I will never and ever confront her concerning this.

I have been allowing her to do whatever she want but this, she has over stepped her boundaries, seems I have been too easy on her.

Since your parents in-laws are alive, organize a private meeting with both of them...table the matter on ground.

Her father should be sensible enough to understand your pains and they should talk to there daughter.....if not for anything, for her health sake....cos all this cry cry and nagging go de affect her mental health.

BlindAngel:
That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.

This your madam de use tears hol you for work o.
Na real blackmail be this.....bro you are in trouble like this.
Small argument she go cry, people go think say u no de do your work well as a father....nawa.

May the Lord send you emotional help and support to handle this kind of woman...it won't be easy o

immortalcrown:
You have time to type this but have no time to justify your claim.

Try harder next time.

You win

The whole nairaland space belong to you your excellency

immortalcrown:
You had time to start what you cannot finish. You had time to say what you cannot prove.

Weldon sir...you win

Chidex369:
Greetings my people,

Please I really need your advice on how to go about this matter that is really eating me up. We went on a normal date with my girl whom I have proposed marriage to and she accepted it. But in recent time I have been telling her to come and see my parent but was like we are not yet ready, I don't understand it.

Today we went out and she opened up and started telling me areas of my life which she's not really comfortable with and I should improve on them. When she was done she said she needs us to slow things down for now.

I don't really know how to go about this right now. Please I really need your advice on it. I really love this girl and wants to settle down with her. We broke before and reconcile after two years, and we been back for like 6 months now.

Please no insult or curse. Please I need your advice.

In my own opinion, Bro...you have been dating yourself for the past 6months......

The real relationship was the one that happened 2 years back before breakup....

For now, you on your humble own

Another man is in the picture....or she is receiving ungodly counsel from strange people..

Start letting go small small...

I know she Must be very pretty, count your loses bro.

If cry come, cry silently.....never try to prove anything to her....

okwa umunwanyi ? We don see this people finish o

Dem de wise wen things don spoil finish

RecentHistory:
Upon all the noise of you politically worthless Obidients, all you could muster for LP was only 1 State Governor. Meanwhile, LP already had a Governor in 2010 when Obi was still in APGA, using Awkuzu SARS to kill Igbo youths.

How do you feel typing this thing?

You sure say u be human being?

englishmart:
Peter Obi gave the Labour Party a platform. It's not the other way round.

Simple...
Labor party sef don get mouth...nawa

edian:
Labour is in dare need of this Obi as much as fish needs water for a Life line

Even if this Obi register a brand new party. His new party will still produce a governor and lawmakers without rigging. Something we've never experienced in this country before. Without rigging or financial power

Imagine labor talking about dumping Obi...

Omo, na de opposite sha....Cos me no know labor party until last year election

immortalcrown:
[sub][/sub] Until you prove any sentence in my comment wrong, you have no fact against my comment.

Who get time to prove anything to you?

Continue your usual blabbings....I no tie u bro

immortalcrown:
Amen!.

But the incident proves that some pastors do not see as much visions as they claim they do.

The incident proves that it is wrong for pastors to claim that paying tithes prevents misfortunes. The pastors in that parish collect and pay tithes, yet the building got burnt.

The incident proves that it is wrong to shout, "What God cannot do does not exist".

Meanwhile, what is the suspected or confirmed cause of the fire outbreak?

I have been reading comments like this your own on this topic....I can only conclude that you all know nothing about Christianity.....small thing...tithe this tithe that....com be like na the only thing weh una sabi about the christian faith.

To you and your kind ...I say it again....una no know shit about anything Christianity....jus the usual blabbings ....

Any Christian topic on this forum, I still see the blabbings, I try to read it with deep understanding to see if any of it will make a little sense, it ends up sounding gibberish...

Well, to everyone his opinion....I pity gullible minds who will fall for those rubbishes.

Na who never encounter this God tangibly, with practical life experiences, na em de quick fall out.

FANTASTICrebel:
You see this Army Job?
I mean serving in the Nigerian Army is the most ridiculous, shameful decision anyone would make. Bunch of local, unpatriotic, selfish and unorganized force in the whole world.
I still regret my service in the Army, and I hope the country is divided soonest, so everyone can be responsible enough to perform real time military service.

I was badly damaged for the years I served till date. I wake up everyday with invincible scars, trauma nightmare pains and guilt.
It was in that job I committed suicide 2wice. I actually died twice, but my body refused to die.
I faced malice, no love, hatred I began hating myself.
They stole my innocence, I became a condemned material.
God has always had interest in my life, cos he never gave up on me.
I'm now a new creature in Christ Jesus and I'm gradually unlearning and relearning.

I can't give my service where my opinions/safety are neglected/disrespected. Where merits are ignored and mediocrity exalted.

Omo this your comment de give me goosebumps....

