₦airaland Forum

proxillin:
Ghana are also having fulani problem. Its really hard to see a peaceful fulani these days

Are you for real?
I haven't heard this in any public news outlet, even in the international news

shortgun:
No where is safe anymore in the south west. The other day VDM said bandits are on their way to Lagos.
Even if Tinubu can't save other Nigerians can't he save his kinsmen? What exactly has the south west benefited from Tinubu as president

Abi you dey scared of losing your own life.................It's no doubt you are resident in Lagos

Skullminers1:
I have been saying it repeatedly that if Goodluck Jonathan ever fall for this Greek gift these people are dangling on his face this will be the end of whatever legacy he built for himself not only Nigeria and Africa but entire world. Those that hated him from day one wanted to finish the job by destroying him completely but it's left Goodluck Jonathan to read the time

He is contesting already

You people should stop criticizing the goal keeper, that shot was curvy and was not direct......

Samunique:
That was an obvious match fixing!

As how na....... After you no Wan believe that miracle goal

Trueigbo:
Fixed match

Even that miracle goal

Dreambeat:
How can he allow that goal from such distance?

Omoh......... I shock o......... That guy do Nigeria wetin no good o

crestedaguiyi:
How many times will my governor launch this bus. There is no record of anyone using this bus in Enugu for public transport.

They are using the single decker busses...... If you go the terminal at holyghost, you will see where they are loading

davades:
Na their family dem dey brought shame to, imagine make person wan marry make ppl no dey

I'm an introverted person, and I got married too in January. Nothing like shame...We belong to small circles. My church people represented well.
I don't think I would want every tom, dick, and Harry at my occasion.
It was sweet.

Robertgreene1:
So Aunty you didn't notice all the mouth and body odour and every other thing during the 9 months of courtship, it is two years after wedding that you noticed it abi Its alright. The person that said that 90% of married women in this part of the world have another guy outside that they love more than their husbands didn't lie at all. Marrying out of desperation by the majority of our ladies and not for feelings/commitment is the number one cause of marital instability in this part of the world. Argue with your village people.

You are learning something

femi4:
ki lomode e mo

Some doors are open by association..you wont survive office politics with this mindset

This has got nothing to do with office space.
As an introvert in the office space, they avoid troubles, and do their work diligently.

Javid13:
Baba u no understand until e reach your turn to host party or any event. Try and attend some especially burials.

Introverted people don't host parties. They organize a little gathering.

femi4:
When you start having your own family ...you will understand

You honor them by attending their events even if its just for 10 mins

It's needless bro

psalmsjob:
Switching off your phone is a sign of not being man enough at 26 years you're still afraid of living your life as you want. Will she force you to attend or if you attend will she force you to participate in what is going on at the party?

But for sake of advice....send them money instead while you shy away in your corner but if you don't have money to give to every celebrant then that is the main issue you're afraid to admit to yourself

He must not give all celebrants money all the time.

Dalohad:
Igbo people say 'Ngbe onye na akwa ibe ya, ka ona kwa onwe ya'

Na when you dey bury other people, you go know how your own burial go be..

As I dey so, if I die today I know people wey go carry cows come my burial, because I do am for them when den bury their relatives.

Even the woman wey go cook the burial rice, if I die today, I sabi am already..

Die first..... And see whether things will pan out that way...

davades:
Who go con attend yours as u no dey go ppl ow?

It's none of the business of introverted people......

themanderon:
Don't worry, very soon you will know the importance of attending others people's burial and parties.

What is the importance bro?
One must not overstretch himself for parties.
If the reason is for them to be able to attend his own parties, I guess you don't know the attributes of introverted people.... They don't even want noise themselves.... Only few people will be okay for them.... One or two. And they don't also have affinity for a large crowd.

Jmichael1:
I don't know what else to tell my mum just to let her understand that I get bored wen ever I'm around crowd of people and I'm an introvert..
My mum is that kind of person that believes in "I do for you,you do for me....

