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BusinessRe: Zenith Bank Announces ₦53.3 Billion Interim Dividend by Blessedarethepe(m): 5:53am On Oct 15, 2025
Sammy101111:
I bought share from zenith bank with alot of money the stupid Bank credit me 1k some days ago am going to sell the share and collect back my money next week . THERE SHARES AS NOT INCREASED NO GAIN IN BUYING ZENITH BANK SHARE I REGRET
How many units did you buy
FamilyRe: Married But Feeling Single: I’m Losing Myself In This Quiet Marriage by Blessedarethepe(m): 1:24pm On Oct 14, 2025
Help him my sister. And stop ranting about him
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Girlfriend..... by Blessedarethepe(op): 8:00pm On Oct 11, 2025
essentialone1:
Congratulations to you. However, there are some wife materials on Nairaland. Pretydiva, for example, is a Treasure.
okay
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 3:08pm On Oct 11, 2025
oweniwe:
CBT

What we don't know is if it will be proctored exam again
Of course, It will be proctored.......Invigilators will be there. More like JAMB examination
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Blessedarethepe(m): 10:52am On Oct 11, 2025
sad sad
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Girlfriend..... by Blessedarethepe(op): 10:50am On Oct 11, 2025
essentialone1:
You later got what you wanted?
Yes but, not on naira land...... We are getting married January by God's grace.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Blessedarethepe(m): 4:26am On Oct 08, 2025
AndroBlaze:
Na wa oooo, even to read something properly de hard some people.
Okay..... What's your understanding about that?
FamilyRe: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Blessedarethepe(m): 6:18am On Oct 06, 2025
In the first image, she said she found love again.... What happened to the earlier love? And now she has jettisoned the present love because of infidelity, what will happen to the coming love?
I hope it's not a pattern that wants to render her single without a marriage?
FoodRe: How Much Is Cooking Gas In Your Area? by Blessedarethepe(m): 5:40am On Oct 06, 2025
aylipple:
Bought it for 15,500/12.5k.g today, October 5th, 2025.
that's 1240 per kg...... Which area is that
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 6:08pm On Sep 27, 2025
Wahala be like Customs job
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2025
Chydon888:
Finally..... after all the whole of this stress🤦
them don come
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2025
Jennyklass:
body dey pepper me my love grin cheesy
I go pour you water
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 7:39pm On Sep 22, 2025
Jennyklass:
e work for you na make your laptop be the best for the world na... make Igwe arrange award for you huh
na just tease i dey tease you o.....make you no reason am
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2025
Na you know the kind laptop una dey use...... I just submitted mine now
CrimeRe: Man Severely Beats His Wife Over Allegations Of Infidelity by Blessedarethepe(m): 4:19pm On Sep 21, 2025
Dancebreaker:
I mean death.

The chances of a man dying early is much higher. Military fighting in Sambisa, police ambushed all over the place, driving accidents, others doing risk jobs are usually men.

If you leave a will exclusively to favour the kids, their mother will still manage to get her hands on the money/assets, especially if the kids are still young.

But when a woman makes her own money through business, she uses her money well. Including to look after her children.

Remember the man is always hoping the marriage will work. A man close to retirement may want to empower his wife before he retires.

The lesson should be this:
Men should be educated to find a balance. Never invest too much or too little. Of course, it depends on your financial muscle. Plan for a successful marriage, but also plan for when surprises could spring up.

Invest for yourself quietly. If the woman messes up, fall back on your quiet/secret investment.

This also applies to children. Don't forget investing for your future because you see your kids as your retirement plan. Most kids will not look after parents in the future. Culture has been eroded.
This is nice.
CrimeRe: Man Severely Beats His Wife Over Allegations Of Infidelity by Blessedarethepe(m): 2:19pm On Sep 21, 2025
Dancebreaker:
You see, the reason men invest so much in their wives is because of the children.

The idea is should the unexpected happen, the woman should at least be able fend the children.
Otherwise, she might rush into a very bad marriage, where the kids might be abused or neglected.