Wetin una even fyn enter military sef

floss:
The reason humans are the most confused creatures on earth is because of women, once you associate yourself with them, it's either they confuse you or they confuse themselves through you... This young man is now in confusion in his own house because of his wife

Oga the guy na skit maker...e jus de give em wife free Ad...

jiz:
A lazy man will not pray and praying man will not be lazy. Prayer and hardwork goes hand in hand. Prayer itself is hardwork. Even almighty USA is a country built on prayer. Because one useless show BBnaija make you popular doesn't give you audacity to doubt or discredit the power of prayer.

She should have added that those who watch bbnaija are lazy and useless.....

Her little brain didn't tell her that the useless show that gave her little publicity has never contributed anything to the economic growth of the nation.

MIKOLOWISKA:


Every man for himself



Big money will turn to big furniture which turns to big carpenter contacts and sales
It trickles down

When prices of comodities rises beyond what it is now, who we go blame again?

Nawa oo

komzy589:
It’s simple if you’re not working for Government; increase your charge or selling price. If you have employees, increase their salary as well and live goes on.

Level 10 Inflation loading.......89% complete.

When prices soars, we will turn around and blame who again?

People are emotionally supporting NLC on this strike matter....

NLC is fighting for there own..... question we have refused to ask ourselves,: who is fighting for the common hustler weh de street de fyn em own?

Workers will soon be collecting big money once this minimum wage is approved....that ordinary carpenter weh deh ur street, who will give him his own?

Wetin we sopoz gather contend for, we leave am de chase shadow.

About 70 - 80% of food products we consume in this country comes from the North....
These farmers can't do there farm work in Peace because of insecurity......and this has affected the prices of food in a way .....nobody is talking, no protest, no strike...

Prices of food de soar like eagle, nobody de talk, electricity tariff went up, even the light we no see....nobody is talking about it..

Imagine Garri.....person come de ask of a cheaper alternative to Garri kwa....I mean the so called poor man's food... ewww Jesusssss... So wetin go come cheap pass am now?

Nigerians and misplaced priorities....5&6

damosky12:
Watch. One. Two. Three. The enemies of the church coming in again to spew their hatred. Nothing the church does ever makes sense to them.

They have nothing to do with church, but they always have a hate to spew. Why? They're children of darkness!

That's the only way they can sleep na....sleep is long gone from there eyes, frustration and depression no de pity them, na church mata dem take de cure...

I see them everywhere......just pray for them if you see them

Garri used to be a poor man's food....

Even poor man no fit afford the garri again..

Will this end?

ReacherSaidNoth:
Christianity is a confusing religion, you ask people to be detached from material wealth and yet one of your major attractions to the idea of heaven is the promise of mansions of gold.

@OP, come and see what your ignorant interpretation of the Scripture is doing to this young Lad...

Na All these rubbish de breed confusion inside the body of Christ....

Sir down and study the scriptures properly, you say know...

You read one line, carry doctrine come out.

damosky12:
That portion of scripture you quoted doesn't prove that God has a persona vendetta with wealthy people. Through scriptures, God had wealthy men.

Abraham, His friend, was wealthy.
Jacob was wealthy.
Joseph was wealthy.
David was wealthy.
Solomon was wealthy.
Job was wealthy.
Many many of God's people in the Old Testament were wealthy.

In the new testament, Joseph of Arimathea was wealthy.
Erastus was wealthy.
Barnabas was wealthy.
Many in the early church were rich!


Abusing a Bible verse to push a silly narrative would not suffice.

You can't build a doctrine on just one single passage, more so one single phrase which is misunderstood...



Mark 10:17-25
[17]And when he was gone forth into the way, there came one running, and kneeled to him, and asked him, Good Master, what shall I do that I may inherit eternal life?
[18]And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God.
[19]Thou knowest the commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Defraud not, Honour thy father and mother.
[20]And he answered and said unto him, Master, all these have I observed from my youth.
[21]Then Jesus beholding him loved him, and said unto him, One thing thou lackest: go thy way, sell whatsoever thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, take up the cross, and follow me.
[22]And he was sad at that saying, and went away grieved: for he had great possessions.
[23]And Jesus looked round about, and saith unto his disciples, How hardly shall they that have riches enter into the kingdom of God!
[24] And the disciples were astonished at his words. But Jesus answereth again, and saith unto them, Children, how hard is it for them that TRUST IN RICHES to enter into the kingdom of God!
[25]It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.



Apparently, the clarification here is what Mark supplies us. Jesus wasn't talking about the average rich man anywhere, but a rich man that trusts in His riches instead of trusting in God.

And that is a no-brainer. To trust in riches is to not trust in God. The Epistles also echo the same thought to rich Christians.