I'm currently 26yrs,and all my life, I've been to just 1 burial and just 1 marriage.
Despite the fact I lived alone,my mum always call me wen ever there's occasion either in the village or in the neighborhood were I grew up here in yenagoa..

She don't want me to miss any occasion along I heard about it.....she will always say"Michael...my son,no forget say nah u be 1st pikin,na people wen u do for today,go do for u wen ur turn reach,dey try attend people party ooooh

I don't know what else to do oooh,I'm not into party or occasion lifestyle..

My phone has been switched off since on Thursday,bcuz I heard of burial of sum1 I knew,and I know she must call me to attend the burial and I'm not ready to go...

To cut the long story short,plz my fellow nairalanders,Wat will u do in dis situation if u were in my shoes.

She did not even know that as an introvert that you are, you did not even need the presence of all those people she forcing you to attend their parties.

RollinTNDA:
I know a very rich lady who sleeps with me behind her husband back. Why??

Her husband is super rich.

But she confess to me that she lost the excitement of LIFE. That her husband over provide and this made him look unattractive and boring.

So she wanted to feel human again
That's why she cheats behind his back .
That the adrenaline and excitement fear of being caught makes her feel alive

If you like get 200$ billion.
Una 2 will definitely be bored of each other
Look at Will smith
Upon all the fame and money and praises he shower his wife. She still go sleep with one guy called August Alsina

A poor man thinks money is everything
Until they get it and find out it can't buy true love

And those who are poor cheat because of lack of comfort.
Life is mysterious

Boladogailese:
Me and my husband baba dare dated for 11 years and then courted for six years before we finally married and separated in 6 months.

Is this a hypothetical case? 😀😀😀

osayuwamwen:
me too I don't have the money, I was just buying things little by little, it took me almost a year to finish buying everything, solar nor expensive like most people they think na installer they short change people, if u have the knowledge buy things yourself, you will not only buy cheap but you will also get quality solar materials which most installer won't get you even if you give them the money to, then call installer to come installed it.
don't look at the total cost just look at the lasting benefits and control over your own electricity.I cook with mine, pump water with it and my two refrigerator are always on

How much did it cost you?
What are the things you bought?
I have a small solar Gen I presently use, but I wouldn't mind to upgrade to a full solar setup

osayuwamwen:
lol since I do my solar in March(4.2kv inverter 7 pieces of 535watt jinko bificial panel and 8kw lifepo4 battery), I have been using induction cooker to cook morning, afternoon and night, I never on my gas since March. solar na peace of mind I swear

And you think everybody has the money to buy and install that?

OredoPikin:
When last you fill gas?
It's now 2k by kg

Which area is that?
I bought at 1800 per kg too at mowe, Ogun State

geoworldedu:
Who dash monkey banana?

whether dem dash monkey banana or not, Arsenal will triumph.
I am not a fan of any club but I really wish the gunners to carry the trophy.

Omo see fine girl........Just like that........OMG...May her soul rest in peace

Leave the relationship or marriage

Kennitrust:
Good day my follow Nairalanders.

Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.

In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.

To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.

She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am.
Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.

I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.

And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.

Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?

Are you a new comer in the church?

insidelife22:
This small trophy 🏆 don dey enter some people head.
Ordinary EPL o
Na una be the first club to win EPL in history

By the end of the month, they will win the uefa trophy too

xtivin:
Her saggy boobs says everything about her personality

You are very observant.
That was my first suspicion.
No decent lady will ever dress like her...... Guys should be more careful in partner selection these days.

blabulu2000:
At 10 years old....when I knacck my school.mate in primary school....umfortuntely she come.get belle. ..I japa....leave am.with her wahala.....

How old are you now?

Osiris12:
19 years and few months. I was in 200 level

Knackerdemus

Won de. 😜,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, oeoeodiwiwiwwwiwiwiw