Not that most men don't know how unpredictable women can be.

The simple advice is, if a perfectly intelligent plays mumu because of the children, please ensure the kids are truly yours.

Imagine sacrificing so much to entitled women of nowadays. Then end up raising other men's kids would be a travesty.

Do DNA test before making any sacrifice.
You said so that she can take care of the children..........I don't support that as an excuse to invest too much.
After separation, a man can still make provision for the children and still allow access to them. In a situation where the woman remarried, the man can take over the full custody of the children and access will still be granted to the woman.
CrimeRe: Man Severely Beats His Wife Over Allegations Of Infidelity by Blessedarethepe(m): 8:48am On Sep 21, 2025
Dancebreaker:
I see no point in beating her. Just send her packing.
Correct man.
And men should not invest too much in their wives too. So in an event like this they don't feel too attached to take that bold step.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Non-salary Earners, What’s Your Source Of Income; How Are You Surviving? by Blessedarethepe(m): 12:44pm On Sep 15, 2025
wunmi590:
huh

Choi, even we that earn salary, we are still begging God for more, last 2 month salary and half of last mo th salary was used to pay my 2 kids new session school fees and also paid my wife new session masters program, nah garri I dey soak for office since first week of this month 😆 🤣
No kpai yourself before money come o.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 12:09am On Sep 15, 2025
benheman17:
I'm 33 and was shortlisted
As a general duty??
FamilyRe: I've Got A Fearless Daughter – How Do People Do This Gentle Parenting Thing? by Blessedarethepe(m): 7:57pm On Sep 13, 2025
And it is one admin that posted this here............ cheesy cheesy grin. Omgg
HealthRe: Boils All Over My Body by Blessedarethepe(m): 3:47pm On Sep 13, 2025
sage04:
Good Evening house, doctor in the please kindly advice me on what to do, boils spreading to all part of the body,thanks
You don get am
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 1:53pm On Sep 13, 2025
Beetwaise:
My thoughts as well.

Anyone with an answer to this?
I'm interested in this too
InvestmentRe: From Yahoo Boys To Crypto Bros: The New Money Culture Among Nigerian Youths by Blessedarethepe(m): 6:12am On Sep 11, 2025
UnknownQueen:
Hmmmm....
Omo you get mine to first enter lossss...

Crypto isnt for the faint hearted oooooo.

Are you ready to trade your mental health for a living....

If you can't stand the heat that comes with it, e better make you no out body....
You will guide me, since you are now making it big. And that's why I want to follow someone who knows the way.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 9:54am On Sep 10, 2025
Adekunle1665:
Thank you, what should be expecting
Prepare for your exams
InvestmentRe: From Yahoo Boys To Crypto Bros: The New Money Culture Among Nigerian Youths by Blessedarethepe(m): 9:52am On Sep 10, 2025
ARISHEM:
When I mentioned sometime ago that someone that says is into tech should not be trusted absolutely I was called out
That's the truth people should be wary about in thus day and age......there are so many cover-up for shady jobs now
InvestmentRe: From Yahoo Boys To Crypto Bros: The New Money Culture Among Nigerian Youths by Blessedarethepe(m): 9:50am On Sep 10, 2025
UnknownQueen:
Whatever label you decide to give it...
I trade crypto legitimately, and never been involved in yahoo yahoo...
Call it fast money or whatever, whoever wants slow money should go for it..
can I message you on this? I'm interested in learning the stuff.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 1:51am On Sep 10, 2025
Adekunle1665:
Received
Congratulations
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 11:31pm On Sep 09, 2025
Just keep checking
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 11:30pm On Sep 09, 2025
Adekunle1665:
Is there link to check
Only emails for now
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 11:23pm On Sep 09, 2025
It's real guys..............It's dropping already
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 10:54pm On Sep 09, 2025
damilare96:
Check your mail
Can you share us pictorial evidence?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Service Opens Applications For 2025 Recruitment (Full Guide) by Blessedarethepe(m): 10:53pm On Sep 09, 2025
damilare96:
Check your mail
What's the update pls?

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