1 Timothy 6:17-18
[17]Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;
[18]That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;


God is not against wealth. Wealth is a useful tool for His work on earth OBVIOUSLY. What is against God is to allow money to take God's place. That's what Jesus and His Apostles addressed.

shelve the OP's Bible confusion

I wanted to reply the guy until I saw your comment....thank you for bringing clarity to the blind man.

The way people swallow things they see in the Bible hook line and sinker deh worrisome...

No study, no careful venting....as far as e deh bible, to them na word of God.

That's how some wicked doctrines that set many backward were formed and built into the minds of some innocent followers.

farouk2much:
This DNA must be wrong. I can't believe it... They look like their father.... Useless DNA

My brother....

The boy weh deh middle... na em papa face I de see o

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

Your relationship was gone since 2023....that's just the realest fact bro

Walking away from someone you are emotionally attached to is very difficult, but bro you got to walk away.

It will hurt, but you will be fine....take it from a bro who have seen it all.

When a lady is in love with another guy aside her man, the relationship is gone and gone forever.....

The remedy to this is just to try your best to let her be....

Guess what..... HER EYE GO CLEAR SOON....I know this one like I know the size of my blokos..

You see women, they trully need serious prayers.....they are always a victim of there own emotion.....imagine sacrificing a 7 year relationship on the alter of her own lust....it's surely going to end in serious weeping..e go do am voom for eye.....I have seen this before, I have been there,....so believe me.

Count your loses and move on....please don't cry inside oo...don't bottle up emotions...

Talk to real Gees..., but when your are alone, make sure you cry well....I mean, cry like a baby....wipe your tears and come out....

That's how to heal fast....like I said, take it from a nigga who have seen and experienced shit...

Nothing fit shock me again for this life

optm:
let him be. Jesus Christ didn't condemn giving of tithe either ( ‭Luke 11:42 NKJV‬
[42] “But woe to you Pharisees! For you tithe mint and rue and all manner of herbs, and pass by justice and the love of God. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.

https://bible.com/bible/114/luk.11.42.NKJV .). If he isn't being blessed in his giving to the church, he can stop but there are people that would willingly give to the Church and promote God's agenda here on earth and God's work will never lack. Some of us have seen and experienced first hand what God is doing through his genuine ministers that some of you criticize. Not all pastors or churches are fake. if you know the fake ones and you have evidence you can go call them out but trying to paint all churches as bad or fraud is pure evil

It really amazes me how you people still respond to this kobojunkie guy.....

He argues pointlessly.....he makes sense today, tomorrow he is sounding like I better pass my neighbor weh em fuel wan finish ..

He is a Christian today, tomorrow he is sounding like an atheist...

Quoting scriptures off point to defend his unending arguments...

He no de go church, he no like pastor, he no like Apostle, yet any time he sees any post about church matter, weda good or bad news he go jump enter ...and start quoting bible verses upside...

Una go still de respond to am....still follow am de argue...

Una get strength oo

BluntCrazeMan:
Ok then.
His connections don safe him.

Let's see how it goes.

He might want to drop the charges....but normally if he wan press am, e go be like elephant weh sit down on top small goat...

Chioma the clout chaser that thinks she will spoil someones business (the tomato company) by a push of a button on social media...

Where is chioma at the moment?

Hand don touch am....em mind don deh...

Those who were helping her shout "free chioma" on Facebook, have they not forgotten the bastard, now she is facing life alone...

Nobody is untouchable....

Be careful when people are clapping for you, dem go clap you enter your grave.

BluntCrazeMan:
Him get money for police??

Them go chop him well well.
And they will not arrive at any good results

As a pastor of one of the biggest redeem parishes in Nigeria, do you think he doesn't have seriously influencial men and women who submits to his ministry?

I hope you know he is a co pastor with the first lady of the federation?

abobote:
Leave that thing, that pikin resemble him

Take a screenshot of your comment and keep...

Your own dose is coming....

Imagine that You wake up on a sweet morning, some one brings and accusation on you that will shift your life 20 years backwards....before you proof your innocence, body go don tell you...


I say imagine it....Cos it's coming on you....since you are supporting evil.

blowjohn:
Yes they Must.

But was he threatened?
If he is married ( I don't know actually), has it caused his family pains?
Is his wife, ( if married) feeling some how?


Me I don't see how I will go to Court if some one says, for example that I have a Child outside o.

If I know say I no Get, wetin concern me with lawyer and Court.

Thing is, this is going to even spark more rumours.

Cast Ur Mind Back at People who have been accused of related issues and who go to Court.

They always end up bring more blogger into the Traffic.


Thereby raising more Suspicions

Any blogger weh wan join de matter mek em join....

If I be bassey, I go use my influence arrest the guy, forget am for cell and move on...

While bloggers are raging online, the bastard will be eating beans and smelling urine inside prison foe atkeast 6months....